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and who's to say you guys leave again and she has someone pull up and actually hurt me that's true I mean I already have it with threats that she's going to have some over I mean and it's happened before on September 30th 2024 in Ohio police responded to a domestic dispute involving a couple the victim reported fearing for his life alleging that his girlfriend had threatened to have him murdered going on so is there a way we can up there a little bit I seen you limping so I didn't oh I'm good want to walk make you walk so I only came up here just cuz the fact she likes to run her mouth a lot and everything else so I didn't want her interfering with our conversation you live there I Liv next door from where he's sitting the one that had the door open so we we woke up this morning and we were doing fine smiling everything and just out of nowhere it just turned into a conversation or argument ever since then I just keep getting threats and all types of stuff to the point where from my girlfriend oh okay and we've had a schedule in the house we basically put the kids in their room with the gate baby gate just give Mommy and Daddy some time and stuff even though they're not my kids I claim them because their dad's locked up he hasn't been there for them so I've been here so problem is I've had multiple threats her dad's been here a couple days ago and punched me in the in the face I made a police report about it they didn't do anything cuz there was no physical proof um so there's a report on that there's multiple reports on her brother uh I just keep getting these threats and threats and threats when things don't go her way and I'm to the point because her dad already put his hands on me that I'm not feeling safe yeah in this house and they've removed her for threats before how long you guys been together uh almost two years now just recent or this been a whole like history of these have all been recent what's going on that's all this stuff so apparently she likes to run her mouth because certain days I like to have certain time to myself so I put the kids in their room and let them have time they got a TV well had a TV I took it down after the the argument and stuff because it's my TV and everything so I didn't want to get that broken in or anything so I just put it aside so everything draws up to the fact that is always saying I'm treating their kids wrong okay and I don't understand cuz last time I checked I put them in their room behind a gate for their safety I don't want them getting into it's trash in the house and all that other stuff they were just how old kids uh milia almost two and the other one's going to be four okay so I never put my hands on her kids never put my hands on her um so I don't I don't understand how I'm treating these kids like [ __ ] right I don't I don't get it and it's always because when she don't get what she wants or she's in this attitude she just runs her M to anybody and everybody and now I have all these people that she's supposedly saying that she's going to pull up and everything that I'm calling the cops and all types of stuff like I'm not it's called I do [ __ ] the legal way if it's not the legal way I don't want part of it nothing physical no okay just and I already yeah and I already told the landlord about all this that I would rather have her be removed with all these so you live here first no we both got it together oh okay but the problem is is now I'm constantly getting these threats I don't feel safe in my own home I already had someone come here and punch me in the face and she just brags about it that's no it was about three maybe 4 days ago there's already a police report about um so I honestly don't know what's going on right now because like I said I don't feel safe here and if I keep Contin to live here she's going to just keep doing it and all these people know where I live so you're afraid are you more afraid of like the people coming over than her pretty much yeah yeah okay so now she's just in there letting the kids do whatever and everything else when there's a schedule all because she's mad and she's just doing whatever wants so mostly mad because she feels like you're treating her kids different different yeah and it's weird like I don't understand yeah all because I put them behind a gate every once in a while and stuff to the point there's nothing wrong with that well no I mean you're not doing anything they have beds they have toys they have a TV they can speak to us because the door's not shut well that sounds pretty good exactly so I don't know how I'm treating her kids like and I keep getting all of this stuff constantly so I messaged a landlord because I looked it up and I sent a picture to him just to tell him just if he says anything oh well that's not true stuff type stuff I even said yes or I even looked it up it said yes if someone is threatening your safety or breaking the law you should call the police even if you have a lease and then it says uh then they could proceed to the eviction proceedings to avoid liability how long you lived here I've lived here only almost on the eth I think it' be two months and and constantly just because she don't get her way and I even explained it to you and you didn't see a problem with that so I I don't but I don't see problem I mean you live with her not you know I mean so that's the exactly so I I told the landlord straight out like I don't feel safe with her being here no more the cops already removed her once and I thought when we came to our agreement after our sincere conversation I bring her back give her the key back and and she wants to sit there and still threaten me have her dad over here hitting me and [ __ ] and I'm not going to tolerate it no more there's only so much you can push someone to the edge and I I don't want to do [ __ ] the illegal way that's why I called you and every time I call the cops all she says oh you're just and all this other stuff like I'm getting sick of it okay so cops told us to keep our distance until the cops are here and everything else so I've just been in the drive and there's nowhere else I could really go this is my only home what um what are you interested I mean what would you like to see happen today I would like to see her being moved I mean well can't really do that the cops don't well I don't know what but we can't really remove someone from their home unless we have a reason I mean I don't know what to do because even when you guys leave she'll just keep doing it again and it's constant yeah I mean I I understand your dilemma I do like I'm I'm a disability person you think I can defend myself thought you were out he was telling me that he just feels he keeps getting threatened by his girl that they live together uh they don't have kids together but