He said, "Mom, come over." >> Yeah. He doesn't need mommy. He's a grown adult. >> No. But he that was >> You know what's more concerning even with all this bearing all this or let's say this didn't happen was more concerning to me is that he's an airline pilot that has a drinking problem that also flies arms. >> I know. I know. I know. >> Holy [ __ ] >> On August 5th, 2025, police were dispatched to a residence following reports of a domestic violence incident. >> Hey, what's going on? I don't feel like I need this to be this whole big thing, but >> we're still >> we're getting we're engaged. We're supposed to be getting married in February, like 6 months, and he has a problem with alcohol. And I told him, I said, "If things don't change, then like we're done." >> Okay. and we had like we've had like some fights recently where like he's gotten like kind of aggressive and like his hands on me and um so last night like after that fight he's like all right I'm going to I'm going to be better you know I'm not going to you know drink anymore and then I went to work yesterday and I got home and he was wasted. I was like what is going on? Like what what are we doing here? And then we got into another fight and I somehow got like he was like preventing me from leaving the house. He took my phone. I had to come back here with my sister to go get it. And even then she she had to go into the house cuz she's like, "All right, I'm going to wait inside the car like like if you need me like I'll go inside." Anyways, we finally got the phone. I slept at my sister's house. I'm like, "Okay, I need like I have work tomorrow. Like I need to at least be able to get my clothes." So, I went in here and of course he's still drunk. He blew up all of my family's phones. And I was like, "Okay, this is what's going to happen. This is our new plan. Like, we're not getting married anymore. If you want to continue to work on things, whatever." But then he was preventing me from leaving again. He was pushing me. He was screaming at me. And then he has this this gun in this like this little safe thing. It's like this little bag. And he like ran over to the office to like go get it. And he's like threatening to kill himself. and you know if I leave or if I dump him and he didn't pull it out but I'm just letting you know like >> okay >> I just want to be able to go and get my stuff from inside >> so I can leave >> today you came you stayed at your sisters last night right >> you came back today >> to get closed >> to get closed and let him know that you guys are no longer getting married >> and etc etc he prevented you from leaving he shoved you and then he went to go get a gun and and threatened to kill himself. Is that correct? >> He said that he was going to that he was going to kill himself if I left. >> Did he hold the gun in his hand? >> No, he just It's in this like this bag, this like carrying bag. >> Okay. >> Cuz he just completed like SFDO training. He's actually like an airline pilot. >> Okay. >> And Yeah. >> Okay. Um >> I don't want to get him in trouble. >> No, you're good. Listen. Um >> I just want to get my stuff. >> I got you. Uh you guys are obviously in a romantic relationship, right? Yes. Okay. Um, so what uh, so when you got here, describe the describe that situation. So you came here, you told him you weren't you don't you don't you just want to call off the wedding and everything, right? And that >> he you tried leaving, he what did he block the entrance, >> the door, he wouldn't allow me to leave. >> Okay. >> And then >> did you tell him, "Get out of my way. I want to leave." And what did he say? >> I he was like, "No, I'm not I'm not allowing you to." I'm like, "All right, well then I'm going to call the cops." >> And what happened with that? You called and then it came in as a 911 hangup. You said like it was a mistake or >> I know because he's like okay okay and then he like started to back off and I'm like okay so just let me get my stuff then >> and then he like after I hung up I feel like he doesn't take me seriously when I tell him things and then I hung up and then he like started to do it again and I'm like Jacob let me get my stuff like stop or I'm going to call and then he was doing it again and then that's when I called for a second time. >> Okay. And when describe the shoving when did that happen? The actual shoving happened like a couple days ago. >> Well, today he put his hands on you today, right? >> Yeah. >> Okay. Describe that to me. >> So, he he kind of he didn't like shoved me to the ground like the other day. He shoved me so hard I fell to the ground. >> Did he put his hands on you? >> Somewhat. >> I wouldn't say that he shoved me to the ground today. >> He didn't put his hands on me. He didn't. >> He somewhat did. >> Okay. Describe it to me, please. >> You're not getting him in trouble. You're just telling me what happened. >> I