abuse doesn't discriminate this time it's men who need saving from their Partners here are five cases when cops save men from abusive women number five cheating woman kicked out of hotel after assaulting and cheating on boyfriend officers respond to a hotel disturbance involving an intoxicated woman found throwing up in the lobby bathroom earlier her boyfriend kicked her out for cheating leading to a heated fight where she punched him the police attempt to resolve the situation calmly officers explained that her level of intoxication makes her a public safety concern and remaining in the hotel lobby only worsens the issue hi sorry who is boyfriend Chan what's the problem again again because I got sick in the bathroom and I was just wanting because you know you know I was drunk yes you still are yes I got I have not drank anymore M I got sick in the bathroom when I got here and I just lay down on the floor and now he just going to sleep in the bathroom because I want cuz I'm for die here here's the problem we have you're too drunk to be in public okay we tried we tried giving you an out to get an Uber to get home and you you refused that and walked away and try to make things right here but now you're causing a disturbance in the hotel so you are going to be placed under arrest put your hands be your back [Music] [Music] before long the woman is cuffed and headed to jail tched upstairs okay yep and Adele if it turns out that there's nothing needs to be done he needs to go to his room where he's going to go to jail too he's been warned many times too would you like to give a test a breath test no I I know I'm Dr okay so no breath test okay I mean if you need to know where I'm at that's well I mean it's up to you you don't have to take it if you don't want to I just have to offer it that your phone okay do you have anything else in your pockets maam I have an ID and I should have an ID I have an ID and I think I have a debit card do you want me to grab it can you reach it maybe not I don't know okay all right we'll figure it out and Amanda it's p e a RT okay with the situation under control the officers regrouped to review the boyfriend's account of the events he saying something about like he saw in her phone a guy or whatever I was texting her calling her and he inquired about it she got upset and punched him in the m mouth but he doesn't want to press charges or anything like that okay so I told him I said listen um you're drunk you've caused an issue at the bars and you come here you guys cause an issue here you are subject to being arrested right now as well go to your room stay there do not come out and he's like that was my plan I just wanted to you know have an opportunity to tell you guys what happened I said listen that's fine go to your room goes so they were up there earlier I don't know if you heard the call I heard called with the with the bar isn't they got into a fight and then he locked her stuff in his car wouldn't let her get his stuff went back to the bar left her outside told her to walk home we came dealt with her he came out was all sorry gave her her stuff they made up they were going to walk to the hotel and be done with it for the night and we'll here we are yeah um all right amand I got to read you something here since you are under arrest you have the right to remain silent anything you say Canon will be used against you in a the woman is ultimately charged with public intoxication meanwhile the boyfriend avoids charges by cooperating and stepping back from the conflict number four woman in tears after facing arrest for boyfriend attack officers arrive at a workplace to arrest a woman involved in a domestic violence case against her child's father here's what happens next hello are you yes need to speak with you oh no mama please what happened with you and Aaron today um we were in the car he was pulling my hair pulling your hair yeah he's pulling my hair I um pushed his face away from me yeah not much happened so when he was pulling your hair yeah I know right there really off his face hit him pretty good so you're underr don't you gather your things but you got to come with us right now right now it's domestic violence case I don't have a choice but I it didn't even hurt I didn't hurt him he was fine he was pulling my hair I've been presented with evidence of a domestic battery I don't have a choice you're under arrest I have a whole work day to do today you're you're not going to be working today you have to go in front of a judge you're under arrest when do I go in front of a judge as soon as we can get you there when it today tomorrow possibly today depends on once we take you to County it's going to be on other County can get you in front of I don't know what time the bond courts are today so what do you got to get you got to get a phone yeah hello I very sorry to do this to you and very sorry to do this to you but she has to come with us okay you okay yeah I'm fine um I just have to call my clients I can to you okay can I use my phone while I'm in the car I feel so bad despite her claims the officers followed domestic violence protocols which were require immediate action when there's evidence of physical aggression while Gathering her belongings the woman grows increasingly emotional I'll TR it you have a purse or anything my car do no my keys are in here where's your keys um in here why don't you grab them in case you you know I can drive your car I know what might yeah I just have to leave it I guess I'm sorry you okay yeah I can't cut here so you definitely don't want me to no it's all right I'm so sorry your something yeah I apologize I just uh the circumstances that are Beyond My Control here gotta or you can just do it [Music] here for can I walk to the door you can it's going to be okay I just have a really busy dat SP I know but listen they got to do their job too they're they're they're not bad guys they're trying to do their job yeah it was you know like let's this is this a case I hit him in the face okay you know hitting is wrong with domestic violence cases I don't have any discretion yeah he's a jerk I'm such a just handle your business call me you need bail money call us I don't I'll be fine if you could just call my clients I'm so sorry don't don't it's going to be okay again they're just doing their job honey you know what I mean they have to and then um people the officers remain professional and empathetic ensuring she has everything she needs before being transported love you thank you handle it bye CH thank you tuck your keys and phone in your pocket can you not like can I just walk into the car fortunately we got to do it this way okay double lock them so they don't tighten up on you your wrists good thing I can get a whole finger in there get my whole Thumb in there so you shouldn't be squeezing you they're just they're going to put pressure on you in certain spots I want to make sure they don't tighten up anymore all right I'm going hold on to you now cuz I think you're going to run because if you fall you're not going to be able to catch yourself you want to