On September 22nd, 2024, police responded to a call of a domestic incident that was occurring. Here are the events that occurred. Yeah, it's 19 119, right? >> 49 stars. Can you just 1090 the uh part number? That's going to be 119. Yeah, come in. My wife's insane. >> What's going on, sir? >> What's going on? >> She's [ __ ] insane, man. >> All right, relax. I'm literally not doing it. >> He won't leave. I don't. He told me twice. And look, this is the bruise that he left on my foot. And this is >> I have a sit there. I have a s. No worries. No worries. >> I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY HE WON'T LEAVE. AND HE'S TRYING TO TAKE my baby dog, TOO. HE KEEPS CHOKING HIS NO. NO. I'm trying to relax, BUT THE REASON WHY I CAN'T RELAX. The reason Officer Officer, the reason why I can't relax is because he keeps he choked me twice. >> What? >> He choked me twice and he tried to take my dog, too. And I asked him before he choked me. I said, "No, I said, "Can you please just leave?" Right. I'm asking [laughter] him if he can please just leave. But I don't understand why he has to choke me and not just leave. >> I don't understand why he can't just not he can't just leave. >> Okay. Okay. What happened between you two? >> Pretty much we we we went out to the city. We came back. >> She starts hitting me and striking me. I'm like trying to get her off me. So yeah, I did like put her on a hole for a little bit. >> Don't worry. Okay, so listen. Breathe. We're here. We're in. >> He keeps choking me. He won't stop choking me. >> Call the cop like >> He keeps choking me. >> Your hands ARE ON YOUR >> YES, HE CHOKED ME. >> HE CHOKED ME [screaming] TWICE. >> OKAY, MA'AM. MA'AM MA'AM, WE'RE GOING TO get everything set because he's choked me more than once and I want him to be accountable now. >> Okay, >> I want him to be accountable. I'm sorry, but this is not the first time. >> This happened so many times. Can you just put your hair back? >> Yes. So many times. >> Okay, hold on. >> So many times so fed up. So fed up with his choking. >> He's almost killed me so many times with this choking. >> I promise you. >> Yes, he has. MY MOM CAN TESTIFY. MY mom >> other people can testify. It's hard. >> It's fine. It's all right. We're here. >> I'm just so scared of my for my life. here. Okay, we're here. >> Okay, what did you >> It doesn't matter what my records are. He choked me. He >> even if I have Even if I have >> I'm not telling I'm telling the truth. Please just look up record. >> Okay. What's your name? >> My name is Jen Kim. Please look up record. I'm not doing anything. >> I promise you. I'm trying to leave her alone. I want >> So, what happened then? >> We come home from the club. She's getting We're arguing. She starts spitting and hitting me. I told her, "You need to please calm down. You can't [ __ ] hit me." >> So, I try to like, >> she's right. I did >> hold this. Hold her. Just stay in her just like, you know, like >> How did you hold her? >> I hold her. I I held her like holding her from the back. >> So, you felt Did you feel like you were your air your circulation was cut off? >> Yes. And this was not This was not the first time. >> I felt like my air circulation was cut off and this is not the first time. Okay. I'm going to complete some paperwork with you. >> Okay. >> Uh at the end of that paperwork, I'm going to ask you if you want a restraining order or anything like that. >> Is he going to get charged? >> Of course, we're gonna we're going to take care of that now, but I'm just going to let you know what the paperwork is going to entail. Okay. Probably going to have you come in with us. >> Is he going to charge you for is is he going to be charged for sure? >> Yes. Just just calm down. Okay. Do you have any ID on you or any information you can give me? >> Yeah. Can I speak to him, please? >> No, I don't want you to speak to him cuz it's just going to escalate the situation. All right. Just calm down. >> I told once once I I'm not doing anything. I'M LEAVING. >> YOU CAN'T. >> YOU TOLD ME THE LAST TIME. >> OKAY, YOU GOT TO PLEASE please look up her record. Please, >> sir. Come outside. We're going to go outside. >> No problem. I'm not I'm not doing anything, man. I'm not going to be able to do anything. >> So, please just just relax. >> I don't want to go outside. Can I please just hang out here? >> No, we're going to go outside. >> All right. Sure. No problem. >> I told you. >> Can I just tell him? Please, let me just talk to him. >> Stay over there. >> No, he didn't choke me. He didn't choke me. I lied. >> I'm not talking to her. >> You can't take back your uh statement. You already stay with him. >> NO, I DIDN'T. I DIDN'T. I DIDN'T. >> I LIED. He didn't choke me. >> Hold on. >> Hey, sorry. There's going to be a lock up. We're going to be uh taking him in. >> No, no, no. Please, please. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. No, I didn't say any of that. I DIDN'T SAY IT. NO, I DIDN'T MEAN IT. I DIDN'T MEAN IT. I DIDN'T MEAN IT. NO, I DIDN'T MEAN IT. IT'S FALSE. IT'S FALSE. >> You can't You just told me exactly what you What happened? No, I just said that just because I want him to get in trouble. Okay, I'm sorry. I just said that. I'm sorry. It's my fault. It's I'm I'm I'm drunk. I'm fault. I'm sorry. Please >> listen to me. I'm sorry. >> I see. Hold on. Hold. >> CAN I JUST TALK TO HIM, PLEASE? I'M SORRY. >> YOU BETTER RELAX. HOLD ON. >> I'M SORRY. PLEASE. >> Listen to me. You keep acting like this, I'm going to lock both of you up. How about that? >> I'm really sorry. >> Take it easy. >> I'm sorry. >> Stand over there. >> I'm sorry. >> Stand over there. I said >> I'm sorry for >> Can you just stand over there, >> please? I'm sorry. I just don't want him to get in trouble. Please. Best. >> Please. Please talk to him. >> Just wait. Just Just hang on. >> I'm sorry. I don't want anyone to get in trouble. Please. Just I'm sorry. I'm really sorry for all of you. I'm sorry. >> All right. Get dressed cuz you're coming back with us. So, cuz we need to complete paperwork. So, put your shoes on and everything. >> Nothing happened. >> What? >> Nothing happened. It was just a verb verbal argument. >> All right. Just hold on. Stay in the Stay in the >> Sorry, officer. I'm really sorry. Honestly, >> I I misremember things because I'm kind of drunk and I'm really sorry. I'm really sorry for >> Okay, >> close the door. >> All right, dude. Turn around. >> She has marks. So, this is the way it works in New Jersey. Domestic violence. All right, >> dude. >> Are you serious, bro? >> She has injuries. I don't have anything. [laughter] This This No, no, no. My dog did this to me. >> IT'S NOT MINE. IT'S NOT MINE. NO. >> Stay in the apartment. Close the door. Close it. >> I'm sorry. >> It doesn't matter. He already admitted. >> No, no, no. He didn't admit anything. He didn't do anything. He didn't do anything. Please, I'm Please. I'm begging you. Please. No, he did it in a minute. >> No, he did. He did. >> I Please, I'm begging. It's all recorded. >> No, no, no. I I'm I'm telling you. I'm sorry. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. But I didn't. I'm I'm I'm delirious. No, no, no. I'm I said I No one said that because I'm delirious. I I didn't remember. I did not remember correctly. I'M TELLING THE BODY CAMERA. I DID not remember correctly. Please. I have a dog. PLEASE, NO HELP. NO, PLEASE. HELP. NO. PLEASE. PLEASE. I'm begging you. I'm begging you. I'm begging you. I'm begging. He didn't do anything to me. I lied. I lied. I lied. The body came AND I LIED. PLEASE HELP. HELP. NO. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE. PLEASE. I'm begging you. Please. I'm sorry, sir. Please. Just take him back. Please. Please. He didn't do anything. Please. >> Ma'am, listen. You called the police. You said what you said. Everything is already done. >> One. But I want to take it back because I >> you know just because I said something I was in a improper mental state. Now that I'm in a proper mental state, I'd like to re I'd like to edit my statement, please. I'm sorry. >> There's no editing a statement. >> But I'm was in an improper mental state. >> Hold on. Let me talk >> for >> I'm sorry. I was in a proper mental state. >> Ma'am, >> I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Please, but I'm sorry. I can't let this happen. It's not right. I'm sorry. IT'S NOT RIGHT. IT'S NOT HOW that That's not how it happened. That's not how it happened. >> You're really is what we're going on. >> BUT THAT'S NOT HOW IT'S FALSE. BUT IT'S FALSE. >> BUT I LIED. IT'S FALSE. I LIED. >> THAT'S WHAT YOU TOLD US. >> BUT I LI IT'S FALSE. IT'S >> You have marks on your neck. He >> This is not a surgery. This is surgery. >> Doing [laughter] this is a surgery that >> Ma'am, >> this is a surgery. >> Ma'am, that's it. It's over. >> 43 Heckers, >> please. Is there Can I just go with him? >> 43 coming. >> 43. Can you send me an ambulance to this location? >> No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. I don't need an am No. I need to be with my dog. >> You're coming in negative. You're breaking up on me. >> You need your message. >> No. I need to be my dog. Please. Please, sir. Please. I need to be with my dog. >> No. No. >> Ma'am, STOP TALKING. >> NO. I'M FINE. >> STOP TALKING. >> PLEASE. I'm fine. I don't need >> There's marks on her neck. >> No, I know there it's from surgery. Please. No, >> ma'am. If you want to refuse them, that's on your own tuition when they get here. Okay. >> Is he going to go in jail? >> Ma'am, this is way past that already. >> But where is he going? >> That doesn't really matter right now. >> It matters to me cuz I >> We're processing that situation and then we have to get you checked to make sure you're okay. >> I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm telling you, I'm okay. No. >> Like I said, the MS guests here, if you want to refuse them, that is on your own accord. >> Can I please see him? >> No. >> Where is he? >> Ma'am, you're not able to see him right now. >> But why can't I see him? >> Ma'am, when you call the police and make statements like you did, it's not a game. You don't call the police cuz you think it's a game. >> I don't think it's a game. >> Okay. This is real life and what you said has power to it. So, what can I do now to get him back? >> We're past that already. >> But what can I do to get him out of trouble? To >> Ma'am, we are past that already. >> I understand that I said what I said, but now I want to tell the authorities that, hey, what I said was not true because I'm very inebriated cuz I'm drunk. >> Okay. Regardless of that, he already admitted to putting his arm around you and applying pressure. >> I've asked him numerous times and he said yes, it's all on body camera, >> but >> everything is being recorded. >> So, we are past this. I need you to understand that. >> But it's not true. >> It ma'am, you both made statements. He admitted to it and that's it. We are past this already. >> What can I do now? I'm asking you what can I do? >> I'm telling you one last time. There is nothing that you can do. >> What can I do to see him? >> Nothing. You're not able to see him right now. >> What can I do to call him? >> Nothing. >> What can I do? Please. >> You can't do anything right now. >> Well, what can I do to contact him? >> There's nothing that you can do nothing that has to do with him right now. Absolutely nothing. >> Please let me know. Please. >> You cannot. >> Please. >> Please take a seat. >> Please, sir. >> While we wait for EMS. >> Please, sir, let me know what I can do to call him. >> You cannot call him >> within when? tomorrow >> whenever he gets released or whatever the case may be and he's out then you can contact him >> as long as there is no >> nothing nothing >> is there a statement that I can make to that officer >> hello >> can I please tell that officer that I'm not in trouble I'm not I'm okay my health is 100% okay but I have to let them know that I'm okay I lied I'm okay everything's fine everything's fine I'm okay please let him go He He didn't hurt me at all. Jyn did not hurt me at all. Jyn did not hurt me at all. I'm completely okay. I'm completely fine and my health is 100%. Jyn did not hurt me at all. He didn't hurt me at all. He didn't hurt me at all. >> You have your ID, ma'am? >> But he didn't hurt me at all. >> Okay. Do you have your ID? >> Can I please >> Can you give me your ID? >> No, I don't have my ID. >> Where is it? >> Can I please Can you please tell him? >> We're not doing anything else but until you give me your ID. >> I can't Can you please leave? >> Where is your ID? >> But I don't want you to be here right now. We're past that. >> You can't help me, >> ma'am. We are past that. >> Do you have your ID? >> But why are you here? Why am I in trouble? >> Who says