all righty I've really been wanting to watch this Gabby petito Netflix special I didn't realize I guess it's three episode so I thought what if we watched it together I can do a lot of interrupting a lot of commentary while we're sitting here in this beautiful cold weather and my MacBook is all the way back there to try and help this video get up and make it on YouTube we will see how this works but I want to discuss it with you I've been waiting for it for so long let's see what happens thank God I've got long arms huh it starts August 12th 2021 what were they doing so this is the Moab incident girl slapping her yeah they drove off some obscure driving possibly intoxicated currently doing 45 M an hour Zone through here is 25 oh I remember this subjects hit the curb yep a lot of people were blaming the Moab police for not you know turn turn off your engine go ahead and set your keys on the dashb all right what you guys's names Gabby Brian Gabby Brian okay Gabby and [Music] Brian Gabby's crying we were camping yesterday and camping got supplies and stuff I'm sorry I'm sorry I hit thep there Brian's trying to be Mr Nice Guy I'm sorry can I get you the step out of the vehicle for yeah so he's having her step out of the vehicle some days I feel like that otd and I just I was just [Music] cleaning and I was apologizing to him and saying I'm sorry that I'm soan I'm sorry if I'm in a bad I just really I had so much work I was doing like a morning my and I'm trying to start a blog she starting her blog been building mybs really stressed he do really believe that I could do any of it and he would let me in the car before why would he let you in the car I hate that Brian wouldn't let her in her own car why don't we do this why don't I sit you down in backseat of my car you're not in any trouble okay I'm not going to be putting handcuffs on youly don't have any weapons I'm going to get you into the air conditioning let you take a breath relax a little bit there any way to get my phone back call my mom m Miss woman from Long Island need help finding her Gabby poto has not been hurt from for weeks petito disappeared while on a cross country road trip with her fiance Brian laundry so right now we are at Devil's Garden Campground Devil's Garden Campground wherever that is lady like oh I kind of want to go there where there bathtub to be her career Brian thought it was stupid oh there's her friend Rose she said Bri's home he left her in a hotel and Hew back am I able to talk to your son the laundry know what going on I knew something that happened two people went on a trip one person returned two people went on a trip one person returned this is what matters what happened over the music television screen was Gabby I was screaming what did he do seems up with his parents and he's not speaking with her family or at the laund new questions about his parents what do they really know do you think they're involved your parents imagine if check on that I think he's in trouble in the house the happiest people on social media usually have the darkest skeletons in their closet happiest people on social media have darkest skeletons Rose is saying this should be a good one maybe I can do this with all three episodes if it's allowed you know I'm making it my own I have my MacBook way back there sorry if it's hard to see but you know Netflix can be weird everybody about this Friday the 19th okay it's Friday the 19th it's oppressor we're heading to the hospital oh no Gabrielle will be coming out soon that's when Gabby was born that's right and the next time you see the film we'll be running out the house going to the hospital see you later March 19th 1999 oh this is heartbreaking cuz you see her oh she's born March 19th 1999 look her we named her Gabrielle Vora petito Gabrielle she came into the world that's Nico Schmid look at her we haven't seen these ready to go oh D's in the pool this really humanizes never stopped She gave me a run for my money she's adorable she looks like her was 20 years old when I had Gabby okay so Nicole was only 20 when had together till Gabby was about 6 months old okay her and Joe only stayed together 6 months then we went our separate ways but amicably you broke up Nikki and I realized that we were not good together but we both agreed to put Gabby's needs ahead of our own a they put Gabby's kns ahead of their own she just looks like was in preschool as soon as I gave her something to write with she was drawing pictures yeah she was very artistic to spread all of her artwork on our kitchen island and she would just sit there for hours so that's Tara gr up she did always had like such detail and Jim her step when she got older and it came so naturally without even giving it any thought she just be sitting there and 10 minutes later and she has to see amazing piece of art wow she was amazing artist when Gabby went phero she really fit in with the art community there I bet she did look at this this is when I met Gabby I was a freshman in high school and she was the grade above me I remember being excited because she was one of my like girlfriends but it doesn't have her real name we were in a group it was a lot of guys so it was nice to have her to kind of balance out all that High School Boy energy yeah so they knew each other in high school Brian a lot of our guy friends were the cooler older group of kids cooler old especially you look 10 years older than he actually was he really did look older oh I remember one of my friends met him and was like there's a narc in our high school some can't be 16 he's got to be someone undercover right now and he has like a beard yeah he has like a full beard afteru Brian shot me a text and said please let's get together he was unsure of his planned for the next few months so after graduation want go to college you didn't want toing just living to survive just Liv after he graduated he had everything he owned in his car he was staying with our friend on his couch was he living in his car just like we have a bedroom Brian stay with us we had gotten very friend National Bluebird day the bluebird is known for its beauty and the joy brings through its songs like how doray sings in her classic Bluebird on your