Why don't you just say you don't want to be with me? You want me around because you know I'm going go to work every day. You know I'm going make that check every week. That's why you want me. >> Young man, I'm going also say that works both ways. At some point, you got to wake up and say, "Well, obviously you're not interested. I'm going to I'm going to go ahead and step away." >> Then this is the moment right here. No, I had showered in almost two months. >> On September 4th, 2022, officers responded in reference to a domestic disturbance. It was reported that the victim's 11-year-old daughter called 911 informing them that her mother was just struck. And you won't believe what this was all over. >> Good morning. >> Good morning, ma'am. Sorry about this early on a Sunday morning. Uh >> talk to my son. >> Is it Adonis? Adis. >> Adonis. >> Adis. Okay. >> Adonis. >> Mr. >> Yes, sir. >> Officer Eaggan from Methar County Police. U we got officers over there. Apparently, there was a call over I guess at your girlfriend friend's house. Hey, Shaquille. >> Squo. Okay. Make sure I try to pronounce it right. >> Y'all can you can come in. >> Okay. Thank you, ma'am. So, what what happened over there? >> I wake up to her getting out of bed to take a shower. >> Yeah. >> Okay. I see her. She had a towel on. Good morning. She walked over to grab her shampoo. So, >> Uhhuh. >> She look I guess she stood there for then I heard her call my name. She was like, "Have you been using my shower?" I was like, "No, I haven't showered in almost two months." She let go, walked in, took a shower. >> Guess something you want to say? >> Yeah. And I just wanted permission, sir. He's been staying over there with her for about three, four months. >> March months. >> Okay. >> And myself and my brother, I just I'm that parent who I don't get in your relationship, but I know when something is not right. >> Right. Right. >> I've been praying for this to end. >> Okay. He comes here, he stays over there, he works every day. He works basically Monday through Saturday. He comes here and showers every day. A lot of mornings before he even goes to work, he comes here, uses the bathroom, showers, does all that. And I just been wondering why are you that's going to be the next question. Why is that going on? >> Yeah, >> because I had to stop using the bathroom there because it was a problem. I left the door open once at >> But your boyfriend and girlfriend. >> Yeah. Left the door open one time and she went ballistic. So I told her I won't use the bathroom here no more. >> The shower, it doesn't drain. It takes almost an hour for the water to drain out. And I I get dirty. I work at a plant nursery. I deal with plants all day. So I'm dirty. >> I have a lot of dirt on me when I finish showering. So I don't want to have to stand there and wait every time I take a shower to have to clean the tub off. So, I just stopped to end all that. I just come home to my mom's and take a shower. But this morning, I guess when she went in, she got even more mad thinking about it cuz she probably pretty much used it all up. Came back, she asked the kids who's been coming in here using my stuff. Of course, they say they don't they haven't been doing it. They don't know. But I have times when I come there after work and I know I haven't been showering there. My towel is wet. My rag is >> So everything's over a towel. I mean over a shower >> over over her her um the stuff she uses to shower with. >> I'm saying that's what started the whole >> that's what start I was in the bed. I'm literally still laying down cover over me. Okay. >> I hear her come out then she comes at comes for me again. So that's when I got up start putting my stuff on. She starts getting loud and I had that's I got loud back with her. I have not >> everything you tell me. >> Yeah. And I I have not been >> because we haven't talked to her. There's another officer talking to her. So we're getting we're getting your half of the story. We'll talk to them on the radio in a minute. And >> so I was putting my clothes on. >> Hello. >> Hey. >> So, it really do dry like every day. >> And we both start to get loud. She's in the bathroom brushing her teeth. She rushes out of the bathroom into the bedroom. I'm sitting on the bed like this. She's still got the toothbrush in her mouth. Toothpaste all hollow in my mouth. She slaps the hell out of me. Slaps the hell >> Where'd you hit? >> Right here. >> Okay. >> Right here. For the second time. That's the second time I've been hit in this eye. It's not this one >> today or before. You get hit before? >> I got hit today. I've been hit another