Meet Alexander Dinis, who thought he was the flash. Turns out he's more of a slow jogger. Okay. Just calm down. Try to explain what's going on so we can Whose house is this? Who is he? Grandpa. That's grandpa? Okay. Dad took off. Which way did he go? That way? Don't know. I was inside trying to get my kids. I came here to try and sleep. My baby dad told me he had left my kids alone with him, who's drunk. Okay. I said, "No, I want my kids and I'm leaving." Okay. And then I was upstairs getting stuff ready for my to take them out and get them dressed to go. And he comes in. I get in my face and say, "Don't touch me cuz I will call dad? Yes. He grabs me pulling me out of the room. He's trying to break it up. "Why are you touching me? I just want my kids and I'm leaving." That was it. Okay. That's all I had to And then So you don't live here with them? No. Okay. Are you guys together, married? No. Nothing like that? Nothing. No. Okay. And then he I had my picked up my youngest to start getting her dressed. He had hit me in my face with my child in my arms. Okay, but I hit what do you mean? Like hit me in my face. Like pushed me. Like you know, pushed like straight up just went like this with his hand open in my face. I set my kids down. I said, "If you want to fight, we can fight." And I started We started fighting. Cuz he came towards me. And then told me to get out of my house. I said, "I want my kids. So I'm calling the cops cuz I'm not doing this no more. His dad's already put his hands on me. I want to press full charges." Okay. So how many kids do you have? Two. Two? They're one and two. Yes. Okay. Both inside alone, probably crying. I want them. Okay. I They have no custody over them. So you're sole custodial parent? Yes. Okay. And did you did you drive here or Yes, that's my car right there. Okay. I just want my kids. Where dad went and all No. Okay. And I don't really care. I got you. Again, I'm I'm just trying to piece together what's going on and we probably need to talk to him as well. So So your plan is just to pick kids up, go home? Yes. Okay. That's all I wanted to do after he told me he left them here with him. That's all I wanted to do was go home. After I mean, I was supposed to come here and sleep because I'm I'm sick. Okay. Just a little bit. And then he said, "I would have to leave in the morning." He told me that I didn't have to wake the girls up. I was like, "Okay, that's fine." I said I said, "Where's your dad?" Cuz there's no other car in the driveway. So I was like Calm down. I was like, "Who's here?" He said, "My dad." I was And then it brought up the fact that he's drunk. So what's it's Was kids Was your kids' dad here when you got here or did he No. So he's been gone this whole time? He came back while after I got here when I was getting them ready. And then started arguing me to get out of the room and to leave. I said, "I just want my kids. You already told me I can get my kids." Was he pushing you, shoving you? He grabbed me and was pulling me out of the room and pushing me. Okay. Do you think his intent was to hurt you with that? I don't I don't know. I Okay. He was being loud and rude since the minute he got here. Okay. And And he already has a domestic violence charge against me. And then so grandpa got into the mix as well? Yes. Okay. And then grandpa was the one that kind of did a I mean, he separated us and I told him I was calling the police and he got mad, broke something down here. And then all I know is he left. And then he wanted to get all mad at me. I said, "I just said I'm coming to get my kids and I'm leaving. You guys didn't have to In the middle of it, you guys have no custody. And they wanted to He wanted to start arguing with me, tell me how much of a piece of [ __ ] I am and how I do Don't do Okay. And then so did grandpa ever ever physically hit you or do anything like that? physically hit me in my face with his hand. Okay. So open And then Yes. Okay. Do you have any marks or anything on you? I don't know. To be honest, I haven't even looked at myself. Like on your hand or anything like that? This is broke my nail. Because he was wrestling with me and put me in a headlock. Do you want to pursue charges? Yes. Okay. I'm tired of it. I'm so tired of it. I got you. I'm trying to talk to my ex-wife and the grandmother of the babies. I'm trying to keep the babies away from this drama. And Okay. she's trying to cause drama and I don't I don't want it in my house. Okay. Who's it Who's this to you? She's my