on the morning of November 26th 2022 officers were dispatched to a home in response to a domestic disturbance the caller reported that the father of her children had prevented her from calling 911 after physically in her okay what's going on we been okay we've been going through a relationship problems like for a probably about since he got out of jail in um August of last year and I end up like going myself where he went his he did his thing okay I did my thing he got out we tried to work it back I end up getting pregnant the baby wasn't here okay we went our separate ways he went his way I went my way okay but we still try to work this thing out you know BL BL but every day is something like every day is something you taking my past you trying to use that among mons like what I done did I done got a baby on you you trying to use that but I'm not asking you to stay with me you choosing to stay with me you choosing to make it work but then you got a problem because you're asking what is my problem or what way ask me do we need to be separated and I just told him to be honest yes we do and I rather deal with the white people I rather deal with child support when they come down to my kids all I asked him for Thanksgiving was to come get the kids and just because I asked him to come get the kids oh I had to be trying to go with someone or I got to be trying to meet all like insecurity stuff so I'm just like I was over it which I am over it Go your Bo I'm going to go my way so he gets mad and that all happened when all did this happen like just a few minutes ago like he gets mad cuz I say I just rather deal with the white folks and Blas Blas BL oh you think you're going to leave me and and I'm like yeah at this point you can go your way like we was going to have intercourse but it did not even get that far because I'm just like after you said what you said I don't want it you know what I'm saying I don't want it so you get mad cuz I say well we could just go all sear away and I'll deal with the white folk because you bring money over here but you coming back to pick the money up like that's not taking care of your kids that's not giving your kids what they need if you're coming back getting the money you know what I'm saying like that is a way so now I'm wrong so he got putting his hand on me like me I just said I'm going to call the police I di KN going he took my phone the police they answered he took my phone and said my son had my phone my son ain't even here he's about to drop my son I got a two-year-old that don't even know how to talk so he ain't had no phone right I called he just took phone yes and that's what it was so I just told him so you really going to call the police and I like yes I'm really going to call the police at this point it's like really it's I'm really over that I'm really over it right like I'm over it I've been dealing with this [ __ ] for six years I am over it my life has been all in control from you I am over it and I Tred not to get the cops involved but this is what you want this is what you want so this is what I gave you yeah um so he got out of jail when the last time he got out of jail a last year of August and so it all started kind of during that time cuz you got pregnant by someone else and then y still tried to work it out tried to work it out him and the guy were going back and forth the other guy was telling him it's his baby so he gets mad so then when the baby when the baby when I actually had the baby here in August that's when all up went left the baby don't look like him and by him you mean Quincy Quincy the baby not here it don't look like him so oh he automatically flips out and that was fine you know cuz we already had done AG greed today it just I guess when the baby got here it was a different story you know because the baby is actually here but then we still been trying to work on it you know but the whole entire time I can show you in my phone like you text me from different phone numbers and it always been [ __ ] even last night to the point where all I'm saying you calling me all out my name you saying I'm this and you saying I'm that but you want to be with somebody how is that possible that's just like your husband if your your man feel like you such of a [ __ ] or [ __ ] or something or you always [ __ ] out why do you want to make something right that's crazy yeah um that's crazy so now that I'm getting the cops involved to let you know like this [ __ ] is official I am done with it I will go through child support for you to take care of your children even if you don't I'm not no sorry I get up off my I've been working since I was 14 you know so it's not a difference like he's going make me or break me because you in or out then you trying to compare yourself to my oldest son father you can't compare yourself when he gets his son it's not about the money that you bringing over here and coming to get back it's not about the money it's time you would like to cherish moments with your kids grandchildren it's not about the money right and that's what he's trying to make it all about was the money is not about the money I don't care about that yeah um so you're the son that you guys have together we got two kids together I got a 5-year-old and I got a 2-year-old my 2-year-old is here with me and that's also by Quincy that's by quiny as Welly is by Quincy as well but qu um but the 5-year-old wasn't here the 5-year-old wasn't here it was just my 2-year-old he don't know how to talk and then so what happened after like what happened for him putting your put his putting his hands on you I we STR on trying to get him off you know he's more powerful than I am so that what it was so did he just like come up and grab you he just he was getting ready I'm in the room he s in the room he's putting on his clothes and I was sit on the bed at first I did like that he tried I did like that boom and then after that I said you hit me or something he said yeah I'm and he did you come over here with me and he did he did me and then after he smack he start he was like oh you ain't you ain't you ain't going to leave me you ain't going to leave me and I was like no I just rather deal with the white folks I will because if I got to keep going back and forth with you every day I'm argu with you every day every day every day every day about a baby not being yours look whoa whoa whoa whoa that could been bad Come On Son so we got a call about over here about a dispute y'all had a little earlier yeah can you tell me what happened I'm trying to leave man I understand but we