and I can't breathe at this point so he got his face his hand all in my face are you okay you want to talk and what happened you guys know what um grinder is yeah yeah yeah last night on April 12th 2022 officers responded to a call about a domestic in progress between two boyfriends apparently they cheated on each other and threw hands and well it's complicated you'll see what I mean how's it going but he's being domestic but he already don't try to put his hand on me and stuff like that so I called y'all just get him out of there cuz that's my house so is he on the lease no okay has he ever lived with you um he lived with me quite some time but I've been paying all the bills okay how is he still live here no okay so how long ago was it that he that he lived here with you four months four months ago okay uh so he's been living somewhere else huh yeah he was living somewhere else okay um but he's here he's refusing to leave yeah he he he put his hands on me and I was trying to get off U well when I came in um I accused him of cheating cuz I was at work and I said we're going to talk about when we get off and pretty much I'm leaving you so once I told himad wait wait wait so y'all were in a relationship up until today yeah okay so he's now your ex-boyfriend but up to this point you were together yeah and once I got home I'm laying in the bed and he's saying like you're not talking to me so he sit down on me and I'm trying to get up meanwhile he's holding down is this from him yeah is this from him yeah okay do you have your driver's license with you if it's inside just stay out here for now hey okay hey just stay out here for now and talk to me this in your car okay okay so tell me from the beginning you were home already or he was home he was home already he was home already okay so he's not living here for 4 months but he has a key to get in no he doesn't so how do you get in um he's staying here while I go to work and okay so so which is it is he staying here with you or is he not I'm confused oh not anymore that's today okay so so let's back up a little minute you told me he was not staying here for 4 months yeah he was staying here for four months he was staying up he was your boyfriend and he's been staying here up until today yeah okay so today is the end of when he's staying here today is the end end of when he's been your boyfriend today is the end of his okay so he does live here he is your boyfriend but as up to date neither of the things you won't have in the case okay I'm tracking now so you came home from work uhhuh okay what happened um so I came home for work I went straight to the bed cuz I didn't want to talk I was I had a long day at work so he comes in and proceeded to saying like talk to me and stuff like that and I'm saying like I don't want to talk like the messages already there like what message what what are you talking about um him cheating basically okay so had you been texting him while you're at work or vice versa or yeah I was telling him like we're going to have to have a talk like when we get home okay so what's the good pH number for you are there any weapons in the house I know nothing okay uh go ahead sorry yeah but I I went to the bed and he proceeded to come in there I wasn't talking I wasn't responding I was on my phone he then takes my phone from me I had to go to the car run to the car and get my second phone in my car and he was just you know trying to hold me down and stuff like that so I'm getting off him meanwhile he just slinging me around he broke my bed and stuff like that I don't know what he end up doing now but he was saying like um just open the phone and stuff like that I said I don't have to let you open my phone because I changed the password on purpose cuz I know you going to take my phone and not let me try to get it and call for help or something like that he's up there calling his mom now and basically talking about come get him and he got charges and stuff like that but I I told him does he have warrants out or something I don't know what he got what's his name uh mother J has been living here for 4 months okay as of today he doesn't want them living here they've been a relationship he's got I scratches from today okay and he got home they been texting him uh while he was at work you found out that he was cheating onbe or something like that okay hey I need to talk to you about this kind of thing uh when we get home he came home didn't want to talk about it um this Jan came into the bathro sat on top of you yeah sat on top of it took his pH and [Music] all tting you and scratching you yeah basically once he had his hand on my neck like just trying to hold me down I think plate on the side over here I see right there maybe a little bruising I can't tell can you turn your head that way a little bit so maybe a little bit of red that's hard to tell it's hard to tell yeah do you feel any soreness no not right now not hard to swallow not hard anything like that okay yeah I see scratches here scratch here mark under your eye anywhere else for H righto is he still here yeah he's up there I I gave him a chance I said get your get your stuff and call your your parents to come get you he didn't want to do that and he proceeded I said I was going to call you guys and he was Ned up okay and what point did you actually get to leave uh I had to run out the house okay like he he had me up in the locked me up in the bathroom I mean in the bedroom and once I got out the the door I had to run out the house he followed me out here but when I was on phone with the operator he went back