window sill there's a bluebird there's a rainbow the Rainy Days may come and go but the clouds will soon roll away don't sweat the small stuff Bluebird happy birthday that's what Bri texted her in my room together in the desk it said you're either my best friend or the love of my life and I'm too dumb to tell the difference so he didn't know if this girl was just friendzone it was a little CU I saw Brian kind of like a brother she wanted toone he was just and I think that's kind of sort of the Catalyst of when we kind of started to not grow apart but we just weren't as close anymore okay so Brian must really loved her but she's like look you're in the friend zone you're like brother decided that he was going to this March 201 home on Long Island so he's getting his town home on Long Island tells a story about how Gabby was going to the deli okay Gabby was going Gabby Brian saw her pull over ran up to her describes it as love at first sight love at first sight but they knew each other in high school and Gabby described it as the same and Gabby described it as [Music] like pretty unique oh she was so gorgeous there you go look at that thanks now remember now you remember forever now you'll remember forever look at you look at the you oh this um think she really did love him or this version of him Brian Gabby Brian laundry and Gabby [Music] Patito I had heard about Brian while Gabby was in high school some friends that she hung out with were friends with Brian I didn't realize that that was the same Brian until she reminded me okay so Nicole meet me at home gab's on her long board whoa Brian is that's so cool Brian's laughing we would ask her are you dating Brian are you not dating Brian she's like no no we're just we're just friends so she was telling her stepmom I had this one video Brian playing the guitar to Gabby before any of us knew that they were dating and it was just like looking back now it's like how could I be so blind so Brian was playing the guitar for Gabby oh this is the famous one scene we saw made it s oh oh it's different it's so pretty so pretty when I met Brian I thought he was a little socially awkward but very polite quiet socially awkward Briant was kind of quiet your hand look in the eye yeah I liked him you shook your hand look in the ey 2019 Gabby came to me and asked what I thought of her moving to Florida with Brian oh boy I remember saying to her well I guess you guys are a thing now so Gabby hadn't come out and said we're definitely dating Gabby told her mom what do you think about me moving to Florida we're dating he's my boyfriend she admitted he's my boyriend quick are you sure the next day she was down in Florida wow the next day she was down in Florida I think Brian had something to do with that oh I think Brian had something to do with that says her stepmom like the rush for Gabby to move in with Road made it oh my God this is going to be so much fun I love that we have no obligations no oblig no obligations whatever living a dream Brian says Gabby had a little Nissan Sentra Gabby niss going drive that car all the way down there the weather's so nice it's 91° right now 91° in Florida burning [Music] hot I went to the green Bri had worked at and I said oh Brian used to work here you know he's one of my friends and she goes yeah I remember the day he left I love you you they had sat down planned for the rest of their life together they planned next day they were gone I'm my God babe look at us we drove window only the three worst fast food places that exists but we made it we made it look at this we got all the lights going that's their place I guess maybe she's just wanted to feel grown up and he probably pressured her Florida welcomes you December 2019 they'll talk about their first road trip I guess so they're somewhere in the ocean in Florida florid to be close to his nephews and his sister Cassie oh Brian's sister Brian's parents were a little bit older when they had him his sister was about 10 years older than Brian oh Cassie was 10 years older than Brian as a sister Gabby and Brian were living with Brian's parents who mve to Florida too first Gabby seemed to be enjoying it oh they're showing her insta photos Ryan's mom Roberta was sweet she a lot and she would make Gabby things oh that's sweet she would make things for started getting comfortable and not treating her as nicely oh they didn't they started getting comfy not treating Gabby as Nic Brian's mom was having problems with how much time Gabby and Brian were spending together mom didn't like how much time definitely very odd his mom was jealous of how much time Gabby was spending with at the dinner table Brian's mom was freaking out that nobody was focusing on her pies I think she got mad and wasn't even talking to them that's so weird I thought that was really strange see Brian's mom is weird Okay what does it say your mom's not in a good mood so I don't know what's for dinner Brian says a lot of days were like this when I was growing up uh Gabby says I was just going grocery shopping Brian said just say goodbye to her and Gabby says I know I'm just nervous to walk out of the room I feel like I did want something Brian says shaking my head I'm ashamed say goodbye Gabby started to feel very awkward and was not is weird soon after I received a letter in the mail from the post office that her address was changed back to our changed her address texted her and I said her parents address did you change your address back to home you moving back here and she said no I didn't change it anyway I didn't said I think it was Brian's mom but we don't want to talk about it wait you didn't do it her mom said Brian's mom changed Gabby's address back to her New York home address that's a weird boy mom she was totally jealous of Gabby and she's freaking out over this pie that people didn't pay enough attention okay here's Rose Davis Gabby's friend she's talking about in 2020 Gabby reached out to her LOL you seem fun as hell said not much said not much I'm just interested in everything what's up with you and it was the same not much watching I think they met on Bumble BFF gab and just said that sounded amazing we started messaging each other we started messaging from