time. >> The second time was a previous day. >> The second? Yeah, this was a previous day. I want to make sure it wasn't today. Three or four times I've been hit on been beat on by her with a phone to the back. >> Police called every time or is this the first time? >> Um she I think she pretended to call the police one time. But >> I'm saying you haven't called as far as >> No, I I haven't called no police or anything cuz she's been wanting me. >> This will be the first time that we're being notified of of that. Okay. >> And see that is a mistake with so many young men and I tell you that. >> Well, I'm going to tell you men are bad about all that. Men men will also refuse to go to a hospital. >> Yeah. and and I've only met her like by speaking to her when she was in the car with him like and I went to the door to speak to her because this is who he's dated, right? >> So, I'm going to try to be cordial. >> She has three kids. >> He doesn't even have children. >> Has always said he don't even want children, but you trying to help her. >> That dad, >> her oldest child started middle school. >> She's transitioning from a school that didn't do uniforms. >> She bought the unifor. >> The children have never even been in my house. I don't even know her kid's name. I bought her daughter's uniforms >> and the other daughter the dad did nothing. >> I just been praying officer. >> Yeah. >> Because I knew from I'm a woman. I've been around people who I've worked with children 25 years. Retired from Clark County School District 2018. Now work for Athens Clark County at the elections office. The children I work with for years and some of the parents I used to deal with. I know the behavior. You're right. >> But he's grown. But I did say to him a few weeks ago when he said that about her putting his her hands on him, you need to call the police because what she's going to eventually do, she's going to make it look like it's you. He gave her money almost $400 about a month or two ago to take her car to get it fixed. She goes to spend the money on something else. He I'm not saying this because he's mine. I'm saying this because this is what he's been trying to do to help her. But she has shared her stories of her former boyfriends and babies daddies of them climbing up just her baby daddy >> and putting father >> putting a gun on her and all that. She likes that lifestyle and so she's at him and I already knew when he came here and I knew I said she's going to call the police today cuz she's mad about the body wash or whatever. She's trying to blame somebody else for every single >> issue. Okay. >> All right. So, >> so back to the after she slapped you, slap the hell out of you, you said what then? >> I'm not going to lie. I'm 104. I'm still talking central. Is she talking to this? >> You can hang up and talk to us if you want to. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I have two of them right here. >> What happened? >> Okay. Um got the kids cleaned up as I went to take a shower. So when I went to take a shower, I got ready reached my body wash out my dress. >> Mhm. >> So I'm like going to buy the body wash. was like, "No, no. I ain't used that [ __ ] in like two months. I ain't even took a shower here in two months. You just mad or something." I was saying something about like, "No, I went nowhere. I know you just let me one of the last one of you. You do this [ __ ] every day. Everywhere." I said, "No, don't somebody watch like you can't use it every day cuz you're a woman or whatever." Yeah. He just jump up on the bed and back smack me cuz I'm standing right here by my pole. He was just getting out. He say he about to leave. Well, I guess son came over here and he back snapped me like right up in here. >> Right. >> I Yes, I reacted. A back slap >> and I grabbed my stuff. She told her kids called the police. >> When you say when you say you back slapp one swag you hit her or have contact? >> Yes, I did. >> Where did you hit her at? >> Oh, it was right here in her cheek on the left side. >> She was facing window. >> If I'm facing you, if I'm facing you, it was on her right. >> Her right cheek. >> Okay. Do you know if you left a mark or not? >> I doubt it. >> Okay. >> I doubt it. >> So it was open. >> Was it open hand or a fist? >> It was open hand. >> Open hand. >> It was open. She came out of the >> You said backhanded? >> Yeah. She came out of the house as I was getting in the car and we made facial contact and there was nothing on her face. >> So was there anybody else in the room when I when when she hit you? >> Oh, her kids were standing at the doorway. >> For a second. >> Mine's