know. I know. He He maybe like grabbed my shoulders. >> Grabbed your shoulders. Okay. And And was that during the the you're not leaving thing? >> Yeah. >> Okay. All right. Does he know we're here? >> Yeah. I told him that I was calling and then of course he was like, "Oh, okay. Okay." And he sat down on the couch. >> Okay. He's drunk right now. >> Yeah. >> Drunk enough to where he's like intoxicated to the point where he's not going to be able to communicate to me. I think he'd be able to communicate with you, but I saw there was like a bottle of of like Havana Club in the >> He's not going to be stupid with that gun or anything, right? >> I don't think so. >> All right, I'm going to go talk to >> him. >> So, what happened? Why am I here? What happened? You said typical argument. Describe the argument for me. >> So, we had an argument last night, too. I don't know if she explained that. >> Yep, she did. >> We've had arguments before. >> Yeah. I'm here for this one specifically right now. What happened with this one? She she blocked my number. >> Okay. She blocked my phone. Um and we're getting married, so like obviously there's there's a lot of tension on that. >> Sure. >> Um Yep. >> So, and and my So, I don't know if she told you, but like my sister is getting married this weekend. my older sister. >> So, there's kind of like a lot of like pressure on that stuff. >> Absolutely. >> Um, and >> her family has not been nice to me and including her and like her mom and everything like they've been kind of rude. >> Okay. >> Um, >> so she she was not here yesterday last night. Um, >> and then she showed up here and she was blasting me. She was so rude and so mean. and we got we got into an argument. It's there's nothing that I would say that's she yelled at me. Okay. She was she was so rude today. My my sister's getting married on on Friday. I'm supposed to be there on Thursday. >> Did she put her hands on you? >> Yeah, of course. She always does. >> She put her hands on you today. Nothing that I would say was >> Listen, I Listen, dude. I >> You can just be straight with me, bro. Instead of just >> I know I respect what you guys do. I Dude, I'm I'm an FFDL. Like, I know what this stuff is. >> Then you you recognize why I'm here. I'm here cuz I have a job late, right? >> I know against you. I want to resolve whatever. >> Yeah, me too. That's why I'm here. I'm trying to figure out what's what's going on. >> I have a duty to act. That's why I'm here. >> I respect I've always respected what you guys have done. >> I appreciate that. What happened today? >> So, did did she did she put her hands on you? >> Describe like you guys got in an argument. She wanted to leave. What happened? Listen. Um, I think this is blowing up a little bit. I'm just asking questions. I know. But like, why do you Why do you think it's blowing up? [clears throat] >> Let's go back. Why was she coming in all angry and yelling at you and being disrespectful? >> This goes back to yesterday. Does that have something to do with your drinking being out of control? >> No. >> No. >> That's not what she's telling us is that the why she's angry is because >> you can't get your drinking under control. >> You're drunk now. >> I think I think that's a personal issue. >> I agree it is. >> That's something I have to work through. >> But once it becomes now our issue because either you guys can't control yourselves by putting hands on each other or blocking people from leaving stuff like that, that becomes our problem. That's why >> I never blocked her from leaving. She left last night. I never restricted her from [music] leaving. >> Well, she's also saying that, you know, you've put hands on, you shoved her to the ground a couple days ago. Today, you prevented her from leaving the house until she threatened to call on. Actually, she called us and then did like an hour one hang up where she hung up the phone and said, "Oh, sorry. Never mind." And then she had to call back because she says you prevented her from leaving the house. >> Yeah. >> Don't know that's true. were engaged, we would never put hands on her. >> I'm I'm not saying you did. I'm saying this is what we're being told. >> Okay. But we have we have to investigate this. >> We take we take domestic violence very very seriously. >> I understand that. >> So if there's any even hint that there's violence, >> I understand >> someone's going to go to jail today. >> So I want you to understand >> I didn't say you're being arrested. I said if there was any violence that happened today, even hit the violence, we have a duty tag. No, you can't talk to her. >> Can I call my mom, please? >> For what? How old are you? >> 31. >> Okay. You don't need mommy. >> You don't need mommy if you're 31. >> All right. I did not put my hands on her. >> Period. >> All right. Do you have anything else to add, change, or delete from what you've told