you're in trouble? >> I I'm not comfortable giving you my ID. >> I'm I'm not Can you please take your shoes off? Please. This is my home. Please, >> ma'am. >> Please, please. Like, you just took my husband away. Please, >> ma'am. >> Why am I in trouble? >> We acted according to the law. from what your statements were and his statements were. I don't know how many more times you can hear it and not understand it. >> Well, my statements were false. >> I didn't mean to call the police. I I miscalled. >> Okay. Do you have your ID? >> No. >> Where is it? >> I don't have an ID. >> What's your first name? >> I don't have a first name. >> Ma'am, >> please. >> You're making this a lot more difficult than it has to be. >> Please, just let me see my husband and I'll tell you. Please, just let me >> No, you are not able to Please let me tell tell me the information. Please just let me. >> Ma'am, you are not able to see him. >> Please. >> Would you like to file a temporary restraining order against him? >> No, because this is false. Please. Everything I said is false. Please let him go. Please, >> ma'am. >> Let him go. >> Are you sure you would not like to? >> Yes, I'm sure. Because everything I said is false and all we have is a fight. I'm sorry. Please, just let him go. Please, >> ma'am. >> We have our issues. Please >> to give us a statement when we first got here. >> My statement is freak. I know, but I was drunk. Okay. People say things when they're drunk. Please. I'm sorry. I I was accused him of a crime. >> I know what I accused him of. I'm sorry. I didn't know the legal You know what? In school, we're not trained on the legal, you know, the legal terms. I'm I'm sorry. We are not trained, but we're still held responsible, right? I'm sorry. Okay. I wasn't taught. I didn't know. I'm sorry. I just don't want him to get in trouble. I'm sorry. I'm so Please. It's not Is it still recording? I'm sorry. I don't want him to get in trouble. Please. >> I'm sorry. I'm not I I want I don't know what I know we're past that, but I can't give you my information because I don't stand by these terms. I don't stand by what I said. I don't stand by it. I don't stand It's not true. I don't stand by it. I don't I'm sorry, but I don't stand by it. >> Okay, stay here. >> Please just let him go. Please, sir. Please, sir. I'm begging you. I know. I know. >> Stay here. >> I respect you, sir, but please. I'm so sorry, sir. Please, just let him go. Please. >> I have to call my sergeant. You don't want to give me your information. Give me one second. >> No, please. Please. I know. I I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know. I know you have a job and I know, but please, just please from a human point of view, please. I'm so sorry, sir. I know, sir. I'm not able to take sides. >> I know, sir. I know, sir. >> Whether you want to take it back or not, that's not the way the law works. >> I understand, sir. I understand, sir. >> So, if you understand, you would comply. >> But I But when I'm complying, I'm saying I'm sorry that I made a misstatement. I I was drunk and you know what? I was being very dramatic. I I'm I'm just I just want to tell you that I'm sorry. Okay. >> Okay. Regardless of that fact, he already admitted, >> but she's also she's also drunk. He's not there's nothing he's in his right mind. >> Well, I don't think he's in his right mind. >> No, he was the most calm one. >> He has never committed a crime in his life. >> And I just want to say >> regardless of that fact, >> but he did not >> done is done and that's it. >> But he did not do that. He did not. Please, I'm telling the camera, please. He did not. I And then this guar is from a surgery that I can prove. I can get the doctor to send you. >> Stand right there. >> Yes. I'm sorry. >> Stand right there. >> Yes, sir. >> I'm not going to continue to tell you. Stand right there, >> sir. Please. I'm I'm begging you with my whole entire life, sir. >> Man, I'm telling you numerous times what to do. >> I know. I'm sorry. >> So, can you please comply? >> It is not that hard. >> I'm I I will never call the police again. I >> That's not what this is about. >> We have a job to do. >> But what this was about was I made an erroneous call that was dramatic enough that I know. I know. I know. It's not It's my fault. It's my fault. But let me just take resp. It's my fault for making call. >> We're past that. >> I'm sorry. Please, sir. I'm >> Please, sir. I'm >> stay in your apartment. >> I'm so sorry, sir. I'm sorry. >> And I will get back to you. So, again, I'm asking you for your information. >> I can't whether you give me your ID or your name. >> I can't stand by the statement, sir. I'm I'm I can't stand. It's not the correct statement, sir. It's an erroneous statement. I'm sorry. I'm just drunk. I'm sorry. I'm I'm sorry. I'm He didn't want to do that to me. Please. Please let me just speak to him. I'm sorry. >> If he did that to me, I wouldn't want to speak to him. I'm sorry. Please. I'm so sorry. Please. I'm sorry. >> I'm sorry, sir. Please. I'm sorry. I'm begging you. I won't go. I'm sorry. I just don't want to necessary. Can you please go right there? >> Sir, I'm sorry. This is I can't stand by The only reason why I can't give you my ID is because I can't stand by this, David. I'm sorry, sir. I I I can't I >> Ma'am, can you please stand there? I have to make a phone call and then I will talk to you. >> Can you please go over there? >> Yes, but please please just know that I don't stand by the statement. >> Ma'am, you've said that many times already. Can you please stand back? >> I'm so sorry, sir. I'm so sorry for wasting your time. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. >> Yes. I'm sorry. Please, just please let me please just know that I'm sorry. Please just know. Please, I'm sorry. Please stand back. I denied like please. I don't want the control. Please please stand back. I know. I'm begging you. Please. I'm begging you. I'm begging you. I'm begging you. Please, sir. >> I'm begging [laughter] you. I deny this prolonging what the process has to do. >> But but but I'm I'm I'm sorry. Please. Is it recording? Is I don't see a recording. Recording. Um please please I I I I was being dramatic. I was just being dramatic. I'm so sorry. I I'm I'm I'm sobering up now. We just had a night. We just went to a nightclub and we got into a heated argument and that's what happened. I'm so sorry. >> Can you please stand there? I need to call someone and then I will talk to you again. Okay. >> Yes. I'm sorry. Please stand there. Sorry. >> Okay. Thank you. >> Please don't get me. Please. I'm in trouble. Please. Please. Please. Please. >> I need to close the door. I just want to tell the camera that >> you told the camera many times already. >> He wasn't violent towards me. He wasn't violent towards me. And you know what? I was just dramatic. I misread the moment. I misremembered. >> Can you please stand back? You already said what you need to say, right? >> I just don't want him to get in trouble. Please. I >> Please stand back there. I need the door. >> I don't want there to be any evidence because I was just hysterical. I was hysterical when I called. And next time, >> please. I was hysterical. Nothing is wrong with me. I'm perfectly fine. >> Yeah. She's not giving me any information and she declined. No, I'm I'm in perfectly good health and please, I'm just so sorry. I was hysterical when I called and I'm completely fine. I'm so sorry. I'm I was hysterical. I'm so sorry. I'll never call 911 again. >> No, I'm so sorry. >> To me or her name? >> I'm so sorry, sir. >> Multiple times. >> I'm so sorry, sir. Please. Please. He didn't do anything to me. He didn't do anything to me. I beg of you. I beg of you. I beg of you. He didn't do anything to me. I beg of you. Uh I'm >> call Sergeant cuz she's not I beg of you, sir. He didn't do anything to me. I was hysterical. She did not give me any information at all. I >> I was hysterical. I'm sorry. I was being very dramatic. I'm on my period. I >> Yeah. Just tell him to Which one came? Yeah. >> Yes. I'm on my period, sir. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry, sir. I'm on my period. I'm sorry. >> Ma'am, I'm sorry. I'm on my period. >> The quicker you give me your identification. >> 49. >> For your information, we can get this going. >> Is he going to come back? >> Please. Why would he not come back? >> Because I lied. Because I I didn't lie, but I was hysterical. I was being dramatic. And I'm so sorry. And I I' I I >> cannot I don't know how many more times I can tell you without you understanding. You said what you said. You made statements on body camera. He admitted to what you said. >> But now I'm making more statements on body camera. I'm telling you, >> those statements don't negate the original statement. But if I'm telling you the previous statements are made erroneously. >> You made the 911 call, right? You're the original caller. >> But I >> Yes or no? >> No. >> So, who called then? You just said you called. >> Well, I didn't mean to call. I canceled the first call because I didn't want to call. I canceled many calls. >> Okay. You're still the original caller. You called 911. >> That's why we're here. >> He didn't do anything >> and we are here to do our job. He didn't do anything to me. But you're arresting him erroneously because he didn't do anything to me and I was just a hysterical woman who's on my period. Please. >> Okay. Are you going to give me your information? >> Please, I'm begging you, sir. I'm begging you. >> Ma'am, I'm asking a question. Are you going to give me your information? >> I cannot because I can't stand by the statement. I can't. I'm sorry, sir. I'm sorry, sir. Because I will give you my information. >> What's your first statement? >> I can't give you my information, sir. I can't stand by the statement, sir. I'm sorry. I can't. Please bring him back. Please. I'm sorry, >> ma'am. He's not coming back right now. >> Please. >> Regardless of whatever you say. >> Then which station is he in? Please. I have to go see him. >> You are not able to see him. >> I'm begging you. >> No, you are not able to see him right now. EMS is going to come and check you out. If you want to refuse that, that is on your own accord. >> Then what will what if I make statements to EMS? Then what will they do? >> They are here to check you out medically. Why can't I closed the door on you? >> Because this is still investigation. I need your ID. >> I'm not I don't have an ID. >> So, what is your first name? >> I don't have a first name. >> Yes, you do. What is your first name? >> I don't feel comfortable telling you my first name. >> Ma'am, is it just your first name? >> No, I don't stand by these statements. >> Regardless, >> no, I can't. I don't stand by these statements. These are false statements. Okay. We'll just wait for EMS. >> Please bring him back. Please. These are false statements. Please. >> Please, sir. I >> do. You guys have any children in common? Do you guys have any kids together? >> Please. I I >> Yes or no? >> I want him back. >> Ma'am, do you have any kids together? >> I want him back. Yes or no? >> I want him back. >> Ma'am, do you have any children in common? >> Well, I want him back. >> Fortnite. >> I want him back. Please. He didn't do anything to me. I want him back. >> Hello. >> Please. >> I'm going to be transporting one male under. >> No, I'm fine. He didn't do anything to me. I don't know what's happening. >> I'm fine. But police headquarters. >> Protocol is we got to give them the the green light. That's all. >> All right. Fine. Then you can check me out. But I'm fine. I'm fine. >> Please. I'm fine. I'm fine. I'm fine. Please. I'm fine. Please. This is a surgical scar. I can give you the evidence of this. Please. I got this. And please, I'm fine. I'm fine. Please. >> And what about those ones? >> I don't I don't I I did that myself. I scratched. I was itchy. Please. I'm fine. >> I'm fine. I'm >> the original. >> Why is it not okay if I say I'm fine? Why is it Why do they have to say >> I I'm just asking what the what had why we're here. That's all I'm asking. >> Because I was hysterical and I made a call. I was hysterical. I was dramatic and I was drunk and I'm sorry. That's why I made that call. >> Okay. >> Call. Okay. >> Listen, all you have to do is just take a look at you and leave. >> I know. I'm fine. >> Fine. But as long we just do our thing, give the green light and then you're good. You're good to go. What do you need? >> I don't please. I don't feel comfortable giving my name. I I I really want my husband to come back. I don't feel comfortable giving my name. >> All right. Well, we'll get your name from him. >> I'm not comfortable. >> She didn't give me your name either. >> All right. >> I want to see my husband first and I'll give you my