i'm not intoxicated i'm not i didn't drive here intoxicated i'm i'm like i'm not okay so where'd you come from and i missed that part work in denver what's the what's the place called the state capitol building of the state of colorado colorado state capital i'm the state representative from brookfield okay [Music] southwest is five six we take you to broomfield colorado where state representative matt gray was attempting to pick up his kids from an after-school program staff members smelled alcohol on him and noticed erratic behavior from representative gray the staff called police and prevented gray from leaving with his kids hi daniel nice to meet you how can i help you so um the father and our director brian they're sitting like just around the cement labs you're just you see those like red railings yes they're sitting right over there oh you mean where the big tall black thing is right around the corner right awesome all right what's the parent's name um his name's matt gray matt and why do you suspect i'm just curious why we suspect he's in talks my staff noticed he was stumbling and stuff and so i pulled him aside and i smelt it on his breath and then i pulled him aside anymore okay so a couple of people have seen him yeah it was very obvious he was crying he's crying he was sad he would kind of get mad at me okay this is the reporting party a couple of different staff members have different observations her included smelling it on him watching him stumble around he's now crying over here with a director right director yeah literally right around the corner there um yes i am here i don't know what his car looks like sure don't mind at all we'll be in contact on the southeast corner with the mail subject how are you doing i'm doing all right how are you doing good why are you here we got called here i actually don't know the individual's name but someone concerned about you so that's why we're out here we all have tough times where is his child at uh the kids are inside his kid he has two kids or one kid i have to you guys to talk to him i'll go talk to okay i am not going to drive from this facility i have somebody else to drive me away from this facility i am not drunk you're not drunk no okay have you had anything to drink no not at all no okay cool any uh any type of substance i have anxiety i have taken medication related to my anxiety okay as you might imagine no you give me the rundown i have no idea right so as you might imagine you got your id on you real quick if you don't mind just i haven't i will give you my id if there's ever anything close to probable cause or reasonable suspicion listen man my name is matthew matt real quick real quick just i i understand that you're you feel like you're in a bad spot i'm a phone call and that's fine what's going on no let's just let's just talk real quick all we just we just need your information if you don't want to give me your id that's cool man can we get your name and debuff real quick my name is matthew gray is it with an e or an a in your last name why why are you asking me because so we self-document everybody right so it's just going to go to document who we've talked about i know i like follow me okay we're not trying to make this more than it needs to be okay i'm i'm i'm fair like follow me for a second just focus here i'm fair okay whatever happened happened can we can we just get your name and date of birth real fast my name is matthew graham my david wrote this nine twenty five eighty nine twenty five eighty i'm the state [ __ ] representative for the estate so like you can google me if you want to my name is matt gray i'm the state representative okay that's cool all right so what you need to understand is happening is i suffer from anxiety and depression okay each step that this escalates i when it occurs when i have anxiety and depression i suffer from symptoms okay exactly what you see right now okay it escalates quickly those folks denying me access to my children how many how many kids you got in there i have two in there okay what's their name i i swear to god their names are ellie ellie and theo okay how old are they they're eating six and that's all i'm saying about all this i'm not drunk i i'm not drunk and i do suffer from anxiety and depression i have called a friend okay it's gonna come i'm gonna leave my car here i'm not gonna drive anywhere that's my call take it down here csm yes okay i parked it pretty well it turns out okay what's your uh where's your address where'd you drive from i i drove here from work which is the colorado state capitol okay so you got off work today and was like oh shoot i gotta go pick up the kids oh shoot like i was scheduled to pick up the kids in fact my daughter is not getting to go to choir practice today because i am doing this right now okay all right and this right here you said you mentioned something about escalating i'm just trying to have a conversation with you man you know somebody called us i don't do you know why we're here i know exactly where you're okay you explain to me why i'm here today because somebody called you on the suspicion the fact that i was intoxicated and was going to draw my children while i was in those days okay so you already know why we're here so that shouldn't be any surprise why we're having this conversation right no i did this for a living okay so we're good then well and i literally like i have a friend who's here who's gonna drive me and my children away okay i'm not intoxicated i'm not i didn't drive here intoxicated i'm i'm like i'm not okay so where'd you come from i missed that part work in denver what's the what's the place called the state capitol building of the state of colorado colorado state capital i'm the state representative from rifle okay and would you work today what was ours from like 8 a.m until whenever i found it okay to what you know what time school that's out today it's not school this is space it's it's the after school oh god after school program for browns county and i'm telling you it's gonna like i've