there we were together at least twice a week and they hung out twice a week so that's really cool I really got to talk over this music because I don't want YouTube to pick it up so they're making Tik toks and all that stuff I don't want this music to make this video not come up so sorry I will just tell you they're just talking about hanging out and the music please blah blah blah blah blah nobody she worked at Domino's as a delivery driver and Gabby would just sit in the car with Ros and ride around and everything like that and stop recording me gabby says oh my goodness will they turn off this music I hate when there's extra music like this on that YouTube might not like are you worried that I'm going through something Ro cuz this is for breaking she saw bad in everything but Gabby is making Rose realize that she should be seeing the good never had somebody make me feel so important Rose is saying and that my life mattered okay finally I think the music is over sorry pH oh somber music playing hanging out so much she like Brian wants to meet you so Brian wanted to meet Rose they were hanging out so much Brian's probably jealous like his mom we're all going to the beach together and he kind of just sat back there and read his book G and I hung out it felt like a parent was watching us on a play dat it was very weird said Brian was like parent watching her I do remember coming home and saying to my mom she's like how was it I was her boyfriend and I was like he's a really nice guy but there is something off about there's something off about him Rose could tell that just started becoming more and more clear as our friendship progressed he probably got that from his mom's Vibes very dark has dark side of him is that his car it look like the mustach oh no she's shooting oh my goodness is that a I did that in the woods when I was in Florida my goodness oh look at his artwork The Joker heal everything's so dark in his artwork compared to Gabby's oh we've seen this video a lot where he's giving her a piggyback ride oh my goodness when I was around Gabby and Brian they seemed like they seemed like this loving couples of people but when Gabby was with just me when Brian was manipulative waited an hour and a half for Gabby so we could go line dancing 30 40 minute drive 30 4 minute drive like it's taking or so like are you okay Gabby Gabby had gone right near my house and her wallet and then realized her ID was house she went back to the house Brian had it I'm to her hey yeah oh my godry I was with Brian I'm so sorry I'm running late I'm on my way stole my wallet he stole my wallet literally stole it he didn't want her know why I'm Sor she was so upset she kep saying fighting why right and she just start Shing again no explanation crying a lot and Rose is like why we're just trying to go line dancing there's Brian giving a little flower little set flow give her a bunch of things oh here's the train sorry I'm just going to let it go treat her but then you do this amazing sweet thing that she's like no I'm lucky she said she was lucky I don't deserve him she thought she was lucky she thought she didn't deserve crying really good a number on her head but when it comes to Somebody That You Love and believe is going to be the person you're with for the rest of your life and they shower you with all these amazing things it it can make you blind to see oh he was just making you cry earlier today he was just making you feel like Unworthy of his love just to then turn around and be like look what I did for you then the love bombing then the honey moon phas now we're on to July 2020 Gabby and Brian dating one year and 3 months maybe this this is when they got engaged let's see you see a campfire Bri reached out a friend says Brian reached out he was just so happy told me that he was planning on proposing Yep this is the engagement plan he told her he went away somewhere in the middle of nowhere he told his friend there's a big lake and deer and Wildlife and they just said this is so beautiful what if we just get engaged here this so beautiful what if we just get engaged here he got down on one kn down on she was proposing with no ring he was proposing with rly landed on her ring finger a firefly said that's how we knew the universe wanted us to be together the universe wanted us to be together because right but God nature wanted us to be together nature wanted us to be together oh that's so weird a firefly landed on your R finger you can't plan that so that's when they were engaged the first time but they're going to they're going to break up saw a post on Facebook from mother's finding out I remember texting Gabby right away and I said who you're engaged so Nicole's like wo you're engaged after she Facebook Brian proposed to me while we were camping it was really sweet and then I said well where's your ring and she said oh I don't have a ring yeah we're we'll get one I immediately asked Joe and you had no idea her parents had no idea gab was engaged never asked for a shocking she didn't want to tell anybody I thought that was really strange she didn't want to tell anybody that is stround it to be honest I really wasn't ready for that I wasn't expecting that at all in the beginning Gabby was excited and happy first she was excited but as time went on she kind of lost that excitement they had other plans she lost that excitement they wanted to travel they were set on it engagement they were like we don't care when we get married we just know we're going to get married let's just start living our lives so they were like okay we don't know we don't need to set a date let's start living Our Lives okay Gabby potito's journal entries and text messages are brought to life in this series in her own voice using voice Recreation technologyit connect oh that's so cool they're using much fun desig and building together even though our plans got pushed back like wedding slab plans I'm very happy she decided that she wanted road trip with the van to start a van life Vlog there's the dve to have a legit YouTube channel and a lot of followers we decided to convert it into a little Camp downsizing all of our belongings and moving our humble abode on Wheels okay she downsized all