granddaughter's babies or my granddaughter's mother. Okay. So is it Is it your son? Yes. Okay. Yes. Okay. Is he in there, I'm assuming? No, he's he's gone. Oh, he left on foot? He He left a little while ago. Okay. What's up? Can I tell you like she wants to play this game. Okay. She calls the cops like all the time whenever something doesn't go her way and like these girls are here five nights out of the week. Okay. And it's not a problem. But all of a sudden tonight it is because she wants to make a problem. So like I just feel like she needs to like leave. Okay. Uh it sounds like Alexander definitely knew she was coming. It sounds like he was. He might have. He might have. And I don't know. I don't know that for sure. Okay. I do not. Okay. Well, I mean, The bottom line is she's like I have a huh? I mean, if he's inviting her, he's inviting her. I don't think he invited her. Okay. Well, I mean, unfortunately he's not here to tell us. Well, right. But like the girls are not in danger or anything like that. So I'm just curious as to what we can do right now to stop this. One half of the parents aren't here and the other half wants them. So we can probably start with that. Where are you? What do I have officers in my front yard right now. Tell me what to do. Am I supposed to let her take the girls? Dude, if I go to jail for coming back, bro, I What would you go to jail for? Because this is what I understand. Relax. Relax. Just relax. I know this is what he does with with her all All right. All right. Calm down. Calm down. Calm down. Calm down, please. All right. Calm down, please. Please, calm down. Please, calm down. Please, calm down. I know. Please, calm down. Alex. Alex, stop. Stop. Stop. Do you want me to send the girls with her? Do you want me to send the girls with her? Arrest you for what? You didn't do anything. I understand. I understand. Do you want me to send the girls with her? Yes, bro. Get her I just want Do you think all of this escalated because of the drinking or is this kind of a Because I just wanted my kids. I told him on the phone before he even came inside. I don't understand I called him an idiot. I told him I don't know why you left our kids here with him while he's drunk. Okay. And I said, "Well, I'm taking my kids and I'm leaving." He said, "Go ahead." It's not for No. It's not Don't argue with each other. Don't argue with each other. Stop. She's in my Okay. Stop. She like I understand I understand We're not going back and forth. Then get her out of here. going back and forth. We're trying to trying to figure out what's going on. let me go. Her kids are upstairs. They're my grandkids. I understand that. They're my grandkids. We're here also for her kids. They're also my grandkids. I understand that. So they're not in danger. I understand that. Okay. We're trying to figure out what's going on. And you yelling at each other is not helping that situation. Okay, then she should go. You Alex? Yeah. Okay, what's going on, man? Uh I'm showing up with three police officers. Have a chat. What's What happened tonight? What's that? I was gone. Went to my buddy's house. Okay. She was supposed to meet me here and she had a couple of drinks, you know. And she didn't like the fact that he had a couple drinks while the girls were here. She thought that made him unqualified to watch them for a Okay. She had her idea, whatever. That's fine. She wanted to come get them. Okay. You know, it's obviously not a good idea to pull them out of the house at 12:00 at night. Okay. Okay. So I went to the room and I told her, "Stop. Take this away from the kids. There's no reason to be doing this around the kids." Okay. She wanted to scream, call you guys because that's what she's used to. We We have a very toxic relationship. Okay. And so I went I just put my hand on her waist and I said, "Come here and stop." And she freaked out. Started saying, "No, don't touch me. Don't put your hands on me." Started calling you guys. Okay. So I stepped out of the room. Left because I know how this stuff goes. You see a girl calling the cops on a guy and you instantly want to She's already got arrested once. I just came home from the jail and had this year in jail for domestic violence. I'm trying to do nothing to jeopardize this. So I left. That's what they told me to do last time. You follow me? In a situation like this where it's at my house, they told me to leave. So I left. Is there a protection order or anything in place still? No. Okay. I don't have a custody agreement. I don't have a custody agreement. None of that. If she wants to take them she can take them. If she feels safe taking them that's fine. Stop. Okay? I'm getting arrested? Yeah. For what? What? For what? For domestic violence. And when you were up there you dragged her out. No sir I did not. Stop sir. STOP. PLEASE STOP. GET ON THE [ __ ] GROUND. GET ON THE GROUND. STOP I'M DOWN. I'M SORRY. