I have tried to break up with him. He doesn't want to leave on his own. On December 5th, 2022, officers responded to a residence in reference to a domestic dispute. [Music] Come on, S. I have a 28 for you. Silver focus. It ain't no stupid come outside. I have no problem. You all smoking and I'm tired. What's up, man? Go ahead. You stupid every day. I'm not putting up with you. I'm not. Hey, good afternoon or morning. Actually, afternoon. Yeah. Hey, I'm I came home with attitude. I'm I'm officer Marsden. You probably remember me with London the other day. So, what's going on, man? Want to come outside and talk to me or? Yeah, you can come in. All right. Why don't you come over here, man? Stand over here. All right. Man, hey Harney, come over here, will you? I already got that. It's your car. Yep. All right. So, what's going on? It's just stupid there. Okay. Well, anything in particular today is what's making you What? What specifically make you upset? Okay. No, I did move here. Right. Yeah. I ain't got nothing. I just moved here. I've been here. Yeah. Right. My friend girl called me and she said, "Tiger, I'm going to come on my break to see where you stay." Okay. I said, "Okay, cool. No problem." Then she was on the coming because she was on her break. She going to need to go back to work. Mhm. He got a problem where he have a jealousy problem. He have a tense and he don't like to be nobody around. Cool. Whatever. Okay. But you come in the house, you got an attitude problem. You got an issue. Mhm. You're slamming doors. You're pushing people. You got an attitude. My friend don't like you. You don't like her. That's not a problem. I have no issue with that. She haven't said nothing to you out the way. You haven't said anything to her, but you walking around here slamming doors. Thank you. You walking around here. You slamming doors. You pushing me. You got attitude. So therefore, that lets me know you mad because somebody here in my house. So at the end of the day, I pay my own bills. I pay my own rent. Okay. You're not going to come here and do what you want to do. So is this is this your home? Yes. Is it? No. I Does he have anything here? Toothbrush, clothing? Clothe. That's it. that you took a bath to go to work. How long has he been here with you? Since you first moved in. Um, since I got here and Clark County been out here before, they told me, they were like, "By you just haven't stayed in the house, you haven't been here for 30 days. The way Georgia law runs, you're going to have to file eviction or if you have multiple calls and multiple complaints about the issues that y'all have going on." Okay. When we ran the background for both of y'all, yes, we see like you got too many cops. You got 52 cops. That's a lot of cops. Mhm. What we can tell you to do is you can go get you a restraining order. Go to Clark County. Talk to them. See what they want you to do. Go from there. Officers know this couple all too well. They've been on the channel before. Here's a quick clip of another encounter 5 months later, which is clearly they don't like each other because the little girls don't like me. Hello y'all. I like you. He practices voodoo. What's up? text, but like he's also abusive. It's something someone gave me. Be more specific for my curiosity, please. I got scared. I had caught one. I'll leave a link below and at the end of this video, sometime they can wave the restraining order and get something out instead of giving him eviction order. Depends on the issue and situation y'all got when you go in front of judge of what y'all been having going on previously. Okay. So, you lived somewhere before with him? I'll leave it. with him? No. Oh, that apartment's in my name. Okay. But he didn't live there before. No. Okay. So, today he was slamming doors and stuff. Yeah. Slamming doors. Carrying on. You got an attitude about your personal stuff. If you got a personal problem, then that's something that you got to deal with. Everybody got a kid. And you said that he was pushing people around. Pushing me when today. Yeah. Where? Right there in the hallway when I got in the bathroom. How How was he pushing you? Like, man, move. Okay. Like, okay. No, you're not going to do that because you got an attitude. No, we're not doing it. We're not doing it. Okay. Because you upset about I got captain here. But like I said, you could have came in the house like a man. You ain't had to speak to her. She don't like you. You don't like her. That's one of my good friends. Y'all ain't got to talk to each other. You could have went in the room, got your stuff, did what you need to do, and then could have said, "Hey, babe." Did Did she visit? Yeah. Yes. Oh, so she was here for a while. She came here. How long did