agreed to i've agreed to not drive my car away even though i'm not drunk and i'm not gonna so what's the reason for that what what made you come to that decision where you're like you know what i'm just going to call a friend what got you what made you do that to get my kids back okay they didn't want to release my children to me they called them they called you okay i'm sorry i know what i'm doing like it's not friend is here she's like she's around the corner she's gonna take me into kids you can watch it okay so why would they think you're drunk i that's a question for them go ask them go talk to them okay i suffer from anxiety and depression okay and you said you took some medications at some point today i take medication every day okay what's that what's the name of those no you can't give me give me a favor no no no no no no no no come on man come on like please look i know it man i know you know did you did you see the alcohol in the car i know you know [Music] that's not that's not why we're here matt okay we're not saying you got you were drinking on the way here okay i just i can't like you're taking me to the ground and it's fine like i didn't do anything i don't mean that letter on you but you said it so you know i'm saying like what's happening here you have to understand that i have to understand that i know this process like i prosecuted like 500 duis and a bunch of dv cases [Music] you guys are in a triple formation right here and i've offered to work in that where where would you like us to stand matt like what do you want us to stand out i don't break any laws i could didn't commit any moving violations and i just wanted so matt that's why we're having a conversation okay how do you want to talk to you you want to go talk to you loud and yell what do you want i want you to give practically what do you need to let me get from where i am now to where i don't drive away and i put my children who are in that building right now right and people are denying me access to my children including you but again you're just doing your job again i'm a supporter of law enforcement correct [Music] i i could yeah that would be the easiest part of my life is if i could but i've also already agreed to not do that my friend because there are police officers and people in that building who are saying that they won't let me and it's because of the evidence of the anxiety attack that i'm having which is only getting worse by the fact that i've got three police officers standing here and i know why you're standing in the formation that you're standing here because i have my hand in my pocket you're not hearing me when i say i understand what your job is we are hearing you what we're trying to confirm is that you already had a plan before we got here and you had already called a friend to come grab you that's what we're trying to get on why would you good to see you why would you call a friend to come take your kids before we even interact with them because the people in the building saw what i was going through i get not right now but thank you um and they said they had hesitancy about releasing my children to me that was their yeah so you said your friend's around the corner does she live close yeah okay like i said we're near the situation i don't even know what's going on i'm just trying to figure out do you feel like you know you're saying you are an anxiety attack do you feel like you want medical attention there's going to check you out make sure you're like okay i know i'm just asking okay because i know personally i've had anxiety attacks but have i called anybody any names or anything like if i have i said anything mean about anybody like not from what i've experienced but you know you mentioned a couple times that you do struggle with anxiety so i personally i just want to make sure that you're okay i have a lot of family members who deal deal with anxiety towards crippling you know what i appreciate i appreciate that you're being nice i can bring i my friend says she's here she's an elected official i'm an elected official i don't think she wanted to interact with law enforcement she doesn't know law enforcement the way that i do yeah it's understandable it's fine it's fine it's just i'm sorry i have to do some exercises you're fine do what you need to do to calm yourself down i don't stop you meeting my children didn't do anything i know exactly what the moving violations are i did not commit any moving violations i don't know why this is happening i'm trying to i'm trying to control i'm trying to control what's going on right now are you currently on medication for your anxiety to help do you have emergency medication to help you calm down i don't need emergency medication i need my children i'm like i'm not it's getting worse as the police are awake hi buddy be careful i mean you don't know how many cases i've prosecuted with your phone you've never did a casing i was there from 2000 12 to 2015 in the fda's office your kids know you're around thank you hey you don't have to explain anything to me i know like i prosecuted sonic rhymes and i'm like i don't they're staring at my car pointing in my car they know what they're talking about like i know like i'm sorry i'm gonna leave it here i didn't do anything they can commit any crying okay so let me explain that to you there's the two of us there's always going to be two of us just the initial one and then he's a supervisor so he's just coming to i know i get that but i'm trying to make you feel comfortable because you're explaining how this is kind of scary for you to have three of us here not scary i know exactly what's up i'm not scared i'm working on logistics yeah i'm just trying to explain it as a logistics person okay i have somebody here who doesn't probably want to interact with law enforcement she's going to hear it so i can't because is this her a small white like let's take a look for a second and realize how many small white suvs there are in this neighbor well i'm like what i need to figure out is what you need to see