On December 15th, 2023, an individual connected to law enforcement became involved in a domestic dispute with his wife, prompting responding officers to act quickly to manage the tense situation. Hello. Do you mind stepping out? Does he know you called us? Yeah. Where's he at? >> He's in the room. He locked himself in the room. Okay. What's what's going on? Can you step over here? We just got into an argument because I asked him to help me out with my son. Um and I'm pregnant. I'm about 4 months pregnant. >> baby or >> With his child. Okay. And I asked him, you know, I said, "Can you please get off the phone with your friends? You know, it's just a It's petty little arguments, but he kept trying to shove me out of the room, close the door on me. Um and I asked him, "Please don't do that. My son is right there." I had my parents come and pick up my son. My mom's not here. >> How long ago did it happen? It's probably about 30 minutes ago. >> on you? Yeah, back here. Are you able to lift it or I don't know. I don't know. I don't want to do it out here with the the neighbors around. What's his first name? Ray. Ray? Can I go inside? Of course. Can you just step over here? Mhm. Can you just step over here with one of these officers? So, she kept trying to get into the room to get him to talk. Hey, talk to me. Talk to me. Whoever was on the phone, she said she could hear him saying, "Hey, man, stop. This is just going to This is going too far." He opened the door, threw her back. Uh she falls to the floor. She gets up. She tries to get into the room again. He opens the door, throws her back. This time she falls into a a stand, like one of those big shelves, and that's how she got all the marks on her. Okay. Um she said she hit her shoulder, hit her back, hit her arm, and hit her head. And I mean, that was about it. After that, she gets up pissed off. That's when he starts recording right here. It's all after the whole thing became physical. Yeah. He's going to be mad at me. He's going to be so mad. Look at Look at what's happened in the past. Look at what's happening now. And then the potential for violence in the future. And you say you don't want any medical assistance from us or have medical come out to take a look at your injuries. They'll be fine. If if you hit the ground pretty hard >> Obviously, it's a very sticky situation, right? Very fragile situation. Um obviously, under under circumstances like this, the whole thing's going to be under investigation through our internal affairs. They're going to invest do their own investigation. I can't tell you what the outcome would be. I can't tell you what the outcome may or may not be. There's no way of anticipating any of it, so. There's no saying, so. I mean, there's >> [music] [clears throat] [snorts] >> Cuz you're claiming this has happened before in the past. Recently, a couple years. Yeah. You know, and It doesn't mean indefinite. You know, immediately they feel bad. They feel bad after and they work out. But Like you're doing right now. But then it's worse the next time. Over Yeah, just it gets worse and worse because what ends up happening, I'm not saying that this is the case. I'm just saying in case that you've seen this, you know, they start saying, "Call them. Nothing's going to happen. I don't care. You're You're going to end up taking it all the way or whatever, but And that's what he was saying to me. God God forbid something happens to that baby. I I would I would really suggest you guys go to the hospital just get a quick check. It's if that whole thing is broken, you probably hit the ground pretty hard. So, and it's it's up to you guys, but I would >> You need to start thinking about you and these kids. All right? See? He's not like a terrible guy either. It's just like But you can't You can't allow yourself to think that this is okay because it's not. Terrible or not, he he [ __ ] up. All right? He made a huge mistake. All right? That being said, this has happened before. What do you want to happen next? You know, what is it going to take for you to understand that this isn't okay? The lost baby, baby. You could have hit your head and and snapped your skull. He's fine. A million things could have happened. And Kobe was watching this. Also, just just so you're aware, just a little bit of advice for yourself as well when you're dealing with individuals like this, walk away. And that's why I feel bad cuz I didn't walk away when he was trying to close the door on me. He was trying to close it. I think There's a No, there's a difference between emotion. You're high in emotion, all right? But that doesn't mean it's okay for him to become physical. What you did didn't escalate the situation to what happened. That was already living inside, okay? But what I'm saying is protection for yourself. Being that you're pregnant, being that you have another child, take your child and walk out. You guys already at a point where you guys are living in separate bedrooms. I mean, at some point in time it's got to be bigger than I need my mortgage paid. No, I thought we were going to work. I've been asking him, "Can we go to counseling? Can we figure this out?" He kept telling me yes. He's been trying to talk to me, trying to, you know, get back on my good side. I think he knows that I was a little