name. Please. >> I want to see him. I want to see him and I'll give you my name. Please. I want to see him. >> Do you know what today is? >> Yes, I know. >> What is it? >> Without checking. Without checking. What day? >> Uh I guess uh Friday was the 20th, right? So today >> No, I just need to know what day of the week. That's right. >> Uh Saturday. >> Oh, >> where are you right now? >> I'm in Edgewater, New Jersey. >> Okay. Uh do you know who's the president of the United States? >> Yes, right now it's Joe Biden. >> Okay. You said you've been drinking, correct? >> I'm 30 years old. Yes, I've been drinking. >> What do you have tonight? What did you drink? >> Just some tequila. >> Some tequila. >> Yes. >> Okay. So you still you feel that you're under influence right now? >> Not right now because I'm very stressed that my husband is taken away and I just want to see him right now. >> Honestly, >> there must be a reason that you called for police. >> It's because I was hysterical. I called because I made a mistake. I was hysterical. I'm on my period and I'm sorry that my emotions get exacerbated when I'm on my period. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for bringing you guys into this. I'm sorry for bringing the police in, but please, I I'm begging to just see my husband, please, because he didn't do anything. >> That's not our job. >> Our job is to get your information and signed off that. >> I cannot give you my information until I cannot give you my information because I'd be giving him my information. I can't give him my information because I don't agree with my husband being taken away. >> Well, you called to get him taken away. So, I want this taken I'm telling that's why I'm explaining that I was being hysterical. It's my fault that I was hysterical on my period. I've been drinking on my period. I have PM DDD. I have medical evidence that I have PMDD. >> Do you have medication for it? >> I was taking Prozac for a while for PMDD that I can prove. So, I'm sorry for this whole ordeal. I'm very sorry to all of you. Please, just please take bring my husband back. >> He didn't do anything to me. Please. >> He didn't do anything to me. >> Okay. >> Ma'am, do you want to speak to a breather nurse for the strangulation? >> No. No, he didn't strangle me. >> He did not strangle me. >> Okay. Again, cuz I need to make sure. Do you want to speak to a breathing nurse? >> No, because he did not hurt me. >> So, you're declining the nurse? I'm declining the nurse because he did not hurt me because I called because I was hysterical. I have PMDDD. I drank on my period. I'm really sorry. I'm three. >> No. I'm very sorry for all me. I'm three. Technically, you want us to check her out. She refusing us to check her. >> No, no, no. It's I I'm fine. This is from my surgery. Please. >> Hold on. We're We're talking It's our job. Hold on. Hold on. One second. >> You want us to check her out? I mean I don't see >> we can't force ourselves. >> We can't force ourselves on her. >> So >> So sorry if it we can make her like jump and if we can get the information from you later. >> Does she sign that she's refusing? >> We will make >> I mean if this is her place of residence you can get her information right or your cup. So >> we'll get it from you later but right now we will make her sign that she doesn't want to be touched. >> Just please he didn't do anything to had nothing to do with us that you have. We're only here. >> So here, look, look, I'm going to be very honest with you. You have like one of two options. You can give them a hard time and if they see or feel like you're not alert and oriented, they could send you to psych. Or if you cooperate with the cops and give them the information they need, this is just between me and you. give them the information they need and tell and show them that you are capable of following orders and all this stuff which means you are not still under the influence then they will try to work with you on getting whatever it is you need to get done >> regardless I know but you're still not cooperating with them >> listen regardless not anyone have a hysterical or any issue called police and and make a false alarm for something else this is something you might be charged for I'm just letting you know now. >> You know what? I would rather just take the hit for it because I'm You know what? I didn't know that this was such a big deal and I'm very sorry. You know, I'm >> Are you have any plan to hurt yourself? >> No, I don't have any plan to hurt myself and >> or others. >> Like I said before, I'm I I truly just have PMDD and >> Oh, no. What was the She's 30. I I I [laughter] at least put her in. >> No, I I'm I'm not trying to not cooperate. >> I'm trying to, but we got to put her in. Sir, >> let me get your ID then. >> Sir, the only reason why I don't feel comfortable with giving you my ID is because I don't stand by the statements. >> Okay. Whatever other statements you've made are on body camera. >> So, can I please have your ID? >> But I don't stand by these statements. >> Okay. May I please have >> You made multiple statements. Can I please have your ID? >> I I >> Okay, sign. >> Is it today? >> Today? What? >> I don't think she's I don't think she's alert oriented. >> Yes, I am alert and oriented. >> She's not following orders. >> He's not going to start. >> I am following orders. And please, I am >> When is the last time you had a drink? >> Just let us know. When is the last time you had a drink? >> Less than 24 hour. Yes or no? >> I I just I just No. No, I I don't. >> Simple question. When was the last time you had an alcoholic beverage? Time. >> I don't feel comfortable answering these questions. I like her. >> No. No. I don't deem her. >> No. Please, >> ma'am. It's going to be a lot harder on yourself if you don't give me the ID. >> Yes. I did identify you. That's it. We're not taking it to do anything with it. >> I just don't want my husband to get in trouble. Please. >> We are not cops. So for us to do our job, we're just asking you for your information. We're not taking you to jail. We're we're we're EMS. We're just giving the green light that you're fine, but you're giving us a hard time, which is leading us to believe that you're not sober. >> The thing is, I'm just trying to talk to you guys. I'm not trying to give you guys a hard time. >> But you are. But this is what I'm saying. Like you have one of two