do you need to see me and my kids get into a car that i'm not driving so that's not going to be my decision it'll be officer abram and it sounds like he's just talking i could just be sooner rather than later when you tell me what you need to see because i haven't committed any crimes i'm the more that i am like could be detained even though i haven't committed any crimes is only going to make my condition worse yes he says anxiety i suffer from anxiety and depression so to the extent to which like i also used to work in law enforcement i'm a former deputy district attorney i never actually wore a badge but we had a badge by the first officer i never wore it but i i cried i was in broomfield for six months and then adam's for about 18. um i understand exactly what's going on but what you need to understand is my condition isn't getting like you're not going to see me drinking anything my condition is going to get worse before it gets better because i'm i have officers around me so like what i'm trying to get to is a solution point do you want to know what officers are doing right now so you know why we got no we're doing that i assume that somebody from inside that building called you they did i told you that when i walked through i know i'm like i understand you're you're used to people um being confrontational with you you're not being confrontational i'm not oh no you're not in competition but like like what i'm trying to figure out is what is it going to take my children my children are in there my friend is over there like i can show you and the staff in there like me walking my children to a vehicle that i'm not driving even though i'm not drunk and taking my children away in a way that is perfectly safe i don't like having to expose her to you but if i think she'll do it for me because she's my friend and she loves me so i think she will but like is that enough so we're what's enough we're conducting an investigation right now matt matt right we're matthew either my name is my full name mr gray right sure so what we're doing right now is we're conducting an investigation um because someone called at a concern mr gray i understand i know you had another vehicle you had another vehicle come up it's not a new it's not a news this is officer abram he's been here i understand i'm not so we just got called here because someone was concerned that you may or may not be under the influence of something and may or may not be potentially mr gray putting some children at risk that's all that's different i understand so we i would hope that you would understand that our concern is for you and the children so when we come here we want to make sure that isn't happening right so that that's what is happening right now so we want to make sure we're doing our due diligence and asking the right questions to the right people including you about where we're at okay to make sure that that wasn't gonna happen if we didn't get it i understand okay all right i'm not i i'm not i have not been mad i've not been confrontational i've just tried to explain what's going on quick question matt right matt yes okay uh do you mind doing some voluntary roadside maneuvers for me man no okay don't want to do it no so here's my here's my next thing i i respect that i get it man so my question is being that you said that you're having an anxiety panic attack ish right yeah you take medication at some point right that has nothing to do with alcohol correct okay so with that being said from the information that we have that before we got here right is that hey he's been drinking he smells of alcohol you're saying no which is fine okay it is what it is do you mind blowing in this pbt so we can make sure the kids are safe i'm not doing that don't worry i'm not driving my deal my feel is that i'm not driving okay matt you gonna let me talk so here's my ask me a question they answered okay all right here's real quick matt you drove here right did you drive here yeah okay you drove here from denver colorado because you had to work today right so you had to get the kids from base and one of them had to go to choir practice correct correct okay so you drove and you parked and you said you parked it fairly nicely okay but you walk in that building from that car and someone said you smelled like alcohol then what happened we get called is this all making any sense i assure you it's making sense okay sir okay cool so and that's why i'm just you're telling me that you haven't been drinking and you you're on medication which is listen i'm not trying to say that's bad wrong or right whatever i'm just saying if you haven't been drinking would you mind just saying hey no i'll blow on that pbt it'll show i'm not drinking you know what i used to do for a living what did you do i was a prosecutor okay okay i'm not the reason i'm not doing this anymore is that i've offered a way out of this for everyone and it's insulting and hurtful to me right that i'm being treated this way okay all right so i understand like you're trying to create an evidentiary record where i admit to you that i drove here and then you try to put pbt on me and then like if my pbt is it's hot then there's a toy case on and then it's fighting and it's not i haven't been making real quick matt i'm sorry to interrupt real quick you are i know well i got a question for you okay just real quick so if you blow on the pbt there's a possibility that it might be hot or not i i don't it's not gonna be because i'm not drunk but also it's the amount of it's i need to keep a shred of dignity in my life respect so your wife is on the way to pick up the kids no my friend is on the way to pick up the kids i'm just telling you she's actually already here she's just nervous because my right because the police are here and she can see it right in the parking lot okay i wanna tell you real quick the school call mom of the kids and she's on her way so with that being said i'm just giving you a heads up all right i'm pretty transparent here matt can you also please keep your hands out