in the house to proceed to pack his St okay okay okay um so you had to escape basically huh you had to escape the house yeah basically I had to run out and he was following me out here and then I had to go right back up there to get in my car to get my phone okay all righty which apartment yours all right you're not leaving right oh no okay hey how's it going what's going on today um today I found my boyfriend cheating so I'm leaving okay well here sit here and talk to us for a second like like what's going on last night I'm not really sure you guys know what um grinder is yeah yeah yeah last night I found him basically going through that and on Snapchat talking to other guys we've been together since January as you can see I've moved all my stuff in this house from Loganville I don't stay in Athens I'm not from Athens so really and truly I'm like really super done just now he tried to fight with me to because I'm packing my things up I really am ready to go at this okay well tell me about the fight what happened when we were in the room I went to go get my things as I've been trying to pack myself earlier um when I went in there he was trying to basically tell me about how we need to stick it through and all this other stuff and I'm like I don't want to do that anymore because we've kind of done this a few times now it's probably work time now that something is going on I'm 23 and I'm only getting older and I'm still with people who are just playing you get what I'm saying and so and overall like when I was trying to walk out of the room it started getting me with a whole bunch of stuff candles this phone all for the things and throwing them at me when he started throwing them at me I basically pushed him off of me held him down and he kept hitting me when he kept hitting me basically I went to the closet I went to the closet to get some of my clothes he pushed me down on the bed and was like like on top of me and hitting me with his phone and I was trying to kick him off me when I was kicking my legs I ended up like this was higher so i k it I fell down because he got like I want to touch you but he kind of he could stand right here he kind of like pushed me back when I pushed back fell on the bed yeah he was like like trying to like hold bear hug me or stuff and I was like he's small so I was trying to push him off of me but he wasn't getting off so I started to like kick my legs when I kicked my legs this ended up kicking off and then he was like trying to like tell me oh stay stay stay so then I took his phone cuz he was hitting me with it and he was like give me my phone give me my phone give me my phone and I was like I'm not giving you your phone cuz you keep hitting me with me and then after a while he was like he got up and I just started going back to packing my stuff up he ran out of the door and I'm like I need my stuff in your car too you have stuff of my in your car so can I get all of my stuff and so I didn't know if he was like trying to keep me from getting my things I didn't know if he wanted to keep me in the relationship I don't know but I'm ready to go it yeah so he was hitting you in the face with the phone he was hitting me in the back back my head back of the head yeah so with the phone and he thre this at me okay do you have any marks on you like bumps where hit you in back of the head I don't feel any I just it kind of hurts a little bit but he was hitting like he had his phone just cuning me yeah that's good yeah so he was just like cuning me in the back of my head with his phone and then he like I was saying he was standing over here I was standing over there he hit me in the back of my head my bin that gray one was just right there I was throwing stuff in it from behind the TV you do that candle okay do you have your ID on you have to look for it so were you when y'all were struggling I mean were you fighting back were you hitting him back were you was like I said I was pushing him back so he was like he he was he was on top of me and I was like hitting him so I I mean it wasn't like I didn't get full blows in but I was like like I said pushing him stuff like that trying to get him off of me he wasn't getting off of me he kept hit me with his phone on top of me so that's when I find so if he if he was hitting with your phone on top of you how was he hitting in the back of the head with it he had me right here I was trying to get him off of me he was hitting me right here okay so from the side of the head okay okay yeah that's yeah so he was hitting me in the back of the head with the side sorry the back head see any any scratches on on your face that you feel or I don't no no I didn't see what's the on the neck back like I said I mean I've been packing my stuff since he's been outside so I don't know haven't really looked why did anything happen here is this from a previous thing or what what is the mark right there do you know no so I mean if you didn't touch you there then it wasn't from today right that's what I'm saying I mean I wouldn't think so I know that we were doing a lot so I was trying to get him off of that's really what I was thinking about what like like I said I don't feel anything so I can't really say oh yeah I feel that I don't know with that being said we were doing a lot my whole Focus was getting up and getting out yeah cuz like he always threatens to like do this whenever I cuz like I said this has happened a few times every time I try to cuz I've threatened to leave before when I've threatened to leave like he'll say random crazy stuff like oh I'm going to call the