the belonging and pay for that so Gabby was working at Taco Bell so Gabby got a job at Taco Bell really liked the people she worked with she started working like 50 hours a week she was a work I have to tell them to have a tacotastic day and and I love it and I'm like you're so weird okay that's so cool she so she would work hang with YouTube That's when Brian started feeling neglected Brian's feeling neglected this possessiveness over Gabby has this possessiveness over her Brian I'll be happy when I see you but I'm so pissed right now something he said okay wellard anything that made Gabby happy with all those low lives oh he called the Taco Bell people reaching out to her mother I don't know why you had to turn into them disgusting Bri said gab's working really late every night and she's hanging out with these people and they're bad and I believed him called her mother please please please forgive me I'm calling your mom but I'm effed in every aspect of my life now I just wanted this week to go smoothly I'm crying so hard in the dumb effing bathroom typing this and I know you love me and I'm so sorry I worry you'll leave it's just something no no no honey I didn't want you to be sad today I love you so much I'm sorry he's just gasl she was like I'm making him cry I don't deserve him I'm hurting his feelings I'm a bad person he was really doing a number on that way I'm crying right now but it's okay I was just saying how was so crazy I was alone for so long and was so happy no hate Gabby said all love here she's busy working making money why is feeling that way because then she depended on him again yeah she really depended on Brian trusted him again she trusted Brian hey honey I don't want to keep bothering you my texting you how much I love you but I really miss you I'm sorry I've been so anxious I'm really trying to focus on getting our life together so that we can hit the road I'm definitely getting a lot done working on the van right now all man you took over the Spotify but you can something sorry I just got service back Gabby said I tried to text you relax she started to open her eyes ooh before B life she started opening her eyes just please stop crying and stop calling me names I know you in pain is killing me gabby was constantly over at my house and kind of getting more frustrated okay Gabby says don't try to control me because it only makes me mad I love you so much but it's the way you speak to me that hurts me most I think it was all clicking for her the more it went on yeah o look at this wow look at this artwork it's amazing it's like and the more her and I were together and talking and having a good time she actually felt more independent yeah Gabby felt better hanging out he was like okay I got to do something to change this let me isolate her get her away from her job y I get her away from her friend she only has me typical abusive behavior and then next thing you know they were gone and they were gone June 2021 wait is this the first road trip Gabby and Brian pulled up with the van I think this is the first Brian didn't say much he seemed very uh preoccupied H when they were leaving we walked out to the driveway and I gave Gabby $200 and I said this is just for gas or emergencies or whatever and she was like thanks Mom and then she started crying started crying and I was like what what's wrong why are you crying and she's like I don't know so I gave her this hug and I'll never forget how tight she hugged me so tightly and it was just the best hug ever that you could get from your kid like it was just a squeeze and I remember saying to Brian the first or the second you take care of her keep her safe mhm and he looked at me and he smiled and he said I will mhm here they go on the road trip on July 2nd 2021 one year after their engagement Gabby and Brian took off on their van life Journey see I still don't know if this is the first or the second one because I know they did two trips so here's never before seen footage I'm great oh hopefully you guys are watching this on a big TV or something okay they're getting ready I'm going to go I'm Brian they have the Raw videos think I look all right he says all right hi I'm Brian and I'm Gabby and this is our four Transit Connect that we've been living in and we thought it was finally time to give you a tour all right so we have the behind the scenes footage you can do another shot you think he said so we are currently in the Salt Flats Salt Flats the ground here is so hard oh wait I just like totally cut my face out of that entire shot the ground here is so hard and crunchy it is so open and beautiful I don't quite know where they are maybe this is I'm going to goplug in a Jacker while Brian makes us some dinner is plugging in a jackery what's that Brian's making dinner got the water boiling got the water boiling it's nice that it's so sunny here we have the jackary charging it's pulling like about 60 WS right now the solar power charger that should be able to charge all our devices we're starving so I'm super excited to eat and I think we're going to try and get some work done a Jack editing editing that's cool editing's a lot of work she I don't want to edit this at all she did a lot of good work with the vlogging Gabby was excited but she knew it was going to be a lot of work all right so I'm going to go ahead and great drone she did but she wanted this Vlog to be her career for the time being MH so she wanted to get it right she did an excellent job I mean for her first video the one that's gotten millions of views and I've got a body cam video too of the the woman who interviewed her to be a good one there I should link toing at me just want to get a really good shot of it oh no I want to get a drone it's fine cuz I'm going to cut all this out anyway so she's got her drone up going up and yeah it's that pull away shot like and Brian's standing at the van so she's practicing and everything she had here pure Raw Talent video natural Talent just a gorgeous girl I I think that my favorite part about everywhere we've basically traveled so far is I've only had like maybe two mosquito bikes the FES are driving me nice but I'd rather flies than mosquitos for sure those flies something