I just want to make sure you have room to get out I'm okay okay thank you so much yeah you're welcome yeah we'll get you around after this red car and then just take your time if you need to pull over and take a moment that's fine too I'm still going water that work yeah we got water at the diser center okay you want to come out now have a good one that it work how's it going I nice to meet you you didn't trust I don't trust anybody but this is a good option I know it's not optimal but this is you not going to jail know I just I just I I can't be one in a place I don't know where I am I know need that I know I know but I mean you could you could get a hotel you could get another campground but you guys going to stay in the campground tonight okay so was it the same campsite you stayed in last night um no I actually arranged we were allowed to park in a parking lot and like stay at the arch and night and that was okay like you're like I I was going to go get a time as long as you're not sleeping in the car so you do need another place to go after the time lapse you know it takes like 4 hours to go so I was going to do it like all night and then get back in the car some like Camp there but uh cuz I know you wouldn't be right next to him but if that or you go to jail and then you're alone with without him that way as for tonight it's to satisfy the courts to basically say that we've we've eliminated at least the aggression for now we've given you guys some space and time to calm [Music] down I just don't want to be separated it was just a silly argument it's just you get walk a silly argument where it came to putting hands on each other and he's got marks silly arguments shouldn't involve hurting each other I know you didn't that wasn't the intention but silly arguments shouldn't go that far thank you thank you I you don't open I'll give money thank you I've been doing step by step with everybody else I'm no it's okay thank you sure okay not I called but it's good and did I hear correctly he's your boyfriend beonce beyon okay okay how you doing it's okay if you're not okay I just want to make sure what was that so I distracted him while we were driving and like a little bit I don't know what this guys on St I I hit him just like I can't even hit him that hard like he's really a lot stronger than me I don't know it's not I could even H him but I just hit him like slightly like I gu the chest and I sat them across the face but like open open like nor okay did he strike you at any time did he ever get physical or do you think it was all on on yourself no he did a little bit just it's not to hurt me though it's to stop me [ __ ] I am I'm not going I can't you feel really bad saying it but I know I am it's some self- reflection thinking about our actions going on that's okay we can always be better right we can always think about why we're doing what we're doing not many people get that opportunity to just pick up and go yeah I trying really hard to start like a travel Vlog take a deeper I know I know you can still do that you can still do that yeah yeah I don't know why that for a few quite a few hours prob 5 hours that the coffee shop down yeah um working really hard everything like like coms like oh it's 5 hours right I like [Music] five he has no idea doesn't even know what I'm doing [Applause] yeah we good we good 55 [Music] [Music] here 225 220 you can stand down [Music] copy that and I'll be out with youer [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] man [Applause] [Music] [Applause] all I I I was down [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] got I'm not trying to that I'm and [Music] [Music] [Music] anything he I I've been probably I wouldn't say most [Music] and then I FL [Music] [Applause] [Applause] yeah s [Applause] [Music] see got [Music] [Applause] man I don't mean to in I he have I don't want to we def D no I know how it is when I first got here more worried about what kind of guy you are Happ to have any water would you oh yeah yeah [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] I [Applause] [Music] [Music] thank you thinking do or can I give water oh no apparently they don't even drink she says that he hit the curve because punch the trouble they in yeah yeah can drink getting a little work it's okay you sure okay it's not I cold but it's it um more disagre I just was disagreement it was it was I would even [Music] call we wa says that she can only drink water okay we worried about her story like should I talk to her long oh no you can you can talk to her she's she seems like a really sweet girl 22 or something has a lot of anxiety and from much she's claiming she's the fullon aggressor here yeah that's kind of what he saying I'd love to go talk to the independent Witnesses and maybe that's what I'll go do go for it there's here's this back you might need that else that'll work how's it going nice to meet you so you're can I have a rough day it sounds like yeah I mean had two beautiful days here in the park you got C the devil's Garden Oh Excell it's a beautiful Campground isn't it yeah yeah how long have you guys been on the road five months that's a long time there are very few people i' want to be in a CW for that long from New York okay in a long dve and did I hear correctly who's your boyfriend beonce beonce okay okay how you doing it's okay if you're not okay I just want to make sure yeah deep breast are good getting that oxygen to your brain it's really good okay so can you tell me what led up to her well I was just working all morning on my computer and I had a lot of anxiety kind of but I know [Music] [Applause] [Music] think do it I just want you know the back of the van like before came here because we were out of water yeah water station over there and um I was just apologizing but I guess I was saying in a very rud tone but I was saying I'm sorry that