of your pockets oh [Music] listen to me okay don't make this harder than it needs to be all right i'm gonna be i'm gonna be listening to me right now okay i'm gonna be very very very informal too you smell like alcohol okay i'm just going to be honest and up front with you okay and you said you want your respect and you want your dignity to pay attention to me i i have to understand you have to understand that i am paying attention to you okay alcohol doesn't have a smell and you know that which i'll call it beverage do i smell like matthew you need to let him speak though he's trying to explain it to you we're in a good place right here matt you know that okay yeah i respect you and here's the thing matt this is how much i respect you okay here's what i'm gonna need you to do you you have the knife matt matt listen okay put the stuff down this is where this is turning right now okay like i said i'd be upfront with you all right we're trying to cooperate with you we respect what you do for the state that's great but you can't show up to pick up your kids smelling like alcohol whether you drink or you did not drink you smell like it and there's multiple people in there that say you smell like alcohol so with that being said i was trying to give you a way out of this by blowing in a breathalyzer to say hey see i told you i wasn't drinking okay it was just the anxiety pills but you didn't want to do that okay so here's what's going to happen now do me a favor turn around and put your hands behind your back please okay this is the last time i asked you man okay you can be in under arrest for driving under the influence of a known alcoholic beverage or substance to the point where you can't even pick up your kids okay so thank you okay right i got you do me a favor turn around and put your hands behind your back you think you have probable cause okay all right come on man just put your phone down there you here's what i'm gonna do i need to take it off for you actually there you go just relax all right man all right i'm relaxed i've been relaxed please please just stay chilled stay that way then please yep just stay that way for us all right [Music] i'll make sure everything i'll make sure everything comes with you man 210 251 i'll have a male party in custody am i driving instead of colorado i'm sure you already know this driving on any railway you agree to about a birth test when suspected i understand would you like a blood or breath though i did not do anything one more time because you want a blood or breath i ain't just signing okay are these custom tight are you good yes i'll make sure all your property goes with you man all right we're gonna walk back to this part of the he's getting on his stuff now we do need to talk about my wife or they're actually turning away because you haven't given me that phone right now no you're i'm gonna take the phone up there and you can make your calls at the detention center i was fine it's fine i need to now my wife doesn't need to pick me up your wife is already on the way anything else on you that's going to poke me no i i took everything else like fill me up when you need guns okay feeling i feel like i took everything i might my wallet is like i've got gum and i've got my car keys that's my car keys right here okay i had a pocket knife i think we have that in my hand he's got that you said i can throw this away you should know i'm friends with the da from the 17th okay i don't know how far we're getting on that wait i don't know where the charges are going to go i mean that's what listen man just know ryan isn't my friend like professionally not like i'm not saying i am very explicitly saying don't don't do anything that you would do differently i'm very explicitly saying that oh gotcha that's why you're under arrest like i am very explicitly saying don't do anything differently than your own leader i am a state election official and i'm friends with the elected d.a and i'm complying with everything that you right yeah do you feel like something has changed you still feel like something's different what do you mean that's what i mean i'm trying to figure out what the reason for this i'm saying the reason i'm saying that out loud is because i'm being professional about that oh okay i got you all right do you expect that i am too though i am like i'm the one wearing handcuffs to me okay okay all right survive we have one in custody okay okay what's up this is fran okay what can i do to help you uh you want to just give me a rundown of why you're here um i am i'm his best friend oh okay why did he call cause he was having a panic attack oh was he okay remember what time that call came out it was 4 59 4 59 okay 4 59 pm and what's your name real quick faith winter f a i t h w i n t e r what's your date of birth um since you're our best friend i'll give you a heads up on what's happening here i i feel like i owe you that respect for even coming to help them out um basically i'm sure you know that you got he got a call he got called in for smelling of alcohol and stumbling around the school to pick up the kids or whatever um we could smell the alcohol on him um he's denying that he drank he said he was having a panic attack which i respect um but you know with the kids and the odor of alcohol and the stumbling that's why he's in custody right now okay um did he mention anything prior to you after the conversation or anything we were talking at four earlier about work we worked together and he had had a bad day okay um so and what time did he leave work today three fifty three at three o'clock okay and where do you guys work state capital please keep that competition i'm sorry what state capital please keep it confidential oh okay i got you he said he had a bad day today yeah well i mean he's he's been dealing with a pretty severe anxiety lately okay all right so i had a bad day had to leave early because of no no the work was just done oh work was done okay yeah work was done gotcha yeah work was just done and how long do you think he's like this anxiety