you know he he did chug me into my paperwork and I was trying to do dishes and she threw a shoe at me I picked her up and said please don't do this and then she started hitting me with the shoe because my husband will always say she's an aggressor sometimes people stay in toxic relationships because they don't want to be saved or because they are too scared to leave but what happens when the police intervene and rescue them from their unfortunate situation my husband physically me tonight and you're arting me what the hell here are several times when cops say victims trapped in toxic relationships starting from the moment when cops had to break into a residence to rescue a distressed wife from her husband following a broken ankle report that entered in a serious investigation behind dooram oh oh my God my ankle you were protecting your mom what I to help her on February the 21st 2022 a man had called Ems for help because he had a broken ankle but when they arrived they noticed a woman with red marks on her face which indicated a possible making them call the police for backup when the officers arrived at the residents they made several attempts to get access to the woman's husband but it all proved abortive as a result they began to knock on the door and after knocking for over 30 minutes they decided to take harsh measures to get him out of the house and at this point things were about to get from bad to worse for him last chance come to the door I'm going to kick it in cro your police last chance Last Chance police come to the door now it's behind door Hammer sh give your hand hand get out push get on the on the Flo on the floor what are you doing right what are you doing why you you're not listening we told you to open lay down on the ground lay down on the ground face first arms down face down we did nothing man you guys are all on camera man everything around my house is on camera every single one of you is on camera you no Reas no Reon man hey hey hey my leg mess up here's what we're going to do relax all right huh you don't have any weapons on you no I have my phone in my pocket that's about it no I just worked a 10hour shift my feet you hear anybody come here talk to me officers knew that the victim was not going to be honest just to protect her husband so they went to their son to get answers but also got nothing from him meanwhile the victim who was being rescued tried to defend her oppressor while her husband gave the officers a story that was full of lies dude why is this happening man everything's on camera you have no reason to come to my house dude I called the ambulance for a reason cuz I hurt myself coming in the house they were acting all stupid trying to say that my there something happened in my house I told nothing happened to my house I was grilling if you look at the grill right there I was trying to get it in my garage dude I fell over I hurt myself they were like who hurt you who hurt you I told nobody hurt me man okay you don't do this to Kelly and Travis and I call on them multiple times we're not talking about Kelly and I sure I sure am because I have a serious problem here they called y'all I don't have to listen to nobody I'm telling you what the happened man it's on camera if you look over there on my garage right there you see the red light there's a camera there's no reason for y'all to be doing this man we were putting our kids to bed when you banging on our door just came to the door man there is no reason for me to come to the door cuz you guys shouldn't be in my house period period no I'm not going nowhere dud you come on dude what the man just be hey hey hey hey hold on hold on take me this way my my an swollen all right these want to take me to hospital because they were like trying to say that my wife had something to do with it okay all this you want you want to have a seat you want to have a seat yeah man my leg's broken dude my ankle's broken put me on the porch over there man we're not going to the porch I can't sit here dude my legs hurt chair yeah CH guys there is no put me on the porch dude what the we're not going back over all right so what happened to your mouth and your eyes I fell okay all right that's not what you told EMS so that's why we're here I didn't tell EMS anything he hurt his ankle when he stepped off the step that's why he called so he called on that right he called on him so when they come in here I have em I I have EMS saying they saw you and you said told them that they hit he hit you in the face they never came in my door they said they saw you and you said he hit you in the face why would I so all you have to do is knock on the open up open up the damn door and listen to me and we will talk to you but now we have to go through all of this because we now have to check your wellbeing to make sure he didn't somebody didn't in here dead that's why we're in here I have two kids here that wouldn't happen my wife got home less than oh my god dude y'all are up hard brother y'all are up hard brother next door up doing all this dumb and y'all are over here with us really put in car car in the car we're going to go to the truck okay dude man look at my ankle bro we're almost there we'll get you a seat oh my God can y'all at least let my wife you think you have my wife come talk to me man we got some things to stort out first then we'll go from there okay man oh my God oh my God even the neighbor knows you man she's a girlfriend isn't she no yeah she's over here saying that she's your girlfriend bro I don't know why she oh my God my ankle my God push me up bro I'm try to oh my God my ank going sideways bro oh thank you I got you thank you oh my God the man and his wife were taken into custody but they still refused to tell the whole truth and instead made excuses for their actions hey watch your I not yet wait till we get him in the cage come on dude right y my nothing to do man y taking your job in a different way man she had nothing to do with nothing man I told her go in the room dude oh come on give me a second brother hurts but also I whoit the kid nobody hit any okay well why is the little girl face SW she's crying she nobody hit her guaranteed nobody hit we don't have a whole lot of we're going to and SEC keep we're going to take her to the police department we take kids too what up are you kidding me no we're not get up we lying to us the kids are the truth