cops like I'm I I'm going to call the police on you I'm like for what though like and that in sense I'm like what are you like what are you trying to get out of me and so before he said oh you know I'm just playing you know it's nothing like that and so I've never really taken him that serious but I'm like okay you're sitting here doing all of this you calling the cops on me is a going to make me stay with you and I don't know if you thinks that's cute I don't know if I don't I don't know if it's supposed to be like a cute toxic thing I don't know but it's it's I'm really done at this point can you hold your hands out for me were you doing any kind of close fist hitting when you're doing to him um no not really not really okay you just kind of open Palm just get off get off get off yeah okay okay thank yes Mom hello yeah you can find your ID for us yeah mom said to tell you um when I was I had her on the phone so when this was all going on and he was screaming that he was going to call the police she told me to do the same but he's the only one with phones at work my phone's off so I can't call you is that his phone or your phone he's the only one with phones that work with signal my phone is the only one that like I don't have service on my phone so I can't call you guys your phone can call 911 yes all all phones can call 911 okay well yeah I don't I didn't how how are you calling right now then I don't understand if you WiFi WhatsApp so you could okay WhatsApp I got you hello yeah yes ma'am okay uh um when my son called me they tell me about going minut okay so I don't see any marks on your son right now um he's saying he got hit in the back of the head um but that that is yes ma'am I I I understand nothing nothing that would happened to him I don't think requires an EMS response I don't think he's had any kind of brain injury or anything like that um I I don't see any marks again we will be here I don't know if we'll be at this Residence at that time but we'll see about what takes place in the next few minutes okay we still got to talk with both individuals get everything sorted out okay okay no problem yes ma'am I got you so did anyone see like what was happening thinking the neighbors might have heard anything I don't know okay um like we were both yelling a lot so probably with that being said overall I was trying like really and truly it happened really fast I was trying to get back to my stuff like overall like I said we had this argument before we've been in this situation before so it's like were youall texting back and forth while he was at work about having a conversation when he got home that kind of thing he texted me so basically he texted me saying the same thing okay um when I went in my phone last night basically what's been happening can you show us the text yeah I can show you the text it still States like I said that was him stating saying what he said to me okay I like I said I spoke to him so he was trying to tell me that because grinder was on my phone that I was cheating on him and so overall I basically said I'm not going to have this argument with you period because the reason I downloaded it was because I had found him with like Tinder and stuff on his phone and I wanted to see if he was like had those same accounts on different things so when I downloaded grinder it was to see basically what like he had going on when I went and saw that I went in his Snapchat and there were like multiple different messages with guys that were deleted so I was like I'm done putting up with different situ of like okay we're not doing this but okay so you're saying you had a conversation before this about him being on grinder so the thing is no I when I saw it I saw it when I went on his grinder profile it had like the way it will pop up grinder will pop up like an account but it won't bring up it won't bring up the account if like let's say you just deleted it like it'll say that an account was like open within the last 24 hours so you can't open a new one under that email that's what happened so I'm like I'm not dumb if you just had an account open 24 hours ago and we're in like a relationship obviously we were doing something so then when I went on Snapchat and I saw more stuffff I was like I'm finished with it I we then we had text last night when we had sex we were done I went to sleep I woke up I guess to those messages when I woke up to those messages I was like I'm not even arguing with you because every time that it happens to be like a situation where I like see something or I notice something it's always is like he kind of jumps in front of me and so when I got back when he got here I was like and he saw me packing my stuff he was like trying to talk to me and I was like I don't want to talk I don't want to talk about anything and then that's when he started to like try to hold me back try to kiss on me try to talk to me I was like I don't want to talk to me I'm good did you find your ID no know about I say you want to transport him I'll take the report and I'll do you have photos of his yet or I haven't got those I can get those if you need me to if you transfer I'll get them you can just me for all the stuff he side to before I got here yeah I'll go back over with him yeah I know I'm thinking just that nothing else CU their stories or both you know the only we can actually prove is when hello hey is it okay though home yeah no that's fine okay can I ask you a quick question have you been here all day yeah did you hear any kind of arguments going on recently earlier about um like 4ish 4ish okay so about 