I'm willing to get everything if he get some help right here today. If he not, y'all need to do something with him. Somebody going to get hurt. They got some weird going on in that house, man. Jokes like a donut, a sausage, and a donut. Who Who say stuff like that to a a little On January 20th, 2023, officers were dispatched to a report of an altercation between a 38-year-old son and his stepdad. Allegedly, he punched his stepdad from the backseat of the car. All this started when his mom and his stepdad were taking him to get some help and to get him out of their house. Following the car closely down broad, the caller had to hit brakes and ran into the back of them. Suspect vehicle is going to be a black Kia or Acura. Unknown tag direction of travel. The threat to punch the caller through the window. Okay. Get the situation. You brought me to advantage, right? Yeah. Okay. I told her I need to shower. I need to get myself together. I told her I need to go home, shower, get myself together. You want me to get out the car? So, I told y'all I'm not getting out the car. This ain't your part. This is my mom car. Are they married? They're married. That is his part, too. And a marriage 50/50. Well, okay. Maybe you win on that. But anyway, baby, start fussing. He talking about, "Hit me. Hit me. Hit me. Come on. Here I go. Hit me. Hit me. Hit me." I'm like, "No, I'm not going to hit you. Get out the car." I said, "Hey, get out the car. I'm going to go I'm going to go home and take a go over there." Oh, you don't want to get out of the car? All right. Don't worry about it. I'll call the police. But aren't you allowed? Did they not provide you with that here? What you talking about? A shower. This ain't my house. I ain't going to be here. What is your house? You ain't got now. You homeless. I ain't home. Where you stay? I just about to move and I still got my key and I myself. How you know? How you know? You just said you a bull, baby. Seems like you're in a predicament, dog. Yeah. But but what's what's the do I? I can't be there to But you need to you need to get some help. You don't even know me. That doesn't mean that I do I have to know you to know you need some help. Yeah. Really? Yes. How old are you? I'm 38. 38? Yeah. And this is mom. Okay. But you already you already came the wrong way. I'm not I'm not coming at you anyway. You asked me who I want to speak with first. I said whomever. Like me saying you need help. Oh, I do need help. I got my problem. Don't worry, brother. I know. Everybody need help. Exactly. I I understand. I feel Here's the thing, though. Are you wanting help from Advantage? Are you here to go to Advantage? You should have bring me to do what, sir? She was bringing me here. He's bringing you here. Yeah. Do you need them? I need counseling or something. Yeah. Yeah, I can say that. Yeah. That's honest. Nothing wrong with that. Okay. So, do you want to go partake with Advantage? I need to get myself together, man. I took Well, I understand. I mean, hey, you are That's all I'm trying to do. You You are a grown man. Absolutely. You It's your decision. It been Dave. But But here's the thing. But here's the thing. It It doesn't fall on him or her. That falls on you. You know what I'm saying? That that all comes down to to you. And that you have that free will to make that decision. If you don't want to partake in advantage, that's fine. You don't have to. You're a grown man, right? But it doesn't fall on him and it doesn't fall on them either, right? You you you flew the coupe long ago. You know what I'm saying? At the age at the age of 18. So, I mean, it's on you. It it doesn't consistently belong to them. I mean, this is your family, but you know, as the Bible say, we're supposed to venture on. They can't make you partake in advantage and work in advantage and all that. that that's freely and voluntarily on you unless you know some type of order comes out from either advantage or from from um probate, you know, saying, "Hey, you're ordered and then they can physically take you at that point. But if you need help, I think you ought to go with advantage." But that's on you. But at no time do they have to be involved in this anymore other than to stand behind you, support you, give you love or whatnot. Question. May I interject too high be I'm miss if he hit me I call y'all I wouldn't call you hit a lie about that I did not you see my job right here they hit me about this time you did hit back up now back up did you hit him no I didn't hit him well got a red mark that he was doing it hit me hit me come on you bad hit me that what he do hit me with a f I'm talking to police you had your chance to Go ahead. Sit there. You sit. Can I talk? Yeah. Go ahead, sir. You said ask me. Did I hear him? I said no. You said a little bit. No. What? Can I talk? Go ahead, sir. Y'all what you said, man. I want to hear what he want. I want to get rid of me so bad. I want you to get my