can I ask you a question did you bend over and show your bear I sure did oh I got a I got a injury right here from uh us brawling well who started the brawl um it must have been me okay on May 15th 2022 officers responded to a call about a battery in progress between a mom and a son's girlfriend as a son that's one fight I wouldn't want in my life you'll soon find out why the mom wanted to throw hands with the girlfriend nice to meet you sir her two sons had and that's the vitim she attacked what happened I was CU she was like telling my boyfriend stuff about me so I was trying to say like hey if you have a problem you can talk to me about it and she started calling me like out my here give me one second when I'm getting cancer in Fusion do you know who paid for the insurance it was me what happened well when I came home from my friend's house okay there was a um talk to the victim she's in there and he was there is she okay who it's my girlfriend your girlfriend okay who are you to him my mother it's your mother okay what happened um when I came home cuz I'd been out with one of my friends she was sitting there and he was at the door and I just wanted to make my way to my room cuz we're going through a divorce who me and my husband which one is your husband uh red red hair red hair okay that's your dad okay so they kept talking [ __ ] talk talking and who kept talking [ __ ] uh she did and he kept back recorded she didn't talk my phone's right behind you it's all recorded on there okay we're going to see that recording is it like a video recording audio audio that's fine we'll see that recording so go ahead um she pretty much she wanted to go at it what did she say or I want to go at it because I'm sick and tired of hearing her so what did you do I do grabbed her by the hair what did you do he just told you what I done no you tell me what' you do I dropped my bags and told her if she wanted to come at me let's go okay and then what happened I grabbed her where off the camera cuz she where where did you grab [Music] her I don't remember where I grabbed her but I grabbed her you grabbed her did you throw her on the ground we were both on the damn ground okay did you throw her on the ground she hopped off the counter okay did you throw her on the ground no she hopped off the counter so you grabbed her and her first instinct was to hop off the counter yeah even though you just told me not 5 minutes ago that you threw her down I did not tell you I threw go down you did and I have it recorded I'm recording this is recorded with video and cam video and audio okay so what did you do so we'll go through it again okay so you walk in and she my son's there she's sitting on the counter she's talking mess according to you what was she saying they're they're both talking about because I sent a text where's my phone again here it is cuz on Mother's Day let me just tell you what happened hello what happened I was sitting on the counter trying to talk to her because she was telling my boyfriend some stuff about me saying like how all mother's say I didn't get her a candy apple and she made a big deal about it so I just sat down and said hey if you have a problem with me then you can tell me and then she started raising her voice at me and started pressing me out so I started raising my voice at her and then she said okay just get out of my house and I said Your name's not on this lease you do not own this house don't have to pick me out if he wants me out I will gladly leave and she threw her bags down and said fine you know what come here she grabbed me by the arm and grabbed me by the hair and KN me down and my boyfriend who's in there uh grabbed her and his brother came in and got her off of me okay you have idea on you um it's in my in my truck what's your name did you see it happen noed to AV did you see it happen for my birthday you know what I got jump okay so here's what we're going to do we're not going to talk about your birthday I'm going to need you to come get me out of jail yeah ma'am go ahead and hang up the phone cuz we haven't made I haven't I haven't made a decision yet so go ahead and hang up the phone probably going to jail ma'am go ahead and hang up the phone please thank you okay here's what we're going to do ma'am okay what's your name okay my name is officer vidilla with the a clar County Police Department okay let's restart all right let's restart to where when it all happened what happened tell me what happened without any without any I came in the door you came in which door that door the side door yeah okay and I was confronted by my son right there and his girlfriend sitting on the camera his girlfriend yeah not his girlfriend correct she's your girlfriend yeah she's my girlfriend cool okay what did they confront you about um how I just shouldn't be sending text like that and how I what kind of text did you send I can show it to you want okay yeah go ahead buddy well I've got my phone I can show the damn text so keep going ma'am keep going keep going with what yeah with what happened okay keep going with what happened I'm listening so she's sitting on the counter he's sitting over there and they pretty much are verbally attacking me and I told her if she wanted to go let's go pretty much okay and then what happened she started attacking you verbally yes what did she say just talking [ __ ] what was she saying like specifics about how I don't know her and I should not be sending text like that and you know what I do know her how do you know her can you can you play that audio recording for me through my son his brothering