go down the ramp you want to go on the stairs I'm St here all right hold move forward for a second is it possible for me to like see the judge today like we're going to try I don't know when I don't know when they I don't know what time they do that don't well they do it at 8 in the morning I don't know if they have an afternoon one on Friday so it's Friday yeah so we'll get you in if we can get you we and they have one then please like do whatever we can please please as she's escorted to the police vehicle the officers handle her with care ensuring her Comfort during transport the woman's frustration becomes more evident as she processes the situation going to take a few minutes I really hope I can see a judge today sir I really do find out if session this isn't fair he was he was pulling my hair he was acting like he was going to hit me in the face so I'm going to document that in my report the problem is that I have video evidence for she asks about the timeline for seeing a judge hoping to resolve the matter quickly she continues to express regret about how the incident has disrupted her day fearing the personal and professional consequences of the conflict so do I like bond out today or something the judge has to set your bond that's why see the judge I really hope I see him today cuz he doesn't see people Saturdays or Sundays right I don't think well they used to have B any morning I think they I want to have it today I don't I have so much money to make today oh my God all right take your time we're going to take those off we're going to take those off in just a minute thank you for being nice okay face the wall on your left all right I didn't know if you were in here or not I'm still rolling yes hello do you have anything on you that could hurt me have my keys my phone nothing wall take a step back with your feet and spread your legs out wide just need to keep your head on the wall okay do you understand I got to pat you down to make sure you're not bringing anything she's then searched and given a thorough pat down to ensure she has nothing harmful or illegal on her old you 25 and have you ever been here before yes okay do you think I can see the judge today or you know more than likely what time what time's afternoon afternoon is 2:30 oh yeah you got yeah you get time to get everything done and get you over there do I CH my clo I don't think so not here you won't definitely not here and I don't think they do that unless the judge says you have to stay okay okay do you take some deig breast and right I'm going to take one handcuffed off right and then keep your head on the wall thank you when you were here last time how many times have you been here once once and what was that for um I I had a warrant okay was the warrant for um I think it was just for Miss um traffic court yeah but you never been arrested for anything like this before no never like this no usually it's him he's always he's always been the abuser always that's you protection okay can you put your on this [Applause] than okay go ahead and SL your shoes off oh I okay put your stomach up against they reassure her that the legal process will determine the outcome but at the moment they're obligated to act on the evidence presented and bend your left bring your up so I can check the Bott turn on face I see okay it's easy process to it all right you take your little fingers open up your mouth for a wide pull your top lip up bottom Li down and then lift your tongue to the roof is there anything you can take out of your mouth no okay I'm going to need all your jewelry you're going to put it in a plastic B can you help two different kinds of Clips on there we go that one work better for [Applause] me might take a while right no worries screw ones take a Time the girlfriend was ultimately charged with domestic violence number three when a casual hookup turns into toxic turmoil a young woman flies 1,800 mi from Colorado to Florida to move in with a man she met online their relationship which starts as a one- night stand quickly turns into a 5mon Whirlwind of tension the situation escalates when police are called to the home hey what's going on man AR because I my stepson in his hand because we trying to stop him for sucking his fingers she like popped him like this so she trying to make it seem like our hand like a okay um I'll pop his hand me and her was going back and forth she said don't don't hit him like that I don't want you to hit him like that I said all right okay so um she went down I told her to take her son out my room because I'm not I don't allow that suck thing in my house okay so I told her um take her something out my room she went downstairs then um like couple hours ago she post up on Facebook um um that's why that's why youle now I told her you know get your stuff just leave so hold on do you mind standing back here and talking to my partner okay so me so me and her so she going back and forth with me I told her I told her stop y around the house you know we got kids here yeah she not respecting it she not respecting it I told her we got nebor messed each other I got time had that complaint okay so um she went down and said post post up on Facebook say what she said then I told her why you why youting things on Facebook I want people in business that's what the problem is now I got you so she going back and forth with me and I said you know what you say what you say I'm you say I'm singing pack up your stuff and leave I'm single so was anything ever physical between you guys or was it just a verbal okay oh yeah she kept want push me touch me I told her stop touching me you know I'm a man I'm going hit you back I don't want to go to jail but nothing like physical like punching or hitting no just what began as a verbal argument turns physical with a woman pushing the man and throwing objects In the Heat of the Moment yeah it wasn't no physical stuff like that she just she just was doing stuff at me I told her stop did anything hit you no it ain't hit me at all but I just told her stop I don't want her getting I just want her to stop touching me okay how many kids are in the house after hearing the man's account officers approached the woman to get her version of events down here and he admit starting some of the arguments too while he trying to sit here and say it's all me he start arguments he choked me out twice he ain't going to tell y'all that my little he did tell me that he clearly choked you out he did tell me my little sh shs ain't nothing compared to what he's done does he have any like injuries or anything that just his scratches and stuff and he just he hitting on him like he's a grown man my baby too he's not a grown man and over him sucking his thumb can I use use your hand yeah a little pop like that over him sucking his thumb is fine but when it sounds like that like you're punching on him that's not okay so yeah I'm going speak up and say don't hit him now hard over him sucking his thumb okay and of course he going to tell us well if he get going to keep his thumb and his now get him out my room well show we show is