30 minutes 40 minutes ago okay you don't have to know who was making more argument or anybody was making more argument than the other do you I'm say if you can't find it I can get your off my in the car'll get when comes back in here I don't even know who okay I know it's a man yeah he's got two dogs yeah um but you just heard an argument that's about all you can tell is we're always doing there thank you wel I got a piece of paper left my notebook in the car yeah no I'm right now sry good of my ID Mom I don't how long have you lived here since January January probably 14 all right so about four month is there anything else you need for me yeah well so push ARR okay you said you're going to place me under arrest can I ask for what for battery family BS mom they arresting me for battery and Family Violence thank you family vs battery I don't know a court County Athens Court County Clark County Athens Clark County what for what no this doesn't make any sense no Mom finish my mom like talking to my mom please that's up at this offer would I please be able to finish talking to my mom pleas I want say while we're walking out there if you need to finish up anything yeah okay mom please hurry up the service is going to disconnect my stuff is at house how do I get I don't know at this point mom here so we'll we'll tell come to get your stuff and we can hang out for a minute or two but we can't stay long okay okay all right I have to go your phone or yeah this is mine mine have to go they were taking me out now okay are you listening to me mom talk quick I don't know okay so so ma'am when he gets to the jail and he's processed he'll be able to give you a phone call then and he'll let you know when he needs a ride and stuff okay you yes ma'am uh he'll be able to give you a call we're taking his phone with him so he should to get the you're number out of the phone okay yeah I can go to I can go to's house and pick up his items right I'll I'll let him know that you're coming and we'll try to facilitate that but we can't stay here long okay okay ma'am there's issue you can call us back yeah yeah so if we're not here and it becomes an issue you can call us back and we'll come out okay okay thank yes ma'am yeah um how do you hang up this WR um just swipe up Mom it's hanging up now tap that green on the top left you just swipe up from the bottom top left oh that one yeah and then um right there in that bottom right corner okay bye okay yeah um my medicine is there this go it has my name on what is it is it something you need every day kind of thing so we need to take it with you yes okay where is it it's in that cabet this one okay all right f it this vehicle back here all right so we got to get your pat down real quick you anything sharp pointy anything that's going to catch you in trouble in jail cuz you find it now it's okay if it's not jail they're going get no I don't check okay um if you keep me handc would I be able to put on an underwear you don't have underwear on no I don't no not right now all right so this his wallet yeah okay all right so here's your wallet add him to the call real quick you just way to face me and sit straight back I know there's not a lot of room so you can just scoot all the way across and keep your legs on the seat if you need to please fix this this ain't right man like I said you can keep your legs on the seat if you need to there's not a l all right uh his mom is on the way here to get his stuff will you let her get his stuff yeah okay if it becomes an issue for her or him or you give us a call or she'll give us a call or whatever we can come back out and facilitate okay unless you try to come back again if it becomes an issue uh for whatever reason just give us a call back and we'll come out out okay all right um or if you want to breakast this she said she was like 20 minutes away 5 to 10 minutes ago so maybe 10 to 15 minutes away at this point all right um if it becomes an issue for you or her like I said for any reason just give me call we'll come back out we'll stick around for just a minute while we deal with this want to go over with Story one more time uh kind of tell me just in your own words from beginning of like argument to coming home to what happened to when we got here kind of thing okay so earlier this morning I have his pH go my phone transer can you just finish up his statement and take pictures yeah that's F to the call okay I found out that he was know trying to up he said he wanted me to get arrested so at this point sir this is Family Violence even if he said right now he didn't want you to go to jail and he wasn't pressing charges the state still would and so is the the reason that I'm being arrested because I just simply didn't call you guys first no the reason of being arrested is based on the physical evidence we established you the predominant aggressor can I ask how if he was hitting me I mean I'm just asking he had multiple wounds Mama Bear ended up showing up before the officer left here's how that went so I'm like I'm at work so I'm going to try to keep a positive attitude while I'm at work okay so I tell him we're going to talk when I get home so I'm having a good day at work and it's tiring and stuff like that I go to get in the bed already work okay can I see your hands but I go to work I mean I get off work and I go straight to my bed yeah he comes in there oh you're not going to say hey you're not going to say hey you you sent the text like you badass or something like that I'm like I'm not I'm not trying to talk provoking like you're trying to get a certain en