where's that coming from on your shirt you may want to find a new girlfriend man this is what happens when your girlfriend trashes your $344,000 car for the second time she's also known to tussle with police in the past just another day in beautiful Athens Georgia time for they're separated M's coming up when did this happen what' she use okay just got his F you know it what happened to the door chasing me I don't have time for this where she at upstairs Police Department damn bro come on down here and talk to me I can see you standing right there come on down here and talk to me then she going try to operate I broke in knowing you know I'll be here like y'all know I'll be here already like what the me because everything I love I'm not willly going I understand why am I here to take you to jail I'm here to talk to you he has a TP against me the whole reason I went to jail was because of him right here do you see my door they to my door this was self I just got out of jail because of him he came to my residence my res this is my if I have the test you inviting me over here I can willingly I haven't anything not will going jail you going to have okay we're not even to that yet okay no but that's how you're saying it we're not even there yet right but it's going to happen and I'm not willing going this is your door right this is my door this is my house this is my property everything here is mine exactly is that blood on your shirt are you okay I'm fine are you cut anywhere I'm fine okay do you need an ambulance um I'm okay for now okay you say for now will you please let me know if you do need an ambulance okay thank you what happened today I literally just woke up okay then what happened can you tell yeah if you'll just stand by your car there no officer he'll come talk to you in a second thank you right here would it be okay if I just stand at the bottom of stairs so I can hear you okay I'll stand right here okay what happened today we were arguing and then I threw some things at him and then he walked out and why is he still walking like he he's okay will you just stand to the right nobody's trying to lock to the police you're the only one don't worry about it don't worry the police I'm standing right here I'm standing right here and I'm only listening to your story okay but but but he's going to try Li Twisted because he has videos but I have videos too and we can work on that okay shut up nobody's talking to you bro can't I'm just trying to figure out what's going on okay to the paperwork I am out on P I cannot go back I understand I cannot go back okay so what I will be facing aggravated stalking charges I will go to prison please off you all I know right now is that you're in your own place okay so what happened to your door he kicked it he literally like kicked it in down I don't know from the appearance it came this way so he was outside okay outside was this before during or after your argument this was during the arum and I had locked the door and went inside he was going to p and out down okay you guys doing all right today that's nice TR us cut my tires she trying to slice your tires on the other side you can see it little Mark try to cut it on man she just BR the window front tire is that from today too last I wasn't there last night I I wasn't here last night she tried to cut on tires I don't know but it didn't work I guess my tire too hard yeah I a worri about that it's is my window so she busted your window again today y okay I was out here a couple weeks ago and I think she busted the back window all G got fig fix you got it all fixed okay all right and what happened to his windshield I hit it with a an umbrella okay truly did not me the C okay and was this before or after he kicked your door in this was before he Ked my door and I understand but he still have no right to do that my mom literally just fixed this door from the previous time that he kicked it in I can't go to jail I understand I can't go I'm good if youall talk to him over there that way yeah she's just getting upset every time she sees him gotcha okay yeah just just set yeah set it right there that's fine is that the knife she used to try and cut your tires yeah but I knew it was going to work I right kitchen so here here's and d right there you can see on the side I got you that's whaty to say I kick in the door but I'm already in the house who kicked in the door that's what she telling him well but but who who kicked if if it wasn't you who did it did he spend the night yes he spent the night but last night we got into an ultra C about what ran into the door she ran into the door yes be closing the door trying to get away from she go crazy on she CRA look he everybody knows I've been out here oh I've been out here once only I did give her another chance is because she fits my whole car completely MH she fit my whole window right I was like okay cool you know did good I'm not going to try to take you to jail you're just going to voluntarily fix it right so the so the question is is how do we want to handle today voluntarily fix it I I'm not worried about okay that's all I want all I care about is my car right I mean it's a car because some I honestly can't remember at the moment but he my foot got ran over with the tire with his car and it hurts and everything on my but ear I can't go okay well I'm not worried about the jail okay I I I I and I understand why you would be okay but obviously my concern standing right here right now is to figure out what's going on I mean that's what I'm saying so is everything today just about the car what you guys talking about today started a job interview she's mad she don't get to go with me what type of is that right so I just voluntarily how to just fix my car other than that I'm not tripping okay so she I mean she's done it before right she fix fixed that's why I believe it all okay all right your injuries and things like that okay well this is his zone I'm sorry this understand who he is I cannot go back to JY offic police I can't go back but why did you say that about me though I think