is grabbing on me you're grabbing on me
for what you have the keys on January
7th 2023 at 5:42 p.m. officers responded
to a report of a disorderly individual
in a residential area in Ohio Brenda
battle had reported that her
granddaughter desj had taken her car
keys and was refusing to return them
upon arrival officers observed Des
hiding behind vehicles and yelling
loudly alarming the apartment complex
residents the offic swiftly approached
her and restrained her
movement for no reason like she just Ang
she's gry I'm with her right
now I'm tired I'm with her right now
next 1456 leave me be please who is she
to you that's my grandmother okay what
was there an argument that happened to
yes there is an argument over this
stupid black female 1456 him I
really can't that she has called the
police on me like I really do not have
time for this room
so I'm sorry they were talking to my ear
so an argument happened yes the argument
happened over this car that I already
had permission to drive technically the
car is really mine cuz I give her the
money for it okay so until she give my
money so until she give me my money
where she she's not getting her keys
she's over there she's over there okay
she's over there somewh okay
so I I just want I'm not I'm just trying
to understand what's going on right now
I'm sorry officer it's just people my
family so do you have her keys my keys
your your keys okay yes sir what's do
you know the license plate of the
vehicle I don't know you just got it
yesterday you just got it yesterday
temporary tag on here so who who went
and got the vehicle with you her you and
her okay so is a vehicle in your name
it's in her name it's in her name so her
it is her vehicle she needs to give me
my money and then she we can go for okay
so that's going to be unfortunately a
civil we we might be able to help with
that but that sounds more like she needs
to help I just want I just need to take
a walk I need to take a breather that's
what I'm just trying to do I walked she
kicked me out so I can't go back there
so I just need to go walk right now I
just need to breathe that's it she got
the car okay but she doesn't have the
keys she don't have the keys though
that's it so you have the keys I have
the keys can I get the keys well that's
what I'm here for cuz if it's if it's
her car I understand that I'm not giving
nobody but if if it's her car listen if
it's going to be her car listen if it's
going to be her car
if it's her car then that's the thing
why is there more carop pulling up
because that's it's a situation Ser is
it's really not home if you just give me
the keys and we can work with it all
right yes you're going to give me the
keys all right or else I'm going to stop
screaming in my ear stop screaming in my
ear bro
okay so can I just see the keys and I
we'll see if they can get you your money
back okay she's not giving me no money
back she don't have no money to give me
so no she's not getting nothing no for
just what's going on my grandmother
she's being a a-hole towards me right
now and I don't not messing with it she
understand what hey all good just
talking I told her to her words like she
kick me out I don't have to go back over
there but one thing I know for sure she
not getting these keys until I get my
money and I told her that she know the
deal and tell her to tell y'all that I
have permission to drive this car too
I'm a liing G too I put money on this
cartoo just cuz it's her name it's in
her name what's your first name what's
your first name I'm de J de yes I'm so
pissed off right now okay do you have
any weapons or anything on you my M
that's it I don't have nothing I promise
where where are these keys at right here
okay no that's an Acura key that's okay
no no I don't care y'all don't
understand it's in her name I don't care
so it's her vehicle gave her the money
for no that's not right that's not fair
I don't care I'm going by with's right
right but I'm telling you what the law
is okay the law at this point going bu
what's right for me cuz they always me
wrong y if you don't return the keys
we're going to have to arrest you I
don't care bro don't don't touch me bro
do not touch me I need to walk right now
bro stop touching me y'all I'm not going
nowhere stop touching
stening
hey that's not fair listen it's not your
part just calm down I don't care you
don't understand what you have to Care
on it all right so let's just take the
key okay we're not done we're not done
we're not done stop touching me why y
grabbing on me bro Y is grabbing on me
you you're grabing on me for what you
have the keys get the off of me are you
going to be cooperative I'm Co you have
my keys get off of me get off of me you
don't stop I can't take this hand I can
I can't take this bro I cannot I cannot
I cannot please handcuff me like let me
go you want cffs I can't why is y
holding on me like this I do not like
this okay y have the keys okay took your
