Why don't toxic couples ever know when
enough is enough?
>> You called?
>> My boyfriend and my daughter are in the
car.
>> You called?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. What's going on?
>> Um me and my kids um so I've been living
here for almost like a year and and
pretty much is they
um is I just found out that my boy- my
ex-boyfriend um was cheating on me.
>> Mhm.
>> And um so when I like confronted him
about it, he kept on like um saying that
my mom doesn't love me and that my dad
doesn't love me and stuff. And pretty
much is um my shirt is like pulled
>> Mhm.
>> and um he choked the he choked um the
like he has scratches on him because he
choked me
and like um kicked me and punched me in
the stomach.
And also like um
pretty much his brother was just like he
was just videoing me
just crying. Um all my stuff is in there
like my containers, my clothes, my
pretty much is my mom got us um
like a dresser, my Tia's um jewelry box
is in there. Um my bag is in there. Like
pretty much everything is in there. And
pretty much is like he pulled my shirt
and then he like grabbed my throat,
picked me up to the bed and like tried
to like shake the like the grab me.
>> Okay. Did you lose consciousness at all?
>> Um just a little. Like I feel dizzy.
>> Okay. Do me a favor, look up for me.
>> Like
and also he dragged me. So like there's
like marks on him like on me.
>> Are there any bruises on your stomach
where he hit you?
>> Um I'm not sure. I didn't really think
about it.
>> Okay.
>> It was mostly like lower.
>> Okay.
>> But my throat really hurt.
>> Um do me a favor.
>> and he like so pretty much is like um
infected right there and I'm going to
the The but he took a pin and like
stabbed it like in my jaw like my area.
>> Okay.
Do me a favor pull the don't expose
yourself and just pull your neckline
down for me.
Okay.
>> I was trying to like protect myself so
that's why um there's marks all over
him.
>> Yeah.
>> And um his brother like recording me
going like crazy like crying
and stuff
and like telling him to open the door.
The reason why I didn't open the door is
because I was trying to like grab my
like grab my stuff.
>> Okay. Where is he at right now?
>> Um he's in the house probably hiding.
>> Does he live here with you?
>> Yeah. Um I have a text message saying he
took 200 out of my wallet too.
>> Okay.
>> Like he was like punching me.
>> On the side of your legs?
>> Like um like over here like on my abs.
>> Are there any marks on the other side?
>> I don't think it it's like marks right
here.
And then pretty much just I'm not sure.
He like started like punching me.
I like I was trying to get out and stuff
and pretty much just they were like
video taping me
like trying to grab my stuff and I was
like why are you filming me? I'm just
getting my stuff. But he like didn't
have nothing like the track bag. Pretty
much is there's all my apply like all my
thing and stuff
that my mom or bought them.
>> Okay.
>> And then there's a table like in the
closet.
>> Okay.
Um
>> Like my friends are
>> No.
>> Okay. We're going to need a 32 for a
female who's saying she lost
consciousness.
>> All right. You want to sit out here with
her while I'm going to go and talk to
him.
He's in 201.
>> Yes.
>> All right.
>> Where is he with anybody else?
>> His brother's out there. I'm not
concerned.
>> You want to have him
>> Your boyfriend?
All right. I'm going to go talk to your
chief.
>> That's your dad. That's your father.
>> Huh?
>> You said your father you you father
called the police.
>> Yeah, she called her father or
something.
>> Are you missing something in your
wallet?
>> Hey, what what Oh, you got scratches on
you?
>> This is
>> Yeah.
>> I say what do you mean? He's coming to
me work. I say he say I say don't hear
he means stop stop stop not good.
>> Right.
>> human here here
here. I say say Fina stop stop not good
you are relaxed.
>> Right.
>> I say you you
you father is coming you fight.
>> He's not coming to fight. I I got him.
>> Yes, he's coming to fight.
>> All right. Can I can I take pictures of
you, man? TAKE PICTURES.
>> YES.
I SAY ME stop stop stop you are human.
This is everything stop stop I say say
everything no no relax. I say your
father is coming you fight.
This is everything.
I say he come on your room I say
everything.
>> Okay, so let me take pictures.
>> Okay.
>> So, she said she was upset you she is
arguing then
>> Yes, I say you make your yes Fina you
stop he means coming you work you stop
me tired Fina stop.
>> Right.
>> I say everything no you stop I say this
is today in the restaurant you fool. I
say everything. Fina stop.
>> So, how did she So, she started to
>> Yes, I say everything. I say Fina stop
please stop me me sleepy. No, you not
sleepy. I say everything you not sleepy.
No, are you are you one second use your
your friends?