because you're a regular you come upir you know what that's who I would want coming over yeah someone who knows the situation I mean cuz I have a better idea of please don't send me back well what we got I cannot I cannot face those charges last time no this time these are from today so the Dent's there and then the bust the window yeah but she F she fixed the back one and then didn't I take you yeah yeah so what what are we doing why is this the same Circle this is this is she voluntarily F here's here's the thing is how do we stop this I I mean mean between the two of us this is the fourth time coming out this is I mean this is the second time I know for a fact in the last couple weeks that we've been out here for something similar to this yeah right you can't handle it keep to keep living like this because that's taking a toll on you physically right you see how that is so that's that's what our bigger concern is last time it was because of your you know your conduct this time if you're you know let's let's figure it out let's talk about what the situation is but here's the thing at bare minimum they were police were out here last night or not that had nothing do me that they oh this I mean I know I this is It's kind of I mean this this relationship like this can't be good for either of you there not whose house is this is it your house or her house no I don't live here you don't live here I live in okay so you don't live here so you stay here kind of thing no I'm just over here visiting like spend a night and then I leave all right you guys are are dating right okay how long you guys been I can't even tell you like years right it's been it's been a while right yeah okay all right so so how'd the door get broken he tells me that if I'm not with him he's just going to press those charges if I'm with him he's going to drop the charges and leave it to the judge there's so much stuff that goes into it well there there's also how did this happen he kicked it in why because um I was beaten on his car because he was um he wasn't leaving and I wanted him to leave and then um the window cracked a little bit that was on accident I truly did not mean to do that and then I locked the door and he came and he busted it he kicked it and he was trying to look for me I stay night over here so that's why I don't know why she be trying to flip the story when she knows she about to try to go to jail right okay but like bro she just get crazy and I'll be tell her like I don't even want you in jail okay just start from the beginning start with the door and or the car whichever I was going to a job you she got upset cuz she said she wants to go and I was like No just chill like so then she tried to come run out to the car and I was holding on the door like for B her to come out M but then I just she ripped it I don't know what the happened the door came in so I just ran to my car and that's when she got a chance to beat my window all right so what she used to beat your window what you what what did the car where did the window get busted with umbrella I don't even know this time okay where' the knife come into play at what point did she go back inside to get it yeah were you in your car or I was in my car you in your car I wored about okay so you were in your car she tried to slash the tire with the knife okay is it just the the dents there the Buster window and then guess she was trying to slash this tire here I don't see any Cuts in that's the knife she up there little kchen KN there there's a couple dents on this side over here will you show me the dents yeah why you more money I'm trying to here this one here and that one there just these two right these two and what are these from her like foot or was it like foot hand is she kicking it how'd she get how did she cause those what she calls those what she do what she used using some out of the house I just seen her be car she's just beating on her car okay not she not 100% sure did you witness any of this uh no I just got a phone call saying that our boyfriend had kicked in the door and beat her or beat her so I came over here okay that was all I did yeah what's your relation uh I'm just a friend of her mothers okay okay that is it I'm just a friend of the family I got you thank you you may want to find a new girlfriend man it's it's D it's honestly follows me around it's dangerous for your health and her health this is not this is not good for for either of you right I mean that's the decision you got to make I can't force one or the other but I mean this can't be good for either of you what do you mean she follows you around she'll chase me around see me chase you around a different kind of report if you tell us that then we can go on I have before I mean and then they just keep telling me Oh you got to screenshot everything you got to record everything do or get a TPO if you have a TPO and she's around you then that's automatic gr us that's different and I told you that last time I mean that may be something you want to if if you if you want to separate from her right and you want to keep it separate keep stay separated from her you might consider doing that right I mean this is the second time you're car's been Dage but that's not the amount of times that we that we respond this is yeah right fourth time fourth time Al together that she's damaged your car TP oh it's more than enough for a TPO and actually if you don't know how to file it you want to file one there's a a group through ug that'll help you file it I got I got a card in the car I don't have any of the mini cards but I've got one you can take a picture of if you want that so don't just nod your head this time yeah you got do you got to do something man this is this is ridiculous the fact that we have to come out here every time that she gets upset and she starts beating on your car that's not good for her not good for you she was having a mental breakdown and screaming that's why we got caught up yeah she threaten you with the knife or anything like that she just she just just upset yelling at you and and