I'm so mean and it sounds silly because I was probably saying it really mean and I think that instigated the my yeah and people don't always take things exactly how we mean them right yeah we doesn't always come out the way that we want it to and that's okay that's okay so um he me out of the car and then he kned me down and he s freeer for a minute and I was like you know that's like pleas did that kind of amp you up a little bit more maybe I know that wouldn't make me calm down like please let keep doing what I'm doing I'm angry doing it and then walk play with the keys and I had all my was was this in town yeah I is just forget it let just go get water like I'm sorry let me little distra while what was that so I distracted him while we were driving and a little [Music] bit you look a little more calm right now that's good can I get your book yeah Gabriel Gabrielle how do you spell that r i l [Music] l e t i o i o what your favor and you live at you guys both live in Florida right or that's where you my license is Florida right now CU I where you have it out of and you guys started you started traveling in New York all my are New York and in Florida oh okay where did you guys me New York we went to the same school all okay is this usually how the arguments go I mean this happened before not really not really okay not not like not crazy like this okay this is AB normal this doesn't happen a lot I think I think really dehydrated ien drink water all day yeah you got to drink that water yeah we're just we're just trying to paint a picture to get all the all the pieces together to make sure you're good make sure you're both good [Music] yeah okay I think it's his hydration frustration yeah and so you said that you guys were uh it got heated he locked you out of the car but then you got back in the car and he me out of the car just like he went walk you and was like okay so you're both you both out of the car just take a breather outside I'm going to walk over here and I was like no please be it okay and how did you distract him while you were driving you said that he kind of swerved and hit the curb you said that you were distracting oh yeah I yell and I P the shoulder a little bit like just like lightly kind like to go get you think it's safe to hit somebody while they're driving I wasn't trying to do it hard but I but then he looked at me so okay that's when okay like turn accident [Music] okay he's got some other scratches looks like on his face did you did you hit him on the arm did you hit him on the side of his head I don't know what this guy did on her face or something I I hit him just like I can't even hit him that hard he's really a lot stronger than me I don't know not I could even earn him but I just hit him like slightly like I gu in the chest and I SL them across the face but like open open like noral okay I don't I don't know if maybe my rings turn but okay he is looking at me was in his right side if he was driving or did he look at you and then no he looking at me so it would have been I don't know but I I know he's always taken he's very CL cheat he's always yeah okay I'm I'm just making sure did he strike you at any time did he ever get physical or do you think it was all on on yourself no he did a little bit just not to hurt you though to stop I am I'm not going lie I [Music] can't you feel really bad saying it but I know I am some self-reflection thinking about our actions going on that's okay we can always be better right we can always think about why we're doing what we're doing okay and so you said you haven't had a lot of water to drink today that can affect everything yeah up like staring into a computer screening anybody yeah that's a lot you you are just a fancy house PL with emotions you need to make sure you're you're drinking yeah okay have you guys been camping in the transit van too it's been great we um we've been staying on a lot of the hero yeah there's lot I have like the dirt on my phone so it you my night and um we've been following that and preserving a bunch of campground at the National Park and how much longer is the trip when were you guys when were you headed back um actually I didn't have a plan back at all our plan was and um we're going to go to gestone and Glacier and make our way to Washington and then we're going to go to courland and um that's where I kind of ended our plan start you ever heard wolf of what wolf thing it's um worldwide opportunities on organic F all [Music] like like having a can can I come true that sounds it is really cool some of them are like beautiful Farms like on in California and you get to you know Pi like their vegetables and stuff that they sell all the organ markets it's really interesting to see that work so you used to live in New York your license is out of Florida like you're moving to Portland like you were going to end this trip and then live there you weren't going back to New York um not to not to live there not like to say change my license or not to have any permanent address try it out for a little bit [Music] yeah not many people get that opportunity to just pick up and go yeah I think trying really hard to start like a travel block take a deep breath I know I know you can still do that you can still do that yeah right yeah yeah have some more water it's good for you what's making you emotional right now what are you thinking about I've just been working so hard for like the past like probably like months fing it and I just I don't know it's I only like I give I gave myself like three more days and I say I can publicly yeah and um [Music] [Applause] that like I don't know I sat for a few quite a few hours probably like 5 hours that the coffee shop down there yeah U working really hard and every like like sastic comment like oh it's 25 hours right I wrot like five paragraphs aot he has no idea does even know what I'm doing