okay and then you guys have lived together 5 months yeah he literally brought me and his ticket and brought us out here where are you from Colorado okay we're not from here he if he knew that this was going to happen he should have kept us in Colorado no he should have kept don't even engage in him like I said he used his own money and everything his own credit card and got us out here how did you guys meet on beo a live stream come over here met on the officers document the incident carefully noting the toxic Dynamics between the couple um even his old mom says it's hard living with him so that's not just me all right stand right here for a sec give me one sec okay so there's something that they're saying the same story they're literally saying the same exact Story the problem is that nothing really happen tonight or today like besides the kids so basically he suck thumb he disciplines him to popping him on the hand she thinks it's too hard she's the mother she thinks it's too hard get an argument veral and it sounds like they both agree that there was nothing physical other than the fact that she kept pushing he was getting close yelling in her face and she pushed them multiple times right yes okay you only me happen today all that to no I'm saying like he doesn't know happened a couple days ago couple weeks ago so what happened today today just a verbal so me document literally everything very close to detail but I mean the pushing he even stated that it was for her to leave like for him to move out the way like I'm trying to leave like move out my way like let me get my stuff I'm leaving it wasn't like him he wasn't saying like pushing like I'm gon to hurt like I'm going to smack you or like move like put this back do you have you don't have any family around here like isn't in a laot somebody brings you to their state they have to send you back no because he brought me down here so you don't have any family down here no my family's in coloron they said since he's the one that brought me down here he need it becomes clear that both individuals contribute to the turmoil but the intervention ensures the situation does not spiral further out of control okay can you please put the family keeps saying since he's the one who brought me down here he needs to be the one that sent me back because this isn't the first time he said that he wants me to get out like you said this every every like no why where's my baby going to go inside for a second hey bud can you go inside real quick mommy going you want your you want your tablet inside with you he wants his mommy inside with him here go Bud no Mommy can't go here here why don't you follow that officer right there bud you're not going to follow nobody but his mom that's the problem is that his tablet this is my tablet his blue tablet's inside hey you want to go play on your tablet no why we talk to Mommy real quick huh go go tell um Jerry you want some water all right after reviewing the evidence they reach a verdict all right so unfortunately what's going to happen happen is you got to go to jail today just because it's domestic okay so I'm going to take this how is it domestic and I didn't even like put my hands on you push him multiple times I pushed out of my me out get me out listen to me listen to me no this isn't fair cuz he all up on me you like can I demonstrate how he was on me I felt offive like he was all up on me like at that point you got to walk away you can't you can't I'm trying to I'm telling him even here's the here's the bottom L listen please move out my way no because this is wrong that's fine like why isn't he going to jail for putting me in trou stop no no no search want to make it get off of me bro all I don't give of you grab the body camera my [ __ ] arm [ __ ] stop you w grab that tape in [Applause] there I don't know but [ __ ] ultimately the woman's uncooperative Behavior becomes the deciding factor with her refusal to comply outweighing the underlying disputes yeah you know where she will be at L countyy bran St a lot longer now yeah she has no bond yep please bab protect [Applause] [Music] [Applause] I just want to pass myself and leave that's not even his real [Music] dad his dad ass all can you ask the lady if my baby could go with those neighbors I don't want my baby with an abuser he don't even beat his own kids the way he laid his hands on mine so get along with your neighbor yes I get along with my own neighbors you think your neighbors would to do can you ask them is what I'm asking I don't want him there while she's taken into custody the question of where her child will stay becomes critical she is asking if you guys are willing to watch her baby oh instead of leaving the baby with the dad for how long yeah you guys are not obligated to watch your kid I know we're not but I mean you know do she she is it any way she can contact she think she can contact somebody come and get like next day or two or something okay yeah give me a quicke so H due to the fact that they don't know how long you're going to be locked up for okay and they can't watch the baby for longer than a day you only have two options either you leave him with the stepdad or he goes to DCF you want to leave [ __ ] 47 cop3 I want to go back to Colorado that's what I I'm go back home with my baby I don't understand how he's not getting locked up too he put his hands on me too what s does that make how you only locking up the female and the male's the one who provoked it so H that's weird don't hun me get the face if you can't help me it's a [ __ ] my face all face hey what yeah she doesn't want you no don't send my baby with DCF as long as he keeps his hands off my baby with no nearby family the boy's welfare hangs in the balance leaving tough decisions for everyone involved go she's going to jail now for picking chunk yeah that's what she's going to for she get I got you I will definitely note that but I mean her actions of fighting us and fighting us determined her going to jail today number two two woman snaps over boyfriend's female Facebook friends officers show up after a domestic violence call about a couple it all started with an argument over the man's female Facebook friends which quickly escalated from words to physical aggression here's what unfolds as the cops begin their investigation yeah so um he was calling me back over I guess to um to talk and you know I get here and I didn't like the conversation so I told him just you know just get out of my car I'm going and he no I'm not getting out and then you know he's stopping me from putting up the window or anything anyway he pulls my hair um and he hits me in my in my face he throws hot soup in my face are you guys pulling on me hitting on me you guys wouldn't let me leave fighting no we weren't fighting like I would prefer to fight I can't even open my mouth all the way how did that happen from the burn or did he hit you he hit me in my face he punched me smack dab in my face okay what did anybody else see this or it was just you and him in the car it was just me and him in here after I had told him to get out