she does and that's why he called he's been keeping his distance he's over here I haven't got her side if you want to go in there and find out what's going on with what's her name what's her name Adam Adam no what's her name oh AUM do you know have you been here yes usually fight with her and her kids and him and last time I was here that she was getting all of her stuff and moving out yeah she did move I and then I tried to be civil I tried to bring her back and communicate and try and work on the relationship but here we are again with the thre oh I asked him what he wanted to see done he wanted her out of the house and I said well that's we had to have a good reason which would be if she's arrested but other than that right you a him yeah all right you want to tell me what happened it's just an argument I don't know why he keep calling y over argument it's just an argument it's petty [ __ ] I don't know why he keep calling like it's annoying so just verbal nothing physical just verbal nothing physical I don't know why it's [ __ ] cuz I threatened him oh okay it didn't happen I mean what can I do I'm a female you threaten to hit me or something of course I'm going threaten you with somebody like I mean I'm a female but yeah that's it he's just calling all petty stuff basically just just an argument so you guys both he threatened you first and then you likey to hit you no he never he never know it's just like I said it's an artification every relationship sh goes through it so that's all it is to it it was no hitting no nothing like that and he talking about I thought you was leaving like I'm on this Le I don't have to leave he has a car he can go somewhere for a couple hours or something like I don't drive he does so he has an option I don't have no option that's right best right now you guys take some time chill out that's what I'm saying like he has a car he can go drive somewhere and chill out or something I don't have no option like that I have a place right here like he has a whole car talking about I don't got to leave well you can leave the situation for a little bit in your car and go drive somewhere and leave me alone and and then he he wanted to get all mad about talking about you breaking the rules cuz I let my kids sit right here in my loot room and watch my damn TV what rule is that that is breaking oh my kids got to be in their room and they can't come in here and watch TV so he got all pissed about it too and that's when he end up calling you cuz I said my kids don't have to be in their room or something they're surround me I said my kids are allowed to be around me right here on the ground sitting watching TV is his name on the leas as well yep okay both of our is that's I said if you want to solve it I mean he has an option he has a car he can go drive it for a couple hours leave me be hang out here with the kids for a little bit [Music] cool it's dumb stuff if you ask my opinion a like it's dumb it's a waste of your guys is time and his like Goofy for over a argument like a nothing happened words was exchange okay words are going to be words as long as nothing happened I mean nothing was done nothing happened so um you care I'm going to take some information out tra I'm living here um for a few months now for at least 3 four months now oh and that's nothing um I'm sick of him here talking about I don't got to do nothing for him cuz they my kids and blah blah blah like that's annoying we're in relationship together it's supposed to be equal not just make my kids feel unwanted and left out like I'm not like that if I'm in a relationship with you it's going to be my kids too not just me yeah Step Up all right I I don't know what his story is we kind of got here later I know he's talking with the other officers um typically one on channel be best for if someone takes off a little bit so cool down well they always every time they come out they're talking about I got to leave like no he has a car and he couldn't go drive it and leave like I have no car I don't need to leave I don't think I've that's why when that cop came last time the cop up there he was like I thought you was moving or something cuz when he came last time he was arguing everything I KN everything out but I end up coming back and he thought I thought you was like I could my name is on I don't have to go nowhere my kids originally got this place for us with my tax so I don't have to go nowhere when you just made that smart comment that piss me off I thought you Wasing like I don't have to go nowhere no I mean we can't make him leave either even that's what I'm saying like um I mean like at this point it's just keep our distance and that's what I said if you have a p or something you have a car go drive in it do something get away from me cuz you know I don't have a car so and in the long term I mean if he doesn't want to if nether one of you want to like willingly move somewhere else then I talk to the landlord you might have to wait until the lease is up but they they might be able to work something out um but I mean that'd be you know landar issue but yeah our suggestion would be for him hey Walk Drive whatever cool off um but just so you up like we can't force either one to leave so if he does I'm not leaving well that's Co yeah just try to stay away from each other all right and if anything does start up a lot of times just get out the phone start obviously it's something you know you think you're D your call us but I don't understand why he called y' over a little ass argument over a threat or something like it's a little ass argument yall wasting their time they got better [ __ ] to do out here than come here over an argument I mean come on it's a petty ass argument you got like four cops three cops here I mean for what it's not like we hit no one or nothing well and we'd rather show up before anything actually happens if we can maybe like figure out a solution before something does escalate to where you know but hopefully that's you know not you know when you matter or something you just talk [ __ ] out your a right when you're mad oh yeah I'm I'm going to have someone beat your ass or something when you're mad of course you're mad you're heated at that moment but or reality am I going to no right come on we'll talk with him see what he's saying try to figure something out that is verbal no one threaten anybody nothing physical she doesn't want to leave says he has the card he can leave I'm like we can't make him leave so course wor if he's staying here like well stay away from each other me that's told me the exact same thing and said we can't make her leave I mean it's kind of about of scalemate but what's your partner want to do she don't know where she I agree yep all right man we get here all right after the police left both called for assistance again just a few minutes