and beating on the car she never tried to like chase me with okay she wasn't trying to hurt you she was just okay I I just I'm just trying to be clear trying to do that to me she want try to stab me no uh I would hope not all let me get that for you see you got your phone on you yeah well but I mean this this is stuff that you know you do need to hear but I'd rather you hear it than than experience it right because the experience of it is painful well you're going to give yourself a panic attack remember when I said that you know I've been to these calls before and where one person or the other ends up dead you keep coming back you know I mean I'm sure you guys are this time cuz she paid for it my mom apologize my mom right yeah so that's why I was like okay cool we can like take it slow you know go into it and that's and that's then it happened again because she said thing Advantage uh-huh she supposed to take medison right hey she was doing good for a second right yeah yeah we I don't think we get out here in a couple weeks at least but still and then this kind of stuff happens right so I looked at the conditions there's there's the umbrella is this the umbrella okay you want to talk to me yeah I was okay I heard her crying do what what am I supposed to do about my door you got to replace it well yeah yeah but like I can't just leave my door open like my mama just fixed the door like 34,000 out the car yeah yeah it's not cheap to get the stuff fix either so the windshield most times your insurance will get will cover that to do that and she can just pay the deductible if there is one the dents I don't know how that one works I don't know how that works but at least this time it's just the so it's it's just these two right here right yeah just okay yeah those are in there pretty good well not not I mean it's not going to be perfect just sit tight so the whole they can have consensual contact that box isn't checked on the B conditions they're not supposed to have any contact whatsoever oh is it like he broke it before and she just fixed it like it wouldn't close or lock or anything she just got it to Clos and lock see if somebody can go get a door and or stay here while you go get a door but I I mean that's not we can't help with that kind of stuff quit freaking out about that right now you're going to make yourself free I am free because I go back I get agravated stocking charges and I am not going to prison for okay well then you have to stop getting in situations like these Haley see where we're coming from on that it's not that we want to do that what do he say I see him over here laughing because it's like continuous thing for him still coming back over here you know she'll basically do this I mean whatever um he's trying to leave she's trying to pull on the door he's holding the door and somehow or another that happened and she I yeah I know we don't have to we can't look at all the other stuff we look at the destruction the car all of that and that's how we determine things like that why would you get aggravated stalking if you went back today with him all my fa if I calm down we're just talking I go back out on B I will get aggravated stocking charges and I could end up in prison for a year to five what is the what does the bond say between the two of you no cons or no not cons no um communication communication like being seen together unless it is consensual from him unless it's like over the phone cons well he already told us that he said that he stayed the night here or is staying the night here okay he just he makes me seem like the bad guy because of the stuff that y all see but he acts so different behind closed doors like okay well stuff like that would need to be video it if he acts like that can't because he'll knock the phone out of my ha well then you make the phone call the only one that calm down honey calm down he always threatens to call the police if I or anything calm down we're just talking calm down so if that happens only communicate with him through Tech do that that way it's in black and white if he says can I come over you say no and then he does come over that breaks the bond condition on his half that shows that you did not want him here and he broke the consensual encounter with you okay it goes both ways it's not just you you're not just the bad guy in the whole situation it only is accepted if you invite him over then we can't act on him being here so it's not just because you're in trouble that's not how that works it's both ways and then if he does come over and show up you just call us you don't let him in just kid so much bigger than okay so then let's work on getting a different situation set up let's work on a TPO or family we have family protection centers that can help with that so if it really is that you're scared of him factor or he's scared of you factor or whatever let's work on a TPO between the two of you rather than just Bond conditions rather than just caving in into the okay let's be together and then this happens again sorry you're good and then this happens again does that make sense so instead of just saying you're scared of him and then allowing him to still come over and then Us ending up here let's come up with a different solution and I'm willing to help you with that but we've got to come up with a middle ground she she yeah does the panic attack to tr yeah knowing that she could be in like she just start breathing doing all that she induces an asthma attack I have a whole pamphlet of things that I can give you if you really do want to try to get protection whether the outcome of today isn't how you want to or not what's what's he saying about this door cuz that deadbolt is engaged it's still open so yeah is he really trying to lie to you this say he didn't no I just didn't hear what he said that's why I was asking the other officer but I can see that this is this is engaged this is lo yeah I I can see that and I can feel it it's locked can I get EMS to come check out my foot last night my foot got ran over by his car and it hurts so bad where's