get up you can't leave my kids here they're 18 he's 18 years old no bcfs gets involed now and yeah I'm calling them I'm going to make the excuse me who are those outside just take outside huh it's a Bel that's not a belt those are grass Knuckles all right outside no there's an attachment for a Bel can I get shoes I'm telling you I'm being honest dude I what I was grilling man go out there my girls probably still started man I was mad man the ambulance came and started talking I'm sorry about that dude turn your hand I'm sorry they got upset about what the I told him I told him to off that they have no reason to be there and you called him I called him to help me man when they came they started talking about there was nothing wrong with me dude my leg is swollen and right in there [ __ ] we started fighting about that with I started fighting about that with the pigs that's when my wife showed up with JoJo who gave her a ride from work JoJo's a veteran man you supposed to step out yes ma appreciate you well I don't want you to hit me or something that wouldn't occur ma'am right up there I'll be right out God man you sure let me help you out here come on all right I'm [Music] what are those for you're currently detained I know how you taking care of my kids we going to send a DCFS man no we're not man my wife had nothing to do with it man all right my kids have nothing to do with it man honestly I'm telling you right now I myself up I got mad I started talking to her and the ambulance people the ambulance people through thought was fighting with her or something but I wasn't bro I was telling them to leave because they weren't helping man okay I was telling my ankle was her they were like what why is it h you're just standing there why standing here because I'm holding myself against the you saw my porch I was holding myself against the wood and I was telling my ankle sir I need help man and they were like like well it don't seem like y need help what the you mean I don't need help and she kept saying like this officer here is going to come sleep with you and be probably in your best interest yeah I want you to think long and hard about what you're going to tell me what your kids told us and we'll go from there okay but you you got a few minutes to think about it okay later on their son was brought in for questioning again after they had taken the suspect to the hospital the information they got this time was very surprising sounds like your sister told him something about what happened so she clearly can articulate what went on did you see it yeah so what happened I didn't see who started the fight but yeah there was a fight I didn't see who started it was was your mom home all night no she came home from work at like 9 9ish so did you know your dad called an ambulance for himself at some point yeah he claims I broke his leg claims you broke his leg yeah that was me did you I'm not going to lie about it that was me I'm the one who made his leg like that so what happened all right they were in the kitchen somebody started to my mom went death well the leg happened before they were home no okay I'm going to write down what you're telling me okay cuz I don't want to mess this up yeah they were in the kitchen it's your mom and dad okay so then what happened my dad had went over there with her and like from there I wasn't really paying attention to what happened I just know the fight started and like physical yeah and you saw that they were physically fighting you could hear it and at a point I got up and I saw it yeah so my dad went in there with her or you went to the kitchen no I didn't go to the kitchen I was in the living room and I had looked over there and yeah so you went to the living room what did you see I couldn't really see it cuz like my mom was on the floor behind behind the counter cuzz you know you can't see back there and my dad was standing up going to guess that you were protecting your mom what I screaming for me to help her so so my mom was screaming for me to help her yeah at a point the dogs are barking so loud that like I just told him to stop like told your dad to stop yeah and then like he told me not to get involved and then I stood up right cuz like he was coming towards me he put both his hands around my neck I pushed him towards dog cage he fell on and then he like pushed back and we're like fighting for a while we ended up in the hallway where he tried to drag me down on top of him and I landed on his leg so that's what happened well you guys continue to like he tried to drag me down with him like he was like trying to SL he was falling and then no no he he I was in front of him he was like backing up and then he tried to grab me like slam me down but he was falling with me I didn't fall I like kneeled on his leg okay to an extent that's pretty illegal isn't it well I I'll explain it to you I'll explain it to you why we do without a warrant I'm pretty sure you can't do that well you can probable cause yeah I have it okay so so anyway we show up did he say anything like I'm not letting them in or don't anybody say anything yeah us like all be quiet in the end the man was charged with and resisting arrest next we have the case of this woman who got resed rescued from the hands of her ex-boyfriend who tried to her he chug me into my paperwork turn around turn hey guys on Sunday April 21st 2024 officers received a call reporting that a woman's ex-boyfriend had tried to her the officers got straight into action and tried to find both people but we're not in luck the officers had a chat with the woman's best friend in order to get context to the situation and to determine if this was really an or not dra oh my gosh how are you good what's going on okay so Nicole is my best friend that's her car right there which one the white one yeah okay so they've already they got a no contact order and Charlie is Fu so who like who are these people so Nicole's your best friend yeah we got out of re-entry together and we moved here okay okay live together no she lives right there I live over there okay yeah no but okay so so he left her for another girl well he stole that girl's car today it's been reported stolen he stole the other girl's car yeah and showed up over here no shirt on acting crazy were you over here when it happened or I left before it got crazy but Natalie was here and he kept he he made her leave