that's my boyfriend that's sit there that's my other he's probably with Mother you didn't see anything I went in there and my brother they were on the ground with each other she was pulling her hair as I went in there to help pull him apart um he was in the middle trying to push him apart while she had somewhere on her hair pulling her hair and I went and pulled them completely apart so that they were no longer in contact with each other okay guess he much fresh charges man you want to press charges you don't know I we don't want to leave and have this happen again do you live here no I come here every Sunday to come visit okay did she hit your brother your boyfriend or anything I don't know cuz I was on the ground I just know that he was like I was faed down on theide trying to get hands off okay and I told him this was all staged okay if it wasn't stage you know what there is no way you would have any of it sorry trying to save it and then I can play it it's okay just find out for me 56 are you sure you don't want to press charges I do you do want to press charges okay how long have you lived here well how long have you how long do you currently live here about 15 years we' been married for 24 do you currently live at this home yes yeah I'm to and that just proved right there it was staged because he was there and she was here give me one second this officer is going to stay with you keep telling him your story I'll be right back in okay you to get me you said that I was mean that you saw my true colors cuz you would like a green candy apple and I did not offer one to you on Mother's Day that's not exactly what I exactly what you said but that is what you said it's not word for word but it's exactly what you said you know what because it was very disrespectful like how you avoid spending time with all of us and you'd rather spend time in your room alone towards him and Gary I noticed that too it wasn't stage they were saying it was stage otherwise you would not have recorded it walk in the living room please you're just trying to help your damn dad so ma'am how you think it'll stage you think they're trying to agitate you or something like that oh I know they were okay we're going through a divorce mhm okay did she say anything that she wanted to fight you or something like that or no okay ma'am ma'am do you live here I don't you don't okay so what happened after you said okay let's go okay he's got it recorded what happened I'm asking you it don't even matter it doesn't matter no it kind of does got love it did she hit you first or she push you or anything what happened no I just pretty much said if you want to go let's go and then what happened after that it don't even matter what do you mean it doesn't matter I'm asking you I'm asking cuz it does matter what happened I'll live here she don't okay well what happened I I will she's nothing to me do nothing to me now it doesn't matter you are the adult here you need to stop playing the victim and you start acting like a mother you need to stop acting like a little child because that's exactly what you're acting right now really really that's exactly how you're acting right this very second you're playing the I'm sorting your feelings hon do that baby please what you for please what nothing from you okay anything to you you're being disrespectful to me I'm trying to give you the opportunity to tell me what my problem is I'm going to tell you what your problem is what's my problem you're on Too Many Meds you're bipolar you're ADHD you know what it sounds like you because I don't Tak that that's what I said to her well I'm asking you what happened cuz all I got is what she's telling me I don't care what she you she can kiss my okay and that's exactly what I told don't Shug your shoulders say you can say I was being really hyper y all looked at me weird I said I'm sorry I have a really bad ADHD I don't take medicine for it cuz I don't like how it makes me feel I have you're ad8 uh no uh yes you have not told me that it's probably because you've been drinking too much to where you can't remember it honey you were drunk when she said that every single time I talk to you you're always drunk oh I'm sure downplaying the situation this is for you to talk to her as for why you think so why you think better yeah hang he has tried to build a relationship with you and you have I did not drunk okay it's over then it was a text being honest but here if you had a problem with me you could have called me you had my number you could you know what you can suck my ass okay bend over then she said bend over I did don't please come on suck it the hell is wrong with you I said suck it staged otherwise it would not have been recorded I realize that I'm never going to forgive you a even whenever you do so bro I don't care if you don't get a [ __ ] right now you know I'm not going to forgive you you're not going to get to know your are listening to too much [ __ ] your dad you don't need to disrespect me and just shut the no because you know what I'm talking to you and you're going to listen I don't that's problem the problem have you been having problems with her lately or uh yeah like what well like I said from my birthday they cook jumala mhm I hate jumalia and I know that I can't eat anything spicy MH and she's been my son calls it the witch store buying him bracelets and stuff and then for Mother's Day she went to some kind of candy store I don't know but got them Candy Apples and caramel apples and didn't bring me nothing nothing your son's girlfriend your son's girlfriend girlfriend or your son as well