upset this time, so. But he's not the type to just go and apologize, but I know he's hardheaded. Hey, Ray. What's up, man? You don't have any weapons on you or anything, right? All right. Will you step over here? You want to go on the back porch? I don't know, dude. So, I'm chilling, man. I'm doing my thing in the room. She come home from running errands and [ __ ] My son, he needy, bro. He want to play. He going to ask you a million questions. He going to beg for [ __ ] all day, all night. She come home frustrated. I'm on the phone with my homies getting ready to get on Call of Duty. She like, "Can you sit in here with him while um while I wrap Christmas presents?" I'm like, "Yeah, no worries." But he laying on the couch on his iPad chilling. I'm in my game room. But he still acting like, "Yo, Mommy, my stomach hurting." I'm like, "Yo, come here." She like, "You know what? I'mma just leave so I can um cuz he keep getting irritated. She like, "I'mma just leave cuz I can't focus." >> He's irritating her? Yeah, she's irritating her from earlier. So, I get him in the room. I bring him like one of his little games. I'm like, "Let's play a game, man." She come to the door. I'm on Like I said, I'm still on the phone with both of my friends. He like, um He in the room with me playing like this little matching game. Mhm. And she like, um she come to the door like screaming and yelling and [ __ ] So, now he getting riled up and [ __ ] whatever. I'm like, "You said you wanted to go so you can, you know what I'm saying, do what you got to do and get your alone time?" So, just go ahead and leave. Right. Now she screaming and going off and all this [ __ ] So, I get up. I'm like, "I'm not finna I swear I'll get up." Like I'm not finna argue with you. I close the door. She try to open the door. Now I'm locking the door. Like, "Yo, you doing too much." And she trying to stick her arm her body inside. I'm like, "Bro, what are you doing, bro?" Mhm. So, my homie's like, "Why don't you Scream at her. Like, just leave. Like you said you want to go, leave." So, she's sticking her arm all in the door like I'm like, "You know what? I'll leave then." So, I'm finna walk to the kitchen. She following me there. I'm like, "Bro, So, she We in the kitchen or whatever. She's still screaming like, "Your dirty ass friend yada yada yada." So, I hurry up and go back in the room, close the door. She like, "I'm finna call the I'm like, "Call them." I'm like, "Call them." Dude, you got to Were you with your friend? Were you on FaceTime or FaceTime with both of them. Did he see everything that happened? Both. I was I can show you. You can see the call from when she called 911 to I just hung up with him. You heard y'all talking. >> Which arm was she trying to stick into the door? I don't remember. But she kept trying to get in. I was like, "I'm holding the door with my iPad." Like Mhm. Hold on. You got some of it on your iPad? Okay, cool. Like she steady coming thing. Now she like, "I'mma tell the police you did this and such and that." She's claiming that's from the door? No, she claiming like through her. Can you uh turn the volume up? Yeah. I'm telling her what you told me to tell her. Are you able to back it up from the beginning? That's fine. Kobe, stop, baby. >> have my mom come pick up my son. I'm going to have to pee. Yeah. He's going to jail. Baby, Mommy, baby do like that. Can you send Dad to come pick He just threw me around. And I have marks all over me. And he just choked me while I was pregnant. And because he doesn't want to hear that. He's on the phone with his friends. And then I need help. And I told him that he doesn't need to be on the phone 24/7. While I'm doing everything, but then he can't ever help with nothing but besides be on the phone. But he's on the phone with his friends right now talking [ __ ] and playing the game. Cuz he can't help me with the simple things, right? Cuz he can't ever help with nothing but his own [ __ ] Then he manhandled me, choked me, threw me against the back of the thing. The back of my head is bleeding. And the whole back of my back is bleeding. He has no marks on him, but look at me. And I'm ready to police on him. So, I I I I called the police. I need you guys to come come get him. He even said, "Daddy did this TO YOU." BLAH BLAH BLAH. AND HE threw me against the thing. The wooden thing that's in my house. Yeah. You know, You already going to never leave the room. You We in the kitchen. You going to see I'm making I'm in the kitchen. She following me there. What? He's going to hit him, too? You're going to hit my son, too? All right. What possessed you? I need you Yeah, okay. I hear you. As a cop, YOU'RE A WOMAN BEATER AND A CHILD BEATER. Stop on the phone with your friends. Yeah. Yeah, keep recording it. You got to go be with them. You got nothing else. You got to be in jail. You got to be in jail. You got to be in jail. That's what you're about to do. Assault a pregnant person. That's the problem. You think that nothing ever happens. That's the problem. You think there's no consequences. That's what YOU THAT'S WHAT NO, YOU HAVE ANGER PROBLEMS. You're going to jail. You're going to jail. >> Okay. How did you get the mark on her arm? I got time today, my love. Tired of your [ __ ] No, I understand. I was just curious what