so then when I'm not talking to him you know he's just lays down he just put all his b body weights on me so I'm trying to get up and stuff like that when you say he lays down were you already laying down yeah I was laying down comes and lay down okay so he lay down in what way did he lay down you lay uh across you on top of you face to face back to face he was laying like like trying to put his head on your chest or what kind of laying down like he put his body like going di for mine so like this yeah okay and then he eventually got right in my face like okay face to face okay so then so was he straddling you was he one side off one side on this eventually leads to that cuz I'm I'm trying to get up and then he we fall on the right side of the bed and so there's a dresser on one side and a wall on the other yeah the wall that wall side okay so he just laying down me I'm on the ground I I asked for water and he just got his like body weight just all on me and I can't breathe at this point so he got his face his hand all in my face trying to put like that and stuff like that he ends up you know were yall saying anything to each other huh were yall saying anything to each other I I told him he need to leave he was like I'm not leaving to open his phone and I'm telling you like I said I paid his phone bill and you're not going to this was why he was on top of you smacking you in the face yeah so I'm doing all that and he didn't proceed I got up I ran on the other side of the room he goes and lock the door and then he tooks my phone and threw it like down the hallway so I can't call nobody his phone is off so then so he took your phone and threw it out of the bedroom yeah out the hallway where where you were at yeah so you were in the hallway with your phone where you could have gotten to it no he we was in the room I was on you were still in the room with yeah so what happened about being in the hallway then he throws the phone in the hallway okay and then closes the door behind it yeah so you're still in the room with him yeah he locks the door okay go ahead and now I can't call nobody I have to um so he goes over here about the dresser where the corner at and then I'm tossed over the bed and then I run out the door how did you run out the door you have to what you how' you get out the door you're fine I basically had to unlock the door and you know just bus running out there okay so then I run out the door I come to the car cuz I have my phone right my second phone right here MH so I then I'm on this side he over here so I'm trying to unlock the door he trying to race me to the phone cuz he know the phone is out here in the car so what about the phone in the hallway um I didn't pick that up I just ran I just ran outside yeah just trying to get away yeah I ain't had no shoes and nothing so I come out here and call the phone and basically he was saying I wouldn't let him get his stuff where the dispatch was talking the door was wide open the car was wide open I'm over here I'm I said get your stuff he saying no because you go or call the police I said yes I'm call the police you put your hands on like you're you're provoking me and I said I I'm not doing the Rong I'm not doing no vience I'm just trying to you know deescalate the situation and get you out of my house okay did you did you ever strike him in defense or otherwise I swear to God did you throw anything at him no um so you just kind of laid there and let him hit you I'm I'm getting off I'm trying to get him off so yeah so how are you doing that I'm just like you know move okay so how'd you get scratches on your arms he he did that don't know he just had me everywhere he just tossing me everywhere okay he pulled my hair and all that stuff okay um but you never struck him at all no okay I mean cuz you know self-defense and selfdefense I mean if you need to defend yourself that's that's by all means okay I I didn't didn't touch him okay so other than other than when he's on top of you trying to push him off of you you never picked up anything to threw at him you never struck him you just verbalizing say get off me you know we're not we're dealing with the phone thing no uh and then you were able to get him off of you yeah I had no he the only reason I I could get out this room was that he was over here trying to pack his stuff and I just ran out the house okay so he eventually got off of you of his own accord yeah okay after y'all had tussled or whatever yeah I a little break or something but I had ran I was quick with it so so where did we get from so initially what you told me is that You' been texting at work you found out at some point that he had been on grinder tender whatever kind of thing he thought he was cheating on you you text in hey we're going to talk about this when I get home when you got home you decided you didn't want to talk about it and he no I went straight to the the bedroom I laid down and then when he come hold on one second and he basically no ma'am he basically saying like you're not going nowhere you're not you're not doing this and stuff like that I'm trying to get off okay let me go talk to her real quick cuz I think this is Mom and I'll get the rest of this for me okay mom yes okay I'm so confused yeah so we responded to a domestic violence call this gentleman his former boyfriend now boyfriend they've been living together for four months stated that they needed he to come out that he had been hitting on him whatever we come out start speaking with him he's got ru's eyes scratched on his face marks on his body obvious signs of some kind