options. >> I'm being I understand if I'm not being calm, but I am being very calm. >> I'm not saying I'm not saying calm. I'm saying cooperative. >> I am being very cooperative. >> And can I have your ID? >> What time What time is your last alcoholic beverage? >> Okay. I will say that I will give you my ID, but I do not stand by these statements. >> Okay. >> And and if I if you can please tell me when I can see my husband and where, please. >> Okay. Let me get your ID first. >> Can you please tell me? >> Ma'am, can you please give me your ID? Can I please record this? >> You can record all you want. This has been recording the whole time. >> Okay. >> I know, but sir, I don't feel comfortable giving my >> blood pressure. Let's start with this. That's it. Blood pressure. >> No, please. I I won't give him my >> Hold on. Hold on. Or we look what we have here. >> I know you're not here for medical purposes. >> Take you anywhere. >> I understand. I understand. Please just listen to me calmly. I understand. And I Please listen to me. And I I've said I have PMDDD. I just made that call. >> Okay. >> Out of anxiety. >> But for us to do our job, we're not police officers. So we're not >> But why is it I Why isn't it enough that I say I'm okay? >> Because you had a drink. >> Because you're not >> I understand that I had a drink. But that doesn't mean she's refusing to give us any information. She keeps on saying that she said in the beginning don't feel comfortable. And she's saying she does not want him arrested or anything like that. >> But you're not you're not saying you're not okay. >> And she's not giving me She's not giving me information. Yeah. >> I'm sure you're okay, but you're not cooperating with us. >> I I will cooperate, but I don't feel comfort. I should declin to get temporary. She decline to breathe nurse as well because I don't agree with the statements that he's making. >> Okay. So, I'm going to leave her here. >> That's why I'm saying I made that erroneously because with someone with PMDD, I'm in a different state of mind sometimes. And when I I'm I'm sorry. >> We're all women here. I'm >> so in EMS, she doesn't have to give any information to them. >> So, I have a dog here as well. I just really don't want to leave anywhere. >> So, they would just put her in the jane and then sign off. will be going somewhere for a while. No, but I'm saying I'm saying if you do, if you show us that you can't follow orders, then you might be going to the hospital back. But in order to not do that, >> just let us come in, get your basic in >> I don't want I don't want to come. I don't want to check your blood pressure here. Put give me your arm and that's okay. We're going to say if your your blood pressure was okay and I don't see any sign of injury, we can leave you on the top. >> But I I just think it's not really fair if I'm saying I'm okay. You know, I would like >> What am I supposed to put in that you're okay? If you need the data, if >> I don't know who you are, >> you need the data, >> right? But I I I know. But I guess >> we have history. We'll get we'll be able to get her information. >> We have history. So we'll be able to get her information. >> So uh according to Sergeant for now later >> my husband. I'm anxious about my husband. >> I'm anxious about my husband. But the thing is like there's a good chance we're going to take her out. >> You're going to >> There's a good chance she might be taken. >> I don't think she's learned. >> Okay. You guys want to take it to where it's at? >> Please. I don't think this is fair. Just say that. I'll cooperate. I'm sorry. I don't think this is fair. I have a dog. >> I I I don't think this is fair. Guys, you have family, too. Like, you have pets. Like you have >> 100 over 80. >> Okay. >> Okay. Listen, please. Like, please, can we just speak? I'm I'm sorry. I didn't mean to make that call. Had nothing to do with us with the call. All they do is automatically respect. >> I understand. I understand. But I don't think it's really fair to say that I'm not, >> you know, I need to be taken away because I'm >> I'm not saying that. But I'm saying that No, I'm saying you're proving to me that you're not >> sober by not cooperating with me when all I need All I need name, date of birth. That's it. >> Who? >> I'm not taking you to jail. Who am I? I'm an EMF. You're a cop. I can't I can't argue for your case. I can't argue for your husband's case. But by cooperating will show them that you can work with them. >> But if you're still going to argue with them, then they're going to think that when you called, it's all accurate. >> So when I work if I work with him and I gave him your information, >> will my husband be released? >> I can't say that. But but you're showing to them that you're not sober enough to say, "I'm okay. Hey, I'm okay. But but what but I'm okay. So then work with us. >> So the only way to show that I'm sober is to follow directions. >> Is what you're saying? >> What is that? >> Is that what you're saying? The only way to show that I'm sober is to follow his directions >> to just give us what we need to know. >> Let me check your heart rate. >> Right. >> You already checked. Wait, wait, wait. I Please don't Please don't touch your heart rate. Please, please. No, no, no. Please don't touch me. Please. I just want to make sure. >> That was blood pressure. She wants a pulse. >> Hot. >> You're obviously not sober because you're not listening. You just want to argue with everybody. And in about 2 seconds, I'm going to tell the cop that. Right. But she needs to know because she's getting nasty. >> We're just checking our >> I I understand if I'm being >> Listen, I understand if I'm being argumentative, if I'm being rude, but I think I'm >> You're not helping your case, though. Please let me finish. I think I'm being very calm right now and I think I'm talking to you guys in a very normal calm mood. So, please hear me out. I The only reason why I don't feel comfortable giving you my information is because I don't stand by these statements. >> All right, I'm going to just >> I'm not comfortable. So, I think we need to take her comfortable either. I don't think that's really fair because I have this reported and >> we're just going to we're going to stand here for 3 hours >> and leave you. >> I understand your concerns. I understand your concerns, officer EMT, I understand, but you know, it's one thing. >> It's