who's Natalie uh one of our other girls I don't know if she's home or not but I can find out she's the one I had go here and check and make sure everything and she said the apartment it's obviously looked like they were fighting and all that it's unlocked okay so let's start from the beginning so you Nicole and what was the other girl name I walked over here when I seen Katie's car cuz I was like uhoh she's eight and a half months pregnant hey hey um yeah okay but yeah okay so so Nicole was here yeah and then you came over here yeah Dustin's like you need to go check on Nicole cuz Katie sc's out there and I was like what so I and Katie Katie Kati is the other okay and that's the car he was in that 2015 Malibu yeah see this is where the golf club and then he's kick your door door in so is this like today or was this yes look this was today yeah and then yeah all this I guess he R here that light comes on all this was broken and uh she got her mom said she called from that number in balol at a gas station crying screaming and uh the phone got hung up on and that gas station guy called her back said that they were fighting and they took off toward McDonald's which would be towards Cersei okay and nobody's heard from them since you guys seen the other girl's car here which is Katie's car kti Cooper Charle was driving it yeah yeah and uh it was reported stolen the cops went to go and Corral today looking for Charlie okay and so you were like I need to go over there and check on her so you walked over here and then what did you say when you got here uh Charlie had no shirt on he looked wild and Nicole was telling Natalie please don't leave please don't leave and Natalie told me that but at that point Charlie just kept saying that like he is crazy dude like we were coming back from Dollar General and we met that car going that way and there was somebody in there and I was like was that Nicole you met Katie's car yeah yeah okay so you didn't actually see anything that happened or may have happened the F and all that no no so did any he had already taking her phone and all that and I said what are you doing Charlie he said I'm about to uh act a fool or something I don't know and he's he is he very they have a no contact order for thing and then you and your old man saw or you thought you saw no no no I saw you saw the vehicle yes and they were leaving out of here uh they were past okay we were you know that gas station right here that where the road work is yes it was right past that right right there going that way so you guys were going uh East andest let me see so where where are y'all getting that she was like where she called she called her mom like balling screaming and that gas station attendant said that they were fighting really bad and he put her physically put her back in the car okay um we called and he is very very crazy we called the gas station um they that dude said that he saw the couple arguing but there was no physical being put back in the car like she willingly got back in the car with him there's no physical it was all verbal so where we're at is we're trying to figure out where this whole thing came from like either either the gas station dude's line or maybe misinterpreted something I guess did you talk to Mom yeah and that's where you're getting the information from it's from Mom while the interrogation went on the best friend revealed very shocking details about the incident which made the officers want to dig deeper yeah and Nicole she's 8 and half months pregnant and he's been he's been putting his hands on her and stuff you know like right now we just had to go get all the farts for her car he's took the off ripped off hoses cables all that stuff like but I know she wouldn't just leave with him I know she would not okay especially in a stolen car yeah cuz uh they had that you know and they had a no contact order well he moved in with that guy and he's still been you know harassing her and all this stuff and I've told her time and time again Nicole you are the one that has to call the police or you both go or if he calls you go you know what I mean yeah it's just uh it's very confusing because we've got contradicting stories everywhere so um I don't know if maybe maybe Nicole wants in some sort of way to go with him and maybe not wanting to tell y'all that she would take the baby stuff she's doing two and a half weeks no she would tell me she would tell me and she would not get in a Stelling car I know that for a fact she's on parole what is she on parole for uh yeah and he's on Pro too and later that night a neighbor reported a woman screaming in distress and the officers immediately went to investigate but while trying to enter the house the occupants refused to let them in and at that point they had no choice but to resort to Desperate Measures Jonesboro Police come out with your hands up you're going to be dog B hold that come here come here come here turn around turn around hey hey guys what one you have a war well I know that but I didn't do nothing who's in the bathroom that's my pregnant fiance dudee she's pregnant and naked why you didn't come to the door because I have a warrant and I was trying to say goodbye to her you good out tight yes it's too tight actually stand up y you for this entire time are you the only other person in here yes sir okay are you decent know I'm at the we need you to step out we need you to step out towel close whatever you got to do we clear the clear it once the man was in cuffs the officers began questioning the woman who was the victim but they were unpleasantly surprised by our answers definitely circumstance and with all we already knew it's like I'm not leaving you in here get and you it's crazy you see how my couch is so he must have had the couch like this before me it was in front of the door I was in the bathroom hear me I was like Charles get I see it now I see it he does it he tries to barricade me in but I mean now now he he doesn't mean like he doesn't mean so let's let's get where we were so you didn't get in the car with him and then he left yes and then yes so he left I call my mom my mom where happened my mom's like hey yeah I'm a witness you know and Mom's like you know give you1 have some I'll let you know bust right I'm saying all the time so so I finally got my door fix yesterday but get a fix it's fine but my mom's like you know you he your