of we want to talk away from them we can that's that's fine obvious signs of some kind of struggle that went on um so he's telling us one side we go upstairs talk to your son he tells us another side um not seeing anything in relation to the struggle on him MH uh because they have been living together because they are in a relationship and because we can't see marks on this gentleman one we suspect to be Pride the predominant aggressor uh so that is why he is the one that's arrested today for battery because we can see see the marks on the other gentleman um the stories are dissimilar they're they're they're all going to be on the report as far as both sides of it so what happens now how do I get them out I mean is there a bail with that yes so there can be a bail for that um it is a domestic battery Family Violence domestic battery uh is that domestic violence domestic violence yes I'm sorry so that's going to be on his record as domestic violence if he gets convicted of it yes so this is all preliminary to actual trial and this is just we have probable calls to believe he's predominant aggressor we can see marks we can say there was an argument and a fight goes on this is a gentleman that has the marks on him your son was involved in that based on both stories based on all the evidence we think that he was a prominant aggressor not to say that there was not equal aggression on one side of the other not to say that this other young man didn't do something to him but we from what we can tell so where now right now the other officer has taking him to County Jail where he'll be booked in um so that's aens CL County Jail on Lexington Road is that far from here uh you're not familiar with aens no from Loganville I understand um we are my husband and my my other son is on their way okay from Loganville so I'm just going to start taking out his stuff okay am I able to do that yeah so I'll St here for a minute if you want to grab some of his stuff yeah are you do you know what is actually his though yeah that's why I brought my two girls okay because he just he just came and took everything out sday okay how long has he been he's been living here for a while has he not no he um this is April I'm sorry my husband just had surgery you're fine um probably since February January February okay so yeah that's about the time frame we we got from both these FAS that they've been living together sometimes between early January up till now so you're saying he just moved stuff into here recently but they've been living together for a when he said he moved the stuff yeah and he didn't put it I don't know what inside it look like but he didn't put it in his respective areas cuz he found out the little boy was cheating on him okay and so he said he was he called and he said M little I said okay I'll come get you m so then I heard you know I heard it back and forth and I said why is he arguing and he said he's cheating and he doesn't want me to leave I said I'm on my way and I said where the stuff you picked up and he said everything is still by D in the area I don't know okay so we're getting a little bit different stories between what I guess there was being conveyed to you and what we're being told both of these gentlemen have said they've been living here together since January so I don't know about anything things I don't know if there was things that he just didn't bring over that you know okay that kind of thing but that that's where we're going with that yeah so if you need to go to yeah you come come help I don't even know where the place is which one of the um it is gentleman that is living with him if we can are you okay you want to talk and what happened I I told he was cheating and this not the first time he was cheating I forgave him the previous time so when I got home for work I told him we're going to talk and get home for work I walked right to the room because I wasn't in mood to talk and he was looking provocative like just s up tapping his like his leg and stuff like that so when I go to the bed he just I'm laying down and just falls on me and just puts all his body weight on me so I'm like you need to get up or I'm going to call your mom or the police he's like no you're not doing nothing you're not call police yeah this is my this is my you want to go sit in the car for a minute okay we'll I going to I told you to come out to help me get this stuff out so when I do that then he touchs with me he threw me out the bed and stuff like that and basically saying like um he said you're going to talk to me and stuff like that then he gets up he throws my phone out the the the hallway so I can't call you and or the police so then he locks the door he goes on the other side of the bed by the dresser and the square over there and then I had to run out the house ain't have no shoes no nothing on I had to get my other phone and call um the police I said I gave him plenty of warnings I said I can call your mom or I can call the police he didn't want me to call nobody so I come comes out here to the car I ran out here and called the police and I'm so sorry to all this happen I'm just going to get his stuff all right good can I get your name since I did speak with you for a minute do you have your driver's license on you that'd be quick as thing just so I can put the system it still has my maiden name that's okay my wife had hers men name on there for quite a minute some of those things just take a minute yeah and she had to decide if she wanted to take my or she wanted to do a split thing or she finally decided just to keep both cuz