Yes, he is coming your friends.
You texting me what happened to Fina?
It's not relaxed.
Me I don't know. I say everything.
>> So, when you came when she came home
>> Yes, he hit me home.
>> she started yelling about
cheating or something.
>> Yes, you you you texting me and Fina.
>> Is he intoxicated tonight?
>> No, okay.
>> So, this was because you caught him
cheating and then what happened after
that?
>> Um, he much is he started throwing
[clears throat] my phone. Like if you
can't see
it's like scratched like break
like breakage.
Threw my phone.
And I was trying to videotape it and
then he like took and then he took my
phone and then and then he threw it and
then he got mad and like told me, "I'm
adopted." So, he told me, like,
"My mom and my dad don't love me."
>> Okay, so he's telling you that your mom
and dad don't love you because you were
adopted.
>> And he told me because, um, and told me,
like, "My dad isn't my dad."
I'm literally struggling cuz I just
found out that my mom was
>> Okay. So, she did all that to you.
>> Did you have to fight back at all?
>> No, nothing to dodge. He didn't see me.
Yeah, stop, Phoenix. Stop. Stop. Stop.
Stop. He didn't see me with you.
>> Did he ever see all this?
>> see all of it.
>> her hitting you, too?
>> No, nothing in the video. Nothing.
Nothing.
>> He didn't see her the fight. Okay, he
just He just saw that part. Okay.
>> see anything in the video.
>> All right, cool. Did you You got an ID
on you?
>> Yeah,
one second. Can I get my ID?
>> Okay.
>> And then he started And then he started,
like, um, like, um, started just, like,
started, like, fighting me.
>> Okay. Walk me through that, step by
step.
>> pretty much is he So, pretty much is the
last time that I remember is she
literally, um, is I said, "Stop looking
at Penelope," which is my friend cuz she
I just found out, too, that he has a
crush on a 17-year-old, too.
And, um,
so I was like, "Why are you looking at
her like that?" And then he And then
pretty much is I went to the door
and I shut it. And then he pretty much
told me that, um, I was trying to call
my mom and stuff
about the verbal abuse and stuff. And
then he was And then I went up to the
door trying to block him just to try to
talk to him and stuff.
>> So, you So, he was in a bedroom?
Okay, and he shut the door on you.
>> Mhm.
>> So, you went up to the door to try to
talk to him.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay.
>> And then he pulled me back into the into
the into the door to the entry, like,
the, um, the main, like, the main floor.
Like, the hallway. To like Like, the
entrance.
>> pushed you or he pulled you?
>> He He pushed me.
>> Okay, pushed you into the hallway away
from the door.
>> into the door to like enter that
hallway.
>> Okay.
After he pushed you, you guys had moved
this argument into the bedroom?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. And then you shut the door.
>> Mhm.
>> And then
and then that's when everything break
loose.
Okay. [clears throat]
>> He's like, "I have to pee." I was like,
"No, you don't." So, I decided to go in
the front like trying to like have a
conversation in front of the door. He
like dragged me and that's when like I
have rib and stuff
on my hands and he was like pulling me.
Which I'm a light girl, so like pretty
much just you can pull me and I can just
move.
>> Yeah.
>> And then pretty much he pulled me and
then pretty much is he that's when he
grabbed my phone
and like threw it on the bed. He's like,
"Luna." Which is my dog's name. And I
was like, "I'm not a dog. You don't need
to talk to me like that."
>> Okay. When you mean break loose, what do
you
>> Like pretty much is that's when he
started swinging and stuff. Started
dragging me to the bed, pushed me like
up and down. Like when I got up, he
pushed me. When he pushed up, I kept on
doing it. I was like, "Stop." So, I
swing because like I need to get up. I
was trying to get my mom and my dad,
which they work like three jobs. So,
like they're trying to get like
>> to call them. Okay.
>> And then he threw my He took my phone,
threw it through the bed again,
and said, "Stop. Like come get your
phone." Like I was like, "No, like you
bring me the phone."
>> Okay.
>> Like please, just give me my phone.
I kicked him because he was like close
to me. So, I started kicking him trying
to let go
of him.
And I was like swinging I was doing
everything like trying to like get out
of the way. He pretty much picked me up.
Like he literally like grabbed me and he
grabbed like right here.
>> Mhm.
>> And then like started like pushing me on
the bed and stuff. I was like, "Get off
of me. Get off of me." Like my height
like I was like I was on the ground.
Like pretty much is like my high point.
>> How's it going, guys?
>> [sighs]
>> So, he speaks primarily
uh Spanish. He's got like marks all over
him. I think he's going to be okay.