that blood coming from on your shirt do you have any idea was it there yesterday okay call do you have any any open window on you you want to come stand with you and just see okay you have a hallway light I don't know it doesn't work where's your foot Hur at it's just like the top of it all of it like it hurts to walk on it it hurts to like move my toes it hurts to do anything with the FL let me give me an honest answer is from the cuts on your legs yes was it when was that when was that so you tried to last night yes okay no don't freak out about that that's something we can help with are there any other Cuts is your finger it was okay do you want to get a bandaid or do you want to wait until the gets here I'd rather just have okay can you be honest with them about your legs and your arm please like you said you're 17 and the same hand that's you've got tons of times going miss my brother he passed away on Thanksgiving day and it's about to be a year that he's been going I don't know what to do okay so why don't you communicate that he doesn't care okay he broke up with me at his funeral he made jokes about it when we saw his body in the casket so where where's your mom my mom is probably at her boyfriend's house right now um after last night she was just kind of done with it she just kind of like okay like what happened last night we just got to like an argument because I wanted him to leave and he was just like just like arguing back and forth and then he he would to give me my stuff like my clothes and stuff out of his car and then when I like they like punched his but eventually this got to stop right if she pay for this we got to agree to break up and G for good like that's it so even if we not together I don't want how to jail so the police helped you with that and then the courts try to help you with that right yeah but if the if I went to my insurance she was going to have to pay 1,500 but I just ins it's a criminal it's a criminal issue ins not it's not we're not talking about fixing Windows we're talking about somebody going to jail with a felony family violence charge that we had to fight right here in front of your very eyes and then you voluntarily being back over here and that being a violation of her bond condition if she goes back to jail how much of that can be concluded as being your contributing to that all maybe not all of it but she's the person that did what she orally did that got her that position the part of it it doesn't have to be all of it's your fault it could be just the part of you choose to be back over here you don't have to accept the invite yeah why I meanz she invited you over and the same thing will be said to her is that if you just show up over here that she's welcome to call us and say hey this Bond condition is in place I'm not supposed to be around Donell and he's at my doorstep the problem is is neither one of y'all are doing that because y'all think it's just you know whatever an insurance matter whatever you're considering it's not that though I mean it's way beyond that you think it's you know how much business do the police have getting involved in it every time coming over here and doing all that like we had to do last and I had to do that all the way out to like punched his window just to like get his attention and then he ran over my foot with the car and then she was just like I'm like I'm done with this like this has been going on for like a year and a half and she just wants some peace at her house she hasn't been able to G about her son because she's to worried that I'm either going to die or end up in jail or vice versa which are you not afraid of that I am now that I'm that I'm old enough to go to jail because I went and I don't I don't want to I don't want to live that life I'm supposed to be the successful one out of the family and I'm going down this road because I missed my brother and I don't know how to cope with it or deal with my emotions the right way let me put this out there it looks like the split between you and your mom is because of him correct the distance Yes she hates it so let's get him out of the picture so you have somebody to lean on to cope with there's nobody better to cope with than somebody that also lost the same thing you lost the brother she lost the son you've got to rely on that you've got to lean on that you have somebody here right now that got here before almost as soon as we did she cares about you you have people caring but you've got to get out of this situation because you're going to end up killing ties like your mom last night we are I already killed it there's so many things that have said to her out of anger I'll never be able to takeen back but I know that she replays it in her head over and over again okay but the best thing that you could do for her is to get out of this situation and then you can work on fixing y'all's Bond that's how you fix this baby that's what you've got to do this you think she wants to hear her kid always hurt and always stuck no that sucks as a mom but you're not willing to get out of it do you need me barber no I'm good EMS is coming okay that means have no problem paying for his window right right here right now I just want to put that out there for you to tell your other officers I would pay that like I just don't want to go okay it's um depending on what you like they have chicken steak and shrimp or you can get all free it's called a special it comes on a bed of rice and it comes with a side of cabbage and St okay so it's like uh is it like Mexican style or it like almost like uh Oriental style type stuff yeah okay I was 17 because it was literally like 2 days after my birthday that I got arrested for this stuff for um criminal damage to property and the second degree in obstruction of the um yeah I I didn't know that you you flaged to fight don't fight us I know I was just so angry because like when the officers came they literally like did not even ask me anything they just arrested me they just tried to Cuff me I was like that's not fair like you was there a witness um I'm