from this misogynistic husband who was his own wife simply because another man looked at her. >> He's just mad because of something about someone was looking at her. >> Oh, he got mad at her. >> To this guy who turned his partner into a punching bag just to prove that he was man enough. He punched me in my lip and he was trying to like choke me to death and he kept bending my neck backwards like it's strange right now. Like he holds me down and he squeezes my neck. >> Yes. And then I'm like, but I'll see black and stars. >> Did that happen last night? >> That happened this morning. >> Hope you're happy. This is what you wanted, right? >> Here are chilling moments when misogynist husbands realize that they're going to jail. Starting with this misogynistic husband who was so consumed by toxic entitlement that he viewed his wife as an object of a whenever his fragile ego felt threatened. >> Get over here RIGHT NOW. >> GET OVER HERE. GET OUT OF MY HOUSE. >> GET OVER HERE. >> HEY. HEY. >> Get out. >> Just make sure he gets it. >> Get out. On January the 28th, 2024, officers were dispatched to a residence following reports of an active domestic incident. But upon arrival, they were met by a husband who, for reasons only he could explain, carried himself like he was untouchable. >> There's nothing there, but it's nothing to do with my mom. I got two kids out here. I got some back. Hey, Artisia Police Department. >> Get over here. Get over here right now. >> NO. >> GET OVER HERE. >> GET OUT OF MY HOUSE. >> Get over here. >> Hey, >> hey, get over here right now. Come on, >> just make sure he gets it. He's refusing. Get out. >> No, I'm not refuting. GET OUT. I'M NOT REFUSING. COME HERE. Come here. >> Come here. >> I'm not refusing. >> Not refusing. >> Step this way. >> I get my sandal. >> Get your sandal real quick. >> Outside. Go. Quit up against the truck. Put your hands up there. I got the male subject subject outside. I'm about to put cuffs on. Put your hands behind your back. >> You go fish. >> All right. Yeah. I'm going to put cuffs on you first. Put your hands behind your back. 26. I got one detained. You step it down. >> You're not going to jail either. >> Why you going to jail? >> Huh? >> You said you got one detained. >> I got you detained right now. >> Oh. >> So, am I going to jail? >> Huh? >> Am I going to jail? >> Well, I'm like, when I walked in there, dude, you you were down and >> I pushed I pushed her off for me. >> She didn't want to let me go. She wanted me to stay. Come over here real quick. >> I'm on Quay right on the corner of Quay and 26. >> I'm not going to do that. >> Sorry. I'm park. Sorry. Park in six. Right on the corner. >> I'm not going to do I'm not going to run around. See? >> I can't I have a bad back. >> Do you? >> Yeah. >> I didn't get the wall if you like. >> Okay. Get right up against the bumper. Yes, sir. So, what's what was going on, man? >> We're just we're just holding on to each other and I was trying to get out. That was it, man. >> Okay. Cuz when I walked in there, dude, y'all were I mean, >> I was Yeah, I was upset. I was like, "Yeah, get off me." >> Yeah, y'all were hitting. Somebody was hitting cuz >> Oh, no. I was That was me throwing my >> That was me throwing my stuff. >> So, what's going on, man? No, just just just arguing and then I guess from here I'll just I th my stuff away. >> Okay, turn around. Do you pat you down yet? Turn around. Let me give you >> got any weapons or anything? >> What's your name? >> What's your date of birth? >> Adrianos. >> 28 central clear one by name and date of birth. Hey Jim, you know what was the date of birth again? Hey, date of birth. What was it? >> Go ahead and just put your sit on this bumper for a sec >> or lean up against it. You have any ID on you? >> No, sir. Okay. So, you're not coming back. You got a different name. >> Yes, sir. >> 28 Central. I'll have a social whenever you're ready. >> Hey, we got to make sure. Okay. Yes, sir. >> I mean, if he doesn't come back and you give him the wrong stuff, then we might get you for consistent ID. We don't want to do that. >> Why would I? Yes, sir. >> Okay. You understand? >> Yes, sir. >> Come on, man. You've been around, baby. All right. >> Yeah. I mean, I'm not let you. >> Okay. >> With everything unfolding around him, he somehow still believed that he could talk his way out of the mess. as if all he needed was a convincing story and a straight face. But what he clearly overestimated was his storytelling ability. >> What's the social again? What happened? >> She accused me of cheating and I started throwing stuff around when the officer came in. He was at the door. She was on on my couch >> and I was yelling I was yelling over her. >> Was she on her stomach on the couch? >> No, she was just like like sitting down. She was sitting down. We're arguing. >> Okay. What? Just be real. Did you put hands on her? Did you tell her? >> No. Well, I tell you, but I didn't. >> Okay. I'd expect you to tell me the truth. >> I mean, there'll be there'll be marks on this. >> I just want someone to be real with me. You know what I'm saying? >> Be real with you. >> Okay. >> Are you going to read my rights? >> I don't have to. Yeah, cuz you're technically just detained. >> Okay. So, how long? >> Okay. For as long as it takes for us investigation. >> 15 minutes. >> As long as it take to get this settled. Okay. >> Okay. So, who who called you? >> Figure out what's going on. We don't know who called. >> I didn't call you. >> We know you didn't call us. I know my wife didn't fight you. >> No, obviously you guys were fighting someone arguing. I was yelling out of my [ __ ] pitching my lungs. >> So, she just accused you of cheating. >> Yes. >> Okay. That's none of my business or anything. All right. I'm not going to >> No, it's cool, man. Just You guys doing your job like I told him. I'm coming out. Can I just please get my son here? >> This is our home >> together. >> Yes. >> Okay. Um, if we did have to have you guys just separate for the day, who has who can go see? >> I can go. You can go see mom and dad or something. Family. >> Okay. And then you said there's a son involved. >> A son? >> You said you have a kid? >> Yeah, I have two children. That one, that one, and my mom. >> Okay. >> They will all stay with me though. >> Yeah. >> Where uh >> I'm not saying I didn't see how >> Hey, uh so you go stay with mom's? >> Yeah, I can stay >> up the block over there on Monterey. >> Oh, down there by uh the school. >> Yeah, past the school like block. >> Okay. Yeah, if we can if we figure out that nothing happened, man, we'll probably leave for the night or something. >> Um, >> so hang back tight. We'll finish this up and squirt away. Okay, >> do me a favor. Just face that way real quick. We'll take a look at your back. >> Your hands. >> This is tight