help. I like why. I'm willing to forget all this. I'm willing to forget all I'm willing to forget everything if he get some help right here today. If he knock, y'all need to do something with him cuz we can't. Somebody going to get hurt. You said it going to follow me. I let him hit me. I should have hit him back. But I don't do that. On my door three, but I can't keep doing that. You man just pulled an axe out on me and you pull a chair on me. That's why y'all need to be He hit my house. He come at me. Yeah. The weekend he come me with a chair. I had a chop at by my side. I you swing your mama. Stop. She kept the chair. Come on. Where you was at? I hit you. You offend to le. Yeah, you'll fill and he got a lie about nothing. But here in my house, I can't be ain't nobody quit. I never want you to hit my Are you going to go Are you going to go to Are you going to go to Vantage? What y'all going to do? Are you going to go to Vantage? Huh? You going to go to lock inevitable? You're just putting off the inevitable. You know, I do. You need me for anything else, sir? You need me for anything else? We'll get with you in a second here. So, you're He hit him. Yeah, you're lying. Why you going You going So you going to sit there like that? You just said you said a little bit. A little. How you going to hit somebody? I don't know. But what you said? All right. See what what y'all going to do? Y'all going to believe them? What y'all going to do? It don't matter. It don't matter. Why don't you go to a bad hell? You lying, bro. You know you are. Come on, man. So you want to go to jail and get help, huh? Hello. It's family. So it falls under family violence. So you just sent me to jail talking about I hit the man. You sent yourself, buddy. I'm just I try to help you. I really try to help. Y do that kid go to custom all that stuff. Time for that little bit. me. Did I hit the hair? You got any needles or anything? No. How many pair of pants you got on, bro? You got too many little [ __ ] Yeah. Trying to figure out how y'all going to just believe him. How y'all just going to take his side? That's what I'm trying. That's what your mom said, too. I would tell some she the reason I'm going. If you hit him, you're the reason. I didn't hit him. I mean, I know you'd say that, but if I hit somebody, tell the police. I mean, if I hit him, I would. Why wouldn't I tell the police? Any allegations behind us? We don't have a choice. Probably have to take him down. So, all right, we're going to walk this way. Since it's cooperated, there's a lighter and a phone on his pocket. Lighter somewhere on his side pocket. The main problem is he don't he won't stay in our house and live free. Yeah. We went to court to get in our house. He don't leave. Well, you got to he's got to get out of the house. Can't keep bringing him into the house. In the house together, I trying to help him. Do I get hindering? I'll be trying to help. You can't help special. All you can do is is love. But you can't hurt in the road. and he doing the same thing of the deck towards the back again. You keep allowing it in and keep the truck near the hotel. It's going to continue to be the same because he's not learning hardship from it. Yeah. If if you have an issue like that, man, you have to call us, man, cuz we can't corroborate, you know, whether he pulled an ax on you. That's just a statement you're making right now. You know what I mean? But she just said that she saw you hit and he said that you hit him, right? She didn't say she saw me hit him. She said she said, "I actually did you hit him." Well, he asked he just asked her straight forward. Yes, I saw him hit him. So that ain't what she said, man. She said she said Man, I was standing there when she said it. I'm not No, she said I said I I asked you did you hit him and you said a little bit. Wow. Like I said, she just said she saw you hit him. So that's a corroborating witness right there. Ask her ask her again. Ask her. Did she see you? I will here. Move your foot in a little bit. I want to hit it. All right. Oh, these were his. There was a chime card in there that said April. I don't know who that is. Might be a girlfriend or something. Hey, man. Who's April? Do you know her? April? No. April, right? That's my sister. Sister. Okay. Got to go. Just trying to figure out how the hell that family viol is. He ain't my family. That man ain't my family. Who is he to you? He ain't to me. Is he Is your biological father? No. Have you ever lived with him? Well, how about he he's not my family though. How is this a family violence? I don't But I'm saying you you lived with them though, right? No, I ain't going to live with him. You don't live with them? No. Okay. So, y'all need to fix that. Even if it's even it's not either way, it's battery cuz he's wanting to press charges. That's a battery. It ain't family violence. Okay. Well, we'll get the details cuz they're verifying right now