it sounds like you guys might be to work on your communication yeah have you told him how you feel have you told him how it affects you when he makes these sarcastic comments yeah and he just like well you took that long with do it I'm sorry I don't think it's funny like un like it's okay that we can take five hours for a h but we can't hours but WR about it it's important [Music] to I been trying to get him more involved you know feel I don't want to say the world because the internet is the world that's a doorway into it that's the way a lot of people use it he's like an amazing artist and he i i in control of Instagram like I pretend to be him on instam you can't even find the phot like the world needs to see this right like you do amazing stuff and well I always encourage him and he's like I just want to not have phone and be in the market like that that's great that's a great life that live but you got to tell people that you want to live that way like it's hard because I'm the opposite like I'm the computer got you want to post about it you want like you said you want to write about it yeah not not just not for anything but just to like I don't know as a way of work like I want to have a travel plot like so many people are traveling or want to travel or so many people are stuck home and maybe be V because we can't get up but I think it's very important to share [Music] yeah it sounds like you guys just need to to talk about it cuz it's causing stress that you're you're kind of butting heads on it he doesn't think it's worthwhile you think it really is and it's okay to have different opinions when it comes to blows when it comes to even just playful even just oh I didn't mean to hurt him like you were saying it it's got to be better than this you know it's got to be better than this where were you guys going to head to after this um I was going to try to get a timelapse in the arch tonight of heart actually so we were GNA fill our water in you got you got some time before it goes down you're not I wouldn't be worried about that right now that was my only plan for the day otherwise I was just working on my computer L day my plan we need a water have you guys been up to delicate before I know never okay yesterday was our first time yeah we like to call it the the license plate Arch because it's it's what you find a lot of the Utah license PL and we find that when a lot of people come to visit when they say where's the arch that's the arch they're talking about we have over 2,000 of them but that is the one everyone comes to see you have uh Footwear that's not footb like maybe better arch support or yeah what because you're going it's a trail that you're hiking straight up the Slick rock those are gonna oh not not too well for you oh no yeah I have a i there and um he actually was there he I could not do that no thank you especially with how hot the rock is I would I wouldn't even want to try I don't know you know the app I do yeah I haven't been on it but I do um he the whole thing you get ack her for that I mean that's aw I know she like send them put your name on or something so very few people have done that maybe not the entire entire seetch but like at least 95% of itar and uh I did it in my that's pretty cool yeah it was really really nice when we went up uh to the arch we went at like probably 700 a.m. so and I was it was Monday okay I was going to say you said you'd never been there the other day yeah was I don't know what day it is today I've lost back of time we we were camping in the car so um so we went Monday morning at like 7 a.m. to see the arch and uh there wasn't a lot of people up there I was really surprised there was like there's a short line to like wait and figure pict it's nice when people are actually waiting in line yeah I done that I was W been really respectful of everyone getting their photo and um so someone kind we took our photo and then we went I don't know like you know how like back of the art they like SL down you can't really get on that side there was like such like a hikers um and I thought it was safe it was still a bare rock and I thought like you're still able to go there and I found like really narrow path that I like shy myself along and there's Flat Rock like directly like arches um and then the big Flat Rock like out of I I pull out a cliff CU it was like so steep side it was like such a nice flat like de spot to sit on and it was like perfect like in the center of the AR just looking up and it was like at the right angle so you can only sometimes see people's hands sticking up when they were taking their photo um and that was really nice we sat there for a few hour and people were like how did you get over there like can I come and guy tried to come on there's some train up there got stuck he had to climb like Spiderman up the Rock and help him back out to his and she was laughing giving us a big thumb yeah thank you it was really funny that people were shouting at us like do that it was so it so nice everyone's got to get that picture right they want to be able to recreate it but yeah definitely drink your water especially on that hike that's going to that's going to drain you real quick oh yeah [Music] yeah and then it's not an enjoyable hike for anybody yeah don't do it don't do it that way so you said he doesn't like to post things but you're the one that's posting for him yeah I think that's just turn out because just because like he feels like I'm I I don't know how to explain it like I am I'm working on so much like and that like he feels bad that I'm working on too much soes him out he feels like I think it justes him out that he feels like I'm not enjoying it oh Goa and you enjoy it different ways yeah I I'm enjoying it my way what I always say um I always say I'm happy here that's what I always tell I'm happy here leave me whatever you want to do that's