okay and I was blowing the horn and all that come emergency signal on and what the the initial argument about oh okay all right um it wasn't in an argument you know it was just I wanted to leave I told him look I don't like the conversation I'm leaving and he was like no you're not going to nowhere you know and he's like and then I I don't know if I said something that triggered him or something and he pulled my hair and hit me in my face and threw hot soup in my face I don't know which came first what was the conversation about the conversation was about um I'm not sure we were friends so um we were I didn't want to be friends anymore you know because he wasn't doing right you know being good and um and then he he said something and I must have said something that must have triggered him like I don't I'm not even sure exactly what it was but then he pulled my hair hit me in my face threw hot soup on me like I said I don't know what order it was in but she denies being the aggressor claiming she acted in self-defense and I was defended myself from him to continue to punch me in my face so I grabbed his shirt but he want to keep it on and and call act like he's a victim he's no victim this ain't the first time he put his hands on me I just didn't call y'all okay and then tired of it though this this is kind of going to get a little personal um are you guys in a relationship or we in a relationship was we was how long ago did you guys break it up today okay or well yesterday okay and then because it's after 12 I know these are weird questions you guys have sex yes do you guys have any kids in common no okay all right me one second let me you got got ID on you yeah you guys live together no but he's been at my place I could talk I'm sorry but I could talk thank you I'm wondering where it was conveniently I would have just left if he would gave me my key in my phone you got your key now har he still has it yeah yeah I finally got it not from him but I got it now I got my phone back thanks I had to use the back the officers remain professional thoroughly documenting both sides of the story and examining the evidence what happened no she came she phone this my cousin phone who is she who who she cin no oh she come way out here she don't stay out here okay you know what I'm saying yeah I get she talk about I'm cheing and and I Ain no what the [ __ ] you can't come doing that I don't want to be with you know what I'm saying I've been out here since 1:00 when I got out the car you go downtown Dr or do whatever doing Dr back with DB [ __ ] you know what I'm saying yeah and I'm like when I come out she said oh I didn't want to talk and all that so I come out she try to swing on RI my shirt and all that I wish I would known who was in the whatever they left they seen me trying to get my Jack leave me alone my jacket and they their watch but they pulled off and my cousin she didn't see me even tou that girl you feel she we okay you know what I'm saying yeah so like I feel never I'm from the streets a never my reputation you feel me I'm not going back for so I had to you see what I'm saying yeah man so who is she to no she's nobody than just that's my cousin that's cin one that's yeah that's why I be stand okay you feel me she stay in the and who she your girl she her friend she stay in the be messing around but we not in the relationship so she stay in the you feel yeah she got all that okay I'm going tell her you feel so prob put in the TR all that you know I'm saying looking you got little MDA all that all that come okay you feel I'm not on that I just got phone with the dispatch or whatever yeah so I name and all that but she come out here where we at and if she was to me I had right I could had right that hurt her you feel me she come the man shares his account portraying himself as the victim you feel I'm well you know what I'm saying there's the the way the law states it is if you feel that your life is inent well I understand I understand she I understand she got physical but do you feel that she would have been kill you crazy you think that up just whose shoes are those oh kid okay okay okay yeah so she come here she can't you can't do that KN I came where she was with all that you see what I'm saying yeah she can't come here you feel me yeah my cousin stay right here she can't do nothing so were you guys arguing before she showed up or she just showed up up when we was on the phone she was calling me all type of names and all type ofra yeah you're here at your cousin house but I've been here the whole time okay I ain't come back with her I didn't go nowhere I she came here I came when she called I came out the door you feel me yeah was here watching you know what I'm saying on the phone when I say I'm good oh I just want to no I'm good I don't don't come with sweet you talk you know what I'm say because you a I don't want you round me cuz I I I'm here yeah okay so I don't want you around me that's why she don't need to be she by by I what I put okay man I want to hear that night she what she doing okay no man her let her stay over there okay but'll take care heard man she see he claims the woman became violent scratching his neck ripping his shirt and flailing her hands during the altercation I'm the one call she call police she beat me I'm do you you out here you see what I'm saying tried to scratch my arm you know you intoxicated why is you even coming out here I know I just got why you here uh tell him the same story you told me okay I'm G to put I'm going to go ahead and put you in the call for me y'all broke up we been but we just mess around with each other okay we know we just mess around with each other if I go down the road I got to be doing something you see what I'm saying thate if I be in the house too long I got to be doing something that type on that so when when she called you out here earlier um did you get in the car with her I got by the car and all ham and sit down in the car oh no I got to come up she go see she go you feel me I had some I just I just made some noodles I just made some noodles the all that all I'm like you know thatp so I'm like man you intoxicated man so what what happened to the Noles then did she slap it out your hand if you throw it try to get away or get away no I ain't throw it I'm I'm not going to waste my food you see what I'm saying yeah not me I'm barely on place I'm not going to waste my food you know what I'm saying yeah yeah yeah he'll be back so she what so when I do that she and did some type of way with her hand so I let it go and it got on her it got on me too so then I get out the car I'm talking about she she broke cigarett shirt all that he also mentioned she attempted to choke him leaving visible defensive marks on his body I was about to ask something go ahe she got but she tried to [ __ ] one see right here yeah all that yeah this B just crazy all right here she been doing all this though she just is crazy man know I got oh yeah you got a scratch see what I'm saying so all picture that real quick you feel me I ain't nothing to that girl put your put your head