one thing if I'm being difficult, but I think I'm being perfectly calm. Any family member can come with me right now. >> Yes. Is that is that would would that help if you have any if I will be nearby? >> Yes. Yes. >> I I can call them right now. >> Okay. If anybody can come and stay with you. Yes, >> that's fine with us. >> Yes. Yes. Literally, you're drunk and if we leave you at home, you might fall your head and then we'll be in trouble leaving you that way. >> I understand. I'm so sorry. And I'm sorry for touching you also. >> I'm not comfortable with that. >> No, it is it is true. Listen, >> I can get a family member. Yes. Yes. >> To stay with you while you But the good family like they're not they should be super. >> Yes. >> Is that okay with you officer? Somebody going to stay with them? >> I I officer please. I'm I'm I'm >> No. Either you comply or you're going to go with him. >> So if I comply, will my husband be in trouble? >> Has nothing. >> That's a different situation. This is this now. This is here, right? This is you. >> This is for your safety. >> Where you're going in 5 minutes. Either home or to the hospital. if you could just be nice because >> but this is but he's trying to explain it to you and you're not listening. I'm giving you every chance. >> I'm not listening. I'm just trying to get a full understanding because I know the law can be difficult. I'm not like please family member 30 minutes. >> He's telling you no. >> Okay, I'm listening. Look, listen. I will listen. No, no, no. It's it's fine. I will listen to the officer, but please, I just want to get a full understanding of the situation. Please, before you take me away or whatever, please tell me if I give you my ID, what does that entail? Does that mean I support that statement? >> ID girl, we're talking about you as not being a >> I know, but I know anything happened to you if you get hurt when we leave you. >> I'm okay. I'm okay. Yeah. >> No, no, no. You're not okay. You definitely are drunk right now. where we want to make sure that you by not by yourself someone adult alert can take care of you in case we leave >> so your your your supervisor if it's okay with that or not >> so if I provide my ID I will be >> have nothing to do with the ID have nothing to do with the ID would you say not >> that's okay I can pause but then about the ID saying they're not comfortable leaving her uh you're okay with having the family member or just pretty much take her to the hospital. >> I'm open to listening to him. >> Ask him if she can get somebody for her. >> You guys want to take her as an atro? >> Yep. >> Yeah. >> Ask him also this. Please, please, sir. >> You guys escort or no? >> Come here. Come here. >> Please, sir. I will conf please sir. >> Yeah, cuz they they don't feel comfortable in her state. They think she's still intoxicated. >> So, they don't feel comfortable leaving her alone. You know what? >> Do you do you guys need me to ride with you? >> Yeah, we can give you a ride with us. >> Please, sir. I I will give you my ID. Please, I just want you to understand. >> I'm fine. I'm fine. Right now, it's our other hand. It's another hand. >> Yeah, >> it's not our hand. I'm sorry. >> I don't feel >> Okay. All right. So um exactly. Yeah. Okay. All right. >> Ma'am, >> no. No. Please don't. >> Okay. Speak to me and I will give you every option possible. >> I'm sorry. >> Speak to me and I will give you every option possible. >> I'm speaking to you now. >> Okay. Open the door. I'm not going to talk to you through a door. >> I'm scared, sir. >> Okay. Ma'am, I need you to open the door. If not, there's no options available at all. >> You know, they will break the door. So, open it, please. >> I just want to know what my options are. >> Come outside here. Stand right here. >> Sir, I I'm give you my ID, please. I I I don't want any I just I'm just trying to get >> You guys don't have to come with her >> staying here, right? >> Please, sir. I'm not trying to make it difficult. I'm just trying to get an understanding. >> If you fell down or something, please. >> Okay. So, you're going regardless at this point. >> Yeah. That's it. >> Put your shoes on. >> Can I get my pair of shoes on? >> Yes. Put your shoes on. >> Can I please make sure my dog has water, please? Please, >> sir. I just >> They're not comfortable leaving you here. They do not want anything to happen to you. >> Can I please have some water? >> Where's your dog? >> I don't want [clears throat] you touching my dog. >> I'm not touching your dog. I'm asking where it is. >> I'm not sure, but please >> How do you not know where your dog is? that the the police aren't helping at this point. >> Okay, ma'am. Put your shoes on. We're going to go. [cough and clears throat] >> Am I allowed to have my phone, please? I didn't do any I'm a victim here. >> Why am I Why am I being treated like >> So, if you're a victim, can I please have your information for the report? Then I won't leave, right? Then I won't be taken away. >> No, you'll still be taken away cuz you're not comfortable within the state that you're in to leave you here alone. >> I'm not comfortable giving that if I'm taken away. Wait, please let me take my keys. Let me take my keys. >> Where your keys? Please wait. >> Where your keys? >> Just wait. Just wait. >> I'm not sure where my keys are. I I think my husband might have them. >> Okay, that's fine. >> But I No, it's not fine. No. No. Marcy. Marcy. Please. No. Please. Not my dog. Please. Not my dog. >> My dog? What? Just keep your dog in there. I'm not doing anything to your dog. >> I know. But she's scared. Jesus [ __ ] Christ, man. Do you guys have no hearts? >> Ma'am, this >> No, I'm serious. >> Okay, ma'am. I do not want to have to restrain you to be able to take you. Do you want to go on your own accord? >> Why? Why? Why? Why would I be >> Because you are not cooperating. Are you looking for your keys or not? >> I'm looking for my keys. >> Okay. So, look for them. >> Do you want this door closed or not? Not sure where my keys are. Pretty sure my husband has them. I can't leave this house without locking my door. >> I'll lock the door for you. >> No. How do you have the keys? >> Please. Please. I I can't make I can't just leave my dog here. You don't have the keys. Can I please use the bathroom? Really have to go use the bathroom. I'm I'm just really nervous. I'm >> Ma'am, why are you nervous? >> Because