I'm just upset about the fact that I'm literally ending a relationship of 15 years and I've got one of my best friends that right now one of my best friends is actually staying in a room that I actually decorated I'm gonna let him know go ahead I want I want a conversation we're not doing that on November 1st 2021 at 3: in the morning officers responded to a house on Elsa Street in Charlotte County Florida in reference to a disturbance before they arrived the caller stated that an ex- roommate was banging on the windows and doors when the officers arrived they made contact with the homeowner and the ex-boyfriend of the suspect he stated that the suspect hadn't lived at the residence for8 weeks and that he wanted her to leave here's what happened when officers made contact with Heather ly Messer hi hi what are you doing awesome kind of going through some stuff can you step out of the car for me Y no just leave it leave it like it is what are what are you doing kind of having a moment having a moment okay well what do you mean having a moment because I'm just okay do you have your ID with you by any chance I what's up in my stuff yes in your stuff yeah okay is this your car yes okay I haven't talk to the caller yet okay so what are you is this your friend's house no this is my ex's house your ex's house okay why are you here did my ex call on I don't know who called whoever probably who whoever lives here if you were beating on the windows and stuff okay is that what was going on kind of having a little bit of a moment considering what do you mean a moment uh a moment considering my best friend of 20 years yeah okay okay you've been drinking tonight might have might have okay you think it's a good idea to drive no absolutely not okay but you were going to drive what do you want to ask well I'm trying to figure out why you were coming over here you're not you're not telling me you just said you're going through a lot and then you're stopping yeah I'm going through a lot because again I've been with this question for 15 years you said they're your ex though how long you all been separated not long less than a month and a half okay okay then what had a few drinks feelings got to you so you came over started banging on the windows and stuff uh no what do you what do you need from me I'm trying to figure out what's going on like I said what do you need from me you came over here and what happened what do you need for me answer the question that I'm asking you which is what I'm asking I'm answering you what do you need from me I need you to tell me you came over here and what did you do um I'm not being any kind of I'm I'm a little upset because my best friend 20 years is staying in my what was our home okay I can understand how that would be frustrating where are you staying right now not far well where is not far not far yeah you're not answering any of my questions right now less less than 5 minutes away okay do you have an address yes I do okay what's your address just don't get back in the car no just shut everything off we can shut that off only do that yeah we can do that like I'm not trying to do anything okay well we don't know that okay we don't know what's going on what kind of relationship you've got going on I'm just upset about the fact that I'm literally ending a relationship of 15 years and I've got one of my best friends that has been 20 years plus that is literally living in my home do you live here yes you live here that's where I lived and I no longer live here you no longer live here oh okay and it's been a limited period of time and I'm just upset okay have you talked to anybody about being upset about this I'm just probably not probably not would you like to talk to somebody please don't how does it make you feel please don't please don't what please don't please don't what I'm trying to figure out what you're talking about you're trying to figure out whether or not I'm actually able to figure out where I'm at so I I know you know where you're at I know but you're trying to figure out whether or not I'm F enough to actually have this conversation is what you're trying to do no I want to make sure that you're not going to hurt yourself going to hurt myself but I'm a little pissed off okay true story okay I I don't think showing up at someone's house at 3 in a morning is the correct way to respond to anything but I don't know what this deputy found out could could you please talk to Michael and figure out whether or not he wants to charges against me or not and then whether or not Sarah has anything to do with any of it just he when I when he moved into this home I was a part of this home I actually picked this home I'm like I'm just a little frustrated right now should story okay so do you want to please address somebody did and he's going through things right now so is he going to press charges against me or not we we we don't just listen to one then listen to the other put them together okay it's a process that's why I was trying to talk to you and get your your half of it well my half of it is right now one of my best friends is actually staying in a room that I actually decorated so I'm kind of a I mean I can see how that I can see how that'd be frustrating can you oh by the way this is her car okay um what what's your name I'm Heather he what's your last name H Master m e s s e r yes do you have a middle name yeah what's that I can't I can't drive any place right now just say know what I I asked what your middle name is yeah I know that has nothing to do with driving it does why because I'm I dealt withi and I am tell okay well right now we're dealing