down yeah just like that you good and then let me see the back of your one more time right here yeah all look I might have more if I I just didn't look I just don't be on that man I just watch her ass see y got in case you get out and do some elbow back up see something yeah yeah man man let me just get on with your shirt and everything too yeah all that right here too see yeah I a nothing sh them for real you know did she so she she called you out pretty much how' she call you out like hey I want to talk to her or I if okay I'm going come back you got to be straight be real with me no fter Straight Talk and all that the man continues to rant about what happened and how it all got to this point answer and she want to hear a relationship man she what what what man hold on let me think I'm telling her that man [ __ ] I'm like man you you just you suppos to be there it is I wasting my time you was your time man L how long y'all been you know I've been Ming my for like five months mons you feel me but I been left my man my clothes nothing with her none of that so she come it's crazy man I I still y got not going to go out that way y'all live y'all live together at any point in time or no we we was off and on I wasn't stand with her I never had no meal or nothing to how come nothing you know what I'm saying just like you feel until she want to get mad want to go somewhere that then get mad if I why she G man you bring me back toward she she all that I don't know what she got going on man yeah she been no talking man she know I talk to somebody else and got about you know what I'm saying called she mad because she called her tonight no she did it before like a few weeks ago she mad cuz I got Facebook friends as in female but I ain't been having my phone somebody else got phone and she thinking I'm doing I a got no phone what meain get her she talk about her auntie oh you add my I didn't I don't know your you see what I'm saying but then she just go h you see he adamantly denies hurting her insisting there would be evidence if he had laid a finger on her feel so what if I was to beat somebody or whatever it won't be no signs of none of these SC scrub this size a scrub trying to away yeah you see what I'm saying but how do you if you try scratch around my neck you trying to do something I you feel knowing me if I hit I would have broke something I I sh be doing none of that you feel me man I got get get back all I'm not that I I'll gra for second crazy yeah let me get let me get your phone number real quick bro I ain't got no phone phone that's what I'm saying so how Facebook I get her phone number it be like good way to read you I got to ask um would you be pressing charges I don't want to do but but it might not matter but I just want to see where your head's at with it I just want to get okay I want to see what she she she about talking to police she she's no resident nothing she got nobody here to see why you out here this parking lot right why you here waiting on me for I never call but in a situation you have my phone you have my car key how am I going to leave you just hit me you threw super how did he get your phone I don't have no idea it happened so fast I was your I couldn't your phone was on the ground over here oh was it in the grass yeah way over there and I was over here I never got out my car so maybe it was thrown over there you never got out of the vehicle I never got out of my car how did he get a shirt all how did he get his shirt all ripped up he was in my car he wouldn't get when he was pulling my hair grabbed his shirt he punched me in my face okay so now he want to try to act like the a victim come on please really meanwhile the woman's claims of self-defense lack consistency and omit key details causing the officers to question her account we just for that we've got a we've got a household he don't have nothing going for himself he don't want nothing going for I didn't want to be with him he trying to reconcile I'm so tired I just want to be done so are you guys in a relationship or we was cuz he says that you guys never dated he said that you guys listen to what he say you guys are friends well I got to listen to what everybody says okay I can't go off of your word or his word I got to go off of everybody's word okay all right give me one moment let me go back over here and uh does that just stay stay put for me okay I'll be right back so he says that she showed up after partying out with her friends all night and she came up to his door where he was and um got physically abusive with him and he called 9 know1 she says that he called her to come up here to talk to her he came out and got into her car and then he started pulling on her hair and arguing with her thre his she said he came out with a full bowl of the noodles threw them in her face that's why they're all over the ground and all that's why it was all over her as well and then uh he hit her and that's why she ripped his clothes up she was fighting him in the car so the whole fight happened in the car is what she says he says the whole fight happened up there yeah so she um she showed up here she's trying to like leave details out saying she showed up they were sitting in the car they started arguing she couldn't tell me about what and then she says um he gets mad throws a cup soup at her and she's trying to get away and this and that um his story is more Coes says he show she shows up talk he comes out s in the car with his um she starts accusing him being with other women the officers review the evidence and discuss their observations as they deliberate on the next steps on the back of his neck scratch on the back of his neck more defensive marks so the injuries he got is consistent with the story and where did the fight at in the car in the car yeah and then she Wasing around her hands and she kind of like knocked the suit out of his hand to to her side of the car and um pretty much was she probably arguing at the door but he saying he didn't invite her no she just showed up after reaching a decision the officers take action all right do me a favor go go and stand up for me go ahead and place your hands while you're back being placed underr for Dating Violence what you better be fortunately all the evidence indicates that he's the one I got injur and with you having no injury to your face it's not consistent with somebody being punched in the mouth okay all right wow is there somebody who can come pick up your vehicle so it's not left here my face9 wow really oh my God okay yes I do have somebody that can come Pi on my who I can call them I don't believe this over you and I'm the victim that's why I said I don't like calling y you did this you know I didn't do nothing to you try to get someone to pick up your car so he also he left that shirt on that makes so even though mine was all down and out and I z mine back up oh my God this is crazy this is so crazy oh my God I am he knows this is the wor oh my God I can't believe I'll roll down the window for you the woman is ultimately arrested on charges of Dating Violence number one when an