me? >> No. >> Have we talked about anything off tape that we did not discuss on tape? >> No. This concludes the statement. Time is 10:59 a.m. >> She had mentioned you also have a firearm in the home >> that did you threaten to use it on yourself because she >> It's locked. >> Okay. >> You can see it. >> I'm just I'm sad. She's telling us that because she had told >> Can you Can you come to the house, please? >> We're not going to allow her up here. Just so you know. >> Yeah. Saying that I threatened to kill her and stuff. I My gun is locked up. Can you hire an attorney? Because this is ridiculous. Get an attorney because this is ridiculous. They don't They don't want to talk. Can you talk to my mom >> for what? You're an adult. What? That has nothing to do with her. She's got nothing that she can impart on this. >> This guy's calling [clears throat] mommy. >> Congratulations. >> Yeah. He wanted me to talk to mommy. I was like, >> she has nothing. >> Listen, I'm thinking 10:15. >> If you got PC for >> I don't have any bruises. I only have his word versus hers. >> Yeah. >> Or versus his. >> I take pictures over. >> But shoving wouldn't necessarily leave any marks. I mean, >> it wouldn't. >> But here we go again. We have a guy that's intoxicated. >> I mean, it's a good faith arrest. But I think if we can establish that he's a primary aggressor in this cuz he's saying nothing happened. Like they had a simple argument. >> She's in tears. She's she's afraid of him. >> Yeah. Well, he's got a firearm in the home. He's intoxicated. >> Yeah. >> So, >> I think this is good faith arrest. >> I think it's just the arrest. >> All right. I'm being arrested. So, >> thank you. >> Thank you. >> You have a Yeah. >> Thanks. Appreciate it. Left in the car. >> Appreciate you. Mhm. >> There you go. All right. Got some shoes for you. >> Got shoes. >> Can I get shoes? >> Yeah, absolutely. Got like slippers or something like that. >> Why am I being arrested? >> Cuz you're the primary aggressor in a domestic. >> A domestic for what? >> For putting your hands on your girl. >> An hour later, deputies were called back to the same residence after the mother showed up attempting to change the locks. >> Hi. >> Hello. >> Sorry to back out here today. Um, I'm Jake's mom. Jake is my son. You arrested him. >> Yeah. >> Are you here changing the locks? >> I'm going to because this is my son and this is his house. >> You have no business being here. >> Yes, I do. My son come here. Yes, it is. >> It's not your house. >> Well, look in his >> You don't live here. You have no business trespassing. >> She does not live here. >> She lives here with him. >> She does not live here. She's a girlfriend. Okay. >> She lives here. >> Okay. You can You have no authority to go over here and >> I do. She does not live here. You do not. She has no authority. My son, >> your son is an adult. >> My son told me to come over here because you >> He didn't come over here to tell you to change the locks. >> You arrest You arrested her lawfully. >> What are your grounds? >> You're You're going to listen to exactly what I'm telling her. Okay. If she changes the locks, seeing how you reside here, you are >> She does not reside here. She pays no rent or anything. >> Doesn't matter. It does not matter. >> Okay, >> you guys. I'm getting a lawyer. Okay. >> Where are you going? >> I'm getting a lawyer. >> Where are you going? You cannot go in there. >> I have my stuff in there. my purse. I >> You can still touch me. >> You're not. No, you touched him. >> Damn it. >> YOU'RE UNDER YOU'RE UNDER. STOP. >> STOP IT. >> Stop resisting right now. >> Damn it. >> Stop resisting. >> I'm not going to resist. >> You are. You're doing it right now. Give me your hand. >> Stop. >> Now you're under arrest for battery law enforcement officer. >> I did not battery. Are you kidding me? I >> You cannot touch me. >> Okay. I went in to get >> You cannot touch me. Do you understand me? >> You touched me first. >> I have the authority. You do not >> tell me. Tell me that first. I >> No. No, >> please. >> No, you have absolutely no right to come over here at all. >> You I was told >> No, you're not going now cuz you're going to jail for a felony. >> Okay, >> how about that? >> I Okay, you guys. >> Then then you can call your lawyer about that. >> Okay, stop it. I I need my purse and my wallet. >> Stand up. >> Okay, just >> Can you I need my purse. >> No, you ain't getting nothing. You're welcome. >> Call my husband. >> You did this. You know what? No. Stop. Just can we talk for a minute? I did not. >> Oh, I barely even Stop. >> I'm don't I'm having pain here. Stop. Stop. Stop it. >> Pain is what you're going to have if you don't live. >> So, stop it. >> Okay. >> Can we Can we just discuss this? >> Okay. Do you have any Stop. >> Do you have any wallet? I do not. I'm a nurse, midwife. I work at the hospital. I take care of all your