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. I don't know why I did that. I'm so sorry. Please. Please do not I wanted to try to explain to Don't worry how the state of Ohio works. Don't charge me with running. Okay. Please don't charge me with running. Please. Please. Please. Put your HANDS BEHIND YOUR BACK. PLEASE SIR. PLEASE SIR. I'M NOT RESISTING. Do what you need to do. Please sir. Please sir. What I wanted to tell you is on your side you can breathe. Please. In the state of Ohio Please. when these things happen we get zero choice. Okay? I didn't do nothing. He makes a claim we're going to have to go for it. do nothing. You are charged. You are not convicted. Okay? Please. Okay? Please. Do you understand that? I didn't do nothing. Do I think anything crazy happened? Maybe. But this is how it is. Oh my god. Go check on them. I got him. I'm going to get you up on your side. Roll on your side. Roll on your side. Get your knees up. You okay? Are you hurt? Are you hurt? Hey look at me Alex. Are you hurt? Look at me. Hey. Eyes up. Are you hurt? Are you hurt? You okay? All right. Come on. Don't look Hey don't talk to me man. It'll be worse for you. That's it. Listen man I told you you don't get a choice in the state of Ohio. Okay? Please don't charge me with running. We'll talk about it. Please. The police are ready to leave but Savannah and Douglas are just getting warmed up. Roll out. Can she leave my yard? Can she leave my house? She's saying she needs her kids back. No. No. No. No. You don't get to say no. She has custody of them. I'm a grandparent. You do not get to say no. Why is he getting arrested? If you do not release the kids to her you're going to be charged. I understand. Why is he getting arrested? I just told you. Domestic violence for what? I just told you. Domestic violence you said. Yes. For what? For the situation that was explained to us tonight. But he left. So there was no here at some point. But not when she was. He was here at some point. Not when she was. Not when she was. He was here at some point. Not when she was. So We're we're past that now. But he was not here when she was. I don't understand. Her kids need to go to her. I don't understand. He was not here when she was. But here's the thing. We're we're past that point right now. No. Yeah yeah we are. And I'm going to keep saying it until we move to the part where she gets her kids. I'm not trying to keep us okay. get at this point I'm really done. Okay? All right. So just shut up and let me talk please. Cool. Okay. She's saying when they were upstairs and he was home but she was home he dragged her out of her room. Okay? In the state of Ohio it doesn't matter what she says. I have to arrest him. That's it. That didn't happen. Is it is it He's arrested not convicted. All right? It's fine. While you guys were arguing you said she came up to you and you did one of these. She's saying you got her in the face. Okay? Did you hit Did you hit her in the face? No. Okay. We don't need that. Please. Please stop. Stop it. You want to go too and send these kids to CVS? Then shut up please. Okay? I've asked you so many times to be quiet. I will cooperate. I'm not trying to cause problems. I promise. And you were stepping in front of your son so he'll leave for that. This has nothing to do with me. Okay. This has everything to do with her getting the kids. She cannot come in my house. We're going to get the kids. I'm allowed that. You guys go for it. You guys go get the kids. Listen. But she cannot come in my house. We're trying to help our our her situation tonight. How about I bring the kids out? You want to get the kids with me? Yeah. Hold on. Just sit tight. Sit tight. Okay. Okay. Listen. Stop. Stop. You sit right here. All right. Okay. Come on. She's getting fussy with me cuz she don't know me. I know. I know. You're so You care so much. Where where are your keys at? They were on the floor upstairs somewhere. Okay. Keys aren't in your arm there? No they're fine. I didn't do it. Alexander Deanes was charged with resisting arrest, obstruction of justice, child endangerment, and domestic disturbance.