she visit for? She been here for like a good um her break starts at 11:00 and she go back No, her break start at 11:30. She goes back to work at 1:00. Okay. So, she just left so she can go back to work. But she was here for a good bit of time then. Mhm. Just me and her. But did did he do anything to her? No. No. No. No. Okay. So, he was all Was this Did this all happen during your visit or after she left? doing the visit while she was here. She ain't saying that cuz she was on her phone and she was just like, "That's unnecessary. That's just too much. Nobody going to have to act like that." She was like, "Well, okay then. I'm going to go and let y'all do with y'all problem. I got to go back to work and clock in." I said, "Okay, cool." I said, "Next time I see you," she said, "Okay, cool." She left cuz I already know she got to go back to work. But you're not going to come here and do what you want to do every day because you got an absolute problem. That's not the way treat people and carry on just because you upset because come in my house when you don't pay no bills here when you don't pay no rent. You can't just do what you want to do. You've been doing it for so long because your mama don't allow you to do what you want to do. But you cannot come here and do that because you got an attitude problem. And then you say you got bad news about personal stuff that you got going on with your child. But we all got children. I got three kids that ain't helping me. I got three kids that my kids go stay with the opposite parent because I'm trying to get certification. I'm trying to go to school. After that, my kids are coming back with me. They always have been with me. I'm just get taking a break for a year so I can get all my schooling stuff done, all my other certification stuff done. So when I'm ready to go back to work, I can take off be more. So how many times did he make physical contact with you today by brushing across you? Yeah, one time. How many times? Two. Two times in the room and right there. Just the same like Yeah, just the same thing. Same way twice. Like why you bumping me? You mad. You got an attitude about what? Okay. But you don't live together, right? No, my name is on my lease and my I know. But does he stay here with you? No, he been here like every other day. Okay. For how long? Like I've been in the house probably this month. It might be almost 30 days. Okay. So he's been here this whole time. Yeah. Off and on. Off and on. Come and go. Yeah. So he has been staying here then. He lives here with you. He's not on the lease, but he does live here with you. Well, I ain't gonna say he live here, but Yeah. But you are a boyfriend, girlfriend, and all that. Yeah. Okay. But I'm just not going to deal with nobody being rude and disrespectful for phys physical and verbal abuse. Like I don't got to tolerate it and I ain't got to put up with it. I don't got to deal with it. Like I'm not going to accept nobody being rude and disrespectful and physical and verbal abuse to me every day. I'm not doing it. Have you been drinking at all today? Yeah, I've been sitting here chilling. No, drinking. Drinking. Yeah, I had beer. One beer. I had two beers tonight. Two beers. Okay. Since me to ain't drunk, nothing. But since I've been here all morning, he been gone to work and I've been here all morning cleaning up, cooking. My been sitting here chilling. I ain't going nowhere. I was at work on shift for next 4 days. You know, it ain't going to hurt me to have one or two beers cuz I ain't doing it. I mean, I just smell alcohol in you. I just wondering if that you had alcohol. But yeah, I ain't I ain't been nowhere. I've been here all day my business cooking and cleaning. Um, getting stuff situated, smoking, doing everything. I ain't been nowhere. I ain't been driving. I ain't been on nothing. I just been sitting here chilling. How's London doing? London's doing good. She went to school today, so good for her. She's come back the um Christmas break. Okay. Yeah. But it just All right. So, she doesn't live here then? Nothing at all. No. My children don't come back to me until um in five more months until school break is out. Okay. for the summer. Then my kids to be back with Oh, so she doesn't go to school in Athens, does No, she goes to school in Morgan County. They with their dad. I I convinced him. We've been separated for eight years. I convinced him to get them for a year so I can get all my certification done. So within another year, I'm going to move to Florida and I want to get all my stuff done and he agrees to help me. So I get the kids when with any kind of breaks, holidays, weekends, I don't have to work. Um I got my BLS. Um, back in September, I got my pharmacy tech license um, 3 