about those flies was so o Eerie they talked about flies eyes when they were stopped in Moab ambient music play early on Gabby told me that Brian didn't think the Vlog idea was a good idea I hate him for discouraging her Vlog idea he's thinking stupid and I just like 100 times all right so we just stopped to get some gas we're really they're really hungry we're almost to our destination so I I went in the back and grabbed our uh little tray oh my God yeah how you should have seen that that was like 7-year-old driving that 44 what it's not right S I think a big reason Brian didn't wanted to do the Vlog is cuz I think he was worried that the truth of everything would be on footage there's that possibility that he says the wrong thing or reacts the wrong way while she's recording you know what is my absolute favorite part about the van the fact that we have this nice big open Flor for you to keep your dirty see that look she's joking about his dirty feet get into arguments so they would argue behind I remember that she so life is what else I want to say I like making points before as I going to cut back well if you even knew how to edit on S if you even knew how to edit on my movie at all it'd be so much easier told F over the light they're fighting over the light what a nightmare be living on the road road trip it in a lot of ways gets romanticized especially on social media life can be [Music] romanticized Li lighting is weird she said I'm going to get in those mud tubs wherever those are look so right now we are mytic H Hot Springs every H few weeks we'd have a FaceTime and recap on what she's done so she would FaceTime I noticed Gabby distanced herself a decent amount from me but she disted herself from Rose and she didn't know why it is so pretty it is a beautiful view and gr right there he was in good shape really F just kind of cut muscular people want to see this young love couple having the time of their life traveling yeah that one that's they really want to see the knit and grit of it yeah they just want to see the lovely aspects of Van life I feel bad I'm always on my phone I should give Brian more attention why does Brian needs so much attention he loves me so much I don't deserve it sh you gas her set up thinking she didn't deser he sticks with me I'm lucky he sticks with me when it was really the reverse he should have been thanking God he had Gabby and treated her so much better and not isolated her on this road trip just being so jealous possessive alienating her Devil's garden campg they're at Devil's Garden Campground somewhere I did bring the tattoo tattoo machine I think I saw how they got those tatto this is so awkward and so awkward to talk it's late it's dark I take video whatever I want and then right she can video whatever she want I just think that she was trying to convince herself that everything was okay yeah of course people do that you want your relationship to work out you know you love a person and then you don't want to go through this bad breakup you don't want them to act the way they're acting I'm sure she didn't oh there's the photo that makes me okay it was photo on Gabby's phone that makes me really sad where she has like it looks like blood smar now did that happen at the Moab stop right before well they're going on the Moab Utah stop now driv different people reported this two people mhm they just drove off they're going down Main Street what were they doing we drove by and the gentleman was slapping the girl slapping her girl he was slapping her yes and then we stopped they ran up and down the sidewalk he proceeded to hit her in the car and they drove off white van it was a smaller van was a smaller Ford Model transit for Transit all right I will let somebody know thank you see I don't think it got translated to the officers who stopped them that the witness one of the witnesses saw Brian slapping her or hitting her so they didn't have all the information right away unfortunately and that's why they were able to kind of Bri andoo them you know and and Gabby's crying turn all right can I get you to step out of the vehicle for I'm so sorry Oh no you're fine he's like I'm so sorry if only I can't imagine her parents watching this hey we got a call about a male hitting a female and the two of them getting this vehicle taken off I I I don't want to try to defend myself for here I push her away she gets really worked up and when she goes she swings and she got her cell phone in her hand so I just try to get just trying to push and you would me in the car before why would you in the [Music] car all the time and he really me out and I just this is whole rough do this why don't I sit you down in back seat of my car all right just go ahead take a seat so yeah we got all this body cam the two officers and I went and got the female officer's finally body cam from the the park ranger so I will link to that below but she talked to Gabby a little more but the audio is horrible on that one what's that yeah I just spoke to her called he called gab St out of theic all right he's just trying to play Mr Nice Guy I just tried to get her off me Mr so innocent yeah I've never heard her he really just gasit these cops right now so tell me what's going on this get wored up sometimes and I try and really de myself from her so like I locked her car and I walked away from her what happened this morning is that she was trying to start little Ace want to tell me about Strat on she hand that's why I was pushing her away cuz I she wanted I like the key is walk I said let's just take a breather and let's not you know go anywhere let's just calm down for a minute and then she had I know I I just try to push your way let's take a minute step back and Bre and she got your angry Gabby Gabby how old are you I'm you get hit the face 22 kind of looks like something might hit you in the face and then over on your arms shoulder right she's covering for did you get hit in the face she doesn't [Music] answer she Grand away and not and then I got really loud and like attention where I was going back up get away EXC me okay so you said you put shirt to create some distance obviously right what happened after that what the scratches on your ey so