it's easier on paperwork down the road thank you you're welcome hold on what's a good phone number for you hello um hello how about we move this vehicle yeah that's okay hello move from behind the car she's going to move it over to sparking spot so sorry you're fine nobody's behind the car right you EMS or anything okay um so he obviously going to jail right now for battery Family Violence so if if he come back and mess with my car I so you think he'd come back and mess with something I mean okay um I'm going to get a pamphlet for you it's a Family Violence pamphlet uh for Family Violence relationships um like I said that is something you can use because you'll have that case number if you need to go take a TPO if you feel like your life is in danger if you feel like you need I'll go 71 for the night yeah yeah I don't think he'd be getting out tonight based on the charges um it it seems unlikely so yeah okay um you mind if I go inside good okay Officer yes ma'am um how do I I tell y'all are familiar with each other okay how long have y'all I mean you've actually been dating um for a minute so yall familiar with each other's families up to a certain point yeah um she actually told me to um call him I mean call her if I have any problems out that's why I gave him an option I said I can call your mom okay she told you to call her if there were any issues yeah it was like a while B like two two week to go okay so why why would she what was the conversation involved with that we were just talking about random stuff like we was it was right before I had surgery so we just we were sitting in the car talking just about random stuff she was talking about her all that so what stuff um about his music and stuff like that and she just up and said if I have any problem I just call um her okay I mean context can help so so what was the context of conversation that you that she felt she could say hey if you what was you know was like if you have any issues with me if there was any issues just in your relationship there just any issues cuz hey you know I'm a mom and I want to be there for you the same way I'm there for my son no no she um she was saying like um she said if you um ever put I mean decide to put hands on my son um give me a but I didn't put my hands on your so so I put your hands on me so I was going to call her to you know okay so that that's a little different conversation it sounds like so what was the context of the conversation where she was was she giving a warning I don't know we were just talking about random St about his music we jump from music to acting and all that and then that's when that came up so okay yeah I don't know if did you feel like it was a warning did you feel like it was a I mean a little bit but you know was it a warning in the sense of you have to deal with me kind of Mama Bear kind of warning or is it warning like um I I guess like she can deescalate any situation with him I guess if you feel like you never need to yeah be in a situation where there's going to be violence with my my son just give me a call and I can mediate or something like that is that what you took it as felt like that's the context you was intending to convey uhhuh okay so yeah let me go get last four let me get my camera we'll take some pictures last for oh no no no for the case oh um we'll take some pictures of your your wounds and everything uh I'll stick around for a minute and let her facilitate getting stuff out if that's okay if you something you feel like you need me to stick around for I can if not I can get out of here just depends what you want to do I know it just you know if they family come I huh I said they whole family come my yeah yeah so I I'll Stick Around for a minute it looks like they're going to get most of it out pretty quick um but like said let me go get the camera and take some pictures okay this is the victim's Bill rights so this will we give to F violence victims all these services and the numbers if you need any of them they're free okay so don't have to worry about paying for anything so do you recommend me to um go to the shop and get like a car inspection or something like a car inspection what do you mean I I'm I'm 100% huh I'm just 100% going to be back so I'm not sure I'm fallowing about the car inspection what does that have to do with anything or maybe you're not I'm not what do you mean a car inspection like in case you mess with my car or something like right now I'm talking about like anytime you know I stay I don't understand what do you mean mess with your car like pop the tires like yeah any of that if that happens then you call us I I'm not sure what an inspection would do all right I'm just not I'm not I'm not understanding I know if y'all going be like is it him or or something like that cuz yeah well I mean this this builds up to that so I mean if if you suspect it was him I mean if he gets out tomorrow and then you know 5:00 p.m. and 600 p.m. your car's got four flat tires on it got a pretty idea that you know who who else would be interested in doing that kind of thing you know what I mean um but this is for you um let me take some pictures right now for that depending on shade and stuff we might have to go stand in the shade see stands up let's go stand in the shade over here let's yeah one more anywhere else on this arm anywhere right there anything else in this arm yeah I think that's it that's it anything on your knees your legs that you're aware of no feel okay so then it's just face thin face and neck okay let's get there we go so birth mark how about the rest of that