got to got to call about so we still have to talk to about people involved I go pick up my phone what was the dispute about earlier we about like about my not me not doing my job I'm father I work every man so much I can do it's not too cold you say the arguments about you're not doing your job not taking care of my children all that type of stuff and I told it only so much I can do it ain't like I a like I ain't trying you feel me cuz some people won't try what's what's the complaint not not taking care of like not being here not yeah not being here feeding them or not cooking no no like they being there for him like don't grab don't take him don't take him to school like like like like father supposed to do average like supposed to do we got to argue about that and I'm like no I can't do that man like this [ __ ] too much for me so I just left and she told me go get her son so I went get her son so I brought her son back where was he at he was at my brother house he spend like with my little nephew okay a family thing yeah okay so just argu any any uh going on anybody push each other touch each other not none of that going on I think arcade it can lead into that so why you get all that Hing and all that going on I get real mad I I m so I get real mad I just get the [ __ ] on go avoid the situation I can't be in that's good to can't get Avid avoiding the conflict is is good trying to do man I'm already in trouble but do you live here or do you live somewhere else or I I stay somewhere I will staying here how long I guess when did you about or about about August August yeah we in how you say it's a complicated relationship yeah understand so but I guess since you moved out in August when do you come back over here like is it daily you come over here or help out when you can or is it weekly whenever she call me she I help if I can get them on the weekend I'll try to do that but other than that during the week I'm working I go to work I go to work every day and obviously obviously there's one child but how many kids you have I got one about her right there see y just arguing she's arguing about the obviously the was talking to her so make sure I told her I got disease got hurt I don't want to pass that [ __ ] on her but she mad cuz like I'm here doing something I'm not I'm just not that type of person I'm not do nobody like that that be so I can't do that so we get to argue about that cuz she still don't believe so I don't know man you've been to the doctor and got a um got check not yet okay I did realize you just strongly believe that you have it well it may be good to go ahead and get the doctor and get checked because there is medications and stuff for that and they saying it can keep it to low where you almost like can't catch it or can't pass it or fetch it but it would at least give you a thing and if that's what she's arguing about say hey here's what the doctor said I do have this right here just to let you know you trying to tell them she impatient she want to move too fast I understand equ coming up man just give me time man I'm going have the money I'm going do what I need to do man I'm not going to leave my children man they do what this all this about man this is crazy arguments about money for Christmas and all that type stuff we a go I ain't go to Black Friday and all that um so he y'all were getting getting dressed cuz y'all were about to have he we don't had hat oh already did okay but he got mad because I said he asked me this what the question that he asked me he said what do you want to do you want to go your separate way and at first I didn't answer the question I sat there and I thought about it for a second and then I was like yeah I rather go my separate way and um I deal with the white folks and after I said that he got upset but only why he got upset and only why he asked me that CU he asked me if I wanted to use a r and I'm like why would I want to use a rub like what sense do that back makes we've been having since like what trying to get it so it I got pissed off when he said this so I didn't answer the question I waited I laid back down for a second then I answered it you know what I'm saying like I was like yeah I rather go our separate ways and I deal with the white folks just like that right and when I said that he smack where did he smack you at in my face like where in your face okay um and then after that what happened and then de he went to chuing me and he like you ain't F to leave me and I like I'm going to call the Poli and he was like no like yes I am call police over no I don't want nothing to happen to yeah we going through altercation where we can't get it together but it's just the best thing for us to do is go our separate way like it's not going to get any better you keep saying about the baby the baby the baby yeah the baby is not your yeah I know I [ __ ] up yeah I know you hurt behind it but it's not going to get any better I'm not begging you for any money to take care of your kids like I have four kids is I have a 10y old 5ye old 2y old and a newborn I need help right I need a break it's not all about me going off off I need help I can't work because I got a 2year old that nobody don't even want to pay for daycare you're disclaiming him because you afraid to get the blood test but you can go and get the blood test with no problem I don't mind you going because in your mind what the people don't label you as if I'm this such [ __ ] or anything that's all I am and your eyes is this [ __ ] or [ __ ] um I don't mean to sound rude but did you have your other eyelash on before no I took it off I took it off I just wanted to make sure when he smacked you it didn't come off I took it off um so when he can you like show me like it wasn't really but it was just like handling me kind of rough how do you mean like just putting me down like that but it wasn't you know like it wasn't up on your throat it was more on your chest okay um and then after that did you hit him to try and get him off of you get him off of me and that was it but it's it's nothing I really thought it was going to be like chaos him bringing my baby back we was steady AR and I was like I'm going call the police and say k me my son you know [ __ ] like that but other than that like he stay his dist and I'mma stay my dist I'm just going to go on with child support and we don't have to wor about anything like we don't have to worry about anything I'm just over this stage like I'm over this boyfriend and girlfriend I got four kids two are by him I'm just over it like I'm over it I'm over it and