whether who he is to you. He ain't to me. Okay. Who is he besides to you? He's nothing to me. That's my mom's boyfriend. That's your mom's boyfriend. Okay. Well, if it's your mom's boyfriend, it's just battery. Know what I'm saying? As long as you never live together. No, I don't live with them. I got my own place. All right. You don't got to worry. It's just going to be basic. They ain't my family. Make sure they get that right. I will. I'm the one filling out the ABR. Yeah, cuz he's not to me. Sorry for Excuse my language. He ain't nothing to me. I got you, man. So, were you ever evicted from their their apartment or house? Was I ever evicted? Yeah. Uh, were you ever kicked out? Did I ever get kicked out my mom's house? Yeah, I did. That quantifies you living with them, man. So, I don't live with them. I mean, it's the same. The charge is equal. They're both misdemeanors. It's not like family violence makes it a felony, man. Family violence and bull. We didn't want to get help. We We didn't want to go to jail. We didn't want to get some help. Yeah, but you can't force that. I know. I tell him how to show. But you can't but you can't keep letting him come to the house either. I know. He keep telling me that too. But you know somebody and your son knocking on your door 3:00 and 4 in the morning. Your granddaughter got to get up and go to school. He just keep banging and banging. Well, that's you call us. I should have called the police. They got to go do so much extra to get out of jail. I'm just telling you what they told us and I can only go off what the victim's saying. Victim and witness are telling me that you did live with them in the past in the past in the state in the state of Georgia. If you've ever lived with somebody and you commit an act of family violence, it's family violence. That quantifies family violence because you've lived with them before. If I live with somebody, they may correct. Even if like you had a buddy and you lived in an apartment with him, right, and then he moves out, right, and you punch him in the face, that's battery. If there's visible injury and it was you guys had lived together before. You say that's battery. Family violence battery. Correct. Cuz there's a visible injury. If it wasn't, it' be simple battery. What was the visible injury? He had a red mark and bruising on his lip according to the officers on scene. On his lip. Yep. What hand did he hit you with? I don't know what hand. I know. I felt it. You felt it. Left or right? I don't know. I seen the com. I probably tried to stop like I was there trying to stop. Still red. Yeah. The man was [ __ ] touching their self. Hit me. Hit me. Come on. Hit me. You bad. Hit me. Did you ever touch him at all? No man [ __ ] right? Well, if there's a witness, it doesn't matter if the suspect's saying it. No, cuz you have a witness. Now, if it was just him and nobody else had been there and nobody had seen anything and it was you and him, we would leave because it's a he said, she said, you'd be saying you didn't. He's saying you did. That's on you. Yeah. Get a deal for you. Yeah. But I can't make it do anything. I got my ministry license. I know about that. I went through hard life myself. I been through a lot of thing and I learned a lot and I I trust in God, you know. I don't put my hand on nobody. I know that's not the right way to go. How did you come back? You got you let him in. I let him in. I lie. About 3:30 in the morning. I let him in time. He cold and he home. Well, I mean I mean you're only being a mom. That's understandable. But the worst, you know, you gota he's gota I know it's hard a very hard thing. I haven't been there yet, but I mean he he's he's made he chose his path, but next time if if he's that 3:00 in the morning banging banging and y and there's other things going on in the world that have to people got to get up, go to work, things like that, just call us. I will because I guess I got force to get if you have to bar or whatnot or you have to do what you got to do. That's the point. Y'all ready to bar let him come over. Yeah. Well, you know, if you let him come over, the barn's no good. Yep. Tell me tell me don't do it. But the only way he's going to get help is he's have to be forced. But if you let him come in, it's just like, you know, but he banging on the door. He bore I can call y'all. Yeah, absolutely. We're just coming over. I mean, but if you let him keep coming over and he's getting his free way, he's not going to change and he's not going to it's not going to get bad enough cuz he don't feel like he's at rock bottom. Yep. You're right. So, you're going to have to be have to be hard. But it's hard and you got to be hard. You can't be nice. Got to be hard. It does. But because you're hard does not mean you do not love him. It is the fact that he's got to hit right and he he ain't there. So he ain't hit wild ball yet. He ain't got to worry still. He ain't got to