drinking they don't drink heur I I well you're driving driving [Music] you she's stuttering a lot she's trying to take the blame like a push she jump on me she was she was already she was already I swinging and I was and he probably scratched himself likeit the Cur is it bruised or Tender or anything like that no okay I'm fine I look at I hope she doesn't have too many complaints about me oh you're the victim of domestic assault even if calling Brian the victim of the domestic assault now that's the part that was so angry no no you you can talk to her she she seem a really sweet girl 22 or something has a lot of anxiety a lot of anxiety she's claiming she's the full on aggressor here she's claiming she's the aggressor taking all the blame having ARR it sounds like okay that's the video I got from Melissa Hole camp at devil I'll link to this below a beautiful Camp is it yeah I did any to get my phone I this is the part she's trying to call her mom I I can find out give me just a minute I'm going to close this take a deep bre okay difficult Gabby called me crying and upset so Nicole got the call she said that her and Brian had an argument I asked her what happened she said I Brian had locked her out of the van I ha that Brian locked her out of her own van she said oh my God it was just stupid and it kind of brushed everything off so she minimized how far you want to go with this like the reason why they don't give us expression on these things is because too many times women who are at risk want to go back to their abuser and then they end up getting worse and worse uh treatment and then they end up getting killed in no way shape or form that I can perceive that this is going to digress into the situation where he's going to be a battered man right but then again I don't have Crystal everything she's saying like she is the primary aggressor at0 lb female she's not a threat to him SL of braz fingernails I I don't care if if you use the actual letter of the laog to not charge but I also don't care because it literally does possibly make perfect sense to go pull on domestic assault do the whole thing should so how you make a decision yourself I for I my another option is to not charge them but separated for the night if they find themselves together again what is it to separated them provided for safety provided for his do have marks on him normally would take people to jail but he's trying to work it so you can just have the van tomorrow I don't want to be separated and Gabby didn't want to be separated not used to driving said we're a team aniy andess it's just like trauma bonding really you know you have anxiety look at the look at the situations you can get in you know what I mean she was codependent on him I think and he gets the hotel room you're going to be in a hotel room watching TV probably be watch TV she passing on her love and S good night and stuff like that all that any stuff that I do to my wife to okay so should go just just it was this a silly argument or a a silly argument where it came to putting hands on each other and he's got Mark silly arguments should involve hurting each other I know you didn't that was the intention but Billy arguments shouldn't go that far so upset Bri's he gets a ride to the hotel don't text each other tonight he want pass on the same message you pass to him look forward to talk to you again but I told him and you unless there's Earth chattering emergency news don't text tonight okay even with the good nights I love you he sign T right now he's he loves you now and he guys me know tomorrow morning okay he's going to go to the hotel I'm going to give you the keys to the V all righty just going to show her driving away also something I want you to know they stand over here real ref if you go over to City Market they have a list of places where you can get yourself a shower for like 4 five bucks Stu like that be pretty cheap place where you can shower decompress dstress a little bit all righty um we shower yesterday one of those well you didn't have today happen yesterday so it does my wife wanders when she gets stressed out it's like get in the shower get in the shower go take a shower relax take some time for yourself and like I said don't Tex each other tonight text each other tomorrow morning after your eyes open up and awake I wonder if they really stayed away from each other that night this is the part where she's going to drive away if they show that part I know I saw it oh boy you like it I was you get play your own personal music heck yeah dude I got my own phone don't hooked up to this thing yeah I want get out there it is the part where she drives away yeah you're welcome have a good one it was so haunting she seems a lot like my wife my wife has really really bad bad anxiety and she takes medication for it daily and sometimes it's just not enough and things that really works for my wife is when she gets stressed out to go take a long hot shower so I gave her a place to go where she can get a shower tonight for like four or five bucks really cheap we're going to come in here we're going to come I mean why not give Gabby the hotel room make Brian take the van I know it's not maybe register to his name but give Gabby this is all right so he's going to get you all set up with your hotel room all right all right and like I said just remember my requests it'll make I think it'll make a big difference in you guys's next couple weeks at the very least I really app that other cop the other one with the beard he's the one who said I'm desperately f as she got killed he had that later in his testimony and he had some trouble with his own estranged wife in terms of domestics I spoke to Gabby that evening she said that her and Brian just were told to spend the night apart that that's what they do in situations like this just a cool off I said I don't like you being alone in your van where's Brian going and she said oh they're taking him to a hotel I was like why is he going to a hotel and you're in your van by yourself right and I was still in shock and like you need to come home just end the trip she said Mom I I promise everything's fine we're just going to continue the trip as a mom I'd want to say end