charging right now. >> Good morning. a look and see. So, >> how are you >> doing? Good. You >> good. >> Where how many kids were in there when that happened? >> She has three kids. >> So, all three were Excuse me. All three were in the room. >> I know. I know at least one was right at the doorway. The other two are shorter. They were probably behind her. The oldest one is um >> The oldest was at the doorway. >> Y'all think she was right? >> So, she would she would have seen you get slapped first. >> She saw it. That's what we're asking. >> Honestly, even if she did see it, she's the type of mother she's probably there now. They're not going to bag me or anything. It's everything is going to be against me. I already knew this was going to happen. That's how she is with her kids. She always goes to her kids to get consolidation or whatever. Then this happened or ain't this then this happened or then this person say that? >> Yeah. >> So I'm I'm not >> How old is the oldest kid? >> I think now he's 11 or 12. Sixth grade. First year in sixth grade. The other two are one's in fourth and the other one's in third, I believe. >> And here I am trying to be miss. >> And they >> of how I do with people. Every year I help somebody's child do something regardless of what my I got. >> I even had I set a backpack with stuff in it for the youngest child. >> Then ordered the other one and but you still haven't face to face or even had him call me on the phone to even say thank you. I asked her last weekend, would she go out on a date and meet my mom and go eat? >> She looked at me crazy. >> I'm prepared for us to go out that Friday and I contact him. I said, "We do everything with you and your family." >> Uh, it's last Saturday and he just replied, "No." And I didn't say anything and I'm thinking, "Well, maybe they doing something else." This is your mind game. You pretending you want to try to get to know me because my son has a relationship with your mom. You don't want to get to know me because you probably can look at me and tell that I'm the mama who picks up on the BS. >> If this is going on like you said, >> stay away. >> You need to find somebody else. >> I am. Don't you don't not have I do not like I don't want to be beaten on. I'm a vet. I've served this country. >> Yeah, that's picture right down there. Yes, sir. >> That was um I went to his graduation national guard 88 Mike. >> Um I refuse to be beaten on. I'm not gonna keep getting >> Well, no, we're not asking that. That's >> And like that's nobody. Nobody would I can deal with the argument. I can I can get off. >> Let me step out and let them know what he's told, especially about him getting I'm going to see if they'll talk to the daughter separately. >> Actually, can you and me and the kids step outside so y'all can talk? >> Yeah. >> Is that y'all's mom? >> Okay. So, how how many of y'all saw what what happened? >> I did. >> Okay. This happened. Is that your dad? >> Step. >> Step. Is that your dad? >> They all got the same dad. >> Okay. >> He's supposed to been like in the Navy and none of that. He been the job court >> cuz you already like the only child >> and you really pretty much kind of like sport. Your mom do anything for you and your dad, but you act like they don't. >> Can y'all tell me what what y'all saw? >> I heard a smack noise and I went in there. He was outside at his gun. >> He dropped the gun. Where did he drop the gun at? >> At the door and then he picked it back. >> Okay. >> And he gun went off once and and broke my window back. >> Okay. Was that recently or a long time ago? >> Like >> like a couple years ago or like a few weeks ago? I might hit I was with my dad like >> like if you go through the backyard you can see it. >> Okay. I'll have to go look at it here in a minute. >> Yeah. Multiple different kind of liquor. He don't stick with one particular kind. >> Yeah. I mean alcohol >> get another mix. Okay. Like whatever. >> Well, he can tell you he don't done drugs over the years and stuff like that. I think he got a bad >> Okay. >> Cuz he got shakes real bad. >> Yeah. >> Real mad. >> What is y'all's relationship? We was boyfriend and girlfriend, but like everything just keep going like this. And I never been in like that. And he bothering me. Don't argue with nobody. Don't argue with him like every day, every other day. >> Yeah. >> Even when I'm just trying to let him come in the house. Yeah. >> But he welcome me, you know, it's my home or whatever, >> right? And he putting it on me. Like sometime I see that he had a problem. Cool. He might FaceTime me doing he have a good attitude and lay on see if you can tell