Got to sit on my step. >> Leave me alone. >> You're broke. YOU'RE BROKE. YOU'RE BROKE. HE'S got it everywhere. You're broke. >> There's my clothes. Y'all can bleed. >> Take my phone. JJ. JJ. Get my phone. >> Stop. >> JJ. Breakups can get messy, but in these situations, police responded to cases that went far beyond arguments and stepped in to protect boyfriends from escalating danger. >> What you want to do? >> The first time I called y'all, y'all, do you want >> No, you didn't. You literally put me in handcuffs. I mean, >> this is cops rescue boyfriends from the most dangerous ex-girlfriends ever. Here is law zone where features real police body cam footage documenting how officers handle tense and unpredictable situations as they happen. The first incident is that toxic girlfriend makes life miserable for everyone around her. >> I don't I'm not trying to go to jail for something I'm not doing. >> So, you said she was acting crazy this morning, too? >> Well, she's been acting crazy for a few days. for a few days. >> It's just going It's just been getting worse. >> On July 24th, 2023, officers arrived after a man brought his girlfriend to her parents' home due to escalating behavior and conflict over the past few days. >> Denal, whatever. Um, she's been giving her new boyfriend a heck of a time for the last couple days. Um, she wouldn't let him leave the house where they stay at and he actually tried to he went to go out and she was stopping and they got a little thing at the door and she cut her finger on the door, whatever. Now she's swearing that when the cops come she's going to blame it on him and have him go to jail, me go to jail and everybody's going to jail and she just will not get out of his truck so he can go. >> I'm on probation, sir, and I'm trying to get in trouble. So everything that I've been doing, I'm trying to stay above the law and do my do my part. So >> family members confirm ongoing tension. The mother and stepfather say she became argumentative upon arrival and refused to leave when asked. >> He brought I told him to bring her here because of what she's doing. As soon as she got here, she walked in the garage, started on her mom, which is who she's arguing with now. Called him and I straight up told her, "You're not going to disrespect him like that." That's just wrong. Regardless of what's going on, she won't listen. I've told her to leave. But then he wants to go. He don't want to take the problem with him, but she won't get out the trouble. >> I just don't I'm trying to stay out of trouble. I've already been in trouble. I've done my time. I'm trying to do my probation, raise my children, and I don't I'm not trying to go to jail for something I'm not doing. Officers clarify living arrangements and relationships while the family explains she wants to return to the boyfriend's residence but is not cooperating. >> Father, the mom's right here. >> Hey. Hey. So, do you need to see the like the video of when we came over here? All this stuff like that. >> Where do y'all live? >> Huh? >> Where do y'all live? >> I live in uh Harold. >> Oh, yeah. So, you don't live here? >> No. >> No, I don't live here. I live in Harold. >> Huh? >> They live in Herold. So you and I live at >> what's your daughter stepdaughter's name? >> Crystal. So you and you and Crystal live in Herald together. And your mom? >> Yes. I'm the mother. >> And your name is >> I'm the mother. >> Do I have to give that to? >> Uh if you don't give that you will go to jail cuz you're on probation. >> So let's not start that. >> Oh no. I'm not asking like that. I'm just asking do I have to? So that's >> See, I don't want nothing. It's none of my business. >> Hey, I get it 100%. Get it 100%. I don't want nothing to do with her and I get brought in it anyway. >> Well, she won't listen to you. >> So, she's sitting in the back of the truck. >> I'm trying to calm her down. >> Okay. >> Officers attempt to speak with the woman who remains seated in the back of a truck, appears agitated, and asks if she is going to jail. >> It's so why why did they show up here today? >> Because >> he called me and wanted me to try to talk to her to calm her down. >> Okay. So I tried. Well, she disrespected me and I told him to leave. Take her with I didn't want her here. >> So they It's his mom's house. SO THEY BROUGHT HER BACK. >> So do y'all all So do you two live here with her? >> Yes. Okay. >> I just don't want her going to jail. This ain't the way it's supposed to go. And I'm not supposed to be in none of this. >> All she wants to do is go back to his house. >> CRYSTAL >> CRYSTAL. >> CRYSTAL, listen to me. Hello. Can you see me? >> Officers try to deescalate, asking her to come down and talk. She refuses, gives unclear or false identifying information, and avoids answering basic questions. >> See, sit down for me, please. Just sit down. >> That's why I didn't want to be in none of this >> what John was talking about. >> I brought over here to see your mom because I asked my mom to I asked her to please talk to her. Mom's trying to talk to her and she's just belligerent with mom and and mom just said, "Hey, she's got to go." So, you know, that's that's just what it is. >> Your husband's name is John. >> Yes. She wants to go back there. Well, right now, right now, she want to listen to me or you going to talk over top of me? >> I'm sorry. >> Okay. So, right now, she ain't going to leave because we're here investigating something. Once we determine what's going on, if it was a crime or not, then we'll get to that point. Okay? So, right now, everybody needs to take a breath and calm down. >> Hey, Miss Crystal. >> Am I going to jail? >> I don't know. You ain't handcuffed, are you? >> I don't know. We got to We got to talk to you. >> I just kicked me out. >> I I don't know. Just take a breath. >> Well, I'm here to help you. Okay. >> Help. And why on me? >> Why don't you hop down here IN THE SHADE? >> NO. I'M LIKE, GET the out. >> Okay. It's really hot up there. I care. That's why I want to stay down here in the shade. You said you have marks on you. >> Do I have marks on you? >> I don't know. I'm asking and I don't know. my fingers you off this [ __ ] >> I would love to see that but I can't see us from up there. >> I'm like doing THAT CUZ HE'S ON PROBATION too much but >> I'm on probation. >> But I need to go to jail, right? I need to go to jail. >> Crystal, what's your last name? Crystal. >> Don't have one. >> You don't have one? What's your middle name? >> Don't have one. >> What's your date of birth? >> Okay. >> What's your first name? >> I don't know. >> What day is it? You don't know who's president? Here's what's going to happen. We're trying to be nice to you. >> You get head medicine. If they turn on me, they turn on me. Your >> phone's going to fall out your back pocket. >> Officers determine she is failing to identify herself and may be on probation. They warn that continued non-compliance could result in arrest. >> I'm just going to take me home. Get the out. I'm Where's our closest unit? Okay. So, you want to hop down and talk to us down here? Well, don't go anywhere. Okay. I don't think you will. >> I don't know in the car. >> Will you stand here and try to talk to her while I talk to him? We're probably at least going to go 44 on her. Um, but however, right now she's failing to identify. We can't identify her, but she's still failing to identify. We'll at least do a 44 if nothing else. Okay. Come here. She won't even answer my question. So, >> go to jail for failure to cooperate if she's on probation. >> Oh, is she on? Go ahead and run her name. See if she's on probation cuz we're probably going to have a resisting anyway, more than likely. When she refuses to get down from the truck, officers physically remove her, restrain her, and place her in handcuffs after continued resistance. >> So, this is what the Y put me Mine's up. >> Yeah. If she don't get down on her own, we're ripping her down, brother. >> Crystal, >> THE MAKE. >> WHY? BECAUSE THERE SHOULDN'T BE NO REASON FOR ME GOING TO JAIL. >> NO, I sit on MY feet backwards. Perfect. Hey, get her stuff out of her pocket real quick. >> Stay right there and don't move. >> During a search, officers secure her belongings. She continues to protest, asking why she is being arrested and requesting her shoes. >> I don't see anything else. Take that out of her hand. >> Jesus, bro. Let me sit down. >> STOP. >> THERE'S NOTHING ELSE ON ME. >> Double lock those. Don't lie to me. Y'all lie to me. Can I believe my feet burned? >> Please, you guys. I'm begging y'all. >> Yo, look at me. Standing off. >> Jesus. >> Y'all ain't DONE WITH Y'ALL. >> STOP MOVING. >> STAND RIGHT THERE AND STOP IT. >> YOU ARE NOT MOVING UNTIL I TELL YOU YOU'RE ABLE TO. NOW STAND THERE. There's nothing else in my pocket. >> I'm double checking to make sure >> now you can sit down. >> Hey, what are you doing? >> PLEASE GET MY SHOES. >> I GOT YOUR SHOES. >> I need them on. Can I >> Well, you're going to have to take them off when you get to jail. Officers confirm with a family member about medication found in her possession. The family member declines to press charges for that issue. >> I'm going TO JAIL FOR REAL. >> YEAH, you're going to jail for real. >> For what reason? What the >> Well, you should have cooperated with us. >> What the did I do? >> Which one of y'all is Tammy? >> Yeah, >> you're Tammy. >> Yeah, she has some of your pills in her purse. She's got one of your pill bottles in her purse. >> Yeah. >> Do you want to charge her for it? >> No, sir. I just want to take them and I'll flush them. I ain't charging her. >> Take her in. >> Okay. Okay. So, right now she is going to jail for resisting, which in turn will more than likely violate her probation. She should have cooperated. The jail is also >> officers explain she is being arrested for resisting and failure to cooperate, noting that the charge may also affect her probation status. >> It's a receiving facility. so she can get any type of meal mental help whatever there at the jail. Um that's where we are right now. She will get a bond. Um however, more than likely as soon as she gets charged her PO is going to go ahead and violate her. So she won't have a no bond until first appearance which would be tomorrow. As long as PO goes ahead