you Spitting in my face. Like, get the No, I'm not in your face. I'm not in your face. Hey, are you coming? Cuz I need you to come get him. Look Look what he just did. And he just choked me and threw me against the thing. And his friends are on the phone. His friends saw the whole thing. But, you know, they're all so tough and they can for a cop. And he threw me against the thing. Choked me twice. I'm pregnant. I'm so ready to call the police, but the thing is I know the police are going to try to take to CPS. So, I need you to come get him for me. Cuz I'm ready to call the police on him. Hit my head. My ankle was And he thinks that this is okay. And I'm not going to keep letting him get away with all this. I'm done. How long you been dealing with her before with her going through this? She maybe like 10 minutes before y'all I mean, like, has this happened before? This? >> we did the Philly. She called the police on me. They actually took me I got to stop feeling. Please, hurry. That's your career coming for you now. Look at Look at all this, too. It's okay. Let her record everything. The choke marks on my neck, too. And this And everything. And on the back of my head. My [ __ ] ankle. Yeah, your friend should be condoning this, right? Are there any Cuz you don't like to hear it. You do nothing around the house. You think you can work and that's it. That's all you do. Like, I don't pay nothing else either. And I pay for all the food in the house. I pay for your son. I watch your son. I do everything. I call out of work. I pay for all the doctors. I do everything. Why didn't you decide to call the officers? Why didn't you call when this started happening? Yeah, cuz it never gets to that. To do I'm talking to her talking to her all the time. Yeah. All the time. She get mad at whatever she's mad at. She call her mom and them over here to come get her. They can't make her leave. So, it's like I go out I go in the room and I close my door every time. Do you have your your cell phone on you or It's It's in my pocket. I'll go go get it. Are you LT's obviously here. Are you cool if I bring this out? You want your phone to keep recording while we're here? You want your phone? No. Okay. Okay. Um When you when you shoved her I never shoved her. Oh, you were just closing the door? Uh the door was closed. Like, if you When you done talking to me, go to that room where I was in when you came to. >> Mhm. Look at the thing. She picked She had picked the door and come in. All right. I'm Like I was telling him I'm my TV on the wall, dresser My iPad sits right on that while I'm on FaceTime on my phone. So, I'm playing the game or whatever. So, she came out the first time to the kitchen just to try to finesse her to get her out. Went back in and I closed the door. I'm sitting right there. She picked the lock and come back in. I'm like, bro, if you want to leave, go somewhere. Like, go Like, leave. Go to your mom's crib. My homie and them on the phone like, yo, you record She starts spreading the police. She doing this to me every time. They're like, record. I'm like, I can't get to my iPad. Like, if I get to my iPad, she going to come in. Mhm. So, she trying to reach in or whatever trying to grab She finally get out cuz my son was like screaming and acting up. So, she trying to calm him down or whatever. Then she leave. I close the door, lock it, and go over there grab my iPad. Now, I'm leaning up against the door. And I'm trying to get my iPad and she reaching in and [ __ ] again. I just let her in. I'm like, whatever. I'm recording now. I said I'm being on record. She Yeah, I'm going to tell the police you did all of this. Like, I'm like, call them. So, how did How did she get that? How would you suspect that she got that mark on her arm? Probably trying to reach in the door and with the door probably I don't know. All right. Cuz she Yeah, she got a mark on the back of her foot as well. She got a bunch of And then there's a like a red mark on her neck as well. I don't Like I said, I didn't touch her at all. I know y'all doing your investigation. But I didn't come out that room. I was on FaceTime the entire the whole entire time. Right. I know we don't know each other, but I'mma be real with you. You know how these investigations go and unfortunately you are going to be placed under arrest right now, okay? So, if you can just do me a favor, stand up and just toss your hands behind your back. And then I'll give you an opportunity to make your statement and stuff, okay? You don't have anything on you. We'll just pat you down real quick. No weapons on your person, right? Turn to your left a little bit. You good? All right. You want your window cracked a little bit? All right. Y'all ready? All right. Just a few questions before we get started with the booking process. You got any open wounds or skin on your body? Any injuries or anything that requires medical attention before we start the booking process? Or what's up? Stand up right now. Were you working out earlier? Yeah. Y'all got a little gym in here? Yeah. I'm leaving out a 10-digit number, too. Okay. Thank you. What's up, bro? You doing all right? Yeah, you doing okay? Yeah, man. Shirt, pants, he's got underpants as well. Long long-sleeved underpants. We done. You got numbers for my phone? [laughter] Yes.