keys okay y'all had them okay I
understand so stop you're you're still
investigating going nowhere I'm right
here you justed to walk away from us
okay just stop just stop I need need a
break I'm stressed out okay I get it
okay once you stand up we're going to
have you sit in our car for right now
here you're not you're not under arrest
we're just going to sit it never goes in
my favorite at all it always went fire
BR I'm going to need to take your first
okay cuz I for what why am I taking my
second I cannot let you get your I have
nothing okay if you don't mind we're
going to make sure because we can't have
you in here without checking okay okay
here it's just policy nothing okay I
believe you we just like I said we it's
just our policy okay we can't let you in
here without checking everything okay
it's just for your so Furious right now
I get it okay you're upset no y'all
don't get it okay no nobody get what
what are we have to go through you can
hang on your first
okay just take a minute good sit down
and relax okay we're going to we're
going to settle this work this
out which which keys are it's these
accurate keys
right I your other keys are going to
stay with us because you have the mace
on them for right now but you'll get
these back
okay all right sit tight real quick did
Grandma want a prosecute I haven't even
found her yet I went around I couldn't
even find the Acura I just saw her she
was ducking behind the car I'm like are
you going to come talk to me and then
she ran that way ran this way and I came
up here and that's where she was at I
yeah I could even find
her all right so why are you trying to
run from I'm not trying to run I'm just
trying to walk away and catch a breather
that's it I'm not against y'all that's
what y not understand it okay but try
not helping me at all I'm trying to help
you you're not though you're not where
is you taking me to to Grandma I can't
go over there I'm kicked out what is y
not understanding well you can still go
over there cuz we're with you okay I
don't want to go over there though
well we're I I got to go over there okay
well just let me out can I sit down
somewhere you're
sitting where where's your grandma at I
I went around I didn't even see her is
she to the right I don't know where she
at where was where was the last time you
saw her cuz I'm I'll trying to get your
money back for the turn right here turn
go down go to the next one and turn in
turn left yes in this one she right
there looking dumb with the hood up
trying to get attention she's outside
screaming fussing in my face over these
stupid keys after she gave me permission
my officer mind you I was in a house
sleep she told me that I could go that's
why I got up and got dressed in The
First beginning like that's the
irritating part okay so let me go talk
to her and we'll go from there
okay she's got on we we we have her okay
we have your keys thank you I need the
keys to my house are they on the key
ring as well they're on her key ring
okay
so where where we're at right now okay
are are you wanting to press charges or
did you just want your keys back I think
I want to restrain in order against her
and she has stuff in my house okay so
I'm I'm I want to take her stuff and get
it out um she's you know I don't know I
don't understand these kids I think
she's doing drugs okay and I'm kind of
stupid because I don't know you know but
I think I think that's what she's really
doing I just and talked to the other
grandmother and the grandmother said no
she didn't ask to go she didn't ask her
to come take her to go to no store so
she's lying okay you know she's lying
and I just I can't deal with it no more
this is more this this has happened more
than once that I've had to call you guys
because she was trying to I mean she
stole my truck did she did she say
anywhere did she stay with you she's
supposed to be staying over on Twinsburg
but after this happened my son is not
going to want her there is does she have
any place to go she can go to her
grandfather's house down in Cleveland
okay so here's where we're at right now
are you wanting to press charges for her
taking your keys I you know I think I am
yes yeah because she wants to keep doing
stuff okay um so what would happen well
she would be arrested and charged with
theft okay but she's not going to stay
in jail okay she'll be released with
court paperwork and then released and if
I don't press charges if you don't press
charges you don't press it's it's
totally up to you okay um she can call
for her grandfather then to come pick
her up at your at the police station
okay
so what we'll what we'll do is we'll
have to um do some paperwork are you
willing are you willing to sign those
charges if but but can I not press
charges and just have for her
grandfather to come is there any way I
can get a restraining order where she
can't come back to this as far as as far
as like a protection order go is that