and violates her. Probably will cuz I'm probably going to go ahead and try to contact PO. So when she sees first appearance judge, first appearance judge be like, "Yeah, you get a bond and no you don't." So y'all know how that goes. So okay, any more questions for me? >> Thank you, man. >> Absolutely. Y'all have a good day. >> Really? >> You ain't under arrest for that. >> WHAT THE I'M UNDER ARREST FOR WHEN I GOT MARKS ALL OVER ME >> BECAUSE I ASKED you your name. You did not provide it. >> Because we asked you to get down out of your truck and you did not. So, you go into jail for resisting, which is in turn going to violate your probation cuz I'm going to contact your probation officer as well, so they're aware. >> The individual identified as Crystal was charged with resisting law enforcement. Remember, refusing to provide identification and comply with lawful instructions can lead to arrest, even if the original situation is unclear. Staying calm and cooperative during police interactions can help prevent additional legal complications. This is the reaction of netizens to this situation. This could have gone differently if she had just answered basic questions. The officers kept trying to talk her down before taking action. Family situations like this can escalate fast when no one is on the same page. Think this situation was already intense. The body cam catches a split-second decision that changes everything. Comment if you saw it coming. The next incident is when entitled girl refuses to leave man's home after spending the night. >> Please stop. >> Now you just caught a felony. So good job. On April 13th, 2024, officers responded to a residence after a man reported a woman refusing to leave and making threats to file false allegations against him. >> What you want to do? The first time I called y'all, y'all do [ __ ] >> Hey there. So, what's going on now? >> All right. So, was you one of the officers that just left? >> Uh, the other officer's on his way. So, this is just a continuation. Just >> Yeah. Yeah. So, she now she's saying um she's basically like getting ready. I don't know if she was getting ready to call you guys and make false allegations, but I don't know. Once she went to saying, "Oh, I can call them back and tell them that you pulled my hair and slap me, they'll take you to jail without asking you any questions." Or if I was to call them back now and tell them that you you tried to me, they'll come and arrest you and take you to jail with no questions. I say, "You know what? I ain't even going to play them type of games since you on that type of time and I ain't even going to play them type of games. I don't even want you here no more. So I I want her gone like right now cuz if you if you call and and tell these type of lies on me, I I I don't want you around me. I don't want you around. I got too much going on. I work I work a good job all this. I don't got time to be put in situations like this. And then this not even my house. Officers confirm she does not live at the residence and that the property owner wants her removed. The situation is treated as a trespass issue >> and it's not hers. We're we're just she's just a friend of mine and I paid my niece to be here cuz my niece is out of town. >> So, how long she been here? >> So, she's been here with me for the last two days, but she left last night. She just literally just came back this morning. Woke me up out my sleep cuz she's super drunk. So, >> what happened? So, you said she got here last night. Is that what you're telling me? >> No, she was here last night. She left. She left. >> She doesn't live here. >> She doesn't live here. I don't even live here. This is my niece's house. >> I'm only here because my niece is out of town and I was paying her to stay here because it's just an empty apartment right now. So, >> So, but she came here last night. >> She came here this morning. She left. She was going >> Okay. What I'm saying is prior to her leaving, where was she? Was she here? Was she >> Yeah. Prior to her leaving, she was here last night. >> Okay. She came here last night. She left and came back this morning. >> Yeah. She just got back. >> Officers make contact with the woman who claims she was asleep and had previously reported being harmed. She says she wants to file charges. >> It's morning like 6:00 some this morning. I was in that sleep. >> What the [ __ ] Let me get that. Let me start with that. So that's You don't want to talk. You don't want to communicate. So what's what's your last thing? So, from what I'm getting now, you just want her to leave. Is this what I'm getting? >> Yeah, because she going to say something like that. I don't know what this girl end up pulling. What type of stuff end up pulling? So, does she still investigate? Cuz she was a little >> Yeah, that's why I was trying to tell you. >> Let me see if I can >> Where she's at now. She >> She's in the house. I've been out here waiting on you guys. So, I've been out here like 15 minutes at the most. Probably 20 minutes. I was on the phone. >> All right, man. So, here's the thing. >> Get out, man. >> I've been literally I was dead sleep and they telling me to wake up out of my sleep to get out. >> Ma'am, so I JUST TALKED >> I CALLED THE POLICE THE first time. Once he tried to put his hands on me, >> exactly. This this man just tried to put his hands on me and they didn't do [ __ ] >> I called the police and they left the first time. He called them back a second time. Once >> officers instruct her to gather her belongings and leave. She argues, refuses to comply, and continues making accusations and disruptive statements. >> I'm sleep. I'm not doing [ __ ] to this man. I'm perfectly sleep. I'm laying down dead sleep. I literally just got woke up by the police telling me that I need to leave because he just called them. >> Okay, man. The the owner of the >> Exactly. Because I I literally just got woke up for a second. This is conduct second time after he just told me >> after I be quiet. You might end up going to jail for conduct. Okay. >> I know. I'm not going to get my going to jail for conduct. Okay. >> Stay calm. I sleep. I'm not I'm not going to get to the jail for nothing. >> I just talked to the owner of the house. She just want to leave. Just stop and leave. I'm not going to get in jail for nothing. I'm not stop. Don't want you to leave. >> I'm not going to get in jail for nothing. >> Glad you stop. Like I said, I've been here. I was sleep perfectly fine and I got woke up by my sleep. >> Bro, it does not matter. >> The woman becomes increasingly confrontational, refuses to exit voluntarily and continues to challenge officers while delaying departure. >> Grab your stuff and leave. Okay. I literally got woke up out I literally got woke up out in my sleep to grab my [ __ ] and to get dressed and leave because a [ __ ] woke me up out my sleep. >> What was y'all here THE FIRST TIME WHEN A [ __ ] PUT THEIR HANDS ON ME and beat me. >> Well, okay. Well, I like to ride charges. So, I I want y'all to get that ready. I like to press charges. So, I want y'all to get that ready. I GOT PICTURES AND ALL THAT. I LIKE TO GET y'all I like to get y'all I like y'all go ahead and get that ready. I BET SHE WOULD WANT TO TALK TO YOU. THE [ __ ] you talking about? >> You bet. And you weird. And you weird. And you weird. And you weird. THE [ __ ] AND JEREL, I WAS IN THERE DEAD SLEEP. YOU CALLED THE POLICE WHILE I'm sleep. Dead sleep. The You call THE POLICE WHILE I'M DEAD SLEEP. >> Literally dead sleep. The >> dead sleep. I BET IT'S DON'T SAY A WORD. I BET HIS DON'T FEEL A WORD. I BET HIS don't feel a word. He's a pedophile. I BET HIS DON'T FEEL A WORD WHEN IT WAS ON WHEN HE WAS >> Officers reiterate that she must leave or she will be trespassed. She moves outside but continues arguing and does not fully disengage from the situation. >> My [ __ ] when they WAS DRUNK. WHAT IS THAT? What is that? What is that? What is that? >> I met him when I WAS 17. WHAT IS THAT? >> I bet. Okay. I want you to leave. Stop. STOP. STOP. JUST STOP. >> YOU'RE PEDOPHILE. >> Let's talk about that, [ __ ] >> Ma'am, grab your stuff. >> LET'S TALK ABOUT THAT. LET'S TALK ABOUT THAT. >> I bet it is. Grab my stuff and leave. I'm not leaving nowhere, [ __ ] This not his house. I'm not leaving nowhere. How about that? >> Get me out this mother, >> man. They going off the house. She just want I talked to the rest. She wants her to leave. Okay. >> And where is she? I want her to physically >> I want you grab your stuff. >> I want you to physically be trespassing. Okay. AND ONCE SHE SAYS I'M trespass I'm trespassing you then. It's so that's why I'm glad they sent you back out since you was here the first time because she talking about where you guys were the first time. I put my hands on her. If I put my hands on you why she didn't tell y'all that when y'all first came out. That's the whole reason. This is the whole reason. Despite multiple warnings, she remains confrontational throws, insults, and escalates verbally while officers attempt to conclude the call. >> Why I called y'all back? Cuz she was saying she was talking. She was talking like this. That's the whole reason why I called y'all back. I've been knowing you since you was 17. You know, I haven't I just met you last year in January. Ma'am, go ahead and grab your stuff and leave. Okay. >> Girl trying to ma'am. >> Go ahead and grab your stuff and leave. Okay. Trying to go to jail right now. Okay. >> I don't give It's mine. How you going to go to jail with me? I bought it. I bought it. So, it's mine. So, how you going to get it? I'm going to go to jail for breaking my [ __ ] >> Grab a store from me. >> As long as I'm on the property, you can't trespass me from nowhere. The I'm on the sidewalk. You can't trespass me from going nowhere. >> Got the C charger part for both types. It's a fast charger. Them charges cost a lot. running. >> I'M GONNA GO TO JAIL FOR standing on the sidewalk. >> Okay. My jaw comes out. Okay. >> TAKE ME FOR JAIL. TAKE ME TO JAIL. I'M NOT DOING [ __ ] Y'all could have been left. I left the premises. So, y'all could have been left. >> Where are we taking it with us? >> You going to break my charger? >> Yeah. This mine. I paid for it, [ __ ] It's mine. It's mine. I paid for it. You >> like [ __ ] You gay. >> You don't pay. You don't pay for nothing. >> I pay for everything. >> Get your bag. >> You broke. You don't pay for work. YOU'RE BROKE. YOU'RE BROKE. YOU'RE BROKE. 