in the B sometime. So I might sit there here and he come in and come in all mad or something or straight up my step and I come back down. I don't say nothing to you know like if I got coming like show me I wait and I don't know what going through. >> So did you actually see the smack or you just heard it? >> Yeah, I saw him smack my >> You saw him smack your mama? >> Did Did you see him do anything else other than smack her? >> Okay. What kind of gun was it? Do you remember? It >> was a pistol. There's a pistol. You remember what color? >> Black. >> You seen it, too? >> On my neck. What? I mean all the way up. >> Do you remember where it fell from? Like was in a pocket or in his waistband or >> It was a head of clothes he had in his hand. >> Okay. So, he's carrying in a pile of clothes. Okay. And when it dropped, you said it dropped like right here >> like >> at the bottom of the steps. And when he picked it up, did he put it back in the clothes or did he put it in in his pocket? He put it in his pocket. >> Okay. >> I've just been in prayer. >> Yeah. >> I've just Sounds like you walked yourself into a mess is what it sounds like. >> Right. I mean, she just needs to say she don't want to be in a relationship. Just say that. >> She won't say that. I done asked her that so many times. Why don't you just say you don't want to be with me? She'll go off to something else. You want me around because you know I'm going go to work every day. You know, you know I'm going make that check every week. That's why you want me here, >> young man. I'm going I'm going also say that works both ways. >> At some point you got to wake up and say, "Well, obviously you're not interested. I'm going to I'm going to go ahead and step away." >> Then this is the moment right here. And sadly, it had to be his moment, but this is the moment. >> And he had came home and said that even before y'all even pulled up. >> Does he have any other things here? >> No. He take it every time he leave. >> He take it every time he said he come might bring a duffel bag. >> Okay. So, it's like an overnight kind of thing and then leave. Okay. >> So, he accused you of using your of using his body wash for several times, that kind of thing. >> No, mine's >> So, he got mad at you for using your own? >> No, he got mad cuz he said he haven't used it in about two months. I was like, I don't use He told me I use it every day. I'm like, no, I don't. Okay. >> It's not the kind of you use every day. I'm saying. So, you just mad that it was getting used up. >> I don't know. The one lost it, too. >> Okay. >> I think he's just mad cuz it was a little consultation. What was the confrontation other than that then? >> Well, the dispute over the body wash, >> right? >> He's saying no. And I'm asking the question. >> You're saying he was just mad because the body washes. You were using it again. >> Cuz I'm asking him about it. >> What were you asking him about? >> Did he use it up? Cuz I told you I don't use it. >> Okay. Okay. Okay. I'm tracking. I'm tracking. Okay. >> I got you. I got you. I got you. Okay. [clears throat] >> Did you use these up? I said cuz I thought you said you were going to replace it. Yeah. >> No, I ain't that [ __ ] I took a shower. You ain't took a shower in two months. I'm like, well, the last time I asked you about you said you going to replace it. >> You were going to take a shower, grab the body wash, notice it was light. I asked him, "Hey, have you been using it?" He said, "No." Got angry about you asking um you know, you said, "Well, you know, you said you want to replace it. If you were going to use it, that kind of thing." Got angrier, got up, backhanded you >> cuz he fell and that was it. >> Okay. So, he didn't hit you any more than one time. >> Um you hit him back. Did you hit him open hand, close hand? >> Okay. Did he hit you open hand or close hand? >> Back hand. >> Back hand. Okay. >> Okay. He didn't hit you in the stomach. >> No. >> Okay. U was there any other kind of physical confrontation? Did he grab you? Did you grab him? Did you push him? Did he push you? >> That's it. Man, I don't really want to do no more than that. >> Okay. So, how long have you been over there now? It's been what? >> Since like uh end of March. March. Like after March 20th. >> About 5 months basically. You said then the past two months you've had to come back over here and do your showers every day, right? >> Yeah. If I take my work clothes over there in the morning, when she wakes up at 6:30 to get them up, I automatically get up, go to my car, and change in my car. I put my clothes on in my car. I do not I don't even change in