thing has been going on about a year that's also this just is like recent yeah like okay and when you said anxiety is like panic attacks or something like that would you say they're bad yes okay having bad panic attacks okay and what does he usually do to cope with that um he tries to exit the situation he has physical things he does like grounding himself right like feeling the ground meditation okay faith okay i understand that he's your friend okay and i explained to him that that was great that you called someone to get you out of this position that you're in okay my main question here it's with what's going on with the panic attacks and and things like that i understand you're helping as a friend but is there any other avenues that you know about and i'm not saying you're telling on him or anything i'm just i just want to make sure if he needs help then we got to get him help but if you're like no that's what he does he he stumbles around he he smells like alcohol and that's how he deals with it or is it like what helps with it is this that you know about i don't know that's why i'm asking yeah you know what i'm saying yeah so that's what i'm trying to get out of this so which one is it i mean i have been with him well he's had anxiety attacks okay right and that he presents as very drunk when he is okay right and so you know like it's i've seen him do it i've been with him before and after okay um and so you know like i can't speak for certain but i've worked him through many anxiety attacks okay i respect that and there is there any reason why you think he would be smelling like alcohol as strong as it is okay so and the only reason i ask that's because you said he's been having a bad day and you said it had nothing to do with work which is fine i mean it was a stressful day at work okay i you asked if he left because it was a bad day the work was done okay like we were done for the day but it was like man thank thank goodness it's done now yeah okay thank you for paying that pain i saw i was like yeah it wasn't like did he get his hands slapped like did he get in trouble like that's that's just how my brain works sorry about that all right uh anything else that i might need to know he's he's been going through he's been trying to find the right levels of medication for his anxiety okay do we know what kind of medication he's taking i don't know do you know have you seen him take any medication though yes okay and you don't know what that is no okay but his bag's probably in his car okay um and his he carries the prescription like it's a prescription bottle i don't know what it is is him and uh mom together okay so i don't i don't know my ass if you would rather you have the keys i'm gonna see if they because i'd rather not tow it you know what i mean because of where it's parked but it's basically up to the school if they say it has to be moved then i'll see if he wants you okay to take you cool with that okay all right let me go talk with them i don't which car are you in this one uh the white one okay cool i'll be back with you in a sec what's up if i agree to be handcuffed can i go help talk to the that's my friend no okay is there anything you want to tell her or you want me to tell her hey just tell her i can't tell that i said don't be scared yeah like i'm not like i'm willing to be handcuffed i've done nothing i've done nothing to present a threat to anybody whatsoever okay but but like he's will you tell her i that i'm handcuffed in the background police garner don't be scared can you say that please can she approach no why like what what's the risk like she's gonna we're gonna make a break for it no so we're just gonna talk to her over there but i know but she means a lot to me and she's my friend and like like she can't approach from a great distance with you in between so like rules of engagement say that like so what do you need to discuss with her that we can't relate for you she's somebody that i love very much and is going to be really scared about what's happening okay and there's a human aspect of oil i hear you and also like i mean y'all can believe it you want to leave like she's thinking like she's my friend and i want her to hear my voice i want her here to hurt to hear my voice and to understand that whatever's happened here today like i've never been in handcuffs before i've also never been pulled over for a violation moving violation before okay this is not a this is not a real case and that's fine but like she can't stand 15 feet away and i can talk to her and look her in the eyes like that's a problem so what's the risk there i mean to be quite frank with you there isn't a risk okay but officer abram is currently speaking to her okay so after he's done speaking her if he wants if he says that she can come over here and talk to you you know that's just his choice right now like she's not a witness but i can't make that choice for him right now do you know what i mean i am like completely unashamed if you can put the request into officer abrams okay that she gets to stand at a decent level away to present snow threat like like okay like like okay but it's going to be ultimately his choice okay all right typically i'll be i'll be quite frank with you typically i don't allow that because of sometimes people can get riled up over it when they see somebody that they care about in the back of a police car i just mean that not you didn't feel my kids okay did i yell did i scream no you didn't however okay i'm just telling you my procedure will be asking please before she leaves before she leaves hey abram he wants to speak with her you got it he said she decided that she's gonna head out so you can call her tell her that i no i can't call her because i'm a handcuffed and i know on my phone so once you get up to the detention center they're gonna give you your phone and let you get any phone numbers out that you need okay once you're up there they let you make phone calls and you can call her okay are you hot back here do you want the windows down a little