the refusal. A court MAY FIND YOU GUILTY OF REFUSAL AND DRIVING WHILE INTOXICATED. OKAY. IF A COURT FINDS YOU GUILTY OF THE REFUSAL, >> you will be subject to various >> revocation of UP TO 20 YEARS, A FINE OF $2,000, INSTALLATION OF AN IGNITION INTERLOCK, AND REFERRAL TO INTOXICATED DRIVER RESOURCE CENTER. THESE PENALTIES MAY report for any other offense guilty. You have no legal right to have an attorney, PHYSICIAN, OR ANYONE PRESENT FOR the purpose of taking breath samples. You have no legal right to refuse to give or delay giving samples OF YOUR BREATH. >> OKAY, COOL. >> ANY RESPONSIBILITY THAT IS ambiguous in ANY RESPECT to the breath treated as A REFUSAL TO SUBMIT TESTING. EVEN IF YOU AGREE to take the test but then do NOT FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTION NOT PROPERLY PERFORM THE TEST OR DO NOT PROVIDE submission breath samples, I will charge you with refusal to SUBMIT THE BREATH TEST. >> YEAH. YEAH. GOOD. >> I REPEAT, the law requires you to submit samples of your breath for testing. >> GOOD. >> WILL YOU SUBMIT YOUR GOOD? YEAH, SURE. I REALLY DON'T GIVE A [ __ ] GET ME OUT OF THIS [ __ ] LIKE, who the [ __ ] DO YOU THINK YOU ARE? Like your your wife is your wife in bed trying to get [ __ ] Like, get this the [ __ ] off of me. It's not funny. Get this off. Like, get this off. >> All right. >> Don't drive away. Open the window. >> Then what happened? >> Please stop. If you want, >> you're going to hit your boyfriend when you back up. >> Lock the door. >> Like, this is enough. Like, what do you want from me? >> We want you to get out of the car. >> That sucks. >> Please. >> Come on. Let's go. >> Going anywhere. >> This doesn't need to be this hard. >> EMTT, you told him to leave and that's it. Like I'm not going anywhere. >> Listen to him. Get out of the car. Make your music. >> I'm literally getting arrested for nothing. >> You're not getting arrested. >> YES, I AM. >> NO, you're not. >> Yes, I am. Because they're [ __ ] pigs. >> You're not getting arrested. >> If you don't listen, you're going to get arrested. >> Like, YOU GUYS ARE [ __ ] >> GABBY, YOU'RE NOT GETTING ARRESTED. >> YO, where's EMTT? >> Gabby, I'm right here. >> Gabby, this is the last chance. >> No. No. No. >> Once the window gets broken, >> then you're in trouble. >> You over here. Over here. >> Come on. >> In trouble for what? >> One. We're telling you to get out of the car >> for what reason? >> Well, one because you've been drunk. You've been drinking. >> You have been drinking. >> No, I actually haven't. >> Yeah. Even he said it and you said it before. >> Okay. So, we need you to get out of the car. Take a test or two. If you're sober, we'll let you go. >> Okay, great. Then show us that. However, if you don't get out, we're going to break the window and drag you out. trouble. Just step out of the car. >> I'd rather them break the window and drag you. >> Gabby, this is a nice freaking car. They don't WANT TO BREAK YOUR [ __ ] WINDOW. STEP OUT of the car. >> For what? >> You realize what they're doing, EMTT, >> get you in trouble. >> You're an idiot. >> If you are fine, you will be left alone. >> You're dumb. >> But if you don't, we're going to have to drag you out. >> Just step out. >> You're an idiot, bro. >> Nobody is trying to put you in trouble. You're an idiot, bro. >> I'm not an idiot. >> You're an idiot. >> How am I an idiot? Just >> do it. >> Do it, >> babe. Please stop, >> babe. Babe, >> last warning. Gabby, open the door. YOUR WINDOW BREAK. GAB. GABBY, THEY'RE GOING TO BREAK THE WINDOW. JUST OPEN THE DOOR. >> Last warning. >> JUST OPEN THE DOOR. >> I'M NOT DEALING WITH GETTING YOUR WINDOW FIXED. JUST OPEN THE DOOR. I don't >> care. >> What the [ __ ] is wrong with you? >> Do it. She's not going to come out and we can't let her drive away. She's been drinking. Why aren't you opening the >> locked doors, broken windows, immediate fight, boyfriend begs, she kicks. How does fear of tests ignite instant physical resistance? >> Please don't hurt her. We're not going to hurt her. We're not going to hurt her. Go and get the other pill. >> NO, DON'T. NO. NO. NO. NO. NO. NO. >> We're not going to hurt her. We're not going to HURT HER. >> NO. GABBY. GABBY. PLEASE, >> GABBY. They're not trying to HURT YOU. PLEASE. >> NO. [screaming] NO. >> NO. Why is this happening? >> We're not going to hurt her. >> We just have to Gabby, PLEASE. GABBY, RELAX IN THE FACE. >> I DON'T CARE. >> GABBY, GABBY, RELAX. >> I'M NOT DOING THIS. >> GABBY, RELAX. >> GABBY, please relax. [laughter] >> I'M NOT DOING THAT, BRO. >> BABE, please just relax. here. Honestly, what is she on? >> SHE'S NOT. SHE'S just >> I'm not see. >> There's no way this is normal behavior. What's she on? >> SHE'S JUST SHE'S JUST BEEN DRINKING a little bit. >> Been drinking. >> She's fine. SHE GABBY. GABBY, PLEASE. >> GABBY, [screaming] STOP FIGHTING BACK. I'M NOT SEEING THIS HAPPEN TO YOU. PLEASE. >> GOING TO cut your FEET NOW. >> GABBY, PLEASE. I'M NOT. NO. NO. NO. NO. >> HERE. I got >> No. Please. No. Please. Gabby. Gabby, please. I WANT YOU WITH ME, EVIE. >> GABBY, PLEASE. This shouldn't be happening. You don't deserve this. You should have never did this. We could be in bed just relaxing. We don't need this fighting. Please, just relax. You should have just been relaxed from the start. >> Just please. No, you're not. Stop saying you cannot say stuff like that. Relax. >> No, it's you. >> Please don't. They won't care. >> NO. NO. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE. She's sorry. She's sorry. She's sorry. She's sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm just I'm really scared. >> Gabby. >> Gabby, please. They care. They're not trying to hurt you. >> Calm down. >> Gabby, I love you. Just relax. >> We're not going to hurt her. >> Okay. >> I know. Just get her. >> Gabby, please relax. >> Talk to me. >> GABBY, RELAX. GABBY, RELAX. >> NOBODY [ __ ] TALK TO ME. GET THE [ __ ] OUT OF MY [ __ ] FACE. >> GABBY, PLEASE. GET THE [ __ ] OUT OF MY [ __ ] FACE. >> BREATHE. [gasps] BREATHE. >> Get the GET YOUR LEG. GET YOUR [ __ ] ARM OFF MY LEG right the [ __ ] now. >> Gabby, BREATHE THE [ __ ] OFF MY BREATHE. >> YOU KEEP THE [ __ ] OFF ME. >> GET OFF. BABE, BABE. BABE, STAND UP. I'll get OFF OF YOU. >> NO. >> BABE, BREATHE. >> YOU [ __ ] PIECE OF [ __ ] [ __ ] off of me. >> BABY, BREATHE. >> [ __ ] OFF OF ME. >> BABY, BREATHE. BREATHE. Please breathe. >> Just relax. >> You [ __ ] piece of [ __ ] >> Just relax. >> LET GO OF MY [ __ ] LEG. >> GABBY, RELAX. >> NO, I'm doing whatever the [ __ ] I want. >> Gabby. Gabby, >> where the [ __ ] headquarters? >> You're going to make this worse. Please relax. I'm coming with just got out of the vehicle right away and this whole thing could have been over with, but I I really >> I don't want to see this happen to her. My god. >> Is there a way you guys could arrest me and bring me with her? Like I'm not >> like as crazy as that sounds, I just don't want her being in there alone. >> The way she gets all >> You'd be separated in the rooms anyway. >> Well, but like in the car like I just can't like >> one just male and female can't go in the same car. >> I mean, I understand. It's just I just can't. >> Yeah. >> I mean, be welcome to sit down at the station if you want, but you wouldn't be able to back where she's getting processed. You wouldn't be with her. >> Okay. >> Well, we can get him there. >> Okay. All right. >> So, I mean, it's up to you if you wanted to her place or you want to come on. >> I really just want to be with her. But I don't This is I >> like She's She's not trying. She didn't mean to do any of this. I'm sorry that she was saying what she was saying and saying to you and you >> she just drank a little bit and she gets in a mood and I'm sure you guys deal with things like that. But >> like I really hate seeing her like this. It's really I am upset and it has to be. I just don't like >> All we had to do All I had to do was talk to you. That was it. >> I know. I know. That's all you had to do. And I tried. I don't know why she had to. >> I just >> All right. Well, let's get her downation. >> Yeah. >> Um, >> you hang out here for >> John. >> Babe, it's okay. >> And I'll follow him back. Are these yours? >> All right. I'll put him in the back of your car here. >> Babe, it's going to be okay. It's going to be okay. >> How do I get there? >> Yeah. Wait. I mean, if if you want to ride down there, I can bring you down the station. >> No, please. No, >> no. >> Can you guys one of you drive it up there? Cuz like >> she's under arrest. She's under arrest. Due to your wife, >> really? >> Yeah. >> Well, she's under for several things now. Babe, come. >> Okay. Um, >> so EMTT, do you want to go back to her place or are you just going to go you come down the station? >> No, I'll come with her. Yeah. >> Okay. I can give you a ride in my car down the stage. Like I said, you can't be with her in the process. You just you'd have to wait in the lobby. >> Yeah, I'll see her eventually, right? >> Eventually. But >> it won't be for a while though. >> You can pick her up. >> Um, I actually if you let me hold Does she have her phone on her? >> I I have her phone. I could hold Well, I know her like her password and stuff. I could call her like my dad or the mom. >> Okay, >> if you have a phone at the station, too, you can use phone. >> Okay. So, >> yeah. >> All right. So, it's get going. Um uh >> I guess in there, right? >> Yeah, we got to leave the keys in there. But I just need just the car key. The rest. >> All right. >> Oh, I didn't even know that was going to happen. You're not cut or anything. No, I'm fine. I just bought her car right now. >> [ __ ] >> Babe, I love you. I'll be right there. >> Oh, this is so [ __ ] >> I'm fine. >> Burps, spits, resets, refusal turns into sabotage. What drives someone to escalate obstruction when cooperation could end the ordeal faster? >> She's got to get out. She she just blasts the music and ignores. >> I always tell her, you know, me and her have got into different arguments. It's not an excuse to act out in such a way in such a manner. And example like this >> from lock card to refusal charge and release. One bad choice spirals. How does panic under pressure lead to charges that could change everything? Thoughts below. Like sub for raw reactions. Next. A family dispute that explodes.