my son's girlfriend okay just you don't need you talk [ __ ] about my girlfriend all because she didn't get you a candy app what kind of petty [ __ ] is that I don't know but what kind of petty okay well again if you were in here and you heard the whole conversation you that you can't blame him for you feeling bad about something you can't blame him for not something not going it wasn't wor [Music] Mone it's him oh I know so just get off the counter and get the out of here not your your so really it's up to him and there if he wants me gone or not if he wants me gone I'll leave but you don't [Applause] don't but it was staged they knew what they were doing okay otherwise he would not haveed okay definitely stag my attorney is going to have a with this so after they said and just so you know oh I got a I got a injury right here from uh us brawling okay so to speak well who started the brawl um it must have been me okay heard enough can you send it to me I'm going to give you my email before I leave um do you want to press chares you set on that decision okay you guys have never lived together you and her she lives with me where you live at okay you guys have never lived together ma' not with her you guys don't no kids together nothing okay all right give me just a second okay I'm going to we're going to take care of that um and then I'm going to get everybody's were you there when happened I was in here and everything down went you here when it happened I was here so y'all two were the only people in the kitchen okay I'll grab your ID and then yours you have um your name and dat of birth be fine so is that from her uh no but what's from her so the hair obviously there's a scratch right here somewh right there that's I'm sorry I'm I'm just going okay right there all right before we leave I am going to take pictures of that just they're needed on the report that she hit you in the face at all I was keeping my face down 5 for Central have a 27 when you what is that noise is that a dog is that an animal I was like is that a child yeah she does like what she is but people are afraid of her so she don't sound like what's your first name everybody's over the age of 18 I'm assuming just a sec okay Dad you still live here right okay does she still live here too yeah we're in one bedroom she's in the other okay all right thank you is still with y'all I don't think so no you know him do I know him hey you know him how you know him um me and his mom we're nurses okay we work together where you work at I think I got something behind my ear cuz it's bleeding apparently okay yep can you you want me to call EMS no I just want a napkin or something thank you ma'am what's your name um okay so can I ask you a question did you B over and show your I sure did why um where you bleeding from my ear bur her ear mhm my ear and I have a injury on my knee okay so just talk outside real Qui you just stay right here okay ma'am we'll be right back in dude they record they recorded the whole thing on video on audio well she kept I was like so what happened I I said let's go and she's like well doesn't matter I'm like kind of does I'm only she's saying yeah then she showed me her injury she's like well who started I was like who started the bra she like I guess I did she did she said I guess I did so I like okay you want to just I'm going to put gloves on if she's bleeding uh we're going to go 1095 I'm going to bring up here I'm going to take her you want huh you want to take her it's my it's my zone Z five my zone out um what do you want to take her matter H done back all do the report that yeah so I'll I'll do the I'll do the uh I mean if you want I'm cool with that if you want to transport well I uh I'll go status five if you don't mind you don't mind transporting yeah you do mind I don't mind okay you want some bigger gloves there buddy medium you got big hands Le like yeah hands are sweaty but dude I hate it I hate I hate taking them off cuz my hands get sweaty so it's not DV by the way yeah yeah so it ain't DV yeah we went through that whole process I just hope you don't walk in here she got a knife or something all right go ahead stand up for me okay you just leave your stuff down there oh God okay go ahead put your hands behind your back right or under arrest okay for battery probably going to need to okay your shoulders more are stiff you not really flexible so much white to give him I'm trying to is that okay yeah okay we're going to go and double lock these okay we're going to take you out to the car all right can you bring my phone and wallet yeah mhm sure can sure can okay sh sorry stop just stop moving okay that ow my right ow come this way bend your hand there we go oh [ __ ] there we go phone wallet right yes sir all right go ahead and step outside can you get my keys to my car sure thank 5 we Central 1095 we'll be right back inside I got it you ain't got nothing on you to sticker Pocus right ma'am no sir you don't have anything on you no what weapons or anything this way this car over here so we got to let you I got to let you know that if you have anything illegal whether it be in your purse anywhere in there anywhere anywhere on your body becomes a no matter what it is even if it's a Mis out here it becomes a fon in the jail it's just something I have to let you know I have nothing illegal all right we'll step over here to this this blue car over here okay can I put a TP out on huh um that might not be necessary oh I think it's going to be on this side until our divorce is settled that depends on what the judge says okay well I well you okay so I'll