us how he goes for lot lots more height than I do because I like to sit back okay you want to enjoy it right there he wants to keep on exploring yeah sometimes depending on where we at how you feeling you have nothing to say [Music] [Music] hey you sweating to death yet I think we're good you good I'm going to talk to you real quick but I've been talking so much I got to get some water I'll be right there you good be right back with [Music] you now this is the water that's what we give visitors yeah okay guys when you grow up you're a full grown man this is what you'll drink from plus it's ice cold so I'm going to drink from it [Music] sorry you'll probably never be a full grown master and then you do curls with it then you can do your curls so look I'm going to speak to and I'm looking at you not so much like a suspect but also kind of a victim in the sense that you're dealing with some struggles emotionally and mentally at your age probably the work com out as you get older there's a lot of I remember being too and hopefully workself out but stuff you did say contributed to this you both contributed to this uh is as a result of your inability to coach with the anxiety so in a way you're kind of a victim of this um I think you would have done better if you had to will be better you don't learn skills until you learn skills you're not you don't have enough life experience yet to know how to navigate everything like I don't either but I what happen was your shoes I but I've got a lot of life lessons to learn still my dad and my grandpa you know they know some final right they final so in a way I'm just let you know we sympathize with you but based on what you said Bas their vict or Witnesses say based on what your your fiance has mentioned trying very hard is not to have you in any trouble he does have marks on him the witness say was like slapping him and that even you say you slapped him and and we aggressing him first and I don't have anyone saying he actually punched you aggressively it sounds like it was shoving in a manner that was probably more consistent with trying to prevent you from entering the man or to get face from you not toil you does that make sense so if the table was returned and he was beaten on you and you were shoving him of course we're going to look at like oh of course she's defending herself to get away from this guy but we're we're kind of looking at the same way with him we have to treat both Fair even if he's a bigger male and you're a smaller female the law doesn't say hey can treat people different based on gender and just can even if it makes no sense that you you probably could not physically destroy this man in the way that he could attacked you we can't treat the differ okay so all that long-windedness I'm giving you right now is leading up the fact that I put them on proceeding I have the right to give them a warning I have something called off treu but in in the legislature in Utah they have made a law that if we have a domestic assault they don't trust the police to make good decision we're not going to give you this question we're let a law that say you have a domestic assult whether it's male and female or female or male whoever the primary agress has to be charged no choice you don't get to give War doesn't even matter if it's barely at all and the guy doesn't want a test charges or the girl doesn't want to test charges you don't have a Fook we literally have to he does not want to he says you guys team he fiance he L you he he doesn't want anything happen but we saying him he don't have any so we're going to have trying to get loc uh victims get him a hotel so you can have they won't give you the hotel because you're the you're the one who primary they're going he wants you you don't have to a jail the only thing you can do is take one take you to jail because she doesn't have to go to jail then I will see help give me a hotel she have she have ticket when you get the ticket it's going to give you a phone to call and they're going to give you a cour and the cour will probably be online no it'll be online you have smartphones when happen they SS all the court from in person to online so when I go to court down [Music] I understand but we don't have we don't have if I had any this I would separate you guys today and give you warning to stop st but I lostly don't have stret I I [Music] don't you all match nicely and the incre he has HT normally we take people to jail but he's trying have tomorrow you have anxiety don't wor the very best thing I can do is call my supervisor and see if I missing something hereby gby C down and I'm going to go call a supervisor but I don't think there's much I can do but let me see if supervisor come give me a minute okay you don't have to sit out hot unless you walk no might TR Cal it down a little bit okay [Music] so this is a good option I know it's not optimal but this is you not going to jail again I know I just I can't on in a place I don't know where I [Music] am that I but I mean you could you could get a hotel you could get another campground but you guys going to stay in the campground tonight okay so was it the same campsite you stayed in last night um no I ex the ranger we were allowed to park in a parking lot and like stay at the arch at night that was okay like you're like I me I was going to go get a time lapse as long as you're not sleeping in the car so you do need another place to go after the time lapse you know it takes like 4 hours I was going to do it like all night and then get back in the car and some like Camp there but cuz I know you wouldn't be right next to him but if that or you go to jail and then you're alone with without in that way it's for tonight it's to satisfy the courts to basically say that we've we've eliminated at least the aggression for now we've given you guys some space and time to calm down I