bit no okay 250 121 just for information keeps kicking the car to get my attention hello um so he's just talking with your wife it sounds like right now did you want the windows down for some air yes i haven't talked to my wife in days okay sorry i'm telling the truth what's going on and you have to understand i am using the strategies that i have if you're having an anxiety attack like i'm i'm waiting as long as i can wait okay that's fine i know you don't i don't get to choose okay do you feel like you need medical attention i feel like i need emotional attention okay it's fine i'll keep sitting here okay i don't know why hey i have to sit here and have it and cuffs to talk to my ex-wife she's not my wife she's gonna ask me okay she's not a witness to those kids okay officer abram's just speaking with her i understand that and he should be done she's gonna say some things about me i know what she's gonna say about me there's a reason she's my ex-wife okay but she's not a witness to this case i have not seen her in weeks so she's not a witness to this cakes okay and for my my hope in prayer for you is that you've never suffered from anxiety or depression but i'm the one who's going to drop the bag of spawn car nobody else in this i hear you but that's why i'm offering you if you do want to get checked out by medical that you have that opportunity it's not that like i know exactly what medical i need i need to get out of handcuffs i'm not getting a backup squad car which is not going to take that long once we start the logistic process but like my ex-wife is going to be saying bad things about me as xyz i promise to do okay well he told me that he's only going to be there for a few more minutes and he'll be right back okay okay all right can you put the window down yeah i can roll down the window for you for some air he just keeps kicking um i'm gonna give her if i'm gonna give you a witness statement to give to her yeah um and she'd probably take a few minutes to fill it out if you just want to grab that for me i'll grab one and then give it to her oh you got it okay cool um did you talk to school about the card or you knew we do that oh i forgot about that don't worry i'll do take care of it yeah but yeah i think we're good um do you have any questions for me you hit me up or i'll see you later whatever actually i'm having to take it and book it for safekeeping let's find out now if they want the car move because i want to know if there's anything yeah what's up man well i'm doing great right now okay calming down a little bit i was never upset no they said you were trying to you were kicking out the door trying to get the attention just to get attention just to figure out what's going on not like i was out being outraged or anything no my hands have happened to me handcuffed behind my back so i can't knock i can't step out and talk about it you're right you're right all right so what's happening here we're going to go up to the detention center all right you're going to be booked into jail from driving under the suspicion of dui or unknown substance um i had to talk to your friend faith she said you know mention the panic attacks that you've been going through it's been a rough time to talk to wife whatever the situation is there later on the day after they book you in they'll figure out if your bond you can find out today or whatnot i mean i'm sure you know all about that okay so i'm going to get on the way um you need me to turn ac up for you you hot or you just want me to roll the windows down and write this in our part like i i don't know if you've ever been through an anxiety attack but about being handcuffed and put in the back of the squad car and left alone well it doesn't help okay and i want you to people can say whatever they would whatever they said about me well nobody's talking bad about you man i am what up that's what i'm saying like um i didn't yell once okay i didn't scream once i didn't present any threat to anybody once i didn't drive my car poorly once i've accepted i've accepted the way that people have interpreted my mental illness it's never been this extreme okay extreme obviously but i never drove i never drove poorly i never drove unsafely i never drove under the influence a alcohol okay and right now i'm using all of the tools that i have to stay calm okay i know my wife has been here my ex-wife actually goes my ex-wife is here my best friend is sitting right there she's not leaving until she sees me leave okay i'm keeping it under control i just i'll deal with it like i also know i know what no drive do you eyes look like i know i'm not gonna get into a okay because i didn't commit a crime okay and i refused to act like i did i would refuse to act like i did and i'm not i don't want you to listen you know the process you know how it works i know we're just going through it i understand so do you understand that i have to do this i don't you do need to like here's the thing and i want to i want to go because i want to be done okay i don't think you do need to here here's what i'm going to do for you real quick man we're going to get on the road and you can tell me all about it okay that cool is that better for you do you want me to roll the windows down or do you want to turn the ac up either way all right cool so since you said you've uh never been here in this capacity real quick just sometimes work there you go come on you need help all right it's okay okay i can't do it do me a favor can you just read yourself whatever one you prefer okay this way and then this one here i just i understand interesting all right and then can i hear this too that you agree and understand i don't think i'm at the place where i require my help okay i'm saying like i could that could change okay like i'm here because of anxiety issues and i'm not saying that this is not going to aggravate those okay gray was charged with driving while under the influence of alcohol he is to be arraigned on june 8th 2022 it is unclear if he will resign from his 40 000 a year elected position