not POS I know that somebody called the police a was just like in the same breath when I went to jail for that he busted my window too my my my window had been busted for months now but when I when I cracked his he took a pool stick and he shattered my too and nothing happened to him and it's just so annoying that away with this that's not entirely true we've got to communicate that and if you have any kind of text messages videos anything people that see it that needs to be communicated too haly EMS is here I'm going to go grab them for you okay you guys been out here before uh last night yeah last night it wasn't us that random but we heard it come out just be aware that she is she can be she can change her her uh her attitude at the drop of a had so just you know take it nice and easy with her she's calm down at the moment so she's sitting on the stairs cuz she can't walk down them cool cool yeah so she's at the top of the stairs therey I can I can sit with you if you want me to honey we can help that I'll with you no problem at all I've been you you can bear all your weight realistically on you're pretty you're pretty small I go to the gym for something I don't go to the gym at all I don't know how it is in in uh Georgia with the front windshield like that I know in Florida front windshield there's no deductible Insurance wise at least CU it's technically required by law that you have a clean not yeah hold hold on you stay right there don't move just stay there stay there and don't don't say a word just just stay [Music] there gotcha nice and easy here you go good deal all right okay I'm just going to put one seat Bel on you while we're moving okay that way you don't get bumped around too much okay just breathe it's okay okay I know he I'm staying with you I told you that we're right here okay all right we're here to helpy I said we're just going to get in the truck and then we'll take a look and have a conversation yeah okay all right get your way from everybody let's get you sitting down get you in there all right okay let's get the foot checked out all right make sure everything else is good okay you mention anything about running over her foot last night I don't know I don't know about last night okay well it's very they just said it needs to be ex yeah what happened last night what what happened last night with all this I don't know they said they got to call like to check up on okay that's why they told me so were you like were I mean was there was there like an argument or stuff like that last night too no that wasn't me that wasn't nothing all right they told me they her for a check up where something okay everything was all right last were you here that were you here when that happened yeah okay they was just checking up on her about like they said they got a call from a friend right that's why they care so what happened with her foot you know what happened how that got hurt my chance I wasn't no there we couldn't find her she wasn't in the house with the Poli last night yeah okay what about so any ideas to what Okay can me sit with I'm going to come on that side he ain't saying nothing about the foot from last night or how how the foot may have happened he doesn't know how that that call came in she told us it was just a welfare check but it even the neighbor said that she was out here hitting this car last night with a rock okay I mean I can't cuz obviously that there's something going on with that foot I can't tell what for sure there if we don't go to the hospital get to looked at what's the actual plan for yeah for everything right no you're good that's not that's not even what we're talking about H so I'm not a cop I'm not doing anything but take me to the hospital okay I'm here for you and your he that's it no one else I'm here to take care of you so whatever you need that's what we're here for we have nothing to do with them as much as we like them that's we ain't got nothing to do with them I'm just scared to leave because every time I go to the hospital leave and he's still here he goes in my house and he takes my things okay we're I'm going to stand by until that door is replaced nobody's going to go in there he's being asked to go home if that's your fear that can be resolved easily I just don't want to go Haley if we were going to jail you would be in handcuffs right now that is not the case there all right it's probably the best you're going to get there come on out that's what it looks like without the frame actually repl at this point whatever while we're here wait you can go all right so go get it now while we're here we'll fix back and we'll yeah we'll fix it back make sure she's okay take the hook can she just tell her by really quick yeah yeah absolutely I'm not go I got you I got you but her door was already no I know all right where's your stuff at upstairs hey get stuff he's going get his stuff make sure yeah I know I'm going up there with him just make sure you don't take anything but your stuff yeah all I have was a couple pens shirt okay that I spent the night that was it all right so that's all you brought over was just clothes in here hey do you see her phone yeah right there and her Asma pump she going need that oh yeah she might need that the white one right there there just in case she got pumps that's right one this one yeah okay okay I was told she'll probably need that too thank you you're welcome thank y'all there we go it's about as secure as I can get it yeah it's going to stay like that not charge it can't I don't know I don't see how it got broken otherwise yeah it's not been pulling pulling her in and out no that's not and she if if he was cuz he was saying that she was he was on the outside trying to hold it from her getting in she's she's broken the door before yeah kind of makes me think she would break it the suspect was released from the hospital and later booked for violation of Family Violence order and Criminal Trespass damage to property what do you think about this incident comment below if you enjoyed the video leave a like And subscribe for more