On October 30th, 2024, deputies were dispatched following a delayed report of multiple domestic disturbances. Let's find out what happened. And I've just started learning about the whole narcissist. Like literally since all this started the past week or so, it's been popping up in my on my like Instagram feed. Like, how do they know what's going on in my life? And that's what I'm dealing with where it's all narcissist, narcissist. I'm like, that's what she calls me and and I don't really do. >> Hey, Sheriff's Office. >> Hey, what's up? >> Hey, Richard. Yeah. >> How you doing, Deputy Finnfire County? How you doing today? >> We're creeping around here. >> What the mind telling us for a sec? >> I'm fine right here. What's going on? >> We're just trying to figure it out. So, >> crazy woman. >> Yeah. You and your wife have been having some issues lately, >> huh? >> So, you and your wife have been having some issues lately? >> Yeah. She hasn't taken our kid to school in about 2 weeks now and I get a phone call every day with threats from them because I'm in Ocala every day working. She's been gone. Ghost. So, I just pulled up in the driveway. There's nothing creeping up right now. >> Three guys for me. >> That's a supervisor. I guess I'll come out anyway. So, yeah, she's just been really weird. Flaked out, gone, completely gone. Ghost, won't answer the phone. And every day I get a phone call from school with automatic recording every single day. Your child is not in attendance today at the beginning of the school day. I memorized the [ __ ] thing. So, every day I get that phone call, I'm like, "Yeah, I don't know where my wife is. I don't know where my kids are. I got three kids. I don't know where any of them are." I pulled up today, happened to leave early. Sure enough, she's running out of the [ __ ] getting in the car. I'm like, "Hey, just talk to me. Tell me where kids are cuz I can school." That's all I'm worried about is them from school. That's all I care about is I'm going to school. >> That's it. That's the end of my story. >> Which kids aren't going to school? Just the 8-year-old? >> Yeah, the other one's old enough he takes care of himself. He goes, >> "So, what happened in the house today?" >> I just I just got home. >> She been here in 2 weeks. She went to Michigan, wherever else, maybe Baltimore. I She's been around. >> I'm talking about all the stuff that was strewn about, drawers pulled out, furniture. >> There's stuff thrown everywhere. >> Yeah. How What's the deal with mostly her, but then I did. So when I came home, I was still looking for all my stuff. She's she's hid all my stuff. She puts cameras everywhere, just hiding all my [ __ ] keeping all her [ __ ] taking she just sneaks in and out and leaves it for me to all the rest of the world while she's running off, I guess, with some dude. >> Okay. >> So, >> was there anything physical during all that or? >> No, I I haven't seen her in [ __ ] weeks. >> Everything's normally fine aside from me pulling up in the driveway and actually seeing her ear. I was like, "Hey." And she freaking tried to hit me and I'm like, "Just I just want to talk." She's like, "What's going with the goddamn kid? Can you take the kid to school? I don't care about nothing else. Take that kid to school. She refuses to take that kid to school. No. >> So that's it. >> So you didn't see her last night then? Just >> No, I haven't seen her in weeks. That was the first time I've seen my wife in weeks. >> Okay. >> The oldest kid I see every couple days, but he's usually at school. I get I'm Today is my first day coming home early. I'm usually home at 7:30. >> Gotcha. in the end of uh August, did something happen both you, your wife and son, the oldest son about some text messages or something about itinerary you had it? >> Yeah. And then I guess you and some to a fight. >> I don't know about that. >> No, nothing about that. And text. >> Has there been any disturbances where you guys have been physical with each other or anything like that or >> the son? >> No. Uh you and your wife? Not really. I mean, not forever. >> The son, the the thing with him was the drugs and [ __ ] He's He's I got to smoke pot and take [ __ ] to school and I keep getting phone calls from school. I didn't get in trouble. And mostly her with her. The arguments goes between them and I'm, like I said, I'm always at work, so I just let them deal with it. >> When I get home, I have to [ __ ] [ __ ] for both of them. So, >> have you disciplined the 16-year-old at all? Like physically disciplined them? >> Not really. No. >> What do you mean by not really? >> I mean, not really. No. >> When would you say the last time you did was? >> Never. >> And what about between you and your wife? You said that they haven't gotten physical in forever. How long has it been since things have been physical with you guys? Never. >> Is there anything else you think we should know? No. >> Um, that I'll explain everything, but turn off your time being placed under arrest for domestic violence and a few other charges, right? >> She was the one arguing with him that night. Um, I'd have to remember everything exactly that that that whole thing with the plans. She was pissed off about something he wanted to do and then she started laying into me about you don't do nothing about his drugs. Yeah. I had nothing to do with any of that stuff. locked in the room with him choking a chokeold. No, no, no, no, no, no. We were definitely fighting a little, but definitely no choke holds and no locked doors, but it's not going to matter. You're going to put in the report regardless. But that whole she I noticed a lot of other things, but it's fine cuz she's the most of this paragraph a lot of things, but like you said, there's a lot of camera footage. She definitely is like 100%. I I've realized way too late that she's a what they call a narcissist, I guess, where she'll sit there and manipulate me and say things and she'll never show you the other other footage where I sit there quietly for an hour and let her just verbally verbally verbally lay into me until I finally snap and I'll flip a table. You know what I mean? Like