because I I've been out here before with one of her ex-boyfriends and I think you remember me from that. Uh so I didn't know if this was a similar situation where you know if he's not supposed to be here you know we need to facilitate him leaving. >> Yep. >> Okay. >> I don't want him at my place at all. >> He's he's done nothing but be bad to her. >> I mean he's a control. So he won't even get a job because he can't stand to be away from her. He wants to have her right under his thumb where he can watch every move she