just don't want to be separated at all it was just a silly argument I was just a lot a silly argument where it came to putting hands on each other and he's got marks silly arguments shouldn't involve hurting each other I know you didn't that wasn't the intention but silly arguments shouldn't go that [Music] far I am is there any way to get my phone I call my mom I can I can find out give me just a minute I'm going to close this take a deep breath okay be right back [Music] [Applause] okay she is she likes her phone do you know Happ to know where it is without going for it where is it yeah go ahead and tell me if you don't mind me grabbing it I I can grab it because it's like it's in a spot why I go with you where are we going in the car like in something is it in a bag or it's right I've been doing step by step with everybody worry I'm not okay your pH okay thank you and let [Music] me okay thank you oh and it looks like your dad's calling right now all right I'll give you some privacy oh [Music] [Music] oh [Music] I [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] so she's better cell phone she's calling her parents just to feel better she doesn't want to not be with him tonight there that's what we said yeah nothing it's call supervisor [Applause] toing [Music] [Applause] [Music] sorry it wasn't sure if you can see me no no that's okay is it possible to maybe if anyone has service I just lost service we're probably not going to have any better Serv welcome to the park yeah okay it's weird just answer oh now one every time I answer call oh you might be able to get out texting sorry no it's okay but but just to reiterate Gabby these might be your only two options either you go to jail or we separate you for tonight and you're in a much better place tomorrow to figure it out [Music] together I'll give you some PR [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Music] sh [Music] now [Music] [Applause] think we at that point now [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] refor 2 afor 28 220 go ahead i c this 2 [Music] thank you thank you great I off I'm on the for over find spot around by way hi copy thank [Music] [Applause] [Music] you said she was and that's what caus him to she said that she no she she said that too that she started distracting him by hitting him and that he probably looked at her and that's why the Mark is on the the window side but she said it's her fault that he swer because she was distracting him by hitting him like she said she didn't try to Hur him it wasn't malicious she thought that he he wasn't listening to her so assault his an attempt was unlaw for her violence to BJ another B injury the defition says b injury is pain or physical impairment for so you can go this now no means to separated he doesn't want she's not a threat to him more than slight abrasions her fingernails I I don't care if if you the actual letter of the thought to not charge but I also don't care because it literally does possibly make perfect sense to go full on domestic assault and do the whole thing your opportunity to make well [Music] how you doing okay you get a hold of your dad yeah for a few minutes for a few minutes [Music] okay all right I'll tell you what the plan is what whatever happens from here and out learn from this do better than what happened today okay for both of [Music] you that I I appreciate that thank you that was my hope that I would I would help a little bit [Music] Yeah and we've got more water so you don't have to guzzle it there you have to get don't to nursity either we can get you some [Music] more all [Music] right you have prob picture do you happen to know where her ID is she said you would know I can get it can he come with me yeah totally you didn't trust I don't trust anybody [Applause] [Music] I [Music] [Music] [Music] [Applause] [Music] power [Music] [Music] [Music] thank you thank you I trust you don't open I'll give your money thank [Music] you can hear [Music] yeah so like I said that's what I'm going to be doing [Music] tonight yeah what did you say our planner me to get there you go so you're going to take the van and we're going to find another place for him tonight is that just one night just one [Music] night and then you can still get your your star shot your time left you want another water um okay yeah thank not a trouble [Music] [Music] [Music] [Music] so I got him the hotel room tonight so here in just a minute I have to keep you guys separated right now don't contact each other don't wor at him okay you want me to say anything to him if I can do that for you tell me to let him know that you love you see tomorrow stuff like [Music] that I'll be about that okay I'll make sure that he is okay and if I have anything else your phone [Music] on so just kind of sit call just give you some privacy okay [Music] West and [Music] might [Music] [Music] keep [Music] [Music] long [Music] [Music] yeah just [Music] to him and I don't know if I EMP you or not don't text each other tonight [Music] [Music] chattering right I'm not going to tell you be at tonight like I can't tell okay not far at [Music] all all right you want that Gatorade by the way that was embarrassing you want a radio [Music] [Music] over well you didn't have today Happ it does like wonders get get the give shower take shower tomorrow morning after [Music] [Applause] [Music] sorry about that approach I don't know what the hell I was doing it's all right it was it was an interesting bu [Music] I just want to make sure you have room to get out I'm okay okay thank you so much yeah you're welcome yeah we'll get you around after this red car and then just take your time if you need to pull over and take a moment that's fine too I'm still getting water work yeah we got water at the viser center okay you want to come out now have a good one [Applause] [Music] [Music] [Music] w can't [Music]