weeks ago. Oh, wow. And then in February the 6th, I start well the 7th. I start school for medical assistance for the EKG and the photon, but I'm interested in EKG. It's a 12week program. I'll be done in April and graduate in May. Mhm. And then after that, the kids will come back to me and they will have me um and they go with me like they norm do cuz I always have them with me. But I need to be able to focus and go to school and get these certifications out the way so whenever I do choose to move to state to do something different for myself and them I'll have a better opportunity. But I won't have time to get in trouble to get locked up to get a charge and all this stuff to just doing every day. Like I said, I just went to car counting. But tell me, did you did you push on him or punch him or anything like that? I was just like, why you pushing me? Like, why you doing it? But did you do anything back like get away? No, I was just like, move out my way. And then he was like, no, I it ain't like that. No, it is like that because you doing unnecessary stuff. But I did go to Clark County Friday and I did I do got paperwork in my uh folder where I had got a paperwork for restraining order to fill out against your own boyfriend. Yeah, I ain't got time for that. I just don't do What happened on Friday that made you mad or is this something that's been just constantly going on? It's just something been constantly going. Um but why not break up with him? I have tried to break up with him. He doesn't want to leave on his own. Okay. So, I have dealt with a lot of stuff for two years. I've been with him for three. The first year was great. That second year, due to his baby mama and my baby daddy carrying on and doing unnecessary stuff, I let a lot of stuff ride and overlook because people get mad when you've been in a long time relationships with him. He's been in 12 years with his uh child's mother and I've been into 15 with mines. But I had been separated with mines for four years prior before I started talking to him and it's been almost going okay. His stuff was recently when we started talking and I felt like okay the first year was great. The second year was due to the both of them carrying on doing stuff. The last year together my baby daddy like yeah they've been doing [ __ ] like this whole year. So you say you got some paperwork right? I'm talking about no like from his baby mama and my baby daddy. They had been doing stuff like just So you on a restrain order from him? That's what I was getting one from him. I didn't Does he know that? Yeah. He went I went to the courthouse while he was in the car. I didn't have anything to hide. I went and got it. She told me to fill it out. She told me to bring it back. She told me that I need to fill out for Overthor County. Mark out Clark County that they concern her whichever address. And she said, "Well, this ain't going to make him do right, but this to completely separate him completely from you." And I told her that I'm fine with that. I have dealt with a lot um for three years. I have made up my mind. I have made a decision for myself that this ain't going to work. That I don't want to be in a relationship with you anymore. For things that have been going on, not just because of today. I have made my mind up. And if it's if you're not gonna leave on your own, then I'm gonna file for you to go involuntarily because you don't want to go on your own. Well, I appreciate your time. Let me go out and talk to him now. Okay. Yeah. I can't deal with and mama won't let me see. Where he at? He in town. Okay. Got a court order. Can you come see him or No, she just won't let me see him. Here. I'd go to child custody just so you can get some kind of visitation. I ain't seen him. Did you get his info at all? I have not actually. All right. You got ID on you, man? Get the ID. ID card. Sorry. What? She want me bought it? It's a little more than it right now. So, tell me what happened today between you guys. I had an attitude when I came in. When her friend was here, what's going on? Yeah, her friend don't like me. And well, just a female to me. I I can't hate him, but you know, I guess all hate me. Okay. But she was here visiting your current girlfriend at the moment. But when you said you were having attitude, what behavior did you do? Did you bump into her? Yeah, I did kind of twice. One time. No, sir. Once or twice? Thanks. Huh? One. Okay. So, shoulderto-shoulder kind of thing like shoulder bumping it shoulder or did you push it with your hands or what? Nah, my hand ain't n my hand never touch. But did you like bump her like that? I try to something like I move like I don't know where you start something like I kind of okay I ain't going to lie it ain't like it ain't like like uh okay or nothing like I swear this on hey this everything I love and it ain't nothing like Bruce or anything can get on her. Why did you feel like you needed to bump into her just to make a point or something? No, I ain't really really mean to bump into her. I know how I I buck I not buck up but you know how how I get like start getting physical. You know talking law but I ain't like put a bruise or or hit her or or nothing like that. I sw uh what were you doing to bump into her though? Well, she was handing me something. I think it was a charger or something like that for a phone. Why? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. It's on the window seal but yeah. So, what about the window? She tried to hand you a charger. Yeah. And then you bumped into her. Yeah. Why? I think that what it was. She were handing me something, right? Did you replay it, man? Well, I don't know. I wasn't here. Tiger. So, Tiger, what did I hit you? No, I thought you bumped me. What? Not with hands, right? It's a 95 time. Do me a favor, man. Put your hands behind your back. That was pretty fun. All right. Done that twice now cuz they're in that thing. All right, man. Can't like that. Or not? No. Huh? I'm going to jail. Huh? Yeah, we're going to go to jail. Do you have anything sharp? Here's your charger in your pocket. Yeah. Ty, come on. Help me. Come help me. Come on. Let's go. Huh? They get out, man. Hang on. Love you. I don't think she uh is going to reciprocate that information. What? She wants to get you like get a protective order against you. Oh, you know, she wants that. So, you got anything crazy on you? Any weapons, knives, drugs? No, sir. Anything like that? No, sir. Oh, hold on. Um, can I um I got a couple of dollars in my pocket. Can I get it out my coat? Can I smoke a cigarette? No. No. No. Got a bullet? Yeah. Damn. What are you getting for? No. Uh, I had this in my pocket. Look here. Is there anything in that pocket, man? Hey, T, get my key. She going to bring you my key. I'll go get it. Hey, can you write this NA down my phone? What? I need a NMA. You're going to take the phone. You have the phone to jail with you to look. You pull up the numbers there. What's going on with your underwear? Like ripping. I'm trying to make you not lose your pants. All right. All right. I think he's good. Yeah, we're temple. Hey, can I speak to her one time? Sit down and I'll put the window down for you. Tam, watch out. I'm roll the window. All right. Hold on, man. We got work to do. Yeah, I said Ted you could. Just give me a minute. That's her keys or his keys? Those are his keys. I have my That's why I got the homeowner to push the issue for me to move. I was like, I can't stay down there. I can't deal with this due to the virus and you know co and I was like I was willing to pay extra. I had to move and I couldn't deal with it. She let me move in. She told me if I was willing to work around her, she'll let me move in the house and I did and I paid everything. And then like I said, I just had went Friday to get a new form, but he can't take this with him. I just had went to the courthouse Friday to get paperwork for restraining order. What? Come out. What' you say? Can you please say hi to Camel in a moment? We're busy. We're We're taking care of business real quick. He'd like to speak to you. Do you want to talk to him at all? You don't have to. Yeah. I mean, it's I don't know. All right. She doesn't want to talk to you, man. She says she doesn't want to talk. Roll the window up. Love you, baby. All right. And like I told you, my paperwork I was going to file when I go back to work in the morning. I'm going to sit down there, fill all this out, turn it in. I made a decision for myself. I don't care how much you love and care for somebody, but being disrespected and being verbal and physically abused seven days a week, it's just not enough to love and care for somebody continuously when you have gave them a chance after a chance. It just it's not enough. I know he has stuff here. I can take to his sister. I'm sorry. I can take it to his sister and move. Oh, do you know where she lives and all that? Okay. So, you're going to take his stuff? I can take it over there and drive out whether she don't like me or not. He like sit on the porch and ride. What she going to do? file 911 on me. They're dropping something off. She pisses off at me. Apparently, she was trying to break up for you with a while. She went to the court to get a TPO information or whatever. Protection order stuff. I mean, Fue's going to have your stuff taken to your sister's house, so you probably don't have any reason ever. Yeah. Lew. Yeah, a little too much. 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