abusive girl sees herself as the victim police are called to a domestic dispute between a pregnant woman and her boyfriend after allegations of infidelity arise he claimed she was aggressive while she says she was just retrieving her belongings upon arrival the officers immediately face resistance from the woman what's going on nothing we to go out there we're not going to talk out here no back off don't touchant don't touch I don't care I want you to go back in there record you go in there man record no I'm not going I don't have to be inside here yes ma'am you you don't have to touch me don't put your hand on me don't put your hand on me don't touch your hand let me go you're about to go in handcuffs you're about to go in the Cs let me come in here and you're going to talk with me no we're going to talk over there but I want to hear everything no you're not no you're not control the situation I'll step back inside no you guys need to stop let me go sir you're about to go in here you want to go in handcuffs or do you want to comply no sir then go sit down I don't want to go sit down I'm nothing thinking I'm standing right here man this is real simple you are going to do what we say to do at this point because we're investigating a crime or you will go in handcuffs and go to jail for resisting do you understand me then sit down I don't want to sit down can I just stand I'm get her information I'm not giving you my information this is real this is real simple you are going to give us your information or you going to jail do you understand right you can't you that's weird though okay okay okay okay give it okay okay give it to him d p I'm not no I gave it to you I did my I I my purse it's in my purse I'll give it to you you're going to cooperate no I am I am it's in my purse go grab my friend my wallet's in there I don't want to talk just grab my information from my wallet want to give it information I said I said I'll give it to my wallet I'm not this real simple you had a chance to reply I was I no you weren't yes I was yes I well I'll give you my wallet stop moving around sit still I am she got her elow right there cuz you're moving around stop not moving the officers explain their need for her cooperation but she continues to argue her side of the story I'm not listen to me you're not in control of the situation do you understand that I want you to understand that because now that you're in handcuffs it didn't have to be this way I was going to get you some really because the whole time you've been resisting us the whole when I asked you for your information you said I'm not giving it what does that mean sorry I didn't want to give it to my I was going giving you my ID better no you weren't you said no I'm not giving you my information don't try to twist the words I'm going to give you my ID better all right please thank my ID is in my purse you want make gra yes go ahead hey one of yall okay just make it sure no inside the middle part middle please right there with my passport give my password to them you that's what it's going to do give you my ad said your an uh for um Val my probation what you on probation for um it was about to make a it's going to make a year I didn't finish doing my community service hours and me and him have argu event me and our argument we have argument think that was a argument big fight but it was not a fight it was just a a conversation so they gave me a a anger man um um what's the thing called Anor monitors anchor monitors I I st said you didn't complete your community service we we signed community service for was it the you said the fight yeah no no for my first case for your first what was your first case uh battery charge for a um it was a battery charge for him and then some other one um I I don't have the people want me okay seem like the grasser the woman denies causing harm stating she only grabbed his shorts to retrieve car keys she dismisses his injuries and claims they resulted from other actions not physical aggression on her part and I resched but we were going to have a compation with meet him and the girl I wanted to meet her face to face and then that's when we came to here um we got to the argument and I was grabbing his um shorts to grab the keys so I could get I could get out I get my PR out of the car and that's one though the shirts happened when I was um we were walking and I kind of yank it I the with my first got stuck on me I RI mostly I was grabbing his um pants all right at this point I'm me read you something just cuz I want to ask a few more specific questions um regarding it um so you have the right for me to silent anything you say are you supposed to do that when you guys put your handcuffs no this is when I want to ask time out for just a second stop talking let him talk he's reading your right I know but I'm just saying it was different law put you in handcuffs and now he's asking you questions so that's why he's read your right see the rights remains silent anything you say can and will be used against you in a court of law you have the right to talk to a lawyer and have him present with you while you're being questioned if you cannot afford to hire a lawyer one will be appointed to represent you before any question if you wish you can decide at any time question or St do you understand these rights and I explain them to you have you previously requested any law enforcement officer to allow you to speak with an attorney yeah I have attorney and my C is right there pull up so have you previously requested any law enforcement officer to allow you to speak to an attorney regarding this incident no okay nobody nobody ask me that for now having these rights in mind do you wish to talk to me now no okay so you don't want to talk okay no I will the officers handled the situation with professionalism focusing on Gathering evidence and clarifying details but do I got to go arrested for this or no well we our investigation we'll let you know without being able to talk to you well if you talk to me I need your name I can't see your name so I I don't like talking to somebody without name now we can talk sorry okay just so we're clear sorry I didn't know I couldn't see his name I know this I want I know just so we're clear this is Officer Biddle you this whole conversation is being recorded you first said you did not want to talk his sorry about that but just so we're clear you first said you did not want to talk to them and you wanted your attorney now you're saying you don't want your attorney and you want to talk you can talk now are you sure yes sir um his story he won't tell he won't go into detail about what actually happened he he wants to leave he doesn't want to pretty much get her in trouble but he's done cuz he's already lost his kids because of her um but um I didn't mirandize him I just asked him what happened uh but he will not tell me that he that she hit him but I'm like come on dude you got bloody love but as of right now PC to arrest her um I know you said you you grabbed on the shorts like when did it start like what happened right in the shorts