there. >> See, I didn't know he is that extreme. >> The reason was that because she didn't want the kids to see you changing. is that or or >> I don't want her to she says a lot of um degrading stuff about me for no reason. Um like when we argue and the kid and the kids might be around, she'll tell the kids, "Bang up. He might swing on you or something." I've never been that type of person. I I would never hurt a child. >> This guy doesn't sound like somebody you need to be with. >> Not just for your sake, for your children's sakes, cuz they don't need to be around that. Um >> go upstairs, look at the um bullet hole that don't shot. negligent discharge >> down on my kids mattress back together. >> When did that occur? >> Could have been dead. You got to ask the girls cuz we was in here scared. Then they scared to go upstairs. Did not reply to me when I'm hollering like, "Hey, you all right?" You got yell later on. I call your name sometime in the kitchen. I'm scared. >> Okay. >> You know, shot through my bed. They shot through the wall. Kids running out the window. >> Yeah. >> You supposed to be replacing that. You ready to tell your dad? >> When When did that happen? >> It probably was like May, June. >> Okay. >> You said you've been slapped before. >> Oh, I've been slapped. I've been slap. I was Today was the second time. I've been beat in the back of my head with a cell phone. I've had my cell phone thrown at me. >> Uhhuh. >> Full force. About as close as we are >> by her. >> Yeah. By her. So, I'm >> So, it's been there's been three different instance where she has swung or attacked you. Yeah. 295. 10fold. All right. Well, apparently they've talked to the kids and um they gonna have we have to based upon what the officer said to >> I'm not sure what the charges. We'll find out for you. But yeah, >> based upon what I think he told me quickly. >> No, pick up >> towards the feather. Be more. >> There you go. >> He'll find out what the charges are for you. But >> so she is pressing charges. Well, the problem is it falls under family bond because y'all have lived together. Oh my god. So, at that point, it's not it's not up to her. It's up to the officer based upon if there's no probable cause. And the reason for that is the state has mandated us that since January 1st, 1994. >> She does have visible injury on her face and on her chin area. I guess you'd hit her >> pretty hard enough to be when you back backhanded to be able to show. >> Yeah, she's lightkinned, so it probably didn't show at first. It just >> Do you want me to get your phone out your >> pocket? Or one of them. It don't matter. Yeah, you can. >> You can. >> He's been cooperative with us. I ain't >> Yeah. >> Look at me. >> Tell her >> you going to get through this. Look at me. You're going to get through this. We're here. And I just pray to God that this is a big wakeup call. When this is over, don't you ever go back that way. Do you understand me? I love you. >> We're going to get through this. And I told the officer that you when you hit back is it was reactionary because she hit you first. I guess maybe the kids are not saying totally everything. Unfortunately, when you have somebody that's a witness like that, the judges do take that consideration. You should be able to get out by morning anyway because they'll have the bond hearing. >> Yeah, it u it's Labor Day so it runs 10ish. It runs a little bit later. >> It's still in the morning still. You still should be out have time to go back to work. Okay. So that should hopefully that shouldn't interfere with your work at all. Have you ever been involved in a domestic violence incident before? >> No, that's why I'm saying the one I have had was the kids that I only had that first child, my oldest one. >> Okay. Let me get that for you though. In a way, it may be a blessing in disguise cuz it may this may help you not to want to go back over there. >> Love you. >> Love you, too. >> All righty. The suspect was booked for battery family violence. simple battery family violence, disorderly conduct, two counts of cruelty to children in the third degree, and two counts of violating a family violence order. During court proceedings, the battery charge, the simple battery charge, and both cruelty to children charges were dismissed through null proka. The remaining charges, disorderly conduct, and two counts of violating a family violence order were resolved through guilty p. His bond was set to $10. At sentencing, the court imposed 12 months of probation along with a stayaway order and not to have harassing, intimidating, threatening, provoking, or violent contact with the victim.