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Why would this abusive girlfriend attack her boyfriend right in front of the police after catching him flirting with another woman? >> Hey, how about you get your hands off of him? Yeah, but I don't care. Hey. What'd you do? >> I asked him >> Step over here, bro. Step over here. Step over here. Step over there. That. What's the issue? What's the issue? >> I asked him if we could talk. And some [ __ ] woman came up to us a [ __ ] bridesmaid from this [ __ ] best friend. And they started [ __ ] ganging up on me. He doesn't [ __ ] defend me. My mom told him to take care of me. He's been toxic. And I've been in mental facilities because of him and his And I've been predatory towards me. >> Okay. >> And she said, "Take care of me." >> Okay. >> And I told him, "Let's talk in the [ __ ] car." The whole time he's entertaining this woman, letting her think that she has a [ __ ] shot. And he's [ __ ] talking to him saying she's being unfair because >> Okay. >> her [ __ ] his best friend is throwing up and I was saying, "Babe, like his wife, he just got married. His wife is right there. They can take care of each other." Like, "Yes." He's And then she comes up to me trying to agitate me and [ __ ] instigate me into fighting with her. And I told her, "I'm not going to have him fight you. And I'm also not going to fight you." She keeps coming up to me like this, throwing hands, throwing hands, throwing hands, [ __ ] [ __ ] starting [ __ ] with me when we're obviously in an altercation already, being [ __ ] heated towards each other because we're trying to talk [ __ ] out. When some [ __ ] girls from the [ __ ] diesel or whatever, [ __ ] has me take me to the car because [ __ ] be disrespectful to me and throwing [ __ ] in my face like the [ __ ] bridesmaid or of the [ __ ] wedding doesn't [ __ ] like me and likes his [ __ ] baby mama more or whatever. And me and her were hashing [ __ ] out. She said that she was going to be there for um you know, her husband or whatnot. >> Okay. >> And I tried to talk to him instead of, you know, entertaining another [ __ ] guy and being unfaithful. And like they're [ __ ] telling me to >> Thank you. >> I tried to talk to him. And I asked him to go to the Camaro and this bridesmaid or whatever comes up to me and she's like she's like, "Yeah, rock my [ __ ] Rock my shit." And she's like, "I've seen him try to walk past you so many times. You need to let him [ __ ] be." And all this other [ __ ] like and I told her like, "You don't know us. You don't know the context." I said, "Who are you?" >> Okay. >> Because I know you're the bridesmaid, but you're not my man and I'm not [ __ ] you and I'm not going to lose my [ __ ] I'm on probation. I'll be honest with you. I'm on probation because his dad was predatory towards me and I had I ended up burning our [ __ ] apartment down because I was experiencing a [ __ ] state of psychosis and I lost myself. I lost my [ __ ] so I got two of them all over those because all I used is [laughter] weed. And I've been struggling ever since and I've been getting my [ __ ] together. I have a nice job. I [ __ ] study psych and I'm trying to like I'm in therapy. I have a probation officer and everything. We were trying to [ __ ] talk things out and she steps in and starts >> I didn't think. >> and [snorts] starts trying to agitate me into basically trying to fight her and he's pushing me and pinning me down and pushing me away from her and I'm telling her to back up like you don't know our situation or him or me. You're you're not in the relationship. Like do you have a man? Like she's like, "Oh, he's not here. What the [ __ ] are you going to do?" Da da da da da. And he's trying to like push me off of her, push me away from her and everything else and putting his hands on me, not realizing like I'm already on probation. I'm not going to [ __ ] go to jail for her. Like I'm not going to stoop to someone else's level because she's trying to >> saying he was trying to break it up so you guys won't fight. >> I guess that's what he was trying to do, yeah, but he was going about it the wrong way. He didn't tell her like, "Hey, we're having a private conversation. We're having a private conversation. I am trying to talk to her." Anything. She was already talking to him as other women from Diesel pulled me aside from him cuz we were getting into an altercation and it was getting heated and he was throwing [ __ ] in my face and he was mad that I liked him his baby mama more than me and everything and me and her were getting along fine and everything and he did that and I got heated so we went to some other some other woman's car and I calmed down and I came back and said to entertaining some other guys. >> All right, I'll just hold up How did he get the marks on you? >> I I was he tried to walk away and I I did this and I said, "No, you don't get to walk away." He's big so I don't have marks on me but he was pushing me down and pinning me down and >> All right. Put your hands behind your back. All right. Keep your hands like this. All right, we'll take care of it if you want to go to the Landmark tomorrow. All right, I'll grab his info. Stay over there, bro. All right, anything in your bra? >> Um no, sir. >> All right, we got your phone. >> Yeah. >> I'll grab his info. We're going to walk over here, okay? We're going to walk over here. I'm going to take a little closer look. I'm going to flash light and look for injuries, okay? >> Yeah. >> All right, let's walk over here. Let's walk, come on. Nope, don't do it. Hey, hang tight. Don't leave. Yeah, he could. Ain't no bond in Illinois. All right, have a seat for me. Okay. Have a seat. What's the matter? We're out of options at this point. You have a seat, okay? Don't make it worse. Have a seat. Have a seat. Don't make it worse. Hey, get in. >> There is no injuries. He's so thin. There's nothing. Everyone can tell you that he put his hands on me first. I was defending myself. >> Get in. I'm going to go in and look at cameras, okay? Get in the car. Come on, let's go. Get in the car. >> You're okay. Take a couple deep breaths. >> Thank you. Breathe. >> Look at me. Look at me. >> I know. >> In through your nose and out through your mouth, okay? All right, there we go. In through your nose, out through your mouth. Slow your breathing down. So, if we slow our breathing