something that you have to go through
the Domestic Relations Court and where
would I go for that um that's located in
akan it's on High Street it's over by
seit County's um County Courthouse it's
on High um I think I know where the
county courthouse is where I would have
to go right it's there's there's two
different areas so there's Domestic
Relations Court and then there's a
regular seit County Courthouse you'd
have to go to the domestic relations
court and you could talk to them about
um a protection order of some kind okay
that's what I B Mark your
words Mark your words
words
Mark tell her to Mark her words tell her
to make the restraining order please
tell her to make a restraining order
please tell her to make a restraining
order that's exactly what I want please
do please
do and why is y'all giving her my keys
you see what I'm saying she it's her
house keys oh okay yeah thank you and
then you're you're going to get your
stuff back yep and I'm I got to get my
stuff out the house right okay good can
I get my stuff
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now can I get my stuff out
this come on bro I can't believe how
people use and abuse you it be your own
family I swear I helped her out last
month so much for her to get this car
you're de de yeah that's me thank you
perfect so car is coming back to your
your mother that's not my mother
grandmother y I understand it's her car
but it's my money it's in her name but
it's my money so I mean I get y'all
can't do nothing about it never it's my
fault I should never be looking over my
family
right your money as in you did you pay
for the car I put I gave her a $1,700
officer $1700 he was asking for $1,700
that's it and we're good I'll be gladly
okay I don't have I don't have to come
back over here I will gladly go else
swear I just need my money it's not fair
how she I give her money and I can't use
the car but she gave me permission to
use
it not you said she does have stuff
inside the house she does so she's been
staying with you then is that true she's
really Technically she's listed at
homeless so she's been staying with all
of us you know what I'm saying okay how
long how long has she been staying with
you um it's been a minute okay like over
a month yes okay so here's here's where
we're at because she
does stay with you okay she has what's
called established residency okay so she
does have a right to come back to get
her things okay that's fine no that's
fine so if that's that's fine if she
comes back and you and you are afraid
something's going to happen just call
our non-emergency line okay
non-emergency okay the regular phone
number right the regular phone number
not 911 okay and you just you can just
request a
pce right was that the right number if
Did you dial 911 no I did okay yeah so
then that you called would be correct
okay so you can um request what's called
a property standby which would have an
officer come down yep that's correct
okay you could we would have an officer
come
down and have her get her things we
would just stand by to make sure that
everything went peacefully and that she
got her things and left okay but like I
said if because she does have what's
called a residency here we can't force
her to leave okay so if she wants to
come back she can come back okay because
she has stayed here no I can't have her
come back this girl has fought me she
has hit me in my eye I'm I you know what
I having in a car for protection lighter
fluid okay okay so that goes to show you
and a knife because she wants to keep
fighting with me I'm diabetic and so I
lose my balance a lot okay and I I can't
go through this this is twice okay that
she's done this so what you would have
to do is
for for legal purposes in order for her
to uh not be able to come back here you
have to do like what's called eviction
stuff and that's also through the courts
and stuff like that okay but like I said
she does have a right to come back here
because she does stay here okay to get
her F stuff right I don't have to let
her in right well like I said if she's
willing to just get her stuff and leave
that's one thing but if she doesn't want
to leave we can't make her leave because
why would she wouldn't tell her that but
anyway cuz she might take my keys and go
okay well if that if that
happens definitely call us okay um cuz
she doesn't have the right to take your
belongings um but like I said because
she has been staying here she has
established residency so she can't she
is allowed to come back okay but if she
does come back and cause his problems
call us okay okay and then I'll be
pressing charges okay that's so you can
let her know that then you know so are
are you wanting to you're are you
wanting to press charges as far as for
taking your keys um
I really rather for her grandfather to
come pick her up and just get her out of
here I'm trying not to she didn't have a
place to go she been fighting with her