that trip too or I'm coming to get you or come home or something but I know those cops hindsight is 2020 but now this can be a learning lesson for these domestic stops and how to read between the lines how to read you know beyond what the Charming charmer is trying to tell you what's going on Gabby I'm sure I'm the last person on the planet you want to hear from T from Gabby who's texting called she or Brian had gotten in an argument oh Gabby's ex-boyfriend the phone call was a cry for help Jackson oh the phone was was wanting to get away but just didn't know how to do it she was trying to get away from him all these seconds she wasn't sure of what he would do what he could do that's like what five six days before he ended her life Brian ended her life okay that's the end of the first one oh Phil mgra okay I'm going to pause this so we can talk about that a little bit more before the next one starts but um yeah let me just say next episode and pause because I want to really see let's see what YouTube does with this oh my hair I was going to braid it up while I talk to you but that went really quickly so that was like about 46 minutes 46 is minutes and I want to put this video up raw I want to see if all this fair use commentary will be okay with YouTube we'll see sometimes with Netflix stuff it's a crapshoot but I didn't realize it was like three episodes I've been looking at myself and I got to remember to look at the camera that was really good so far I love all the behind the scenes stuff and I love I didn't know that Gabby reached out to her ex-boyfriend I don't know if we ever knew that before oh this is a great documentary it really can help in terms of how abusers how they can really pull the wool over some people's eyes and they really he Brian really pulled the wool over the eyes of the cops in Moab how he's like you know relating hey man you got Rob Zombie in here oh you can listen to whatever you want oh awesome oh yeah you know I was pushing her away and all I saw was like nails and rings and she had her cell phone so he's pretending like this little girl was scratching all over me I really believe Brian probably was like scratched himself and scratched before the cops got him out of that car so he had to make up for like I don't know when he caused all that it was like blood stains or you know it looked like blood stains like he did something to our face but obviously Gabby kept holding it in he just did a number on her mind and to tell you the truth like uh being a young girl and not having experience with these diabolical personalities you can see why Gabby was bonded with him in a way was codependent on Brian I get it I totally understand I've been through thankfully not everything Gabby went through but oh it's so heartbreaking to see how Brian called her names he kept isolating her he took her away from New York from her parents he took her down to Florida uh what's up with that weirdness with his own mom I mean that's really crazy Roberta I remember reading about that Roberta laundry was so mad because people didn't make a big deal out of some pie she made or whatever and she's all jealous that Brian's spending all this time with Gabby and remember that weird note she wrote Brian like I'll put a file if you go to jail you know I'll put a file in the cake or I will um do a shovel I I will create a shovel or you know I'll bring a shovel and something and everything she's trying to make it seem like oh no I really didn't mean that and she even remember that Bible verse she wrote but she switched it up I'd have to look in my old videos and link to it below for that note she wrote something about it was Romans but instead of like focusing on God she was focusing on Brian it was just real weird it was that's a strange relationship there and obviously Brian adapted the ways of his mom that sick relationship that sick Bond where it's like she's bonded with her son in a way you're not supposed to be like you can Mom and Sons of course have great relationships a lot of the time if it's meant to be and then when your son gets old enough you know to have his own girlfriend go off get engaged get married you let that go You like oh great I'm gaining a daughter-in-law you're not gaining like competition that you need to like oh that was so weird the way um Roberta changed Gabby's address back to New York in essence I wish Gabby could have moved back to New York and then when Gabby was working all those hours at Taco Bell and Brian sending her all these things like you're hanging out with low lives and so jealous calling her names gaslighting her oh I'm crying right now Gabby I'm crying I haven't seeing you blah blah blah he's calling her mother to say oh Gabby's hanging out with low life said Taco Bell no she was working 50 hours a week hard to um save money so Brian's home working on the van and I think did he work in Publix too I'm trying to remember this is great this first episode is great I hope I get to do this with the other two if they go through okay if I'm adding enough commentary if I'm transforming this enough if I'm making it um yeah transformative fair use enough we'll see if I talked over the music loud enough we will see sorry I know it can be annoying but this is the way I have to do it for YouTube so check the links below to that Moab officer's um body cam footage oh my goodness I don't know if I put that on YouTube yet I think I did parts of it we'll see but I just know her body cam footage was really hard to hear compared to the men um their body cam footage was better to he but oh my goodness it's a learning lesson it can really help you know younger people because Brian obviously adapted some bad ways and what about them shooting that gun that was a trip too the way Brian ended his life some people still believe he didn't end his life um but I believe he did even though it was with the opposite hand he was normally I have to remember all my videos I made about this he was um I I think he was right-handed but he used his left hand to end his life maybe he did that just to try and throw people off who knows what a sicko he was totally possessive of her and I believe at the end I honestly believe that she finally said