later so if she called this time huh she called this time what's going on we both called you both called okay what's going on all I did was go in the bedroom I told her I wanted to get some space uh uh in the bedroom so I started getting my things and she had her clothes in a tote that was mine so I dumped it out and everything else just cuz I want to put my belongings in it well she came out or started running her mouth and stuff and everything else and saying you could be ignorant all you want and blah blah blah and then she threatened me again and I have it on recording you have it I do why you go why don't you do that why don't you talk to says I'll murder you or have you murder keep recording I don't care ain't nobody recording what you got to do ain't nobody even recording anything dude I'm on my phone on my phone I want to Pro this time before I call you no I told the sergeant she was going to do it again you won't that he pleases me too they had to come through me first knock your ass out okay keep threatening I don't know what keep threatening me it's not a threat it's a promise baby that's not a promise it's a threat it's a promise that's a threat okay it's a threat already a promise aat earlier today or just a different day a few days ago I reported it but there was no evidence it's not going to happen watch okay at the end she said M like so now I have proof that she threats you do so I know that we told you to take some time or think was there anywhere that you could just drive for a little bit cuz you got the car and you could just go to a store or something just to cool off a little bit not really anything I can I need I would like to just go in house and have peace but I can't see I get that but even the sergeant said that if I had a recording with proof of uh threats and stuff that it would be handled so that's what he told me to do that's what I yep and I got it so once he's done talking and I'll talk with him and see where to go from there I'm not going to keep living here with RIS I'm not this is like six times that I called you out here for uh threats and all this other stuff and threatening me to have people come over and do it and everything else like I'm getting sicker I get that have you guys like I hate to say it but thought about separating at all I didn't we did that at once the cops told her to be removed last time but I was trying to be a nice guy just to move her back and try to get over and it's just not working so are you guys like together right now or you guys I don't know at this point that's fair I don't know at this point and all she's going to do is just keep being ignorant if we're broken up living in the same that's probably if that would be up to you if that's what you want to do and find somewhere else you know to like get it to stop but like I get it's hard and like you love somebody I understand that but just for like your safety and stuff cuz you know I get threatened all the time well here's the thing the threats actually happened into physical abuse just like her dad a few days ago I had to record you because he put his hand through my window while I was sitting there he just randomly came out and told his daughter that he was coming out to smoke instead he came up here and punched me in the face I mean and who's to say you guys leave again and she has someone pull up and actually hurt me that's true I mean I already have it threats that she's going to have some over and I mean and it's happened before he had recording her threatening him what what' she say uh that she was going to knock him out and I'll have you murdered Edward I you to turn around why I'm under he running him because he threat me like I just said he gaslighted me to go in the the room and got my stuff he's got it on recording and all we hear is you we don't hear him because like I said he threw my stuff on the ground I was get my kids he threw on the ground and he said and then he came in threw my on the ground and then that's when I started gaslighting me said I need to turn around face away from me can I have someone go pick my kids up when uh I was about to leave in a minute too can I just leave the property no we we can't Ohio's prefer to rest so if we have proof of a domestic either menacing which is threats or domestic violence be physical we have to arrest we are going to add what led up to it my sister you can should pick them up how long will I be in there for I'm scared probably tomorrow yeah probably scared are you Mom are you no away from me away from me put your hands above your head interace your fingers inace your fingers face away spread your feet above your head spread your feet out a little bit inter release your fingers I'll take this for you wow someone has to go in here with my K she'll be here we're going to stay here we're not going to leave right now I'm going with yeah she's under arrest it's DV it's through the state it's an arrest state for an arrest is on way to get the girl can you get your Dr they need more diapers I be here Mom not that's my first time I'm scared of losing my kids and we want to lose them probably not I'm scared as long as your sister doesn't have any felonies or anything on her she nothing's going on you can talk no and he pressing chks so wait what happened guys I my [ __ ] on the ground gu like me on the ground where he can guess like me and record I him so he recorded threatening like what what would you be charged with threatening like what's the like what like what would be the charge oh this a m he said I should be out tomorrow this cuz I know I is I mean do she have to I mean Ohio's preferred arrest huh Ohio's preferred arrest with domestic incidents because if we don't do anything and then something escalates then even even if she just leave and come to her her mother's house or her sister's house and that was when we were out here the first time that was the option hey we can't make either one of you leave that's the best bet because then nothing can happen you won't be here he won't be here one of the together you guys are separated no one wanted to leave obviously the cops was the other day for situation that happened with him and her and her dad so clearly he is he's the problem I was about to leave if you guys were here the other day ins because he her dad did something to him because he how heat Dad they like I don't his listen that's why and I mean I get it but yeah unfortunately he was recording ing it's got her threatening him like our hands are tired right right here give me that too everything everything everything don't got the woman was arrested and charged with domestic violence if found guilty what would be an appropriate sentence share your thoughts in the comments and don't forget to like and subs subscribe for more videos
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