though. >> This one? >> Okay, hold on. Hold on real quick. Let him finish. These are his back. Do you guys live in this one or in this one? >> This is like my little shop. It's my man cave. >> Your man cave. Okay, have a seat right there. This cup is a little tight. better. Now, were you guys when you were arguing? Okay. When you were arguing, were you guys arguing out here or in? >> Um, well, cop went in there and that's where he >> Okay. But did it start out here? You know what I'm saying? >> Oh, I Where did all this start at? >> Well, in the house. >> In the house? >> Yeah. >> Like what, like 10, 15 minutes ago? >> Um, just start going ago. Little more than 20. But you're saying everything was still in the houses like inside the wall. >> Well, there in the beginning she started walking that way and then I I was I got in my ride and I went up to her and then she I convinced her just to walk back over there and I reversed and we were in there. >> Oh, so you were in the car and she was walking away and you drove up to her and you told her to come back. >> She came back. >> She by herself. She walk with the kids. While he stubbornly clung to his carefully crafted story in a desperate attempt to downplay what had happened, the officer turned his attention to the wife who had actually endured the to hear her side of the story. >> Hi, sweetie. >> Like your doll. Can you come here? Hey. Hey, can you just come real quick? I just need to ask you one question. >> He was cooperative. At the moment, >> here's here's the only thing I want to ask. Okay. Okay. >> So, he says he was over you on the couch. >> Yeah. >> And I did kick him off. >> Okay. >> I did, but I thought Well, I mean, it was a reaction. >> You afraid? >> I mean, >> he was over. >> Yeah. I mean, that's why I like freaking kicked him off. I mean, I've been in situations before. >> I mean, I've been in Not with him. >> Relationships >> before. >> Okay. So, you were afraid of >> So, I had like PTSD, but like I I didn't He wouldn't hit me. >> Okay. He was over me yelling at me. He thinks that I took his money. I did not. But I He didn't hit me. He didn't put his hands on me. I kicked at him. I did kick him. >> But you were afraid. >> Yeah, but I didn't. But he never hit me, though. >> Okay. >> He never put his hands on me. >> Uh, do you own anything in this part of the house? Is any of this in here yours? >> Do you own any items? >> I mean, I don't know why. >> Say bye, Mom. >> Did you break? >> Say bye to Say bye to >> No, I mean, he hasn't broken anything. Bye. >> No, there's nothing broken. I'm fine, baby. >> Okay. >> That's all I need to ask you. >> Okay. You taking him to jail? >> Yeah. He's going to go to jail for resisting right now cuz he didn't resist. >> He was given a lawful order. >> Yeah. But he but but he he put his hands up and he and he figured didn't. >> But when he was told to get up and get out. >> Okay. But you got >> He didn't do it. No. When someone looks like they're in fear and they're getting hurt, >> it's a lawful order. >> I understand. But but he was he did >> okay. >> He did okay. But he did go he was just it was just a heat of the moment situation. >> He didn't he was fine. >> He was fine. >> We were arguing. We were arguing and you know like arguing. >> What I just told I just saw the video. You were like crouching over at the couch. Okay. Like you were about to get struck. >> Ma'am. >> So you can play all this games and stuff. Okay. been around a long time. I know a physical domestic when I see one. Okay. And then when he told him to come on out, he to pretty much told him to get out. >> Did he or did he not? >> Okay. Okay. All right. We're done. Get him arrested. >> In the end, he was charged with resisting. The misogynistic husband was undeniably compared to this next husband. He barely scratches the surface because this man didn't just his wife physically. He subjected her to relentless emotional torment as well. >> What's going on? >> He's just out of control. >> He's very physically. >> I can't help you if you're not being honest. >> Hope you're happy. This is what you wanted, right? On July the 14th, 2024 in Lake County, Illinois, deputies were dispatched to a residence after 911 received a frantic call for help. But nothing could have prepared them for the disturbing scene waiting on the other side. Upon arrival, they stepped into a volatile domestic nightmare, where her husband was allegedly carrying out an unthinkable act against the very woman he was supposed to love and protect. >> How you doing, ma'am? What's going on? >> Um, we're just having a disagreement. >> Okay. How many people are in the house? >> Just my my husband and myself. Your husband is in there. >> Are there any weapons in there that I should know? >> Yes, I have my weapon. >> You can step out here, please. >> No, I don't need >> Excuse me. >> I don't need to. >> I'm asking you to please step out here. Okay. I'm conducting an investigation right now. >> Yeah. Call because we I was yelling on the >> Hold on a second. Am I being disrespectful to you? >> I know how the game plays, man. >> What game you talking about? I'm >> not going to get arrested for any because >> Who says you're going to get arrested if they don't have it right here? Okay. Did nothing happened? Can I see some ID from you? And can I see some ID from you? >> Obviously, go get it from her. I'll ask you where it's at. Huh? >> Yes, I can get my I can get. >> Okay. >> What's going on? >> This is out of control. >> But I'm not going to be specific. What kind of out of control? What has he done? >> Did you today? Did he physically hurt you today? >> Did he throw something at you today? >> Did he hit you? >> Did it hit you? >> I can't help you. >> You're not being honest. >> Yeah, exactly. >> Normally, I I have to be close to the doorway. What the [ __ ] you going to do? Get the >> But I need to know if we have a crime or not. Okay. >> I haven't done anything wrong. >> You want to step me further away? >> So you can concentrate here. Come over here. There's plenty of people over there. Come on. >> For a woman who had already endured repeated being forced to relive the nightmare all over again was nothing short of traumatic. But while she struggled with the weight of what had happened, her sister remained on the phone throughout the terrifying ordeal. >> She's been on the phone the whole time. Don't say things. >> Okay, >> Michelle, tell the tell the officer the truth. Michelle. Michelle, you have to tell her the truth this time. >> What do you know, ma'am? Just tell me what you know. >> He's been physically whole entire marriage started uh when they were dating. >> I need to know what happened. I need to I need to know what happened today so I can he text me with a text message saying, "Oh, she's, you know, stepping out. She's beening this