Brian enough she probably was like I'm done with you I'm flying back home and I think that's when he ended her life and then came home without her anyway let's get ready for the next episodes let's see how YouTube does with this one the first episode was great I want to see what Gabby said to her ex-boyfriend she was probably reaching out she said oh I know I'm the last person you want to hear from but it was likely a cry for help it gets to a point and I can only imagine where you know she tried and she tried and she tried to work it out with Brian like I do I remember this I was thinking when I was her age I was involved and with my ex and I thought you know he's had a rough life if I love him enough like you know just naive you think this way sometimes as a young girl young lady if I love him enough he will see I should undo my keys so they won't keep clinking here but if I love him enough it'll show him like the love maybe he didn't get when he was younger and so Gabby might have been trying to show Brian oh you know let me love you in a way that you know your mom didn't or your parents didn't or whatever you're missing and naively you think oh of course all that love will make up for whatever he's lacking in life and he'll see you know but unfortunately some people it doesn't work it just makes them worse it makes them want to control you it makes them want to isolate you so if you are watching this anybody young man young woman whomever if a person's calling you bad names if they're trying to take you away from your friends and family if they're gaslighting you talking about oh you know if Gabby's just off working 50 hours a week at Taco Bell there's nothing wrong with that and he's guilting her for that if they put hands on you you can see how Gabby had that whatever blood I don't know what the injury was the cop saw some kind of a scratch I guess on her so all these things combined if they just don't make you feel good if they're you know fighting with you only to love bomb you later and say see how much I love you all these things are just such red flags they're horrible red flags to let you know okay let me get away from this relationship and I always wish what I could have advised Gabby to do was to secretly fly away from him if she could have made arrangements behind his back that Whole Foods video they'll probably show that coming up I think that's the last time maybe they were caught on video unless I love all the raw footage she must have just had it on her phone or in her Google account somewhere that her you know family was able to put in this documentary I'm glad her stepmom her stepdad her mom and dad bio mom and dad are in this and um the friend Rose the other friend Brian and Gabby's friend I don't know who that woman was and Gabby's ex I'm glad all these people are giving their Insight we'll see who else you know turns up but I wish Gabby could have gotten away I wish she could have when she made the decision and this is why I tell people don't confront an abusive mate if you can you know Gabby probably said and this is in no way victim blaming but she had no idea he would do what he did to her and claim oh he was just trying to get her out of her misery because she fell and all that elaborate lie no I wish Gabby could have just sneaked away from him booked a flight just called her mom on the slide and said please book me a flight and somehow gotten away from him and gotten to an airport or just taken her own van and left him stranded hey whatever I wish she could have gotten away from Brian but what most likely happened in my mind is that she likely confronted him and said I'm done and with his possessiveness and controlling nature and knowing he would never find anyone as good as Gabby because she was too good for him he chose to take her life because he didn't want anyone else to have her and then he had the nerve to drive home to his parents' home and they covered for him you know they didn't ask where's Gabby or if they did they lawyered up you know that's why everybody was going off on those laundries anyway um I think that's enough commentary for this first wonderful episode let's see how far we can get with episodes two and three maybe I'll try and do them the same way if YouTube doesn't like it maybe I won't do them at all let's just see what fair use transformation I'm doing here it's very important this Gabby Patito um Netflix documentary is very important I'm glad they did three episodes I'm glad they got so many people so many people to give their input because this is a Learning lesson I mean already Joe Patito has talked about just how many people have said look I left my I left my relationship because I watched what Gabby went through so her death will not be in vain her beautiful artwork oh my goodness her Talent her raw talent I think Brian didn't want her on YouTube because he knew how successful she would be he's he didn't want yeah their private Lives Exposed most likely because people would pick up on his weirdness his abusiveness his alien Nation he and part of me knows Brian knew the world would fall in love with Gabby and they would tell her the truth they wouldn't be calling her names and like he did and downplaying her and this stupid little blog or whatever Vlog whatever he called it she had raw talent and he knew uh-oh if the world gets this and she blows up she'll be leaving me so and she was like promising I'll never leave you it's just sad of course she had so much love to give we all do unfortunately she just gave it to the wrong guy and she didn't know he would turn into this evil monster it's crazy how they called him a narc because he looked older than everyone else in college or rather in high school he didn't go to college okay I'm going to end this here let's see if I can upload this and see what happens with this video and then we'll go from there and hopefully I'll be able to do Parts two and three in a similar way sorry it has to be so far back but you do what you got to do to try and make it fair use to try and make it fair to try and get it on YouTube and let me know what you guys think of this documentary okay take care God bless God loves us all in Jesus name let's move forward