I take the abuse as long as possible. She'll never show you that footage. She's called me a [ __ ] that wants to mother. I'm like, "What the [ __ ] are you talking about?" I just sit there and don't even say nothing. And then eventually then then the film footage [ __ ] where where the phones in each other's faces like I'm filming you. I'm filming you. I'm like yeah I know. And I'll smack the phone out. Like if that's in there, I don't know. But yeah, that's [ __ ] like that definitely happens all the time. But that bottom paragraph with the whole chokeold thing. No, no, no, no. I don't even think I went into his room really. I'm pretty sure I got outside his room and then that's when he started trying to slam the door locking it cuz he didn't want us to go. That was it. Both of us were there at that point. He did not want us going through his stuff. We He's got a serious problem. And that's the other thing. Forget all this for a minute, but just in general, something's going on with that school where he gets tons of those vapor things, the vape boxes. And I mean, dude, we've taken [ __ ] a hundred of them things from him. Probably we don't give him that kind of money. So, I don't know how he's buying them. I'm sure they're like $50 each or something. I I've wanted to go to the school and like I don't know, organize some kind of detail like where you guys can like just watch them. Watch where they go. watch who's given him those cartridges things. So, that's what spawned that whole last paragraph. Just throwing that out there for you. I know, like I said, you're going to write that regardless or whatever. >> But, there's definitely something going on at that school at Matanza High where he could get those vapor boxes by the dozens. We've taken them 20 at a time, 30 at a time, and they're all empty and beat like he's been using the [ __ ] out of them. >> So, like I said, I get home really late from work and uh Are you listening to something else? >> No, I'm listening. >> Oh, okay. I couldn't tell if you were doing your thing. Um, but yeah, I get home like 7 usually 7:00 7:30 and that's it's I'm already I've already missed the whole day of our lives and that gets her really mad. Like I'll come in and start cooking and cleaning and she'll just start laying into me about this and this. You're never here. Do you have any money? Blah blah blah. And I'll just like take it. Okay. Okay. Okay. That night with whatever that [ __ ] with the plans, I'm still confused on what happened that night cuz I wasn't He texted her something about his plans and she was so pissed off that he wanted to do something >> and I was kind of out of it like what? And she's like, "You don't you'll never do anything about it anyway." And that's when the whole thing started. But definitely the whole chokeold and me locked. He said I was locked in his room or something like, "No, no, no, no, no." I never even made it into his room. By the time I got to his door, he was trying to lock it so he could hide all his stuff in a report. And that's when I started reading that bottom thing and I'm like, "Locked in the room with something about a chokeold somewhere." I'm like, "What?" None of that. That's not how any of that happened. But whatever. I'm I'm basically nailed on everything else, I guess. Like I said, you guys will see her half of the footage and that's about it. You'll never You can watch some of the [ __ ] I've had where I I sit there and record her without anybody knowing. And I'm like I'm like if we go to judge or whatever, I'm not even going to pull it out. I'm not even going to bother. But I'll definitely record her for an hour straight and I sit there quietly. So if I'm quiet, it pisses her off. If I say something back, it pisses her off. And I've just started learning about the whole narcissist. Like literally since all this started the past week or so, it's been popping up in my on my like Instagram feed. Like how do they know what's going on in my life? And that's what I'm dealing with where it's all narcissist, narcissist. I'm like, that's what she calls me and and I don't really do much. I go to work and come home and I I do as much as I can for her. So, I don't understand. And now it's popping up in my feed. I'm like, oh, she was like brainwashed to call me the narcissist. Like, no, no, no. That's her sits here, manipulates all of it. Like, wow. Until I snap and then Yeah. And did she try and say I broke her foot? What was it about? She needed crutches or something. She's not saying I broke her foot, right? I was going to say cuz she did that. I wasn't even home that day. She broke that [ __ ] while I was at work and then I felt like she was trying to put that on me and she still blames me like my foot won't heal because of you. Like what? What? What? All the stress you caused me. Like I don't even I go to work. I don't even do anything. Well, I guess now I don't have a job, so [ __ ] it. My life's pretty much over because of this. And all I did, all I was trying to do was make her happy and be a good dad and take care of these people. And this is where I ended up. It's pretty wild. That's what when you guys ask like I'm just dealing with a crazy woman like 100%. She's insane. They know me like, "Dude, you don't deserve that shit." I'm like, "I know, but I love that woman. Do outfit for her." You know what I mean? Like anything she wants, I do it. Do this, do that, build this, build that, go here, go there. Like, oh my god, I'm running circles all day. She just works from home and tells me I don't do [ __ ] She made sure she ruined my entire life. I know that. That's for sure. They've called me so many times. Not just the recordings for the school, like the actual school calls me like, "Is he coming back?" I'm like, "Yeah, I guess. I don't know. Do you know more than me?" He didn't just get arrested. He got slammed with a list of charges: domestic battery, abuse of an elderly or disabled adult, aggravated assault, child abuse, witness intimidation, and domestic false imprisonment. Reality caught up real fast. Thank you for watching Cop Cam Nation. Be sure to like and subscribe for more juicy content.