mother and stuff I'm other the other
grandmother I'm the only one that would
take her in but with her doing this I
don't you know I don't have no problems
here does she have a vehicle of her own
no she doesn't no okay well
um like I said we can't force her to
leave okay if she wants to get a ride
from somebody to come pick her up that's
what she's going to have to do take her
somewhere to wait if she if that's okay
that's fine but um we can't wait for her
ride to get here I got you can you are
she able to go to the police station
well if she's so she'll know this that
is serious right but if if you know if
you're not wanting to press charges okay
she's just going to get released today
and we're not we're not going to take
her to the police station okay she got
to figure it out y'all hear this camera
she had to figured it out on her own I
didn't gave this woman $1,700 and she
trying to turn it and flip it on
me
okay okay I see how she is I see how she
going to play these games if she want to
play these games I can play these
games watch her not go to work on
Monday
watch please have her follow the
restraining order yes follow the
restraining order follow the restraining
order
please please do it
do
it let me
out all right hey can I get my stuff we
we'll we'll get your stuff back here in
a minute like I said we can't let you
have your keys in the back seat I don't
want my keys I don't want I want my
stuff out this house okay how much stuff
do you have like my clothes something
okay I don't have nothing so let me let
me explain a little bit what's going on
okay she want to follow the Str order
well I've already explained to her she
would have to go through um the Domestic
Relations Court to do that and that
takes time
okay so here's where we're at okay your
grandmother's not interested in pressing
any charges for taking her keys okay I
want her to I don't want to be here well
we're you're not going to be under
you're not under arrest for taking her
keys okay okay is there someplace that
we can take you yes where where okay it
can't be too far okay do you have a
friend or anywhere that we can take you
like in only family I have is in
Cleveland I live out here with her she
want to live 40 miles from everybody so
only people I have is in Cleveland I was
just on the phone with them I can't go
there but I can't get
there bro I just hate can you please ask
for my money at least like that's she
,700 one
$1,700 is what she owe me to be exact
okay how for what was the money for her
vehicle her car okay so she you sold the
car to her no I I gave her money to help
her bought a car she told me she was
giving back money for the car this car
was supposed to be technically ours even
though it's in her name but it's our car
I help paid for it too you know and she
told me she was giving you my money back
that's why I was like okay I don't mind
helping this would be my grandma I don't
mind helping her cuz she don't have
anyone and this is why she don't have
anyone because she does stuff like this
y'all y'all just y'all seeing her side I
wish I was here to see what actually
happened
but that's why we're I just want my
money you know and I'm CLE I don't I
don't I just I don't want to cause no
harm I don't I don't want to take her
keys it's not that I was trying to steal
the car it's that it's not fair like I'm
supposed to be able to drive it too why
is you talking to me why is you treating
me like this understand I'm your grand
daughter but I am grown too and I am
helping you pay bills like it's just not
fair how you push me under the rug I'm
not doing nothing for you you know it's
just not fair to me but I'm good I just
want my money and I I just I need to get
to my friend house that's it I just
where did your friend stay at can he
stay on on
buy where's that at um my phone is dead
um um the e
um East 99th is that in Cleveland yes
ma'am okay unfortunately I can't take
you all the way up to Cleveland but I
can take you up do you know where the
sheets say over at in Stow on Steel's
Corners yes I can take you up there and
then you can have somebody come pick you
up from there at least at least get you
a little bit closer you can't take me
like Macedonia like not oh God this
unfortunately we we can't go that far oh
God what can I do right now you don't
have anybody that says an AC
around here no I'm out here with just
her it's just me and her out here okay
well I'll I'll okay I'll to her take me
to Sheets take me the sheets and steal
corters and I'll find a right from there
that's perfect okay I just got to get my
phone charged I can't even okay just
calm down real quick sorry I'm just I'm
Panic right now I understand okay so
here's where we're at okay I will talk
to your grandma about your money okay
and my clothes and your clothes we'll
make sure that you at least get your
bags with some clothes in there okay can
at least watch to her giving me my money