happened right here yeah okay so what lead me into what happened while we're called out here today they just called you guys okay so obviously something happened we just having to argum we're just having the talking cuz the situation with a female that he had and that was it and then he I found out that he was cheating at me twice with the same girl um okay and everything else and we have we're just discussing about it and then he said I'm going drop you off and that's I already told you that already schedule appointment that I want to do it a couple an hour so me and him could talk it out and that's it but then he make it a big thing about it his girl the girl that he cheated on me and I was grabbing his shorts to got the key so I could get out I could take my bre out and get out and that's what I did nothing and I'll be grabbing his short the I short the pants short button the button thing for middle part his button you're to tie your buttons for your front the woman attempts to downplay her actions describing the incident as a simple argument but witness statements and physical evidence suggest otherwise that was it I was only trying to grab the keys only okay get out my you understand we were called out here in regards to a fight yes it was argument going down so no not an argument a physical fight so and I mean I'm looking at his shirt you have you know blood on you some stuff it got physical I need you to tell me about that there's no blood this has been like this I've been having feel it and your hands been cut my cut yeah just R out the Handcuff turn out okay when I was moving so you're telling me that it never got physical no you never put your hands on him he never put his hands on I only putting his hands on his shorts so trying to get his key you only try to grab the shorts get shorts shorts of the key and I was driving his I was grabbing his arm out the way as well so I can grab the key as well to get my per out of the car okay so I'm just going to make sure I have it straight hang on hang on let me talk so you're only arguing about a a female okay you wanted to grab the keys you wanted to go you just grabbed your shorts and grabbed the keys and that's it and we got got call here for that yeah um the shirt you understand how it's hard for me to believe that with his shirt yeah the shirt that's tell you were got stuck on my my hand my thing cuz we didn't get called out here for an argument we C out here for a fight it was a fight that's how we were coming he got stuck with the shirt when I clamed the dirt and got his shirt caught up when we caught up it was yanking and thing and we open the door and he ripped the whole thing that was it and I was pulling his shorts here I was trying to grab his shorts kept pulling his shorts to get the keys okay I'll try to get the keys I get my out and will the officers believe her story and accept her attempts to justify her actions let's find out you have to understand that I'm not really I was getting his keys out of those shorts they saw it when I was doing kept grabbing his shorts kept grabbing his shorts I I hear you but you got to understand I RI his shorts as well you ripped his shorts short the shorts ripped the his zipper ripped the button ripped it came out and I was yanking his I was pulling his shorts pulling his shorts pulling it shorts I was trying to get the keys because I wanted to get Gil give my purse and that's it he didn't want go get it because listen listen listen Mommy to stay here and wait listen to me at this point like I said we didn't get called out here for an argument we got for a fight now I'm not really buying what you're telling me that's the what I'm telling you I I understand what you're telling me but I I have you know a torn shirt you got injuries on you RI shirts ripped easily when I was telling when I was pulling his short I fing grab his proba grabbing his shirt as well and prob whip that was only it he only was grabbing my shirt and my arm and that's it nothing else okay I I understand what you're saying nothing else happened now can I get this off of my head no you're placed in handc because uh you wanted to be difficult go um go talk to Foster see if you need anything else and that's my concert right there the guy with the red sweater he's my concert so I called him as well to and let that it's going to be an hour late or to start at 2:00 but I was going to do it in um in PR or walking on Zoom how much long are you on probation for I don't know what does he say okay so um I'll give you back sory afterwards but he won't go into detail but pretty much that um he went picked her up this morning because uh she needed a ride here and they got here and she got upset because go ahead police carefully review the statements assess the injuries and consider the overall context you guys have one kid together already we had three three we had two how long you been together three years you actually married no not married okay we just let them live together uh we have three well one is not his my four-year-old's not his I have a 2-year-old and a one-year-old and then I'm pregnant right now from from that'll be the third one with this will be a third one for him where are the others at school or no they're in F oh okay they've been away for they've been taken away from us in a year the case worker said it's possible they aren't supposed to have any contact but he engaged in the contact to come pick her me Qui fight outside like came fight we was had hands on him basically she said she's pushing grabing shirts stuff like that like that and you're saying that it never got phys got pH me pushing him around trying to get the keys out of his way said pushing him around like grabbing his arm out the way like arm like moving his arm grabbing his arm for to get the car keys from his shorts so I could get the my out at first he all you said was that you know you put your hands in his shorts and grab the keys yeah that was it but then you just pushed him around push his shorts he sit down like push it right there grab his shorts and went through it I got his key and that's what he went to go get his key man what's your name real quick oh I know but what is it what Alexandra Alexandra okay so I'm want to help you out a little bit or try to I know you're not being truthful but hold on hold on no no no no no just listen I know you're not being truthful about everything okay hold on listen please just listen I know now I'm going to ask you some questions okay go ahead so we got called here obviously for fight you already know that he explained that multiple times to you when we get here and we see his short or shirt is all torn up he's got a hold on listen he got bloody lip obviously you're upset you want to go outside there's some things that aren't although the woman insists she did nothing wrong the evidence supports the man's account but there's this little thing nowadays that everybody has around right there I know and right there and right there and there's some outside okay what are those things called witness oh camera witness camera oh camera I'll