600 every >> You're broke. You're mad. You're mad. [ __ ] don't want to your ass. You're going to jail. >> I'm going to get even louder because you're mad. You want to take my hands high and you want to take care cuz I called YOU FIRST AND I GOT BEAT. SO WHAT YOU WANT TO do the >> And I got phone calls to prove everything. My sister was on the phone with me the whole time. So what you want to do? The first time I called y'all, y'all do [ __ ] You took his side before you even man was talking to you. >> So what you want to do? You took my side before you even even tal You took his side before you even talked to me. And I was on the phone with my sister the whole time. >> You didn't want to talk to >> you talking about this. The reason why I called you guys back. >> Yes. >> If you want to go Yeah. >> I've been on the phone with my sister the whole time. THIS IS THE THIRD TIME WE DONE BEEN THROUGH THIS [ __ ] The is you talking about? This is the third time we done been through this [ __ ] You go through the You do the same [ __ ] over and over and over and again, >> man. Go ahead and grab your stuff. Okay. So, we >> How about that? >> I'm off the premises. Y'all could have been left by now. >> This is public. This is public housing. Different rules apply. >> Go ahead and show It's public housing. It's actually It's actually It's actually priv It's actually mother public housing. And y'all not supposed to be drinking. And y'all not supposed to be doing drugs, but [ __ ] in there drinking and [ __ ] in there smoking and [ __ ] in there doing everything. [ __ ] They got drugs IN THE HOUSE RIGHT NOW. You talking about the There's my clothes. Y'all can leave. Is y'all doing here? Y'all could have been left. Goodbye. There's my clothes. Goodbye. See you later. Goodbye. Y'all still here? What is y'all doing? Goodbye. See you later. Bye. Y'all still here. I'm not understanding what the y'all doing. Y'all still here, >> man. We want you off the property, man. >> And I'm off the property. It's not our property. >> Go ahead and walk off the property. The sidewalk is public. This is part of the property. Okay. >> Actually, the sidewalk. I'm on the sidewalk. I'm going to explain it to you in the garage. This is public housing. Okay. This is public housing. This is >> This is public housing. >> This whole complex is >> this right here. >> All right. Oh, this right here. >> She's She's gonna >> Yeah, let's take her out. >> All right. >> Officers detain and place her in handcuffs following the reported assault. She resists verbally and physically during the process. >> Abandoned property just going. Oh. NOW YOU >> I DID NOTHING. >> Now you just caught a felony. So good job. >> I didn't do nothing. A GIRAFFE in While in custody, she continues to protest, denies wrongdoing, and claims officers acted without justification. Man, you can't get in. THIS IS B. OKAY, NOW YOU GOT THE BATTLE FOR >> YOU. You kicked me. So now it doesn't battle off. >> Thank you. Officers explained the situation, stating she unlawfully re-entered the residence and committed a physical assault, leading to more serious charges. It's >> all twisted. Hey, unlock your car. Good morning. >> Morning. How are you? >> I'm great. >> Hey. >> Hey. Do you have anything? TO ME. >> Stop talking to me. >> She's going to GET >> YEAH. ACTUALLY, it's burglary with battery. So, >> burgly. I DIDN'T EVEN STEAL [ __ ] Is you talking about? Everything that belongs to me that y'all got is mine. The [ __ ] I didn't steal [ __ ] >> The [ __ ] IS YOU TALKING ABOUT? So Berkeley, what the [ __ ] Y'all just throwing cases on me. Like the you talking about the [ __ ] I made sure to document all this [ __ ] Like the y'all talking about I didn't steal [ __ ] The I didn't steal nothing. >> Say you did. >> So burgly what? Burgly what? >> Do you know what burglary means? >> The [ __ ] I DIDN'T STEAL [ __ ] I didn't steal [ __ ] I didn't steal nothing. >> We're not charging. something like that would be robbery. >> Yeah, but that and >> [ __ ] Y'all don't have no reason to arrest me. The Y'all just came into literally busted to a [ __ ] house. No search warrant, no nothing. Just came into a [ __ ] house and just assumed that a [ __ ] was doing something and they didn't have no reason. Like y'all literally just busted to a [ __ ] house. No search warrant. During transport, she continues to resist behaviorally kicking and shouting while officers warn her to stop and proceed with booking. >> No, nothing. Just doing anything that y'all want to do. Like the y'all had no reason to arrest me. Y'all had nothing. Like the y'all doing all this and the [ __ ] ain't even pressing NO CHARGES. LIKE Y'ALL doing all of this. Like y'all have no case. Like I have nothing. The I'm going to jail foring nothing. [ __ ] I called Y'ALL HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE. THE [ __ ] I got scratches and bruises all over my [ __ ] neck. I'm the one that was getting [ __ ] bruised and y'all came here from nothing. The [ __ ] >> Y'all going TO DO YOURING JOB. DO IT FOR REAL. >> And you got ex-boyfriend's house. She went in there. >> No, I guess they kind of have some type. I mean, he claimed that just friends would benefit, not like boyfriend. not whatever. >> So, um, we kind of like she kind of like come and go, come and stay for a couple days and leave and come back. So, he's not really her permanent res. So, we gave her multiple chances to leave she has >> she walked away. So, we gathered up all of our property, >> abandoned property, >> put it out here in the circle back around so we can hook her up. In the meantime, she goes back through the back door, >> goes in and bust him in the nose. cuz she knock on the door cuz he said he thought it was us who came back and then when he opened the door so she just washed like punch him in his nose blood everywhere and stuff like that. So >> yeah, um can you >> blood all over your notebook? >> Yeah. >> [ __ ] I DON'T HAVE TO STOP DOING [ __ ] I DON'T GIVE A [ __ ] THERE'S NO REASON TO BE HERE. THE [ __ ] ME. DON'T BE BURNED. THE [ __ ] I HAVE NO REASON TO BE HERE. I have no reason to be here. >> If you drink this, THAT'S DESTROYING THEIR PROPERTY. NO REASON TO BE HERE. >> ALL RIGHT. NO, I'M NOT. I have no reason. >> I have no reason to be here. >> Oh my god. I have no reason to be here. >> You're making things worse. >> I DON'T CARE. >> I HAVE NO REASON TO BE HERE. Y'ALL DIDN'T EVEN TRY TO HEAR my story first before I EVEN TOLD Y'ALL. I'M THE ONE CALLED Y. I don't care. >> 41. >> Hey, listen to me. If you don't stop kicking the door, we're going to have to put this on your feet. >> Bro, I don't care. Bro, I don't care. >> I'm not the one who supposed to be going to jail, bro. I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. >> I don't care. I don't care. >> You don't want to make >> I DON'T CARE. I don't care. I don't care. Y'ALL HAVE NO REASON TO harass me. I didn't do [ __ ] I didn't do it. I'm pregnant and y'all looking I'm pregnant. I'm pregnant. >> You're either getting out this DOOR OR THAT DOOR. >> I DON'T CARE. The woman was charged with burglary with battery along with related offenses tied to resisting and disorderly conduct. Remember, remaining on private property after being asked to leave can result in trespass related enforcement. Escalating a situation after police intervention can lead to more serious charges. This is the reaction of netzens to this situation. She had multiple chances to leave, but kept escalating things. Officers tried to resolve it peacefully before it turned into an arrest. Going back into the house made the situation much worse. You think the officers were out of options here? Watch what happens next on the body cam and tell us if you would have done the same. The next incident is when enraged 24year-old storms into ex fiance's house and lights Bible on fire. We'll explain we'll explain it. On June 25th, 2023, officers received a call from a man regarding his ex fiance who had broken into his home and started vandalizing his property and also setting a Bible on fire at his doorstep. >> Once you got you literally put me in handcuffs, I need call. >> What's going on? So, >> I just got back home uh my roommate Steven. Okay. >> I'm just trying to see if I What's up, man? Sam. >> Hey, friends. Ryan, [ __ ] >> Oh, okay. All right. Yuki and all the other guys. >> Um, so basically, um, got into some [ __ ] with my ex- fiance and whatnot. >> Um, she's got my son right now. Apparently, she came over here, banging on the door. He opens the door, thinking that somebody else. She forces her way in. Um, ripped some of >> ripped some of the [ __ ] off the wall, broke the tail light off my motorcycle. Um, pushed away into my room. Um, ripped up some [ __ ] in there. Tore a Bible up. Um, set a Bible on fire next to the front door. Um, and then I don't wear shoes now, but I was like, "Listen, [ __ ] Like, where the is my son?" Because he said the car was off when she got here. So either he was left in a non-running car or who knows where the else he is right now. Okay. >> And if she's unstable enough to be committing arson, burglary, and destruction. >> Officers confirm she no longer lives at the residence and had no permission to enter. The man states he wants to press charges for the incident. >> The property like if I don't have kids, somebody needs to [ __ ] go check on that [ __ ] before I do it. >> Okay. >> So, all right. If you want to document all this [ __ ] and like like do a welfare check or something like that. I was just talking about that [ __ ] Like I know you can't legally take him from her or some [ __ ] like that. I don't know what you can do. But like >> we can definitely do a welfare that's that's >> do welfare check if you can if if you can get him to if I can go or you can get him to me. I don't know what is within the realm of possibility but clearly she'sing lost her [ __ ] >> Okay. if she's willing to break the law and set [ __ ] on fire and who knows where he's at. Also, I called her multiple times and her mom multiple times and she said send the SWAT team and send her address and her