guy for a year. I need you to know. And um I didn't I just ignored it. And then she called me and said, "Hey, I was in the shower. Um I'm assuming you've gotten the text messages from Ron. Um and I'm not sure, you know, I need to catch you up on things. I told him I want a divorce. I'm selling our boat. Um you know, there's some stuff we need to talk about." I said, "Okay, that's fine." And I could hear him. And then she was like, "Stop. Stop." I heard then he called me back. He hung up. Then he called me back. Um, and I could hear him screaming at her and I said, "Ron, you need to calm down." And he's all, "Don't youing tell me to calm down." And I was like, "Okay, >> was any is this on FaceTime?" >> No, he won't talk on FaceTime. This is all what I've heard. >> Do you have access to look at these cameras? >> We're going to disconnect so she can see the camera footage and show me. Okay. >> Okay. No worries. Thank you so much. >> All right. You're welcome. >> So, today maybe >> Yeah. I I've got really bad My contacts are really like >> Look, if you don't mind me looking. >> No, you're fine. I like I said, I've hardly >> like What time did we receive the call? I'm trying to look at the video cameras. So, we got it at 3:59. Would you say that it was just prior to that? This is 338ish. I think >> you're going to hear cuz that camera will record everything in the house. So, you can hear him yelling at me even in >> Okay. The hearing isn't as important as what I'm seeing on a camera. If he hit you or or threw something at you to hit you, like an attempt to hit you, then we might have a >> No, that happened living room and there was no cameras in the living room. >> Okay. So, something like that did happen. He threw something at you to hit you. >> My my phone. >> So, what? >> My phone. >> So, he threw your phone >> at me. >> This phone at you? >> Yeah. >> I didn't want him. Not am I not? It's not pulling it up. >> I don't want I don't want to ruin it. I just >> So what what would you like us what how can we help you? If we have a it may not be up to you. It may be up to us, but we need to know from your from your mouth what happened and just summarize it. >> For the officer, letting anive husband walk away without being held accountable was never going to happen. But before that could happen, the immediate priority was clear. gather a solid factual account of exactly what had taken place and then ensure the full truth guided what came next. >> Summarization is that um >> got into an argument because of this. >> Yeah, we've been dealing with this for like the last 3 months but kind of fast forwarded it exploded today >> again and again and again and again and again. >> So what happened? What did he do? >> Um he just wants to continually scream and yell at me, throw everything in my face. Now he's calling my sister, my parents. I was literally I took a shower, sat on the couch, he was taking my phone from me, screaming and yelling, and he was saying that and I don't want to say this out loud because again, all these all the weapons in the house are mine. Um, he keeps saying he's going to go and hurt him, kill him, and then he then when that's when he start getting all the weapons out of the closet and all my stuff, >> he's getting the weapons out today. >> Right now, >> for what? >> Um, because he said that if anyone comes in the house, he's going to light them up. >> Okay. Well, that could be that could be interpreted not as a crime um because of the surrounding statements if he said I'm going to but the condition part is not going to be considered a crime. But I more importantly, did he say threaten? Did he threaten you? Did he say anything like that? That was direct, not a conditional. >> You guys, >> what did he say? >> He said if you guys went in the house, that's why I was trying to stop him. If you listen to recordings, >> stop touching the weapons. Knock it off. And kept saying, "If they come through this door, I'm going to light them up." >> I've always tried to protect everyone in laws. I'm a good girl. I've never done anything wrong. >> All right. So, stay out here for just a moment so I can get a partner so he can hear us. We can hear together. Okay. Just stay right here. All right. So, tell tell him again about the phone in the arm. >> Yeah. So, what happens? >> You know, he grabs my phone and he throws it at me. Um he's done it multiple times. He broke um m go living room there stuff he smashed and everything on the floor. You'll see holes in the walls. But again um I don't know what else to tell you. I was just sitting on the couch and tried to make it go away. >> Okay. So he came over and grabbed your phone today. >> Multiple times. >> And then what did you say when he grabbed your phone? >> Just stop. Please don't break it. Please don't break it. >> Okay. That's all I have. >> And then once you said, "Please don't break it." What did he do? >> Um, he grabbed it and they multiple times and he's he's thrown it at me multiple times, too. >> When you say throw it at you, I I know it's a silly question, but how does he throw it at you? >> Like I was sitting on the couch with my legs closed, just quiet, and he just throw his throw it at my arm. And um then the next time he took it and he threw it at this arm. >> So did it hit your arm? Yeah. >> Okay. Was that Can you point on your arm where it hit your arm? >> Um, well, this is a different one, but I'm sure this will be another. >> So, that bruise from >> the other. The other day. Not today. A different day. >> From what though? >> What happened? >> From him grabbing me. And I already >> How did he grab you? Did he just walk up and grab your arms? Did he push you? Did he >> I was in the bathroom. We were getting ready to go to bed and um he was throwing a fit that night and um I remember him grabbing here and then he um hit me up hit my chest with my medicine cabinet. I had a bruise here too at the same time. >> Okay. It got him throwing your phone at you. >> No, that's in the living room. You can hear everything he's saying about the about coming into the house. Oh, okay. >> You can you're going to hear everything he said, too. You can hear everything in the house from this camera. >> Okay. Okay. Let's try and pull that up. >> Like he was getting all the and I was trying to tell him to stop. He's like kept saying he's going to whoever comes in this house, me and you guys, he's going to light you up. And I'm like, you're not doing that. I'm a good girl. >> Okay. Is that why he got the up or what was the initial reason for getting him out? >> Yeah. >> Said she called 911 and so he said, "I'm going to get the gun." Yeah. Anyone comes through the front door is going to light them up. >> Okay. >> I don't know where you want me to start. >> Do you want to fill out a statement of what happened today? >> As