this is what going to keep him by me talking to y'all to let him know like this [ __ ] is official then this is what he need to see you get what I'm saying other than that like I'm just over it I'm over it all like he won I don't want no more deal I want no more ties when it come down to my I'll just go to child support like we not to do this and even when he want to come over here and get the kid he can go through yall you know what I'm saying like I'm just over Quincy I'm off srat good um can you tell me a little bit about what happened this morning it well it all start about I asked I said do you want do do you really want to be I said do we got to beat though it ain't it's just a simple yes or no went nothing it supposed to get that M or nothing you feel what I'm saying they just escalating they got l start AR and all thate then she told me go get her go get my son from my brother house so I went and did that then after I don't know what all did with police going I got you um so she said that she tried to call the police the first time and then um it got hung up or something do you know anything about that no um is that on your eye is that from didn't know that's old're old okay um okay did anyone lay hands on each other other no man I didn't I didn't hit no she didn't hit you it just a whole bunch of AR a loud argument cuz I don't want to comply I don't want to do what she tell me to do what you mean by that like move on her time I got you you know I got to handle my B I got a job I work here try to take try to help my it's only so much I can do if I can't get my children right I can't but I'm going take care of you feel what I'm saying I ain't going to leave them out cuz I'm taking care of children that ain't none of M that that why I'm trying to build all my money up so I can get her she need so she can go get the children CRI Stu it ain't it ain't nothing major man all this just a big old confusion man okay we're just trying to figure out on both sides I like to be able to talk to both people I'm glad you came back and talked to us so um we'll go from there um hang tight for me okay okay um can she tast you at a three month old as well yeah okay um he's going to go 1095 for battery Family Violence and interference with 911 so um I've gotten pictures of her face in the face and she said it wasn't choking she said it was more like rough handling her like in her chest so that's not really choking to me um or agas Sal so U but he's going to go 1095 for battery thing they got two kids together so all right well I just wanted all right so you are going to be placed under arrest today um her story is that you hit her hold on I'll get it um so it's going to be B the violence and interference with a 911 come on man fin viol they that 15 some you know I ain't do hey come on man this crazy bro fin B bro I a't did nothing I told you I had my stuff and everything bro like come on man like hold on hold on for me let me can man I'm put this right here for a second all right I don't think he can put it in his mouth know I got money bro you know CRI coming up why you going to send me to jail for like come on man this [ __ ] I ain't funny man man I Ain laugh this [ __ ] crazy bro that's crazy bro that's crazy but you hit but you hit me though but she hit me though come on man that's crazy listen take ja okay lock it up all right have a right here unlock your car my brother come get my car bro get my phone and all that bro look I'll get it for you hold on we got to search you okay I'm going to take you to the other side cuz there's little one come on hold on call the police on me bro like for real bro like this [ __ ] ain't funny no more bro I see me down the road 15 years come get my stuff J J come get my stuff I haven't searched him yet n look y'all can see what they done y'all see what y'all see what done to me look I I get out I'll be out we have a job to do too okay with your children D I take care of my children where there have a seat like for real bro that [ __ ] crazy have a seat just ignore her I'm saying about ignore her y' y'all want to lock me up though how do you put this on um airplane mode buddy turn my phone off you want like come get my key hold on wait till my auntie come out here man do you want her to can I come get my key please I don't want to talk to nobody out here okay have a seat for me see that why I talking see look have a seat y'all P punch me in my nose y'all ain't doing nothing about that and I ain't did nothing I ain't put my hand on about argue with these folk man like come on listen hey look I asked you I asked you man but y'all still I ain't going tell on nobody though man cuz that's some Sil ass but F hitting on other folk and y'all ain't doing nothing about that listen like come on man you see my nose and [ __ ] man nobody nobody else ain't got no hit on that nothing twice you said you cuz I don't want to get her locked up cuz my baby mama okay so are those can I get a cigarette somebody please yes if you sit down I will get you a cigarette I just need you to listen are those injuries from today yes they from today man that I left man I want to keep going through this [ __ ] manun man will you have a seat so I can take a picture of your face iort for this do you have injuries anywhere else no it's just on my face my nose Okay can I take your hood off so that I can all right turn this way a little bit okay look we will get this all sorted out I should never came over here I should never take my black okay scoot in for me I gu let me I'm going get you one cigar scoot in for me do you have a cigarette that he can use you got a cigarette manoke bet do you have any other for hear that do you look at my face can I get a cigarette somebody please Y where my keys at are they in the car get my key on get car are they in the car yeah where they I sech the it's in the midd it's in the middle you're good jump crazy man y'all still want hang with this ho crazy man they're crazy man they stay away from me bro why can I get to the jail bro can I find a TPO can I get a TPO yeah you tell Jud about that for real bro I'm getting a TPO keep all this [ __ ] so straight get that cigarette up H I'm pissed all right now it's crazy yeah tell your M there everybody help you don't call me no more don't call me no more kid you dead to me to me this to me this out there s and see if I get a bond i s I always come back I always come back ma'am you don't need to yell either he was arrested and charged with Family Violence battery and obstruction for preventing someone from making an emergency call [Music]