down, everything else will we'll go to work through it. All right, in through your nose, out through your mouth, okay? In and out. In All right, I'll roll down the window, okay? Turn the air The air is already on, so it's nice and cold. Okay? You got to get her out. >> I got it. I'll grab it. Why don't you talk to her? >> Just get in. All right, you want to have a seat for me, please? We're not standing in the middle of Main Street here. >> Yes, sir. >> You're okay. All right. Have a seat, okay? Watch your head. Have a drink. Oh. >> All officers respond to the spot now. 1017 you. >> [laughter] [laughter] >> How was he not being taken when he put hands on me? >> I can't do it. >> He put his hands on me just because he has marks and I don't doesn't mean anything. There were so many people there that saw that. >> [crying] >> He pushed and shoved me and pinned me [ __ ] down. Because he's thin and I don't have I'm a jerk. He There's no marks, but he [ __ ] put hands on me. How is that fair? That he's not being taken in, too. Why is he not being taken in, too, when he put hands on me? He put hands on me first, sir. He put hands on me first. There's so many witnesses and nothing is being done about it. And nothing's being done about it. >> [laughter] >> Why is he I need to what Listen, ma'am. Look at me. I need to go look at cameras, but I need to identify you first, okay? >> I need to call my mom. Because I'm tired of doing this [ __ ] I'm tired of doing this. I'm doing so well. I'm in college. I'm doing so good with my school. I just wanted to talk to and this car and this female just shows up wanting me to [ __ ] put my hands on her and basically telling her telling me to put my hands on her and he's pushing me and shoving me and pinning my arms down when I'm not even trying to hit her. I wasn't trying to fight her at all. And he's [ __ ] shoving me and putting his hands on me. >> Has he ever used a weapon against you or threatened you with a weapon? >> I Our relationship has been so [ __ ] up that I wouldn't be able to tell you. If he threatened me with his >> Has he ever threatened you or your children? >> No. He has choked me and I've gotten an OP against him. It only lasted for 30 days. >> Is there anything else that worries you about your safety? >> Tonight, yeah, that's why I defended myself and why he has marks. >> Hey ma'am, I'm Trooper Grant State Police. Can you So, we talked to Mr. Zafillman over there. So, look, I understand you guys were at a wedding party tonight and some stuff got a little heated, okay? Look, he doesn't want charges pressed, but unfortunately >> I didn't >> Look, unfortunately, he does have a little bit of injuries to his chest and stuff like that, all right? >> And I don't have injuries because tall as he is, he put hands on me first. >> Okay. Look, so here's what >> Why is he not being detained so when he put hands on me? If you check the cameras, you would see that. >> I Okay. I'm not the one handling this one, okay? [crying and laughter] So, look, here's the situation, all right? So, I know that he does not want charges pressed on you, but unfortunately with the situation that's going on now, Peoria does have to detain you and arrest you, okay? Now, listen to me. Now, you cannot contact him for 72 hours, okay? But he is going to Listen, he's going to call the State's Attorney's Office this week and try to get it get the case dropped for you, all right? >> It's not fair when I was defending myself, he put hands on me first, sir. If someone checks the cameras, they will see that he put hands on me because he thought he assumed that I was going to stoop myself to another woman's level and put hands on her when I was defending myself because he didn't defend me himself. And I told him if that happened tonight, I was going to argue and I was going to defend myself. >> Okay. >> verbally [clears throat] >> Okay. So, are you refusing to give your name? Is that what I'm hearing? >> It's not fair. If someone checked the cameras, they'd see what happened. >> Okay. So, >> He put hands on me. He should be being detained, too. If that's what I did, that's also what he did in the before I even did anything back. >> Okay. So, listen. >> [snorts] >> Are Are you refusing to give the officers your name? Because look, I don't want you to get another charge for obstructing my ID, okay? So, I understand you're on probation. >> Yes. >> Okay. So, it's not going to look good on your probation if you're obstructing identification, also, okay? >> I just want to go back to jail. This [ __ ] I'm done with school. I'm done with trying to do good when he does this every time. Just take me to [ __ ] jail. I don't care anymore. >> Okay. All right. I'll let [snorts] the officers know, okay? All right. I'm going to station to wait for the wagon. >> You guys can never [ __ ] do your job properly. It's [ __ ] You're saying that you can't [ __ ] see him clearly put his [ __ ] hands on me on the [ __ ] camera. It's [ __ ] [ __ ] THIS IS [ __ ] [ __ ] >> [screaming] >> [ __ ] YOU. THIS IS [ __ ] [ __ ] He put his on me. He should be getting arrested, too, and he's not. THIS IS [ __ ] [ __ ] >> [screaming] >> AND MY IDENTITY IS GOING TO GET stolen because you can't You guys can't do your [ __ ] jobs properly, ever. This is [ __ ] [ __ ] THIS IS [ __ ] [ __ ] >> COME ON. SORRY, LADIES. LET'S GO. I REALLY DO NOT WANT TO DO THIS. >> I don't want to do do this, either, but here I am in your squad car >> Exactly, but you got your boyfriend. It's not my fault. Step out of the car. Let's go. >> And you didn't do your [ __ ] job properly. >> They're all over the place right now. You can come down here on Monday and FILE A REPORT WITH THE POLICE DEPARTMENT. >> WHAT GOOD IS THAT GOING TO DO? I HAVE TO WORK. I I'M IN COLLEGE. >> LISTEN, I understand >> If you had talked to somebody on the strip, YOU WOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT HE PUT HANDS on me. You can remove me. Just like I'm going to have to file a complaint >> That's fine. >> for beating me and making my [ __ ] wrists [ __ ] bleed from being rough with me. >> Ma'am, that's not my fault. >> I don't >> Ready, chief? >> One, two, and three. >> The woman was arrested and charged with domestic violence. Drop your opinion in the comments and hit like and subscribe for more videos.

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