mom's calls won't go through it all. So, >> okay. Um, so first things first, we'll just work through it in order. Uh, are you looking to press charges for >> Okay. All right. Perfect. All of it. >> So, here's what we're going to do. You got a license. The man provides additional context about their relationship, recent conflict, and her earlier unannounced visit where she removed their infant from the home. >> Funny. >> And so you were the one that she pushed past? >> Yeah, she I opened the door slightly and then pushed the door right open on me. >> Okay. Did she ever strike you or did the door strike you from her pushing it open? >> No, nothing struck me hard. Just the door definitely pushed me out of the way. No bruises, no nothing. Like I mean it just she >> I was having [ __ ] sleep on the couch. >> Sure. Sure. So what I'm asking though is you saw the door swinging open and you backed away so the door never hit you. >> Yeah. I saw I saw it and I was like I'm not I'm not going to get hit by this door. >> Right. >> Then she walked her way in, closes it behind her. Just starts. >> Has she ever lived here? >> Yeah. In the past. But she she's got her own apartment. She's got nothing left over here. >> How long uh ago did she live here? >> Over a month. So, it's been it's been more than a month and since she's lived here, >> correct? >> She doesn't get mail here. >> She doesn't get no mail, no nothing like that. Like the there's she doesn't have any access to that. She has her own apartment that I don't have access to over there. >> Um and I was here with a friend of mine and she was like, "You had a female here." Freaked the [ __ ] out. Um my son was sleeping in his room. She snatched the map out of there. He started crying everything. She tried to force the way into my room. I said, "Get the [ __ ] out of my house," etc. >> But that was a different >> That was earlier today. That was earlier today. >> Early today. >> Okay. >> Um, and since then she's tried to like fight with like verbally over text, my family, etc. She's obviously like working herself up, etc. And now she's seemed I'm not going to lie to you, she seemed I'm not like trying to add to it at all, but she really seemed quite worked up when she was here. Like definitely not. >> You're literally ripping a Bible into pieces and setting it on fire. As she walks to his room, she I hear this paper. I'm like, "Look, what the [ __ ] are you doing? You need to get the [ __ ] out. You need to get out. You need to get out. >> Officers document damage and collect evidence, including burned items while preparing to locate the woman and check on the infant. >> And she's just ripping up this Bible. I'm like, get out. Like, just go leave. >> All right. Like, other than like setting your hands on her or like [ __ ] like getting in force on force, how do you you know, you know? So, I mean, I I understand where you're at. >> How old is your guys's child? >> 7 months. >> Seven months. He's 7 months old. Um, she's 24. I'm 28. >> What's her name? >> So, I don't know. I want to know where the [ __ ] my kid's at. >> Sure. >> Um, because obviously she's [ __ ] like it it was one thing when she like stormed into my house and like ripped him out of bed and he's crying and [ __ ] Like, you know, that's one thing, but like like >> she's she's caring about >> her and getting at me, not him. Gotcha. >> You know, like I don't [ __ ] I don't care what the [ __ ] you do. Like, but be a decent parent, >> right? >> Like, like literally like like other than that, like >> like [ __ ] who you want, do what you want, have who you want over, don't care. Like, we're clearly done, >> but like be decent to our son. >> How long were you guys together? >> Like, I mean, we were on and off together through like the whole pregnancy, so like getting close like a year or so. >> Okay. So, about a year. >> Yeah, roughly. I mean, we were engaged and everything. She's got a [ __ ] big old [ __ ] rock that I've never seen again. I mean, she's she's [ __ ] taken it off a few times and [ __ ] but I've never taken it back from her, so she means she's got it. >> Um, but yeah, so I don't know if you want to come in to [ __ ] take a look. >> Yeah, I was going to say, do you have a license on you? >> Yeah, >> it's inside. Okay, if you guys want to hang tight, I'll grab my phone cuz I'd like to take some pictures of >> some officers locate the woman at another location with the infant present and safe. They initiate contact and move to detain her. Some of >> that, you know, burnt stuff. And then uh I grab the license on the front porch anymore. It's on the counter. But still burnt [ __ ] all over the front. >> Yeah. I just like to get pictures for for evidence. >> She left and I'm like >> I was going to stay on the couch. I'm glad I came out here to to kind of not have a fire happen. >> Um any ring cameras? Any surveillance cameras? No. Okay. No worries. No worries. Um hang tight. Let me grab my phone. I'll be right back. Okay. Here's like the start of the >> piece of Bible on burn top. >> This is the rest of it. She tried to burn up with a condom. I'll grab my license if you don't mind. >> Yeah. She like she like [ __ ] somehow got [ __ ] condoms out of my room. Ripped them open and set them on fire with the Bible. Like there's Bible and ash here on fire. And so like my grandfather's Bible has a [ __ ] condom wrapper in there. Next. Hi, Jessica. Hey, come out and talk to us real quick. Do me a favor. >> Where's Where's Remington at? >> He's right here. >> He's right there. He's asleep. Okay. >> Oh, he's he's teething. He's fighting. >> She is placed in handcuffs and informed she is under arrest. Officers state the charges include burglary of an occupied dwelling and arson. >> Steing. Okay. Do me a favor. Just step out here for me. Okay. Please back. We'll >> explain we'll explain everything. >> Yes. >> All right. All right. Hang tight. Relax. you guys taking a child and we'll we'll give you number. >> Actually, if you want to come with me cuz we'll do the search and then future. >> I'll explain everything to you once you get out. >> No, you need you literally put me in handcuffs. I need to reread my reading now before >> No, we're going to take you to the car. You're not controlling this. If you don't mind just grabbing it, we'll take you out to my car. All right. >> To my car. All right. What? >> Okay. >> Uh, please number. >> I will. >> Excuse me. What's happening? >> You're being placed under arrest right now. And I'll explain everything to you once you get to my car. Well, because I'm going to read to you your right so that way. >> Well, can you read them to me now? >> Well, I can't do that while we're walking, but >> Yeah, you can. >> I'll read them to you at the car. Okay. >> Excuse me. >> What's What is happening? >> You're being placed under arrest >> for what? for burglary of an occupied dwelling in a >> The woman questions the arrest, asks about her infant, and makes statements denying wrongdoing while officers secure her in the patrol vehicle. >> Arson, >> I did not burden anybody. >> Okay. Well, you'll be able to explain everything once I read your rights to you. Okay. >> Okay. >> Who's with my child? >> Uh, Officer Collins and Deputy Santos. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> No. So, my baby daddy called you guys. >> I'll explain everything. >> How much did he pay you guys? >> I'll explain everything to you. >> How much did he pay you? >> He didn't pay me. >> Why would he have to figure out my child to go to my mother? >> She's not. He's not going to his mother. Is there a child in it? >> No, absolutely not. He's not the father. He doesn't have He doesn't he never did a fraternity up to any up to >> he has a birth certificate for that child. So >> Okay. So he How much did he pay you? He >> didn't pay me anything. >> Right. Okay. >> Are you going to put your finger on my ass? >> Is there anything in there? >> I don't know. Where's my child? >> Mad, >> did you take anything to >> Mad, >> can you call my mom right now? >> 941. Tell her I'm getting arrested >> and that they have Bington. >> Okay. >> Call her again and again and again. >> Just go ahead and have a seat. I'll read you your rights and then we'll talk. Okay. >> My rights before I get in. All right. You need to have a >> Officers read her rights and attempt to ask questions. She declines to answer and continues to express concern about her infant's custody. >> Seat in the car. >> You need to have a seat in the car. Have a seat in the car. >> Okay. Can you uncut me? >> No. Just slide in. >> Didn't we go to high school together? >> I have no idea. Would you mind just slide in for me? >> I think you should tell me where my son is. >> Okay. I'll explain everything to you. I need you to get in my car. Otherwise, we're going to have to push you now. I don't want to do that. Okay. >> Where's my son? >> Your son is with Officer Collins, right? >> Can you show me him? >> No. No. Why? >> Slide in for me. >> No. >> You're going to make this way harder on yourself. Are you going to kill me? >> No, I'm not going to kill you. Shoot me in the [ __ ] face then if you want to be like that. >> No, just slide in the car. >> Why am I handcuffed? Cuz you never read me my rights and I'm handcuffed and being shoved into the back of a car. >> Correct. And I'm going to ask you some questions. I'm going to read >> and you're going to read me my rights before. You should have read me my rights before you. >> That's not how it works. >> That is how that works. Actually, >> hang tight for a minute. Do you want me to go down there? >> What's up? >> I'm going to give her a minute to cool down. >> Can one of you just go grab her stuff from bridge for me? >> Okay. Thank you. All right, Jessica. Like I said, I'm going to read you your rights and then we'll get some questions answered. Okay. >> All right. You've got the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law. You have the right to talk to an attorney and have him or her present with you before and during questioning. If you cannot afford to hire an attorney, one will be appointed to represent you at no cost to you before and during question. >> Officers explain the basis for charges and warn that continued resistance could lead to additional