witness statements and physical evidence began lining up, the truth was becoming impossible to deny. And it was only a matter of time before officers confronted the husband with the reality that he had been desperately trying to avoid. >> All I knew was I'm going to file for a divorce. I'm amicable. I just want to split things up and let it go. It means just peace. Like it says blessing once living hell. >> Okay. Okay. >> I just I just want to get out safely. >> Yeah. >> That's it. I know. And yes, I've had a couple of drinks. I did. >> That's fine. >> We started texting. There was nothing to it. I never touched anyone else. I've never cheated. I've never done any of that. Yes, it was inappropriate. I get it. But I never did anything wrong. >> Okay, that's that even if it is inappropriate, it doesn't give anyone right to put their hands on you or hit you with stuff. So, what I'm asking is today's incident about him yelling, throwing the phone at you, stuff like that. Would you like to write that down on paper? >> How is that going to work? No. I I don't want to ruin his life. He's got to go to work and I just want him be able to get out safely without the repercussions. Okay. So, >> I don't understand how bad this is for me. >> So, >> it's not easy. >> I got you. I don't understand. You're right. I've never been in your situation. But unfortunately, now that we're here, it's no longer in your hands. It's no longer in his hands. It's in my hands. And if I have enough to make an arrest, I'm making an arrest because it's domestic. He doesn't have a choice. You don't have a choice. Okay? So, all I'm really asking is, would you like to put it on paper? If you don't want to, you don't have to. I'm still going to make my decision based off what I heard today. Just stand right here. He They're watching him. So, just stay right here. You'll be safe. Okay. Hope you're happy. This is what you wanted, right? But the reason I do what? >> Don't ever. >> You know what? I didn't do anything. Domestic. >> What? I didn't do anything. >> What's domestic I do? >> You're in custody. You have the right to remain silent. You understand these rights. >> Take a step back. >> I pull my Hold on. Let me pull my pull short. >> All right. Take a step back. >> Step back >> on your chest off. Take a step back. There you go. Perfect. >> You have anything on you? >> Nope. >> Have a seat. >> You want me to hurry up? I'm hurrying up. >> Yeah, >> we're going to get you to jail as fast as possible. Face away from me. >> Sit back. Face away from me. >> I can't with my wrist away from me,shole. your camera on. >> Eventually, the husband was charged with simple battery and criminal mischief. Speaking of misogynistic partners, meet this guy who actually thought he could turn his girlfriend into a human punching bag without facing any consequences. >> I didn't eat dinner last night cuz we got in a big argument and this morning he just got so mad and he punched me in my lip and he was trying to like choke me to death. He kept bending my neck backwards. >> Yes, sir. I don't I don't want no tr I don't want no trouble at my workplace for you. I just >> as soon as I could, I want to know what this is about. >> March the 4th, 2024 in Flaggler County, Florida. Officers were dispatched after a concerned father called 911, fearing his daughter was being by her boyfriend. But when officers arrived, they weren't met by someone eager to expose and escape the abuse. They were met by a woman still deeply entangled in the relationship, determined to protect the very man hurting her. >> We got some pretty concerning calls >> and we just want to make sure you're all right. >> Calls from you again. >> From your dad. >> Is everything all right? >> Is it about you? >> No, >> I just >> No, it's not. It's not about the trip. It's about your wellbeing. >> I'm okay. >> Are you sure? >> Yeah. >> Today we don't care about a car. We really don't. It's just my car like struggling to get my license and like >> Are you in the process of doing that? >> Yeah. >> Okay. Yeah. No, that's fine. That will come in time or anything. >> Yeah. No, that'll come in time. >> Trying to get it registered, too. And >> yeah, >> that's always a hassle because it costs it cost a lot of money, too. >> Uh we're talk about more of your >> like mentally. >> Mentally. Physically. >> Physically. Has anything happened between you and your boyfriend or cousin? No, he's just stressed too about the car and it's like caused some tension between us. >> But nothing physical like >> people tend to get stressed out and they're like they just lash out >> either side. >> So if you know if there's anything wrong you can talk to us but >> if there's anything wrong you feel free to talk to us. We're not here to you know. >> Yeah, I know. >> Okay. >> We're not trying to scare you and think >> Yeah, we're not trying to scare you or in trouble. Hey, that's that's partially on me cuz when I called you, I worded it a little weirdly, but I just want to come out here and talk to >> Yeah. Also, the Daytona sheriff just called about a case >> between me and him two years ago. That's why >> we're not Daytona. >> Okay. We're This is Flagar County. So, >> we're we were just here because we got concerning statements. >> Hey, step on the road real quick. >> Make sure you're all right and everything's all right. >> No, I'm loving it. I promise. >> Are you sure? >> Yes, 100%. >> Okay. more than happy to give us a call. Um, even if it's even if you think it's foolish, call us somehow and just be like, "You're all right." >> Yep. And, uh, we came to talk to you about your license. Yep. >> Okay. >> All right. All right. >> You guys have a good one, too. >> All right. No problem. You have a wonderful day. After all was said and done, the officers left. But that was far from the end of this nightmare. If anything, it was just the beginning. The misogynistic boyfriend was right back at it again, using intimidation and violence to flex his so-called power over her. But this time, things would be different. The very next day, her brother met up with some cops. And unlike before, he came armed with something far more powerful than words. Evidence. >> I was supposed to pick her up. I don't know what house is his. Do you guys know what house this is? Or we're very >> The plan was for her to run out and get in the car and then I would just drive and meet you guys. But I didn't know you guys were this close. >> Okay. All right. So, let's take a deep breath. All right. >> So, >> so like we explained to dad, okay, yesterday these two actually went over there. I wasn't saying >> what had happened after. >> So, if if she's not willing to have a conversation with us, okay, and there's no visible injuries. There's nothing we can do no matter what other people are saying. >> Well, there's visible