rephrase that you can 100% put out a TPO on her you can you can go to the courthouse and you can do that and you can do that process oh and you can try to go through that process okay I think my to broke H it down okay yeah here she's in your car just Pat her down you don't mind what's up Pat her down she's in your getting your you mind say real quick I have to patch down spr your legs just a little bit I thought I had to be patted down by a feeling but that's okay so we can pat you down we're just going to use the close hand take the the the back of my hand okay I have nothing okay I have nothing it's part of our policy okay ma'am all right go ahead sit down they're going to do a more thorough search at the by female okay that's okay all right [Applause] okay yeah I got it let me take some pictures real [Applause] quick okay to let you guys know okay she's going she's being charged with battery okay because there are signs on top of that the audio recording okay so she's going to go to jail today um she can post bail I mean she can post bond if she wants to she ever been arrested before 20 years ago bad be all right she'll be able to postpone um so here's the part she come back tonight in this house if she were to get out she'd have all rights to come back to this house because it is her house right she lives here yes so so I'll explain the so I'll explain the entire process so so for you the reason why I asked you if you guys have ever lived together or anything like that is because if you live together right then she would have to because she would be the primary aggressor so if you lived together or had any kids together or were ever in a relationship together orever married then it'd be a domestic violence situation but that's not the case right so there you don't share any blood with her you guys don't live together there's nothing that makes it a domestic violence case between you and her okay if it were then she would not be allowed to come back to the home but because it is not then that's the issue now furthermore okay um the house may be under your name but because you guys are married it is shared property okay so due to the fact that you're getting a divorce that has to be part of your conditions is you get the home she has to leave that should that has to be part of the conditions for her to not be allowed to come back to the house tonight she can come back she can come back we should just all lock our doors huh everybody who still lives in this house should lock their doors I understand so I understand it's a messed up situation I get that completely but the thing is is that because she lives here it's her residence now if you were to lock her out not let her in then you would be going to jail for interference for property you know so it's one of those things it's a it's a big it's an iffy situation now like I said what I can advise you is you can take the police report that I'm going to write you can go down to court and you can write a um you can get a temporary order temporary protective order against her okay um now that would that would mean that you wouldn't be able to come back to the home and if she got one on you again you wouldn't be able to come back to the home okay do you guys have any more questions go ahead or give me one second can you call my son and let him know I'm putting a TPO out on her I'll let him know huh I'll let the officer know to tell your son he's still there I'm putting a TPO out and she can't come back around me and I live there okay 104 that's what I'm doing right now yeah she just made it apparent to the officers that she plans on taking out a p a TPO on you I'm going to go ahead and take some pictures of your injuries okay okay so uh so I'm going to if you don't mind standing up for me it's going to be full body okay your full face and everything so they know who they're looking at okay and then I'm going to do the arm so go ahead and lift that up I don't know how far it goes here right there if you don't mind okay and then where else um the of hair yeah the lot of hair yeah can you hold hold that for me sorry where where'd you pull that out from um it feels like it was from right here that's where it hurts the most so like right around there all righty um let me give you my email do you have that case card I just gave you Ma let me give you my email if you could as soon as I leave here just go ahead and email me that audio that audio so I can add it to the report as well okay 20 four years babe divor son had cancer and all he remembers is dad taking him to the treatments you don't remember Mama having to work because she had to pay the insurance cuz she's the one that had Insurance on everybody you don't remember that you don't care about that I said divorces are tough yeah my parents split up when I was younger and obviously they're still not on good terms and yeah I hate it for people I know it's a lot of stress and you're a lot of you're still living with somebody a lot of stress you're still living with somebody that you resent you got to the point where you resent and you don't want to live with them anymore and you have to wait for the process of the divorce to be filed and look for another place to live and well what he told me was he's got better things to worry about than me H which told me I keep asking him do you have an attorney nope got better things to worry about than you okay all righty s ruin your sun afternoon you're the suspect was booked in for battery what do you think about this incident comment below if you enjoyed the video leave a like And subscribe for more