charges. If you wish, you can decide at any time to exercise these rights and not answer any questions or make any statements. Do you understand each of these rights if I have as I have explained them to you? >> I'm sorry. Canada does. You can't rights and writing information. >> No, that's not how that works. So, the question is, do you understand each of these rights that I have explained to you? >> So, who is my child going to? >> Oh, is dad on the way? >> Is dad on the way? >> Oh, okay. Yeah, if you just want to swing it by the jail, I can stick it into our property. >> All right. I appreciate you. Thank you. >> All right. All right. Sorry about that. We just wanted to make sure that your apartment was secure. Okay. >> Um, that was Officer Collins. >> So, having these rights in mind, do you still wish to speak with us? >> You do not want to speak with us. >> Okay. Okay, no problem. Awesome. Thank you. meeting to discuss this case. >> You guys have a foot restraint on you? >> No. Okay. >> No. I'm sorry. >> So, here's the thing. You're going to relax. Otherwise, you're going to catch another felony charge and you're going to have to go here in a foot. >> I'm going to get a felony charge because you guys are taking my child. >> Well, you're getting a felony charge for the burglary of an occupied dwelling. >> I didn't anything. What did I take? >> I I tried to explain this to you, but you didn't want to speak to me. >> Oh, I'm listening. >> Okay, slide back in there. >> Don't touch me. >> Oh, I will. >> Oh, I will. >> 6207 dispatch. I said I need a better porn out. >> Signal 14 by 10:15 just busted my door. I'm still able to transport that. >> Um, so she's being arrested for the burglary of occupied dwelling arson and then she's going to catch a charge for her criminal mis. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Any questions on that? >> No, man. I appreciate it. Okay. Thanks. Absolutely. You have a good day. >> Do you want me to call you? >> Yeah. Would you mind? >> Are you talking about your window? It was the door frame. It's now bent off on the top half, but it's still able to be secured for transport. >> The individual identified as Jessica was charged with burglary of an occupied dwelling arson and criminal mischief. Remember, entering a residence without permission and causing damage can result in serious felony charges. Actions that create fire hazards inside a home significantly increase legal consequences. This is the reaction of netzens to this situation. Setting something on fire inside a house is extremely dangerous. The officers focused on evidence and statements before making the arrest. The situation escalated far beyond a normal dispute. The tension is already high, or so it seems. what the body cam captures next saves a life pause and comment what you do here. The next incident is when stalker ex-husband meets nononsense cops after refusing to leave wife alone. >> He's going to baseball. I'm going. I'm going to be there. You're not stopping me. >> You need to leave here. I'm telling you. Resisting. >> Take my phone. JJ. JJ. Get my phone. >> Stop. JJ. Look at this. On March 2nd, 2022 officers responded to a residence after reports that a man is repeatedly showing up and refusing to leave the area near his former partner and her family. >> Every time we deal with you and they're going to call every time you're out here. >> No, do not do this to him. >> What are you doing? >> Come talk to me over here. Not in front of them. Be an adult and come over here. >> I don't trust you. >> Okay. Okay. >> You're not supposed to be here. >> I'm an American and this is my right. I just >> It's not your day to be here. We're filing another stalking complaint against this location. >> Okay. And I'm going to tell you who am I stalking? >> All of them. >> Who? I'm allowed to see my children. It's not >> your day. >> Folks, judge, for the record, I'm here. I'm here to see my boys. He's going to baseball. I'm going I'm going to be there. You need to leave here. I'm telling you. >> You You're way outside your bounds. >> You are not welcome to be here. You are now stalking this family. >> No, I'm not. That's my family. >> I am telling you that you are stalking them. >> Take me to jail. >> You need to leave. >> I'd rather you just take me to jail. I'm here playing football with my son in this. >> Today is not your day to be here. >> This I'm allowed in this street. >> Tell me the reason I can't be in this street right here. Stalking would be stop when you're open. Notorious >> stalking covers. This is not it doesn't blatant outright. I'm here. I'm not I'm not hiding it. I'm not stalking. >> I'm telling you to leave because you are stalking these people. and you're going to end up going to jail. >> Okay, I'll let you take me to jail and I want this on the record. I want my kids to see this. Hey guys, now >> you want your kids to see this? >> No, I do. >> You do not want this. >> Officers inform him that it is not his scheduled time under a court order and instruct him to leave, warning that his presence is being treated as stalking behavior. >> Playing with my son, okay? and I'm going to follow them to baseball and I'm going to until the minute they leave I'm going to stay right here and and then I'm going to baseball and I'll be back at that house on Friday and I'm going to be be prepared to go to court for this. Okay, I'm not getting this >> because you're infringing on my rights as an American. >> I am not I'm telling you to leave these people alone but you are stopping. >> You you don't have right to tell me not to go my children. Okay, >> I am telling you to leave the police properly next time and maybe I'll have a better chance in court. >> I have filed multiples on you. No, you didn't. >> And I will file more. >> Do you have children? Are you married? >> Why does that matter? I'm just curious cuz I Your demeanor leads me to believe you. >> No, sir. You're a very frustrating human being to deal with is why we keep going over this. >> It's because I keep telling you to leave this family alone. Leave alone. Leave her parents alone. You are still here. >> On the record, anytime I'm here or at that house when I have not been able to talk to my kids on the phone, you are welcome to tell me and ask what you do if you cannot reach your children. The man argues he is not hiding and therefore not stalking while officers explain that repeated unwanted presence and following can still qualify as harassment. >> You call the police and we will make contact with them and make sure they're okay. >> I'm going to come here now. I will come here and call you. I'm going to call I'm going to call the police when I before I arrive. I'm going to tell them >> and tell us what that you're stalking these people. >> No, I'm not stalking that. I'm coming to spend time with my children. >> You're not allowed to today. has gotten to the point to the point where you've been trespassed from all this property. You've been trespassed from that property. There's obviously >> JJ on this buddy. >> It's obviously >> reasonable to believe that she doesn't want you here. They don't want you over there. >> I mean, the street of my son. I haven't talked to her. >> You guys have the court order in place for a reason. Okay. >> And she's not she's not she's not >> and when a person doesn't abide by the court order, the proper procedure is to go to court and follow up with it with your lawyers. Okay? You showing up. Hi, Rosie. Hey. >> Random places. >> Hey, I'm trying to come see. >> The man acknowledges he is close to a legal boundary, but states he will continue returning daily to see his children unless stopped by arrest or court order. >> I'm not going to be guilty of the crime. What's going on here? >> What I'm saying is that one foot on this property and you are committing a crime. So, I'm saying you're very close. >> If we had ball, she'd be the king. You think I'm stupid enough to step foot on this property, sir? >> No, I'm not. >> Okay. I'm I'm actually highly educated, been to college. I'm I'm not a dumbass. You idea deal with dumbass losers all the time. That's not me. My son comes out, we play. Do you see that? Yeah. >> Yeah, I've seen that. >> Yeah. I never step foot on the property. Okay. I know what a property line is. I'm I'm a general contractor. I set surveys. I know. Okay. >> So, >> but you see what I'm saying though? If it's gotten to the point where that's even in play, like your trespass from the whole property that you doesn't prevent me the right from standing in the streets, sir. It doesn't. So, it's a gray area, but until >> a judge tells me or until you guys take me to jail, I'm going to continue to do it so that I can see my kids when I get >> What's going to happen is she's started official stalking investigations like she told you, >> it's going to add every time we deal with you and they're going to call every time you're out here. You know, they will. >> It's going to add to that. It's going to add to that. >> And then, you know what I'm going to do? I'm going to walk in front of a judge and say, "Your honor, I'm here to see my kids. I'm not stalking anybody." And I' and I've got all the videos showing you. >> And that'll be up to the court systems at that point to decide. As long as you guys respect a civil matter versus a criminal one, that's all I ask of you guys. >> Officers warned that repeated incidents will be documented and could support a stalking case. The man continues to justify his actions as attempts to maintain contact. >> Please, I just reserve the right to keep civil stuff civil and criminal criminal. Okay. >> But you understand interfering with somebody, harassing somebody, following somebody. >> I haven't interfered with nobody. I have not interfered. >> If you're here to the point she knows you're here, you're trespassing from the property. >> Okay, that's interfering with her well-being. Correct. >> No, it's not. See, that mean that could be your opinion and that could be Miss Butterfield's opinion. Okay, but it's the judge's opinion matter. >> But be up to the jury to decide whether or not you're interfering with her life. >> The jury, they're going to really uh >> But but listen to me. Following somebody and harassing somebody is a criminal offense. >> Sir, I'm