injuries. >> No, I just I got you. I got you. But that's what I wanted to explain to dad because dad was kind of mad that we didn't take him to jail yesterday. Well, without Did she break? >> Her busted lip. Yeah. >> Okay. Okay. >> Pretty visible. >> Yeah. She's got a black eye. >> She has a black eye, but her nose is bruised. >> Her nose is >> It might be broken. >> Okay. >> Her nose might be broken. >> Yeah. I can't tell from the video. >> Okay. >> That might be broken cuz that's indented. >> Oh, yeah. It's swell up. >> Yeah, that is. >> How long have they been together? >> I don't even know, man. I don't know. I've been telling her since day one. La Twinum. Is that her? >> Yeah, that's her. That's >> Okay. She says she's walking right now. >> It's Cory. She said she's walking. >> Yeah, we talked to her yesterday. >> Where is she walking from? >> The street's going to be right there. >> The street's going to be right there. >> Um, we talked to her yesterday. She didn't She had nothing. No injuries. >> Is he going to go pick her up? >> He's going to go talk to her. >> Okay. But she >> Stay right there. Get visual. >> Okay. Cuz I need to take her to my house. I don't want him with her anymore. No, no, no, no. >> And she's not. So, >> we just got We just got >> No, that's fine. We got to chat with her. Get some paperwork done. >> Okay. >> And then we can go make >> She's not allowed back over here. >> Yeah. Keep her away. >> I'm not let >> She's an adult. This is what I'm going to tell you. She's an adult. Okay. >> I'm going to hold her. I'm her big brother and she sent me pictures of her face. >> She's going to go stay in my house. She's going to go with my house. >> Pin her in the car. >> No, that's fine. But she's going to willingly go to my apartment. So, >> she's an adult. She can make her choices. >> She's not staying here. >> I can only help somebody that wants help. >> Hello. >> Finally, she appeared. But this time, she was in a completely different frame of mind from the woman the officers had encountered before. Whatever fear, hesitation, or urge to protect her partner she once had seemed to be fading. Hey, >> sorry. >> It's okay. >> Sorry. >> No, it's okay. It's okay. It's okay. Let's walk over to Let's walk over to my Does he know you're leaving? >> Does he know? >> I think he believes that I will. >> Okay. >> That I am. >> Okay. All right. Hey. What happened? Are you going to go talk to >> I didn't eat dinner last night cuz we got in a big argument and like you came over for and I just felt uncomfortable the whole day. So, I just ended up falling asleep. Then this morning he just got so mad and he punched me in my lip and he was trying to like choke me to and he kept bending my neck backwards like it's strained right now. And that like two weeks ago he punched me in the eye and left a black eye. It's just so constant. And in my cheek it was swollen. It was so swollen a few weeks ago. >> Can you just pull your shirt down a little bit off the shoulder? my neck too. Like underneath he was like pressing and I don't know if he was trying to get my pressure points or what >> when he had you in a choke hold. Were you afraid that >> right here? I'm right here. >> When he had you said he was choking you. >> How How is he choking you? >> He like he holds me down and he >> had you pinned down my neck. >> Two hands around your neck. >> Yes. And then he'll like >> Did you lose consciousness? >> No. But there's times where I've black like he does it just enough to where I won't lose consciousness, but I'll see black and stars. >> Did that happen last night? >> That happened this morning. >> This morning? >> Yes. And you have cuts on your arms. Is that >> That was from yesterday when I was walking and thorns. >> Okay. >> That wasn't from him, but everything else I have pictures. Yeah. And this slit is from when he hit me in the eye with a bar stool months ago and he slit my eye open. >> Okay. Take a deep breath for me. >> We're We're here to We're here to help. Okay. >> He's not He's not going to harm you anymore. Okay. >> He said if I ever told anyone, he would. >> Good luck. >> You're fine. Okay. Your brother's here. You're going to go home with your brother. We're here to to deal with him. Okay. >> He's not home. He's at work. >> Okay. Where does he work? >> He works at JW site development. I don't know where they are right now. >> Okay. Okay. Does he have a car? >> No. He rides with the crew. sight development. >> Yeah, it's it's right after the bridge. That little thing. >> So, there's more. >> Let's take one more deep breath. Okay. >> My face right here. He He grabbed it and he like pulled it. >> Hey, do you want do you want medical to come here and just check you out for now? >> Does your nose hurt when you touch it? >> Yeah. It's bruised. >> Let's get medical. >> He punched me in my stomach the whole time. I don't think there's any marks or anything, but right on >> on the side on the rib cage. >> We're going to we're going to medical just to check you out. Okay. You don't have to go with them. They're just going to make sure everything's all right before you stay. >> Oh, absolutely. You're going home with him. Okay. >> You want to come by him? >> Do you want a hug? >> Yeah. >> Okay. You're okay. >> Okay. >> You want to give your brother a hug? >> All right. Come on. Come on. >> Give your brother a hug. Okay. >> She's okay. You all right? We got medical coming to check on her. >> Okay. >> I we have some very specific. They may be difficult questions to answer. Okay. But it's it's going to help us with everything and help you the best. Okay. >> When you we're going back to when he choked you. Okay. Or actually go back. You spoke to them yesterday, correct? >> Okay. >> What what occurred from there? We got in a huge fight in front of his mom and I kept trying to walk away and like stop it and he kept in slick comments and stuff. >> And he tried to keep >> he just kept antagonizing like making slick comments and stuff like you should have you should have scheduled to get your license months ago and blah blah. and he was threatening to put the car that he bought me for Christmas in his name because of it. And I was just like, "Okay." I gave him the title. You could have it. And then that wasn't enough. So, he tried taking my phone and saying, "My phone is in his name, but I pay for it." >> Having endured more than enough at the hands of her boyfriend. She was now done protecting him. This time, she was more than ready to lay everything out for the cops, holding nothing back and revealing every single disturbing detail of the that she had suffered behind those closed doors of horror. that he never put a dime toward it and he kept trying to snatch my phone saying he was he was he told me to take it out of his name and stuff like that. He just kept