uh no that's not worth Mark okay so that's not that's something that should be there gotcha anywhere on your forehead how about your lips not nothing okay let me get another picture your eye cuz that eye is where I kind of want to all right I think that's everything all right that's good appreciate you um any questions for me no not okay got it more family hband okay do they not talk I mean I don't know what to do I I've never had this so what do you mean about they don't talk so yeah when my son comes out when your son comes out being that he has lived here he right I don't know I mean I don't know if I have to ask him he works from home so I know three computers are gone from my house over here okay so so here's here's what we have he can get a TPO but your son is established residency so even though he's not on the league need to be evicted that being said there are Bond conditions that could be applied that say Hey you can't be within 100t of this person or you can't live in the same residence I would tell your son if it were you talking to him come stay with us or just that's where he's going okay so I'm just wondering that's why I'm trying to get everything out of here so there's no need to have that communication yeah so that that would be the best thing I have to knock him in his head telling me about a conversation I guess you and he had had not too long ago and and he mentioned a little bit about what was going you have any what what was that conversation what was that implying uh how far how long not too long ago um it was something about saying that uh he could call you yes I said to him again I've just started being liberal since my son show me his sexuality yes ma'am so with a female and a male father said to the gentleman if you need me it's all if my daughter's going crazy you my daughter you can't get it across to my daughter yeah so is that what you're trying to do I was trying to come off like the mother I'm not biased against Y no no lifestyle so I said you know if you ever want to talk you know call me because you're America we're wested so if you ever don't understand mindset because the barrier just give me a call and I'll explain it to you because eyes like myself this may mean one thing if if I say to you okay I'm done we don't have any to come toate we don't have to stop we don't have to think about it you say you're done I say I'm done and we're going by our business M and I said to him that's in Jamaica here we are people want to talk people still want to conversate [Music] people I know I'm tell you I didn't know sorry if ever you need to talk or you can't you can't get through to him you can't get through y'all call because y'all always have somebody that you can talk to yeah so trying to be the adult trying to be extend at least you know that you have somebody yeah that kind that's why I said I didn't understand why he didn't call because I spoke to them up to yesterday yeah and um yesterday afternoon and uh said uh mom I'm going to talk to you later yeah I said about what and usually if I say off a people are around so you can't talk M I didn't know yeah okay I just wanted to get context because you know one side of the story could mean one thing to one person what did you say I I said or I meant he said basically the same thing and I asked him to explain it and explain it in the same way that you're explaining it to me yeah because I think that young people all need somebody that they can speak to even older people yeah so you know just because I'm mom don't mean that you can't reach out right if it was a f l that said the same thing yeah yeah yeah that that's what I was trying to get at as far as what that what he told me was said and what it was actually meant in the context and so that that makes sense yeah you know I don't know his mom yeah I also said I don't know if your mom talks for both of you yeah they said yes I said great so if you ever need to talk come yeah you guys come over for dinner CU you can eat my food you can come and talk yeah is there much more to to get out or you know no I think they're just try um get B without the computer and the fridge okay I'm very sorry I understand yall family have had a pretty rough time of it lately the macbook's mine I said the monitors are thebook is it the monitors are his the monitors are but the MacBook is mine the monitors are yeah the monitors are the MacBook is his they just that done when I got here it was being explain to me that they were broken up he wasn't living here you I had to get him to finally tell him no he's broken up and not living here as up today which is completely different from not having ever lived here and not having been in a relationship before now but in his mind everything was done and it was in the past and that kind of thing so I yeah ways of explaining things when you're older and when you're younger are completely different crazy I don't know if y'all don't need me and I'm going to ask him to make sure he's okay with y'all being here with just Him uh I'm going to go ahead and take off cuz I got other stuff I need to do um I think I've got most everything out okay let going make sure he's okay with that all right um do you need me to keep staying here while they get our stuff I don't think they have much left you're good you good okay um you need anything just give us a call all right all right man take care the suspect was booked for battery Family Violence what do you think about this incident comment below if you enjoyed the video leave a like And 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