not harassing her. >> You don't think you're harassing? If I go ask her, "Is he harassing you?" What do you think she's gonna think? >> Go ask her what I've done here, too. Since I >> I'm sure that's what she's doing. And I I heard the people at the last house, they definitely think you're harassing them. >> Who Who people I >> Her parents, >> listen, I respect, man. Yeah. >> Because I I know this is not easy and you deal with all sorts of [ __ ] and this is this is a civil matter, okay? And I'm I'm I'm ready to go to jail. >> There's a civil aspect to it for sure. >> Yeah. Yeah. I'd say so. Um I'm definitely not stalking. I'm open and notorious here to see my kids. I've got it on record a hundred times. So when a judge asks, you know, are you you're gonna you're gonna show up and say I'm stalking? She's gonna show up today and say I'm stalking when I clearly told her I'm not here to see that woman. I'm here to see my kids. Okay? Maybe I'm guilty of stalking them. Let's see if they can they can adjudicate me for stalking my children when I can't talk to the phone. But in the meantime, that's going to happen. And I'm sorry. I don't mean to be rude because I I'm not that guy. I just want my kids. Just I just want to be a dad. I get it. >> I just want to be a dad. Hey, good day. You know, you know, how was school? You know, >> any problems at school? Did you have a good day? I was telling >> and I get that and I wish you two could work that out where we wouldn't have to be involved in this at all. >> Officers speak with the former partner who reports frequent near daily appearances, repeated messages, and ongoing concern about the pattern of behavior. >> These type of [ __ ] These are a special breed of people that you know you probably don't you don't know. >> Yeah. But we are involved obviously now. Uh obviously there's two sides to everything. We're not allowed to take sides. Okay. We have to be impartial to to >> So just just respect civil and and criminal and and that's all I have >> cuz I I'll go I I'll sit by the judge and watch this. >> Okay. >> With these videos. >> The officer then spoke to his ex-wife >> a lot. >> Okay. >> Often at their request. I will say that. >> Okay. >> Because they don't see him otherwise. He's refusing to I don't know if he told you his whole story, but he's refusing to take his legal time with them until I sign his petition, >> which is the outrageous one similar to the last one. Okay. >> It's the same thing. And he gives it to the kids and he gives it and they give it to me. >> They give to you. >> So, and at their request, he comes to see them because they miss him. You can see they they miss him. And I I have a hard time keeping them apart from him when they have a relationship and love him. I feel like that's harsh and unfair. >> But these daily visits are awful. So he's come here every day for >> he was out of town for a week. >> So he didn't come that week, but otherwise he comes nearly daily. It's not consistent, but it's almost daily. >> Since when? Do you remember how long that's been going on? >> January 3rd. >> Okay. Since January. >> I remember this one a couple times. Okay. >> Related to like late baseball things, uh, sorry, basketball things, like sports things. So we've had him overnight a couple times. Okay. >> He has texted me over and over and over again. I will be every day at your parents house. I will be. She explains the custody arrangement stating he has designated time but chooses to appear outside of it causing disruption. She considers pursuing charges >> here every night. I will make sure that everyone knows that you are not letting me see like you know that kind of he's just >> and he sits out there like he's doing now >> or does he come up closer ever? >> He doesn't come up closer. >> Okay. the I let like I said I do let the kids out and I don't care if they play football but I just feel like this is not this is not a relationship you want to foster with your kids >> there's more to life there's more to a dad than this so >> absolutely um what is the times and evenings he's allowed to for courts talk to them about >> 3 to 6 p.m. Okay. >> Now, and that's another thing that he's always upset about because often from 3 to 5ish, they're at my parents house. >> So, to make up for that, I allow the kids to talk to him on the phone all the way up until 8 9:00 p.m. >> I do not >> 30 minutes, right? >> I don't know what it says timewise, it just says between those hours. And my frustration with it is that I read it as the kids are allowed to call him during that time whenever they feel like it. >> He reads it as he's allowed unfettered access during that time every single day, no matter what. >> Yeah. Do you want to press charges? >> Can we talk about it without small ears? >> Absolutely. Absolutely. >> I want to know all the repercussions of what that means. >> Yes. Yes. For sure. For sure. >> I mean, >> yeah. But I need to know what that entails and what that means because I would like to have peace in our evenings here. Right. Absolutely. >> Um I think the kids should be able to see their dad. I don't want to see that taken away from them. >> Right. But you don't want it to interfere with your >> I don't want it to happen here. There's no reason for it to happen here. He has legal time he's supposed to take with them. >> Right. So, my supervisor is coming out just because we told him to not be here, to not be there. And he's like, "Well, I'm coming back every day." And I'm like, >> "No." And and he's he's he's proud of that. >> Um >> I know he's trespassing from here. >> I would be going nuts if I weren't seeing my kids. I get that. I would be I would be devastated for the kids not to see me. >> He hasn't taken his time either. >> That's the issue that I can't understand. >> So, he wants his time when it's your time. And normally when you want a modification of your parenting stuff, you have it written up and then if you don't go agree with it, you take it to court. >> Court, right? >> Yeah. >> Um I think he knows that court would never >> I don't know why. Yeah. I don't know why. >> So >> we keep or you guys keep unless you guys keep going with these injunctions and they don't come through. >> Yeah. >> Do we want to step inside or do you want to come out this way further? >> Well, I mean >> do they want to get in the van? Do you guys want? >> Officers review messages and context, suggesting persistent contact and escalating behavior, noting the situation falls into a legal gray area, but may meet criteria for enforcement. >> You want to go play with daddy while he's here? >> Yeah. >> You know, my fear is always that he's going to drive off with them, right? >> Yeah. >> And um he at Rosy's request, he had them for her birthday evening. >> Mhm. and um she wanted to come home and he wasn't going to let her. You know, it's just always traumatizing, dramatic. >> Yeah. Oh, yes. >> The truth is I would love to press some kind of charges. >> Okay. >> I just don't want my kids to hear that. >> Right. Absolutely. And that's what I assume. But um I assume, like I said, my supervisor is coming out cuz he works right in the gray. Okay. >> And stalking is something where we're here for now and we can arrest him right now. I will also admit that this part I have I don't want him to know and soon enough I won't be able to hide it but I'm 6 months pregnant your parents told me about that >> it frightens me the you maybe you don't remember but I remember you were there for I was at the restaurant then here come chasing us around town and at that point I had told the >> I remember I had to like follow you home but >> yes and I had told the intended parents back then I can't do this for you under these circumstances and then he backed off >> wedding mental health or something kind of okay >> well I don't Oh, they had a he got married and I think the wife convinced him to just try to take the kids. >> Yeah. Is it the same girl from the restaurant? >> Okay. >> Yeah. And uh things were calm in the fall. >> Yeah. >> Like not great, but way better, >> right? It seems like he's coming back up now. >> It's almost I think he showed up at their house like a week ago. >> Yes, he's been there a couple times. >> Um he's he just texts the most manic things. He's >> Do you have those text messages still? Yes. If you want to screenshot as many of them as you can. >> It goes on and on and on. >> Oh yeah. >> Yeah. It goes on for a long time. And this is him always writing to pretending to be his wife. And >> that's like he's pretending to be as Christine or whatever her name is. >> He always he often signs off love always Christine. Um yeah, Jason will be having very long play dates in the street at the hostage camp every single day. >> That's over there. >> Okay. >> Um he will be keeping extra close tabs on the kids now. Yeah. Um >> he's panicking that they're with his relatives that are from Indiana who were there that night at the restaurant. >> Yes, I I remember them. Yep. I remember. Yes. >> They're nowhere in town. They're living their life >> in Indiana. It's one of these. >> It's his sister, isn't it? >> His sister and Yeah. And his mother. He doesn't. >> Do you mind taking the screenshots or if you have the screen record function, I'll send you a link. >> I have the screen record function. >> Let me go talk to them real quick. Do you want to bring the kids back inside? Cuz he's going to kind of ask him one question if he doesn't leave. Okay. Hey guys, can you come back inside for a second? >> After refusing to leave the premises, he was placed under arrest. >> I got her. >> Yeah. >> Hey, my name's Sergeant Cameron. How are you? >> Good. >> Good. Have you been requested to leave this area by my officers? Just >> go inside for me. Hey guys, >> we have been requested. >> Yes. Did they ask you to take? >> What? What area? >> Right here where we're standing right now. >> One second. >> I'm just reaching my phone. >> I got to document this because I think you were one of the guys that was there for the um >> Okay. Put your hands behind your back. >> Guys, look. JJ, >> stop resisting. >> Take my phone, JJ. JJ, get my phone. >> Stop. >> JJ, look at this. A supervising officer confirms the man has been asked to leave. When he remains, officers