babies. >> Let's see. >> Okay. I can't >> step up. >> I can't. I can't. I don't have a hip that does this. >> You don't have my hip. >> Okay. What's that? >> I can't. >> We got We'll hold you. We're not going to let you fall. >> You know what? Please don't arrest me. >> Oh, it's too late. >> No, you have no right to put your hands on me. When I tell you to stop, >> all I did was to push away. I'm sorry. I can't do that. But you scared me. >> I scared you? >> Yeah, because you put your hands on me. I didn't understand that. >> When I tell you to stop, you stop. There is no question. When you put your hands on me, that's a felony. Get in the car. >> I didn't mean to. I said I'm sorry. >> Go ahead. Get up there. We're not going to let you fall. >> Stop it. >> Okay. Please >> get your foot in. >> Please. Oh my god. >> I would literally have no authority to be here at all. >> Okay. I didn't know that. I mean, he told me >> I was trying to tell you that and then you wanted to take >> He called me. He called me cuz I was going to just get my person leave. I was just going to get my person take the cat and go. >> Okay. Well, >> I didn't mean to. I >> You're causing my problems because your son called you. I told him not to. It's like he's 31 years old. He doesn't need mommy. >> Can you just take one hand? I'm not going to hurt you. >> Please. >> You're under arrest and you're going to jail. >> Okay. >> You're going to jail for a felony >> for You cannot I can put my hands on you. You cannot put your hands on me. >> I didn't mean to. I reacted because I was afraid. Okay. I did not I didn't mean to do that. I I am so I'm I reacted because that those kind of situations if someone touches me I react. If >> I understand that I understand that but I am a fully dressed law enforcement officer. >> I didn't I would not have >> okay cuz when I tell you stop don't go anywhere. >> And then I did and then I did after you told me and and then I was going back in the house >> argue with you anymore. I'm not I'm not this is not up for debate. When I tell you to do something I'm here for a lawful reason. When I tell you to do something, you are required to do it. Failing to do so is a crime. >> I'm sorry. I was all I was doing was I wanted to get my purse. >> Okay. Well, you could have sat there. Hey, can can we go and get my purse calmly and I said really horrible things to me and I >> She has every right. >> Okay. But he >> Your son is a drunk. >> I know he is. >> He's got a serious problem that he needs to take care of over that >> that he's getting physical with her. >> I don't know what happened. And and I told her she should have walked away a long time ago. I told her I was totally in support of her with all the things. >> And and we explained that we went over. >> I have sweat rolling down my face. >> We we we went over that. Okay. And I also >> Can you take this off? Just I have sweat rolling. You you you know. >> Okay. I got sweat all over. >> Okay. Come on. >> All right. So, if you can put your >> Well, I have my phone there. >> I'm I'm not going to leave your phone here. I'm going to grab your phone. I'm going to grab your hat. I'm going to grab your purse in there. Is there anything else of yours that's in there? Is there anything else that I can do before I mean I I really don't want to go to this. >> You also committed a crime of criminal trespass going into a a place that you have no business. >> I had my purse. My son gave me right >> my son. No, he didn't. No, he didn't. I was standing there. He said >> he said, "Mom, come over." >> Yeah. He doesn't need mommy. He's a grown adult. >> No, but he that was >> You know what's more concerning even with all this with bearing all this or let's say this didn't happen. What's more concerning to me is that he's an airline pilot that has a drinking problem that also flies arms. >> I know. I know. I know. >> Holy [ __ ] >> I mean, >> bills are going off like somebody needs to tell his job. >> Has issues, too. This is a This goes This goes both ways. >> I'm sure it does. It always does. >> And Yeah. Did he Did he need to be drinking last night? No. I would have come over here this morning. Please, just Can you take one off for >> No, ma'am. >> Cuz I'm sweating like a pig. >> No, ma'am. Uh, we'll crank up and get >> I take such good care of like all these women like your like people like your wife and all of these things. And then >> I got just no respect. >> Well, respect goes two ways. >> Goes two ways. But I didn't. >> And when I say do something, you do it. There's no question about >> I turn and I was like, >> "Okay, put your put your leg." >> No, listen. You have so much other stuff. >> You're right. >> And for you to come over here problems, you had no idea. >> No, I didn't come here to cause problems. I came here to just get the cat and go. >> Okay. >> That's the only reason I turn the AC up. Can I