it don't have to be today I just need
her to give me my I will talk to her
about your money okay if she says that
she doesn't have the money to give to
you today that's something that you have
to go through civil courts of course of
course I know she don't have the money
today so it's just like I'm defeating my
purpose here but just give me the keys
to the car I was going to I was going to
help my other grandmother like that's
she act like I'm going to ripping run
the streets I'm actually out here trying
to help family members and trying to do
the right thing as I'm trying to help
her okay this is what I get for trying
to be helpful I'm trying to be a kind
person out here it's like there's not
enough kind people out here she's evil
she's the definition of evil if you
didn't seen how fast she switched I
swear I was in the house we was cool
this morning I told her what was going
on with my day I told her I need to go
help my grandmother out in uid in
Cleveland all the way across town she
was like okay cool how long you going to
come back she this what made her mad she
asked me when was I going to come back I
told her I will be back when I'm done
she blew up inste instead of me giving
her a time estimate she just blew up cuz
I said whenever I get done so she just
didn't like that response she decided to
call the police cuz I have the keys L ex
up so cool cool just keep that same
energy just give me my money and you
don't have to see me no more we're good
I I'm just over this situation I can't
believe this this little any tiny
situation just went to this okay are you
kidding but do do you understand why a
little bit I understand because she
feels like she just entitled to this car
cool get it but I'm entitled my money so
just give me okay but you know if you
had spoken with us at first a lot more
calmly I I can't when people is grabbing
on me other the cars why is all this why
is
it I get I get it' I get it I get it get
I get it I get it I get it she called
because I had her keys cool y'all got
her keys I'm just over it please let me
get away from her I just need to go I
will talk to her about getting your
cloth and we'll take you up to steals up
at streets okay that's perfect perfect
okay before we go inside real quick okay
we're going to go in we're going to grab
your phone charger and some and your
clothes for you okay when we go in I
don't want you saying anything to your
grandma I have nothing to say okay I'm
just saying just to keep the peace L
respect just don't say anything I
promise grab your stuff and we'll get
out of here I've done this
before I promise
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ma' she be okay she's going to come in
and grab her stuff
okay um I called Jackie and Jackie said
didn't even ask
to reason who got a just ignore it just
ignore it right I mean I press chares
for that please do please just ignore no
was
just ignore it okay get your
stuffff yeah you heard me lying to your
ugly D that's not helping the situation
I can please do please do
de J just okay you're making things
worse Okay just grab your stuff ain't
nothing worse than um having somebody
keep some
money they're a
there and nothing works us you see where
I have to sleep at a't nothing worse
than
this all right go ahead and have a seat
all right we'll get you we'll get we'll
get out of here in just a few
minutes all right d night um so you
understand why we did what we did I mean
you were running from me and everything
like that causing mad at I understand um
so your grandma is not going to press
charges for theft and that's good cuz
we okay we we we really didn't want to
do that um but the minimum that we're
going to do here from the supervisor
that showed up on scene um is s for
disorderly conduct just from making
annoyance running
from just interfering with my she should
be getting disorder conduct but she
stood place and she came and talk I
didn't learn from you sir you were you
were avoiding me you had me go down here
there okay okay okay I'll get nothing
crazy it's a minor Mis meanor it's like
the same as speeding pretty much um cool
down here I just got to explain it to
you 11223 next week Thursday at 2:00 you
have to show up to kaga Falls May's
court and that's all you got to do you
have any questions for me right now I
don't have a ride so I mean I have to
call them um yeah if it doesn't work out
call them and say hey can I switch it to
a different date um and he'll be able to
do that for you um but yeah she's going
to going to take you up to the gas
station up there and thank you sir at
least you're away from here is there
there's nothing else that you need
inside as of right now though I can't
think of not okay since Brenda declined
to press charges desg was only cited for
disorderly conduct however the mystery
surrounding the $1,700 loan desj claimed
to have given Brenda remains
unresolved was there any truth to it
guess we'll never know