going and then I got to a point where I'm fed up. Like I'm so fed up >> and I'm such a calm person. >> I'm so calm with it. Take another deep breath. >> I'm scared. >> Okay, take another >> while he's choking me. He says, "I wish I could snap your neck right now. Okay. >> Okay. You're you're where we need to be. Okay. >> All right. So, the fight continues. And what happens first? >> And then I go to the room and I'm trying to clean up. We have a showing at like 12:00. >> The showing for what? >> A showing. They're selling the house. They're selling the house. We have a showing at like 12:00. So, I'm trying to clean up the room. He keeps coming back and and he came back once and I was like, "Could you help me clean the room?" And he's just smoking, you know, like. So I was like, "We have like 30 minutes." >> And he's just um I was like, "Can you please help me clean the room? There's like 30 minutes. So these people have to be here." I passed him his cup, like his work cup. And I was like, "Can you please take that out there?" And he says that I'm screaming at him and I'm giving him attitude and like he'll go back in there um periodically and like and and do like physical things. It's like yesterday he came back in and shoved me down on the floor across the floor. >> How many times has he choked you in since yesterday? You saw us. >> Since yesterday probably three. >> Three times. How many times did you see stars to blackness of those three times? >> Every single time you >> Every single time you get to that point. Okay. I don't know if it's And when you when he's doing that, are you afraid that you're going to Okay. >> All right. I'm going to have to interrupt real quick. Yes. >> Okay. Where does he work? development. >> Is he at a job site right now? >> Yes. I don't know what job site. They're usually in town center. Recently they've been in the town center. >> Say one more time. >> Recently they've been in town area sometimes during the land. >> How long ago did he leave? >> He left at 6:15 this morning. >> So this happened a couple hours ago. >> Yeah. >> Okay. I was for some reason I was under the impression that he just left. I was going to try to get him to leave. >> Yeah, we thought it was. >> Okay. I'm sorry. Um, all right. Do we know where he's at right this second? >> I don't know. He's usually at He doesn't have a phone. He just lost that usually at his location. I don't know where he is. Usually lately he's been working in town center in that complex. Sometimes he's in Dand. It's either between Dand or Town Center or the shop. >> It's that one. from the from the motorcycle. >> No, our bike bicycle bicycle from Fu Beach. >> And then he never talked to us. >> Yes. >> Okay. >> All right. >> Okay. >> She saw blackness and stars three times in the last 24 hours from being choked by two hands. And he says multiple times, I wish I could break your neck right now. >> Um, bruising in the rib cage. This is not from him. >> Okay. >> What about this right here? >> Bruising here. >> Which? >> And your elbow. >> It looked like maybe you were grabbed. Just clip your wrist around. >> Oh, I was holding bags on this arm. >> Oh, yeah. She just had a burn. >> She's been living here. I don't know. But my arm is >> some redness here. >> Let's do it now. photographs before we wait >> to smoking and I was telling him about my night and he got so angry he said I'm getting really tired of this and then I was like I knew what was about to come the fact that he wasn't invited I knew it was coming so I was like baby just sit down we can talk about it >> and he grabbed my hair and I was sitting against the um the the bar to where the porches. There's two hand there's wooden things for the porches that stairs up the leaves of the door. I was sitting against it. He grabbed both sides of my hair and said and he kept banging it against it and said, "Shut the up before I hurt you. Do anything." >> Now armed with every disturbing detail of what had just happened, the cops had more than enough to act, they immediately launched a search for the misogynistic boyfriend. But this time, the power dynamic had shifted. The man who thought that he could intimidate and control everyone around him was now finally meeting his match. >> How's it going? >> Looking for >> Who do you guys >> uh control specialist? >> Control specialist. >> Yes, sir. >> Okay. >> Site crew. >> I don't know. We're just a subcontractor for the BJ's going up over here. I think that's fine. >> Okay. All right. Do you guys have your IDs on it by chance? We see those real quick. >> Yeah. I got to grab it out of the truck. >> Okay. >> He was wearing a beige hat with American flag, orange shirt. >> It's close. >> Black pants and black glasses. >> Nope. Thanks. Looks just like the guy we're looking for. >> Yes, sir. I don't I don't want no tr I don't want no trouble at my workplace. as soon as I could. I want to know what this is about. >> We'll explain everything to you in a second. All right. >> You got anything on you, bud? Pocket knives, razor blades? >> No, sir. Just two lighters. >> It's not a crime to have them. I just like to know because >> No, sir. >> You're on a construction work crew, so >> Yes, sir. >> All right, man. Just hang tight back here for a second. Okay. >> Somebody going to come explain to me? >> We'll explain everything to you in a second. All right. In the end, his toxic need for control and violence caught up with him. He was hit with serious charges, including aggravated domestic strangulation, aggravated domestic and domestic battery. Taking misogyny to a whole new level is this husband. His fragile ego was so out of control that simply seeing another man look at his wife was enough to send him into a violent rage. >> Okay. >> He's just mad because something about someone was looking at her. >> Oh, and he got mad at her. >> On June the 29th, 2025 in Villa Park, Illinois, officers responded to a casino after disturbing reports of a husband brutally his wife in broad daylight. What should have been an ordinary day quickly turned into a horrifying public display of violence. All because one man's toxic jealousy and fragile ego spiraled completely out of control. Upon arrival, officers were met by a visibly shaken wife who had just been subjected to brutal treatment at the hands of a misogynistic husband. Whatever excuses he may have had, the physical and emotional toll on her told a far more disturbing story. >> What's going on? >> So, apparently the lady that she got hit by I guess her husband or something in there. >> He's in there. >> Yeah. But the thing is that she said she really needs to go because she was picking up her uh her baby after Chicago. She said she has to go. So ready. left her before she has. Uhhuh. Okay. Okay. Okay. work. They got the cameras. The owner's not here, but uh but they got the cameras where it can't watch him right now. Did she have any injuries? Um, that's what I'm trying to ask. >> Does it look solid? >> It does look solid. Okay. I'm gonna talk over. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. foreign. Okay. After hearing her side of the story, the officers set out to track down the husband, a man who had shown shocking cruelty and zero mercy, even toward his own wife. Whatever sense of control or justification he thought he had was about to be put to the test. Okay. Okay. >> You punch her. >> No. >> No. Why people call us? >> I don't know. I don't know. >> You don't know? >> No. >> Okay. >> You got anything on you? No, no, don't do that. Phone. Okay. Okay. Sit down. Relax. Let me see if I get the cameras. You got this. foreign. Okay. Um, okay. Okay. Okay. Perfect. Mhm. >> Stand up. Okay. You're under arrest. Stand up. Stand up. Okay. Okay. Okay. foreign. Okay. He's just mad because of something about someone was looking at her. >> Oh, and he got mad at her. >> Uhhuh. Okay. >> When they keep looking at his wife, that's why he got sauce. >> All right, come on. [ __ ] you. I'm >> admit to hitting him. >> But he's just saying you got to understand, you know, your wife. >> Yeah. >> She's not the one I'm hitting. >> Yeah, I know. I get mad, too. But not at her. What does she do? cuz he saw it all. >> As the ride to the station began, the reality of the situation finally started to sink in. The tough act was fading fast, replaced by the chilling realization that there was no talking or bullying his way out of this one. Probably for the first time, the man who had terrorized his wife was being forced to confront the consequences of his own evil actions. ROSE, ROSE, ROSE, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, >> PLEASE, PLEASE. NO, >> I don't say. >> You need an ambulance. >> Do you need medical? >> Okay. Are you okay? Yes or no? You can talk cuz I see you shaking your head. So, and you just didn't shut up. So, are you okay? >> You want to talk to him in Spanish? I think he's just having incarceris. Oh, I can't see whe He just needed to breathe. >> Victor won. I think we're okay now. He's now saying he's fine. >> All right, take your time. >> Let's act Let's act mature, okay? Let's not act like an idiot. Let's go. Come on. You're doing good. >> Good job. >> Okay. >> In the end, he was charged with aggravated. Still on misogynistic husbands. Meet 55-year-old Gregory. A man who somehow believed he could wife behind closed doors, then simply charm his way out of it. >> She want to take care of my up, man. >> What happened? >> She ripped my Bible apart, man. >> Okay. >> That's crazy. >> How did that How did that stop? >> I just asked her to go home. She didn't live. Hey, did you try to stop him from breaking? >> Oh, yeah. >> Yeah. How'd you do that? >> On January the 1st, 2025, officers were dispatched to a residence following reports of a heated domestic disturbance. When they arrived, it was immediately clear that this was far more than just a loud argument. Inside, they found 55-year-old Gregory and his much younger wife in the middle of a volatile confrontation with a home in complete disarray. >> Talking about, man, >> she wouldn't take care of my up, man. What happened? >> She do what the she wants. She ain't going to tear my up. >> What happened, man? >> I don't know. >> What's been going on tonight? >> You can go down the house to her house and just be happy, but she want to stay out here and argue with me. >> Okay. What happened tonight? What's the problem, man? >> The problem is she wants to take whatever she wants. >> Okay. What she thinking? >> I don't know what she thinking. >> What she tell you? What's What jumped it all off? >> She got you stressing. >> I see you got the black and my on you, man. What happens? >> Break it down for me. You ripped my Bible apart, man. >> Okay. >> That's crazy. >> How did that How did that stop? >> I just asked her to go home. She only >> Okay. >> She don't want to go home. She want to stay on here and argue with me. >> So, you asked her to go home. >> Is that why she got mad? >> I don't know why she got mad. I don't know why she got mad. >> Okay. Okay. So, y'all arguing right back and forth? >> Is that what's going on? >> And then what happened? quality for only what happened. She tried to throw everything at my TV and break it. >> Okay. >> Rip my Bible up. >> Okay. Did you try to stop her from breaking? >> Oh, yeah. >> Yeah. How'd you do that? >> How you How you stop? >> I just held her back. Start in front of my TV. >> How'd you hold her back? Can you show me? >> Huh? >> How'd you hold her back? Can you show me? >> I I hold her back. I wasn't cutting all her back when she was trying to throw that and throw the ash straight and throw everything at my TV. >> Yeah. So, you tried to you tried to stop her from uh throwing your stuff. >> How'd you stop her? >> Just stood in front of her. >> You just stood in front of her. >> Did you hit her at all? >> No. >> No. You >> I didn't hit her. >> Okay. I mean, I thought we do. You just tell me if you did or not. >> It was obvious that Gregory wasn't giving the full story. His answers were selective, carefully measured, and clearly designed to paint himself in the best possible light. >> I know you sometimes, you know, people get mad and upset and stuff. They don't even realize what they did. Do you believe that you could >> Okay. I ain't trying to hurt her. >> I told her this. Go home. times what it is is sometimes you don't even know >> your arms are flailing everywhere and stuff and you could have accidentally hit her and you know stuff like that. It's no problem, you know. You know, it's just sometimes people accidentally, oh man, I ain't even mean, you know, this, this, and that. She accidentally got hit. >> She had to do is just go down her house, man. >> Did your arm like Where did you talk? >> Come on, man. Come on, man. You're not trying to get me to incriminate myself. >> I'm not trying to. >> I'm telling you what happened. She All she had to do is just go home. >> Okay. you. But I'm what I'm saying is you tried to tell me that you tried to stop it. >> Every every time she tried to do something. >> Yeah. >> I don't want to step on your stuff. Got a charger over there. >> It wouldn't even be on It wouldn't even be like this if it wasn't for her tearing it up. Look at my Bible, man. >> Yeah. >> Look at my Bible, man. >> I see that. >> Did she hit you at all? >> Yeah, she hit me. >> How' she hit you? But I didn't I ain't I ain't trying to go in there. I'm not I just I just wanted to go home and get whatever she need. >> I just got to ask, man. I just got to ask. >> Not doing my job if I don't ask. >> How long you guys been together? >> I've been seeing her I've been seeing her for like three years. about