moved to detain him. >> Hey guys, can you come back inside for a second? >> After refusing to leave the premises, he was placed under arrest. >> I got her. >> Yeah. >> Hey, my name's Sergeant Cameron. How are you? >> Good. >> Good. Have you been requested to leave this area by my officers? >> Just go inside for me. >> Hey guys, >> we've been requested. >> Yes. Did they ask you to? >> What? What area? >> Right here where we're standing right now. >> I'm just reaching my phone. >> I got to document this because I think you were one of the guys that was there for the um >> Okay, put your hands behind your back. >> The man is placed in handcuffs after not complying with instructions to leave. He verbally protests and attempts to document the arrest. >> Guys, look. JJ, >> stop resisting. >> Take my phone. JJ. JJ, get my phone. >> Stop. >> JJ, look at this. >> JJ, look at this. Look at this. JJ, beat me up. JJ, look. As long as I'm letting go. I'm done. Guys, look at this. Guys, look at this. Ow. Ow. Ow. Ow. Video this. Cammy, get it on. Get >> It's all on video. It's all on video. >> Get a video. Get it. All right, guys. Look. I love you. Have fun at baseball. Yeah, I know. JJ, look. Stand up. Come over here. Come over here. >> Hey, guys. This is This is what you love to do. Come >> over here. No, guys. Come on. Come here. You know what? You go on between several people. >> While being escorted and placed in the patrol vehicle, he continues to dispute the arrest questions, the charges, and criticizes the officer's actions. I don't think we're 9 or 15. >> Glad you put that my children. Glad you did. >> You did that all yourself, boss. >> Stay on the job, Officer Butterfield. You really serve the community well tonight. >> Remember, it's all on video recording. >> Well, so what? So what? You know what? I I I'd love to share with the judge that I think you are a horrible police officer. Bitter woman at that. Always have an attitude. Didn't even fill out police reports. You know, you're probably bitter that you're a police officer. I don't know. You probably don't like men is what I what I'm guessing. You had no right to arrest me right there. You know what? This is going to get kicked out by the judge. And you and you put my kids through that for what? >> You know what? I got I got it all on video. It's This doesn't hold up in court. >> You never asked me to leave. You were just trying to lecture me about my rights. You didn't tell me to leave. I got the whole damn thing on video. >> It's not easy. But let me guess, you filled out your police report. Well, this time, right? >> Your high school degree. >> A lot of people don't like cops. People like you guys. One one officer there had respect and it was not you. No crime committed. >> You're taking an innocent man to jail tonight instead of going to his son's baseball game. >> I know people like you sleep at night. Know my ex-wife is a lesbian, right? Did she tell you that? trying to pick my son up and she wouldn't turn him over and you trespassed me. You're a horrible police officer. >> Horrible. >> So now I get to spend the night there. That's [ __ ] phenomenal. >> You want to tell me what you charged me with? >> Stalking. Resisting arrest. >> Oh, I resisted arrest. >> Yes, you did. >> You're a joke. You know, like really, you know, I'm there to see my kids and I resisted arrest. You are good. Well, look at you know you know I got plenty of money. You know you see more money in my wallet than you make in a month. So you know what? We'll get a lawyer to get the videos. We we'll do the dance and you know what? Fine. I'll pay. But you know what? You That's a joke. Resisting arrest. I I went to pull my phone out to video you clowns. And and and that was res No. Come on. [ __ ] We'll get a jury trial. We'll get a jury and we'll put you guys to the test. Okay. Not a criminal. Stalking. Who was I stalking today? >> Let's talk about it in the car. Who was I stalking? Ma'am, >> I've already told you multiple times. >> No, no, tell me again. I I'll check the video cuz I got 10 minutes worth. Who was I stalking tonight? My children, the grandparents, the mother. Please tell me cuz we're we're going to get you into court. You know, you know it's going to happen. You know, I do sympathize what you have to do to earn a dollar. I do. That was uncalled for. That was [ __ ] You could have just asked me to leave. >> The individual was arrested and informed of a charge of resisting arrest. Remember, repeatedly appearing at locations where you are not permitted, even in public spaces, can lead to legal consequences if it causes ongoing concern. Custody and visitation disputes should be handled through court processes rather than direct unplanned contact. This is the reaction of netizens to this situation. This shows how quickly a situation can escalate when boundaries aren't followed. The officers kept explaining the legal options, but it didn't seem to change his approach. It's a tough situation, but showing up every day like that clearly made things worse. Everyone thought it was too late until the body cam shows the exact second officers step in. Did you predict that rescue? The next incident is when entitled lady refuses to take no for an answer at clubhouse. >> Owner does something that you believe is a violation. The first thing that has to happen is >> well assault's not touching people. >> What is your >> Okay, so I'll explain it to you. Let me read it to you. On August 28th, 2024 officers responded after reports that a woman attempted to enter a neighborhood clubhouse and allegedly threw a chair at the glass door, causing concern among people inside. >> So, I don't know if Were you guys here before? >> Yeah, we're just here. >> So, that lady was trying to get into the clubhouse and we were working out and I don't think that she's supposed to be coming in. So, we weren't allowing her in. And then she was asking these kids to let her in and I told them don't let her in because I was a little bit nervous. She was out there talking to herself and you guys were just here and we're just whatever. >> So she saw me say that and she took a chair and she started to slam it into the glass. >> Did it break? >> I don't know if it broke. It might have cracked. >> John, do you have your records? >> Are you retired? >> Yeah. >> Okay. What did she do? She took those metal green chairs and threw them at the door a bunch of times. >> At the window. At the window. >> Yeah, I saw door. There we have a video. >> Broken. >> Mhm. >> We got really scared so you guys listen >> because we're the ones that look like the bad guys who pulled on her. >> Did y'all move the chair back? >> What? >> Jump the chair back. >> She put it back cuz she saw me starting to video her and then she stopped. >> Okay. Well, I mean there's no damage. I thought the glass was broken. How how sounded the car came out? The fact this person tripped or whatever. >> You have the video. >> You saw? >> Yeah. >> You saw them doing it? >> I just We're looking. >> Officers assessed the door and note no clear major damage. While witnesses emphasized they felt unsafe and recorded video of the incident. >> See if she had left. >> We couldn't I couldn't tell who was in here. We were >> Yeah, Dennis was here before. >> Yeah, but he left and I was like, "Don't let him go. I am scared." >> But she didn't realize how scary she could be. >> I don't live here. >> Well, you saw. >> Yeah. She didn't get to the game, but she >> witnesses explain prior issues with the same woman, including being told she was not allowed in the clubhouse due to earlier incidents. >> Someone Yeah, people let her in. I mean, nobody knows. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> And then she left. >> Okay. So, I mean I when I'm done deal with all this I can pay for it. Sorry. >> You know the whole back story what it's all about. >> Yeah. I was here. I was the first one to the whole board thing. >> That was me and I still trickled on on to this till like a month or two later. >> She got suspended. I mean she didn't show up. >> Okay. All right. Ma'am, raise your hand. >> You swear in the perimeter, but it gave us all the truth. >> Yes. >> All right. So, tell me what happened tonight. So, we were in the clubhouse working out and um there was another guy in there and he was and we saw the police actually while we were about like going in. >> Okay. So, so what was here before with her? Okay. >> Yeah. And then we went in and the guy we said what's going on outside to this guy that was working out and he said the lady that's been doing these like parties and making money at the clubhouse or whatever is in trouble and the cops came and >> what was that what was that lady wearing? a black shirt and pink pants. >> A primary witness describes feeling uneasy due to the woman's behavior and confirms she called emergency services after the chair was used against the door. >> Okay. >> And so we asked what's going on and he said whatever she's in trouble. So we said okay. And then she started to come to the clubhouse and try to get in and she looked like a little frazzled. And I don't know if she was on the phone or talking to herself or what, but we were like we I said told the guy cuz I was like a little nervous cuz I was like she's trying to get in and we were like three girls there. >> When did she try to get in? After we left. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> Trying to get in and we didn't let her in. We just ignored her. And then there was like kids at the pool and um she was trying to ask them to let her in and they were starting to let her in and I got nervous and I said like don't let her in. >> And then when she saw me do that she picked up a chair and started throwing it at the glass door and she was like looking at me. I don't couldn't hear what she was saying but she was like it looked like she was saying like yelling or whatever. She was upset >> and um I got nervous that the glass was going to break. She was going to get in. So, I called 911. >> You guys were in the main area of the the clubhouse. >> Yeah. >> Working out and the kids tried to let her in. You guys said no. Why'd you guys say no? >> I did because I had seen that she was just in trouble and the guy that was there before said don't let her in. And I was a little bit nervous >> cuz she like I don't know. I just was scared. Like >> you were scared. >> She was just with the cops and I didn't know what I don't know. I just >> Yeah. So she was there was nobody there. >> So you you were afraid that she was just with us? Officers ask if the witness wants to pursue charges. She agrees, citing safety concerns for people using the clubhouse. >> As law enforcement, you didn't know what she was trying to do coming in. You should be afraid. Okay. >> And the guy told us, "Don't let her in." And I just know she was like kind of in trouble about other stuff. >> Were you in a sense afraid cuz um something was going to happen to you and your friends or when you when you say you were afraid, how were you afraid for yourself? You were afraid for everybody? >> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, we were three like girls there alone and I just didn't know. She seemed a little bit erratic and I knew she was trusting you guys like I said and I just didn't know what was going to happen. So, >> okay. And with all this in mind, you wish to prosecute reference to the assault. >> Yeah. So, it'll make it safer for everyone here, I guess. >> I guess it's you going to say yes or no. >> Okay. Yeah. >> You will prosecute. >> The whole state you just gave the truth. >> Yeah. Officers speak with the woman who says she only wanted to briefly enter to use the restroom and claims she did not intend harm. >> There's no there's no absent information that you forgetting to tell me. >> How you doing? >> All right. So, I'm here again. Okay. All right. I got to read something to you. All right. I'm required to warn you before making any statement. You have following custo rights. You got the right to make. So, I'm not answering my questions. Any statement you make must be freely voluntary given. Do you understand your rights to be read to you? >> Yes, I do not. >> And you wish to speak to me. >> I don't have a reason not to. >> I can't. I need a yes or no. >> Oh, yeah. I'll talk to you. >> Okay. All right. So So what happened after I left or what happened me and my partner left? >> Um I had to go pee. So I asked the young lady that was coming out of the pool if she could let me in so I could pee real quick. And she said, "Sure, no problem." But when she went to open the door >> Mhm. >> somebody from the inside was like doing like you know I don't know but like she saw it. I didn't see it cuz I was facing the pool. >> And um she says like I I don't know what's going on. They don't want me to open. >> She explains she was told not to be let in. Believes others influenced that decision and states she remained outside before leaving. >> Door for you. >> Mhm. Okay. So, I sat back in the chair and then I um I guess it was a gentleman in there earlier, um Dennis that had told him not to let me in the clubhouse. >> He was also the one that attacked me at the clubhouse a few weeks ago. And um the police said that as long as he didn't touch me, they couldn't do anything to him. Um, so and he's been up there harassing me a couple of times, but they finally came and went to his house and told him not to bother me. He told the girls not to let me in. >> Mhm. >> The young lady and her brother left um or they went to the tennis court and then I went and knocked on I went and knocked hard on the door. All I wanted to do is use the bathroom and then come home. I'm still sweating. Um, and then I, you know, when I, when I saw they wouldn't let me in, I went through the side, came home. >> Okay. >> I'm just still trying to cool down from, you know, all the heat and exhaustion. And um, that was it. >> So, how how were you able to access the the the clubhouse >> when um I don't know his name. Um, but we walked in together. Um, it was me. The woman acknowledges knocking forcefully and moving a chair, but denies intentionally striking or damaging the door. >> The young lady and her brother, we walked into the clubhouse, not the clubhouse, but the back, the sitting area. >> Okay. >> And um I sat there. I didn't I didn't bother them. They didn't bother me. Um they they swam and I sat there just trying to cool down. But then when I had to go to the bathroom, I said, "Can you I just want to go to the bathroom real quick." And um that's when the girls were talking to them about not letting me in. So I sat there for a while. Then I knocked hard on the door and um I just left it. >> Okay. >> I just left. I didn't >> Well, from the prior instance we were here, you're not allowed at all at the clubhouse. >> Our community regulation says that if if a homeowner does something that you believe is a violation, the first thing that has to happen is a hearing. So the hearing I've never spoken to the board about their concerns. All I've been getting and I could show you threats after threats, you know, email after email, not getting in the gate. It's just been a lot. I have not gone to their house. You see, I call you guys if if I need you. I don't touch people. I don't go harass them at their house. Um but I wanted to use the bathroom and you could ask those two kids. They actually walked with me. I came here and they went to their house. you know, they were like, they don't know what's going on. And I'm like, >> so you're aware that you you can't go to the clubhouse. That's all that with the community. That's a civil matter. So you know that you're not supposed to be there. >> So you said you wanted to cool off or >> or or use the bathroom. So original person would say, I live you live five houses away from the community. Wouldn't it have been wiser to walk home then stay in the area that you're not supposed to be? The rules of the regulate, the rules of the community says that you cannot remove access um you know block clubhouse pool when it is a nonmonettory violation. >> The woman continues to deny wrongdoing and states she did not interact with anyone inside directly. >> Then I left. I was like, you know what? They're not going to let me in. >> All right. So, with everything you tell me, that's what happened tonight. >> Yeah. I didn't do anything to nobody. The only person I talked to was the sister and the brother. >> The sister and the brother that was outside by the pool. >> Yes. >> Or no, you ain't talking to nobody inside? >> No. >> What were you saying to the people that was inside? >> I didn't say anything cuz you know they were acting scared and everything. I don't know what what Dennis told them because they really look frightened and I don't know what he told them. >> Okay, no problem. Do me a favor. Do me a favor though. Stand up. >> Stand up. >> Put your hands behind your back. I did not assault anybody. >> Together like your brain. Pawn upon like your brain. >> I did not assault anybody. Officer, >> can we tell a supervisor? Because when Dennis, the same guy that was in there tonight, came in there and assaulted me, they said as long as he he didn't touch me because I didn't touch you. >> Officers detain her, explaining that her actions can still qualify as an offense even without physical contact with a person. else not touching people. >> What is it? >> Okay. So, we'll explain it to you. We'll read it to you verbatim. >> I don't know. >> How could I How can What did you say it was? >> What was that? >> What did you say it was? >> What was >> assault? Assault. >> How could I assault somebody when I'm not even in their presence? >> Well, sit in the car. Just take a seat for me. Get the air gone. >> But I need my medication. >> What the medication? >> Um, it's I need I need my medication box. What's your What's your name? >> But I did say that I need my medication. So, can we go get that? >> We'll work on that in a second. Not Not right this minute. Okay. Are you getting enough air back here? You can feel it. >> Yeah, it's good. >> Watch your knee. >> While in custody, she disputes the charges, denies causing damage, and questions the basis for the arrest as officers reference criminal mischief. >> Be right back. >> It's all good. They always scared of black people. aggravated assault. I ain't even I didn't even see those girls. I don't know what he told those girls. >> 11. We'll >> figure it out. We'll figure it out. I bet you if a white was a white person, I'd have a seat belt on. Take off your seat belt. >> How How the hell I take it off? How can I put on my seat belt? You're neglectful. >> Not me. Like, how am I going to put on my seat belt? I'm handcuffed. And he's talking about I took off the seat belt. Nobody never put on the seat belt. >> Look away from me. >> Look away. >> Yep. >> I said look away and then move your body away. >> Ridiculous. You charging me a criminal offense for a chip on the door. >> Criminal mischief. Criminal mischief. >> I didn't do that. 1,000 chips. >> You guys always overcharging black people cuz I'm sure there's a thousand chips on that door. Which chip? No, I'm not going to stop. >> You know that, right? >> Huh? >> You're still on the Miranda. Anything you say. >> I don't care. I'm telling you that you cops do not treat everybody fairly. >> So, I thought you didn't hit it with the chair. >> I did not. That's why I told you I did not chip the door. I did not touch any place. >> So, the video is not you. Your video is me, but I didn't damage the door's not damaged. I left the pool and I walked straight home. Where did I cause a scene? With whom? There was nobody in the pool area. When I walked home, I walked home by myself. So, who did I disturb? >> The individual was charged with criminal mischief and officers also referenced assault related concerns during the investigation. Remember, attempting to force entry or striking property, even without major damage, can still lead to criminal charges. When access is denied in a shared community space, leaving the area is often the safest legal option. This is the reaction of nizens to this situation. Even if the damage was minor, the behavior clearly made people inside feel unsafe. This situation might have been avoided by just leaving when denied entry. Interesting how different perspectives come out between witnesses and the person involved. You think this call can't get worse? The body cam captures the exact second officer's rush and comment. If you felt that spike,