please do something with my hair? Can I You know, what do you want to do? >> You know what? I'm a nurse. You're >> What do you want to do? You want me to move it out of the way? >> I can move it out of the way. >> You know what? All those women I take care of, I treat them like like >> Yeah. That's surprising that you being a registered nurse, you act like that. >> Doing that. Well, you know what though? The only time I resisted to him because I was I felt threatened like he I didn't respond to him touching me. There's no reason to feel threatened with him. Of course, nobody said heard him. Nobody said you hurt him. >> Never heard him. >> Nobody said you heard him. >> But the way you the way you acted being a registered nurse, that's that's pretty uh >> You know what? >> It's pretty profound. >> Well, I'm not going to take good care of them. I'm not anywhere. It's just how it's going to be. >> You're not going to take care of who? >> Your wives, your daughters, your you know, not in >> What hospital do you work at? >> No. You know, no comment. >> Huh? >> You know, because it's like I do a lot of stuff. I have a lot of law enforcement that I see. >> Well, that and well, you know, >> the way you act the way you acted just now, I would say that you have absolutely no respect for us. >> All I Oh, no. I do. And so does my son. And all I wanted to do was go in and get my purse and the cat. That was it. >> And I wouldn't have changed the locks because you said don't change >> from our perspective because we know there's a gun in there. >> I know that. >> I don't know that though. I don't know. I thought you took the gun. We don't know that. >> No, I thought you took the gun. Now, we can't just take cuz he didn't he didn't use a threat to use. >> Okay, but I don't I don't know where the gun is. I don't care about the gun. I'm not going to, you know, we don't know that. >> I know, but you know, the thing is >> we don't know you. >> You touched me and I responded. I didn't mean to touch you. I'm sorry I touched you. >> But when when you started making a beline for the front door. >> No, I told you stuff in the news. All I like I said, all I wanted was the cat and my purse. I My daughter is getting married. I'm supposed to be on a plane in like 20 hours. Yeah. >> And and I'm supposed to be going up to Pittsburgh and like I this is bad enough to deal with Jake >> and I completely I do understand that. I really do. Um but I mean this situation >> and if you would have said you if you do not leave I will arrest you. You did not say >> that was the next words that come out of my mouth. >> I wish you would have said that because then I would have said could you go in and get my cat? >> But we were trying to tell you you had no right to be here and you you kind of just got upset and then you like I'm going to go get my purse. He made a beline for the front door. >> You know what I'm saying? >> But but I was going to just get my purse. >> I didn't know that. >> I know. But I would not I would never hurt you. >> I don't know that. >> I know. But you make it like I chopped your arm off or something. >> No, I didn't say I didn't say you chopped my arm. I didn't say you physically hurt me. But you put your hands on a law enforcement officer that is in the dy. >> I didn't even put my hand on you. It was like just the back of my hand. Do you have it on video? Yep. >> Okay. It was the back of my hand just pushing you to my response. >> Okay. >> Okay. I don't. Why are you taking a picture of me? >> It's documented. There's no injuries. >> Okay. I'm sweating like a pig and I >> injuries. I'm sweating, too. And I got all this stuff on. >> Exhaustion. Okay. >> I'm smart enough to know that with my medical degree. >> You're also in an AC car and I'm standing out here. >> There's no AC in here. There's nothing in here. >> Well, if you put your face by the >> There's no AC. I'm sorry. >> She has the exhaustion. We're the ones standing outside with all this gear on. Hopefully the dad doesn't come over now. >> Well, she said >> Well, she I know she said she originally called the guy. >> Yeah, it she said he's levelheaded. He He called her and told her that he was sorry that everybody was acting way and he apologized. So I'm like, "Well, are you worried that he's going to come here and call us for te?" She's like, "No, not not at all." I said, "No, we don't need to stand by here. You can get your stuff if you feel he's going to be all right if he can." She said, "Absolutely." He's soldheaded. >> I'm going to get uh statements from them cuz they they told me they Yeah, we were just sitting here. We were cleaning up and all a sudden she just barges in and says, "Get out. You're trespassing." >> She was charged with battery on a law enforcement officer, resisting an officer without violence, and trespassing in an occupied structure. Share your thoughts in the comments below.