my husband just got taken away because of my erroneous call. >> Okay. All right, ma'am. You need to go here. Let's go. >> Ma'am, please use the bathroom. >> Let's go. You can use the bathroom at the hospital. Let's go. >> Ma'am, please use the bathroom. >> Ma'am, >> I Please, I have to just use the bathroom. Please, >> please. I need to use the bathroom. >> I will close the door. >> Thank you. Please. Please don't come in yet. >> I'm not coming in. >> No, no, I'm not done yet. Please. >> I am not coming in. >> I'm not going in. >> I never said I was going in. >> Okay, ma'am. I need you to hurry. >> This is my home and I called. >> Okay, ma'am. I am running out of patience. I've been very patient with you. >> I understand, sir, but you're almost like abusing your power because I caught up as a victim. >> Are you fully clothed? >> Okay, let's go. >> Oh, wait. Can I Can I please, >> ma'am? That's it. Let's go. Can you please explain to me why someone else needs to tell me that I'm I'm not okay? >> I are not comfortable with leaving you here in the current state that you are. You're the >> But they said I can leave someone. >> No, I'm not giving the option. No, >> sir. Please, >> ma'am. Now or you will have to be restrained. >> Please tell me why. >> Do you want to be restrained, ma'am? >> No, I do not. >> Okay. So, can you please walk? >> I'm asking these questions because I want to know. Please. I'm not. >> Ma'am, you are running out of options. I give you the option to comply. Please step outside and go with them. >> Is there any way I can call family member? Please. >> Please. Because I have a family member very close by. Just let them come up with you from the hospital. >> But but I please just come I need someone to lock the door. Please. >> Okay, I'll lock it right now. Is that that key? >> No, it's that's not the key. That's not the key. >> But I I need to at least ensure my home will be safe when I leave. The management property has a key, right? They have a copy. >> Can you please call them first? I don't feel comfortable with my dog here. >> At least at the very least. I'm trying to comply, but your time you could have been gone out back to your apartment in 2 hours. There's your key. Let's go. >> That's not my key though. That's that's a different key. You can ask the management for it. >> Management has a copy of your key. >> You are delaying yourself as leaving early. >> Okay. I I I know. Sit down. >> I know. But my my listen I know >> people sleeping field my apartment isn't safe right now. >> No there there is a police that way. Come on let's go. >> I know that there but but there there >> my locked. >> I'm going to lock it. >> Go. What key? >> Management has a copy of your key. >> So you promise that? Yes. You promise. >> Ma'am management has to have a copy of every single key. >> So you promise you'll lock it before you leave. I'm locking it right now. >> You got to lock it. Luggage. >> It's not locked. It's not locked right now. It's not. Do you have to have a key to lock it from the outside? >> Please at least promise me that my apartment will be locked and my dog will be safe. >> Call the manager. >> Yes, but please call please. I'm begging you. Call them right now. Okay. Thank you. I have a seat here. I need to know that my >> at least let me know that my apartment will be locked and safe. Please >> uh does he have his keys to the apartment? >> He has them. >> Okay. Um >> Okay, cuz I kind of need them to lock the apartment. >> No, it's it needs a key to actually lock it. See, >> is that not Is that the very least I can ask for? I have a camera, please. Right. >> Okay. >> All right. Yeah, I'll do that. >> I'm sorry. I'm sorry, but I need >> Okay, ma'am. Keys are at headquarters. I'm going to go pick them up and come back and lock your door. >> I need to know that first. Please. >> I just told you what I'm going to do. >> I know, but I have an animal in there. Please just lock it. >> It can't get out. It's in the room. >> Please just lock it before I go. Please. Please. I mean, that's what I'm saying. >> Sit down. >> Why is that? Why does that make me crazy? >> Because he's he's telling you he has to go to the police station, get the keys from your office. >> No, they said he has to go to the management office. You said >> I said they have a copy. There's a direct copy at headquarters right now that your husband took with him. I'm going to get that copy, come back and lock the door. Your dog is locked in another room already with the door closed. How about the officer outside go and we take her and you stay here and let >> I I want to come but he's processing. >> But you understand my fears, right? >> He's going to stay here. >> Okay. >> You promise it'll stay here. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> I just want to make sure my home is safe. Please. I'm not crazy. Like I have a dog and I love her. >> She's my child. >> I get it. I'm an animal lover. I understand. She's my only child. She's my only daughter. Marcosi. >> What kind of dog? >> She's a baby Aussie. She's very smart. I know. Just I'm not trying to not comply. I just want to make sure my home is locked. >> Where's your squish? Can you stay in here? >> The other is going to go back to lock. >> Listen. Do I need to bring us up with me on an ambulance? You're going to be you're not going to get like angry with us and like combative angry as long as my apartment is staying here. >> As long as >> Yes. much to ask for. >> So So you can get you can get violent with us in the back of the ambulance. >> I'm telling you, I'm not going to get >> need this is what I need. I just need my dog to be safe. >> Stay in here until the key so he can lock it. >> He promised. You promised that. See? >> Yes. Thank you, sir. My dog is Give me one. My dog is really anxious. >> Please. Thank you. >> My dog is really Okay. Sorry. Sorry about that so much. Um the the key the door requires like a key to actually lock it. So I'm going to leave it now. Go to headquarters, grab the key from the husband, and then come and lock the door. She's already went with the EMS. They don't need an escort. Okay. All right. Thank you. Bye. Deactivating body camera. Going backwards to pick up key and lock the door. >> The husband was arrested and charged with aggravated and simple assault. >> Please leave a comment. And of course, don't forget to like, share, and subscribe. [music] >> [music]