three years. So she do she stay here the night sometimes. >> She has >> Okay. Okay. Okay. No problem. >> This her? >> Yeah. >> All right. Look at the ashtray. >> Yeah. Because she tried to throw it at my TV. >> Oh no. >> Is that hers? >> Yours. Mine is Yeah. No, mine's mine. Is that her over there? Her coat. >> Okay. We going to give that to her. Yeah. Yeah. >> He was She was said that all all the things that was ripped up was from earlier today was your altercation with somebody else. >> No, it ain't no altercation with nobody else's house. >> Said some guy to the hospital earlier today. >> That that had nothing to do with this. >> Well, she saying that's why we came from this. >> No, that a had nothing to do with this. In classic misogynist fashion, he tried playing the victim card, speaking with just enough confidence to suggest he actually believes he could sell the act. >> Hey, hey, hey, hey. You're talking to her just like we talked to you. We're not you're not going to communicate to her whatever she's accusing you. >> I want to press charges of her ripping my too then. >> I want to her coming in my house wrecking my >> Well, you invited her in the house first off. No, that gave her the right to do what she >> Let me finish. First off, you invite her in the house. All right. >> But I have to find proof that she actually did this. She said this was already like this. Just like I have to find proof of of um her alleging that you you better >> nothing to her. >> Okay, I get that. >> So why won't she leave when you told her to leave? >> I don't know why she wouldn't leave. She just wouldn't leave. What was she upset about that caused her to do any of this? >> You got to help me out. >> I know. She think she thinks I help more people out than I help her. >> After speaking with the wife and seeing the visible injuries for themselves, bloodied lip, bruises, and unmistakable signs of physical struggle, the officers began piecing together what had really happened behind closed doors. And with every detail that surfaced, Gregory's carefully crafted narrative started falling apart. >> Hey, you got a shirt? >> You got a shirt on? >> You got a shirt? You have to come with us, >> huh? >> You got to come with us. All right. >> We got probable cause. >> Come on, man. >> Come on, man. >> For real, man. >> And this girl do all this, man. >> She has an injury to her lip. You know, >> she says you >> Well, I want I want to press charges against every question, too. >> Tell your part. We're going to get >> No, I want her to go, too. >> We'll get >> Well, there are two separate charges. All right. She'll be charged for that, too, separately. All right. >> You got anything? >> Dude, let's get this. I'm going set this down. >> You got any or anything like that that camera's going to find that they won't like before we leave here? You know what I mean, man? >> Got any on you, sir? Okay. >> Lighter can't come with you when you got here. >> Yeah, we got to leave lighter. >> No, you put your head back. >> Got the shirt up. >> Yeah, we'll put a shirt on. >> No. Come on, man. I ain't going to put a shirt on when you wear my >> We'll put a shirt on. >> Where do you have the shirt? >> You have the shirt handy. >> Come on, man. Can I lock my house up, man? >> Can I lock my house up? >> Let's get the shirt. Okay. Okay. >> You have a shirt in here. >> You have a shirt in here, sir. >> Sir, I'm trying to get you a shirt. Do you have a shirt? >> Okay. You don't want to tell us. You're going to have to go with no shirt. >> Can I lock my house up? >> We're trying, but I'm trying to get you a shirt >> cuz that door got to be locked and I got to go out the back. >> One thing at a time. Do you have a shirt? >> Come on, dude. Whatever you got to do, man. >> Do you have a shirt? >> I got my Come on, man. >> Come on, man. >> You just want this hoodie >> or a jacket. >> You don't got any, right? >> Come on, man. I ain't got no >> I got to ask, man. >> You want the change to go with you? >> Okay. I'mma throw this over you. Okay. You can put it put it on better in the station. >> Does she want photos? >> Paris, does she want photos? to start. >> Come on, man. I got no domestic. What the is this, dude? >> All right. Um, >> anything else? >> What is hers? >> Ain't nothing hers in this house. >> Everything. >> All right. Nothing else is hers. >> No. >> Where are your keys so we can lock up? >> Right there. >> All right. We're going to lock up the house for you. All right. >> Yeah. Lock this door by a top lock in the >> We have to go out the back. >> Yes. >> All right. Is there anything else you need? You got your phone in your wall, right? >> Well, I don't know. >> Yeah. We're going to come out that door. Unless you want to go out the back. >> Do you usually go out this door? >> I know. That door's got to be locked and you got to go out the back door. >> Can I lock it from the outside though? >> No, the back door. >> I have Okay, that's fine. for reasons only he could justify. Gregory genuinely seemed to see nothing wrong with what he had done. He clung tightly to the delusion that he was the real victim in all of this. >> And she ain't got nothing. >> Go out this this door. Come on. Come on. Come on. Come on. >> No. No. No. >> She's not coming in here. >> She ain't coming in here. >> What is hers? >> I don't know. >> No, she ain't coming. >> She's got She got to specifically tell us or else >> she ain't nothing where your purse was dumped. We got everything. She ain't got nothing in here. >> Don't worry, we're not going to let her in here. It's not her place. It's her place. >> Hey, Harris. Where her purse was dumped, we got everything. There's nothing else. >> Okay. >> Where her person? >> Yeah. >> Uh, we're just going to walk on this way. No, you lock it. We'll let him pick >> my birth certificate up and my other stuff to fill out my Bible, man. >> Well, you when you come back, you get that. How do you lock this door, >> bro? That top lock. >> The top lock. >> The top one. The top. The top one. >> This one. >> Yes. >> We'll just We'll have him show us how to get out. If you want to shut that and we'll go out the back door. >> So, just this like this. >> Yes. >> All right. All right. Now, where do we go to get out of here? >> Yeah. >> This back door. >> Yeah. Lock. >> Okay. >> Is that locked? >> No. >> I can get it, buddy. >> There we go. Watch your step. I don't want him to fall. >> I'll lock it back. All right. >> I want her I want her to go the rest of the way because of my man. >> Yeah. Yeah. We have to handle each rest differently, though. Her her rest is a little different than yours. And we'll speak more about how she uh damages everything in your house uh when I read your rights down the station. >> Oh my god. >> You all right? >> Did your chains fall out? No, >> this is crazy, man.