with this so can you just tell me your middle name I can figure it out if you're not going to tell me Lyn okay it's Don he doesn't want you here anymore all right he was very respectful and polite he didn't want you to get in any trouble okay however you cannot just randomly show up through his house anymore all right otherwise he could trespass you get a restraining order against you anything like that so with that hold on hold on I'm not finished so in order I I don't want you to have to get any trouble tonight okay however you are definitely too intoxicated to drive so do you have someone that can come and pick you up so we don't have to take you down to somewhere and no he needs toide and talk to me no we're not going to do that so do you have someone that can talk to you otherwise you're going to be placed under what's called a Marchman act due to your level of intoxication okay and your unwillingness to reason with us correct there's got to be some kind of issue here you have no reason to be here at this time and you're not giving us any responses say otherwise that is not an acceptable answer is what he just told you you were not allowed to be here they were just not trespassing if I ask them if they want you trespass you remain here you go to jail but we're trying ma'am we're really trying to no no go ahead tell Mr Sweeney no go ahead no go ahead go ahead make this we don't have to we don't have to turn this into into nothing okay tell Mr Sweeny that if he wants to address it a certain way that he can do that and you know what you're turning nothing something no actually I'm not because I've got 15 years dealing with this man so no go ahead and tell him okay go ahead and tell him we giving you all the opportunity right now to go home no go ahead just admitted you've been drinking you're not something yes you are 100% okay 100% on this then this is your choice ma'am yes 100% I am no he can he can deal with this okay and he can deal with it and he can choose I'm like oh by the way oh don't stop yelling don't do not cause the disturbance no no it's okay can I have I'll grab my shoes he can he can choose how he wants to right now no he can choose how he wants to deal with it he already chosen ma'am he doesn't he's already no I know okay all right no that's fine so you have no one that can come pick you up and you are refusing to leave is that correct I am absolutely 100% refusing the considering the fact that I actually okay turn around on your back you're under no I want my turned up no don't argue stop we told you the decisions that you made you're right you're right thanks sweetie oh you're too much sober oh you're so proud of yourself 15 years all I wanted to actually was to get my whatever after a lengthy discussion Heather ultimately decided that she wasn't going anywhere so the officers finally placed the intoxicated female in cuffs right now can I nope no we're going this way all right fine else which one do you want me to go to anything else stay right here stop pulling us ma'am stop pulling us okay stop pulling us this is stop pulling us you're not going to pull us you understand [Music] listen me I'm going to use a blade of my hand the back of my hand to check in the middle and underneath your bra so you don't have any weapons you understand that I don't have anything okay well I have to check I don't even have my like nothing you know what yes you're right too intoxicated whatever but seriously when it all boils down to it I've literally been dealing with my best friend that is I like I said I know you don't give a you don't give a goe your head all right it's fine I know how to back anything else no no right here in the middle please right here what do you want me right there I'm going to put a seat belt on you I don't give a got it I just want to make sure that you stay safe that's all oh thanks the officers finally placed Heather in the back of a squad car during her Rampage the victim tried to tell her that she needed to calm down but she continued to yell at him and the officers the officers searched her vehicle and moved her to another vehicle a car on the right side passenger side yes please what kind of phone is it Android iPhone no it's an iPhone it's an iPhone give me a second I'll be right back please yes ma'am she can get her purse I guess or whatever yeah I'm just going to get take her phone I can stay and I don't know if she needs she just asked for her phone so hey GI yes sir are you writing this up if you want oh we were going to oh okay Heather was taken to jail without a chat with Michael was she happy about that well you could probably guess the answer for yourself her car was towed away and she had to sober up sell all right Heather we're going to switch cars no I I want to have well no no no we're not do no I actually do okay well we're not doing that well we need to NOP we don't because otherwise no he's not going to be very happy with me okay go ahead tell him he's not going to be very happy with me we'll let him know go ahead we're going to this car right here on the right side same side we were just on yep you have anything on you ma'am that you could take down to the I'm I'm going to let him know go ahead I want I want a conversation we're not doing that get in the car s just like you were yeah well then tell him oh he's gonna love this this is gonna be Heather was charged with disorderly intoxication and trespass after warning she was taken to jail where she sobered up and sat without a bond Heather had to wait for her court date and this is a great lesson to everyone don't show up at your ex's house drunk and banging on Windows