say that yep you know we can review those right okay so you said nothing physical happen no you said you were grabbing for shorts before yeah it was short shorts and shirt you got stuff to go pushing him away and grabbing his arm out the way to get his piece but I I already know that those right there and then we have people that se things what do you think they're going to tell us yeah they said I grab his shorts pushing his arm out the way that's what I said too I what too and how the shirt get ripped I didn't grab his shirt I was grabbing his shorts and a shirt from the B them I ibly grabbing what else pushing his arm I got torn up with his thing I mean here's the thing I would like some models you have sure probably I get hold on I get I get that you're mad because you think he's cheating on you or maybe he is cheating on you I get it and you get emotional and things happen things some sometimes get out of control people make mistakes but cameras don't lie that's the one thing that don't lie out the way and I probably gank his shirt as well 100% because it's all ripped up up top I didn't RI I RI the bottom it was mostly going to the bottom part how do you get how you get the I didn't P just that part no no no no it's fresh how did that happen no I didn't I would touch his did he slam did he slam his own face into the uh into the desk table like pushing him away he probably would I I don't know I didn't face no no no no cuz I don't have nails and I don't if I have Bloody from his nails I should have got in my nails I don't have that this is mine for w I probably did with the I have W inside his car you can see the W inside his vehicle as well that I got some watermel I cut some watermelon and I put the watermelon ins the container but do you see my my thoughts on this from especially with you having prior with him already and you're already you know what I mean as the investigation continues officers discover the woman's prior battery charges involving the same man shedding light on a troubling pattern of repeated aggression once before better you didn't no no no it's got just having his arm on his um shoulder yeah they they said that that's so a battery charge yeah you yeah yeah just only shoulder touch but they soon but I guarantee when I review the cameras it's not going to be like you just being real nice trying to no I was yanking it I Wasing his shorts I keep Ying it trying to pull it off and his shorts rip rip and his button is right there that right there we should probably take that purse off our own okay you want to move that first off while so hand out yeah stand up we're going to move that first off your arm so it doesn't f you okay you can stand up stand up y listen I'm going to take one handcuff off right don't act a fool we're just taking the first off we're putting the Handcuff right back on okay clear yep yeah I mean he doesn't want to get in trouble I get it is that just phone anything else on you can sit down right now if you want sit down yeah slow I just want to make sure you don't fall no no my baby's fine it's just jumping up based on visible injuries torn clothing and corroborating testimony the officers a verdict I was here um I need speak me in just a second okay all right ma'am uh you are under arrest and you are being charged with domestic battery why because you batter not battery it was just only pushing G the um I have witness statements and everything that's going to back it so you will be going to jail today okay has she been search that down or anything okay um and resisting that's I was going to touch base with for but I don't like to I like to be outside I know you have an ankle monitor on are you on probation yeah okay he trial um the person she has to report to I have to remember her name awesome thank you um my next question are you supposed to have contact with your um boyfriend yeah you are okay no kind of not really I think no I think no I don't know that I know he picked you up this morning and um that's kind of back and forth as far as he willingly went had contact with you uh but you know if that's the case you're not supposed to have contact with okay all right we'll clarify all that in a minute not get arrested pleas no ma'am you got to go Hey listen to listen I'm going to make this clear I know you have listen I know you have skinny wrists and I know those cuffs may come off no listen listen if you pull out of those cuffs at any point during your during your right to jail if you will have a felty charge for escaping okay I just want to make that clear right now I'm not okay can I just stay my is right there come on stand up that's crazy all right right here do you have her I'm going to put gloves on you want to help him out and let him can I get my phone I got to make one phone you can make a phone call at the jail I can't because I got to do right now because I got to let I you want to De with her thank you and just like that she's charged yet again for domestic battery on the same person there no weapons nothing that okay I have a in my purse you have a little um what you call a two uh no I don't do that U two a great thing um a two by a tool she like a little wrench in there you drop those in Reverse I got to wait a minute you're fine oh I'll get it all right face away from me and I'm going to grab the seat Bel there you go now it's not tight on your belly just don't leave the car pleas we can turn it off oh we not going to get arrest now you're going to do it I I never said you were going to be arrested but you said they're not arresting reset I was telling you I was I can't I don't like being call up with all these people I have that issue with going on that I can't be call up with a lot of people I get I I react I don't can't be having that issue there were two of us in the lobby I mean three there's two at the time there's one at the door they wanted to talk to him outside and and I wanted to I can't like be inside Talking conversation I like to be outside you're having a conversation with him inside inside yeah but when police I do it outside okay well unfortunately it's not on your terms when we talk to you every F police does that I asked can we step outside and do it when he's right there too he said okay see the whole point is to separate and and to get a independent story for you it was a a good story nothing happen despite the solid evidence proving the assault she continues to deny any wrongdoing and refuses to take responsibility what you really wanted is you wanted to hear what he was saying so you Story I mean at this point I mean it's you're not going to be able to talk your way out of it so why do I got to be arrested for why he didn't got arrested as well he ring his thing for communication with us you're on parle right now okay he's on it too he falls he man I'm not the one who arrested you but I mean at this point like I said PC exists for a battery the woman was ultimately arrested for battery and resisting without violence in the end everyone deserves protection from harm no matter their gender share your thoughts about these situations below