Um
but she she got him pretty bad. Then
she's in the back saying the opposite.
>> That's fine.
>> What's up, man? I ain't feeling it.
You got some scratches on you.
>> No, I'm okay, dude.
He just got me on the arm.
>> Okay.
>> So, there's a bench on the side. I
literally opened the door. Did not even
know that he was there. So, it bumped
him in the head.
Okay. And so, he used his fist to
literally popped me on the [ __ ] head.
Like punched me. He grabbed my throat
again. And then the last one I literally
like felt dizzy and like everything was
numb. And he has scratches because I was
trying to get off of him cuz he was on
me like this.
I was like, "Get off of me. Get off of
me." Like I was like, "Get off There's
scratches because
I'm [ __ ] like trying to get off of
him. Like get off of him." He's a heavy
dude. Like I'm trying to like get off of
him.
>> Were you trying to get out of the room
at any point?
>> Yeah.
>> You were? Okay.
>> And then pretty much is that's when his
like his brother started recording and
stuff. I was like, "Salvador, I'm
literally trying to get my shit."
>> Would his brother have any video
recording of the fight itself?
>> No.
>> Okay.
>> He just has like everything that I say,
which is I need to get my stuff. Like
pretty much is I'm the one who got
containers. I'm the one who got a table.
Like my parents got a table for you. My
mom gave me $200 and then it
disappeared.
>> Okay.
>> And my wallet. Now I have money because
my dad gave it to me.
>> Okay. So, I'm going to have EMS come and
check you out. Um in the meantime
>> My dad's on the way.
>> Okay.
>> He also is trying to like pin
my best friend against.
>> Okay.
>> All right. So, our next patient's back
here, guys.
Yep. So to speak.
>> All right. You said your dad is on the
way?
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. Can you let him know not to go up
to the apartment.
Don't get involved in any way. Okay? We
don't need this. We don't need him
getting himself into anything, okay? Let
us do our investigation first.
>> All right. Let's go over here.
>> Yeah.
>> What's up?
Hi. All right, stand up for me.
>> Dad, I'm going to jail.
>> What?
>> I'm going to jail.
>> So?
>> Yeah.
>> Give me your car keys. I'll be there in
a few minutes.
>> They're taking me now.
>> They're taking you now. I'll be there in
a minute.
>> All right, my dear.
>> I'm just going to have you step over
this curbing, okay?
Over to the back.
I'm just going to have you face this
car. Is there anything on you that's
going to stick me or prick me?
Do me a favor, just spread your feet for
me. Are they okay?
Just have a seat for me. Just watch your
head. You be careful of that seat
buckle. That'll
hurt you really bad.
How do those cuffs feel? Do they feel
okay? Are they too tight on you?
Okay. They're fine? Okay.
All right, give me one second, okay?
Hold on a minute. Can I grab a video
real quick from you?
Let's see the video.
The video on your cell phone? Yeah, can
I see that real quick?
All right, can I have it over here?
THANK YOU.
>> YOU DON'T MESS WITH PAPA BEAR. YOU DON'T
MESS WITH PAPA.
>> [screaming]
>> JUST CUZ YOU DON'T HAVE A FAMILY.
WE'RE MAD
WITH YOUR WHOLE FAMILY. JUST CUZ YOU
DON'T RESPECT MY FAMILY.
>> OKAY, so tomorrow you have TO LEAVE.
>> STOP THROWING [ __ ] I'M NOT YOUR DOG, SO
DON'T
THROW MY PHONE ALL THE WAY ACROSS THE
ROOM.
>> SO WHAT IF SOMEONE YOU FIND
>> LOOK AT THIS JOB.
>> WHAT'S UP?
>> CUZ MY FATHER WORK THREE JOBS, JUST TO
GIVE US TIME TO SPEND TIME WITH THE
FAMILY, AND ALL YOU DO IS INTERRUPT
THEM.
ALL YOU DO IS STOP, YEAH.
BUT TRY TO LOOK AT US LIKE WE'RE REALLY
TRYING TO RESPECT YOU. YOU WON'T LEAVE
MY FAMILY, MY [ __ ]
MY [ __ ] FAMILY ALONE. JUST CUZ YOU
DON'T HAVE A
FAMILY.
>> HOW MUCH IS YOUR PHONE NOW?
>> JUST SO YOU KNOW, YOUR FAMILY IS RIGHT
HERE.
>> THANK YOU, MAN.
>> YOU'RE WELCOME.
>> HAVE A GOOD NIGHT.
>> You too, have a good night.
>> The woman was arrested and charged with
domestic violence.
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