worry. He ain't got nothing to eat, sleep, whatever. If he can live without happen with me, it ain't going to happen. Yeah, it's still on him. You know, he's a grown man. All he has to do. Has he ever been arrested uh before? Yeah. Got prison about five prison about five years. You remember that was from uh aggravated assault towards one of y'all. Oh no. He's got He looks like he probably gang related. Yeah. In his past or something. I don't know if I wouldn't say he still is, but he got all them tattoos and got two teardrop on that. Got what man? Two tear drop. See the two dots right there. Yeah. You know what that mean? Supposed to be. Yeah. So yeah, sometimes people get it. Some people Yeah, some people a lot of talk now that you know, but I would you never know. That's between him and God. And don't trust him, but I trust God. Yeah, he might do anything. Especially if my own drug could do anything. I mean, well, Donald could do anything. He y'all got to let him hit. I know you're where you at, mom. back at people. Um, also going further, um, getting arrested for the situation may have like put some bad blood towards him and you so if he does come back, I would adise just don't even let him in. But if he comes in late at night and he just wants to really, you know, go after him, it's just you and him, but we stop. And it might be easier, mom, if you go get a restraining order and have him serve with a restraining order. That way, even if you still became mom and did something that that that's still in violation of the law. So, he would still be taken away for that. But you have to be hard. That like I said, doesn't mean you don't love him. It just Yeah. got to be hard. I don't love But I hope y'all get there in time. You come again. I know. But they got some weird going on in that house, man. That's something y'all need to call and report when you get out if you're seeing it. Listen, man. I It's It's something real strange going on in that house. Like, I'm telling you what's going on. And they don't I I pick up on it. Have you told our criminal investigative division? Huh? What kind of weird stuff are you talking about? With with kids, man. With kids, man. And that man don't want me. Listen, man. That's on everything I love, man. That man don't want me around, period. Cuz I pick up on it and I call him out on it. You know what I'm saying? Well, in fact, little weird jokes like who the tell a child like who say to a child who who who use jokes like a donut, a sausage, and a donut? Who who say stuff like that to a a little girl, man? Yeah. I mean, honestly, man, he still got it in him. He been convicted of trying. He still got it in him. If it's something you're concerned about, I am, man. Well, I'm saying when you get out, come and report it to our CD unit. I most definitely will because we have a sex crime unit who investigates that kind of stuff. Please do, man, cuz that the only thing I'm really worried about in my niece and my nephew, man. Well, that's why I'm saying it's going to take you coming up and telling them, you'll have to come up to the East Precinct and just say you're here to report what you you know is happening there, and they'll they'll take care of it. He is. He pay all the bills, don't get me wrong. So, he got me. I'm gonna get you out real quick. Hold on one second. Step out for me. Yeah. All everything that you know about that. You can step on that. Is that something you had with you? Yeah. Was that what is that? A pipe? Yeah. Um, is there more of it in the car? He got her. Is there more? I'm not going to charge you with it. I just need a No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I wouldn't do that. You can check if you want to. But look, well, they're going to check you here. So, Oh, okay. That's why I was giving you a chance to tell me if there was. So, I forgot. I forgot what was all on. I think a piece of lumin cuz they don't care. As soon as they'll charge you with passing a guard line, which is a felony for it ain't bad. Unless it's residue. But yeah, you got my mom in a position. He pay all Yeah. So, she like she turned into a whole bunch of bull. You know what I'm saying? He got all the jokes in the world. Jokes that kids like he talking to the kids with these fug jokes like and I I got to pick up on it and he don't like me. Well, I I would go and like I said, report it when you get out. As soon as you get out, go report it cuz I mean I can't I can't technically do anything about it right now because you're going here. Let me know why they why they why they do me like that. That's why they just teamed up on me like that. Come on. You know I ain't get that just brainwashing kids. It's a more it's deeper than there. Just a lot of stuff over here. I looked into what the suspect was saying and I did find a stepdad in the registry list but that doesn't mean what he is saying is true. The suspect was booked for battery family violence.