door fix go inside your house lock it up okay but then I was like you know I don't I don't really like to be alone because sometimes when he he gets mad and I I told no I'm just just you know I love I love I love them but I'm not the kind of girl that I'm not g to be around someone that's gon to do that because he's he need re he needs help he really needs to be it's sad I me it makes me want to cry he needs help I hate it for him you know can't fixing I know I know that's right you know it just sucks he come in there like this you know he came in there he was like and when I was in the shower he open the curtain he's like I just want like you know I love you you know what I'm saying I'm going away for a long time and I'm like like why are you even in my house like what are he doing like B you know I just I don't know I don't know what he done I don't know if he why is in trouble why he said that I fig may he pull over I don't know what happened part of this you know I don't know what happened before we got here why the neighbor told us they could hear someone you were crying yes I was crying because the thing is when when he gets my I just he can't be here I don't want to get in no more trouble well we've already we that's out of the way we not in trouble but you mean I do love him but I just he just I don't know why he just thinks he's Invincible to mean that the first time he does it t and I freak out I get in distress because you can't be in my apartment very was he what was he was he doing something hurt me no no no no no I was just freaking out I speak from me you know I mean I yell were you in fear for your safety I I mean know but but he just trying he like he was like he was just trying to be like babe just calm down I'm sorry I want you to know that I'm going away for a long time I've wor and I was like I was like I was like what the did you do I was actually I don't even care I I have no I just I can't worry about that nor I can't I just you got of that that's on you you mean I said please just just get out of my house just get out get out of my house you mean like you have to you know I mean I just I just I can't see him like that and it hurts you know it puts me in distress man it does how long was he back here before we came how long how long do you think he was here before we showed up okay so when when I was here he was in here I was in the shower so he I mean he just m came up like like literally so I mean but but see there's times where he pops up randomly you know vehicle B he to show up or but he has a lot of friends too he's friends with Natalie over here mean he he's a lot of buddies like in our area he could be like you know just kind of like they're waiting for me to just come home or you know I mean so it's like we with a friend apartment it's weird I know it's just like that but but I I think honestly he he might have been in my friend Natalie's house which is right here because that Natalie called me earlier it was like hey uh so he left he sped away then you got in the shower and he showed back up he W I just got back from Walmart i i i i l just got back I I sheet I'm saying I'm I'm from so I believe so by myself saying I'm not saying a lie or anything so he must have see me pulled up and got dropped off you mean gotta the officers proceeded to ask for specific questions to get some more information about the man's behavior question you have for me I wish I were night we went to jail because I feel like he was officers working that night I think I had H and crane I think and it it was they were like you know like I I could believe I was going to jail you mean well like she said you're not any kind of trouble and and to if it makes you feel better pretty much the whole shift was out here trying to get him so um and this Cas is something I want to ask you this this is your residence right yeah yes my le does he does he before today or the past couple days does he ever stayed here oh no not really okay so so before he he he has but so so he stay here then went to jail okay okay but I'm just within the past two weeks we'll say oh no no okay with that being said we found him in this back bed is there anything in there that you think he might have left or anything like that that's not yours that would be his cuz what we were told is that with especially with him being a felon that he's supposed to known to be carry carry firearms is that is there anything that I mean I I would never carry a fire well I know I know him we're talking about him because I've never seen him with a fire either like like I said I think that was some of the the notes we've been given as he's known to probably carry firearms and with him being found back here not really supposed to be staying here anything like that just trying to make sure he didn't leave anything just back yeah we AB oh my God okay like I said I I just want to ask you so real quick like I said this is not only state law it's also our policy that we got to ask you this stuff you don't have to answer them I just have to ask him just SP if or not answered they're just yes or no questions okay um so this first one has he ever used a weapon against you or threaten you with a weapon no no okay um has he ever threatened to you or any of your children no no okay um do you ever think he would try to no no no I mean so here's the thing so ever since we got a so like the whole when that happened I don't know it's the alcohol I has I mean I mean I messing with I work a lot I work but as far as you know but no but I don't think if if that would happen be intentionally it just when he gets like like before we did go to jail the night like I can tell like in some people's eyes you see the as far as you know the past couple days is no no okay um does he have a weapon that he can get to easily and kind knives anything like that that he look scary I mean he he he's a knife guy but like he usually keeps a par knife on okay would you say he probably does like to keep weapons on him par KN that like nothing like big or nothing like just a little okay like um he ever tried to choke you anything like that he did choke me my paper okay all right he he felt guilty for that I got is he is he constantly jealous about anything no no okay just when he's he's different so hard it's so it's crazy knowing someone so sobering him for so long it's like then people you know get like that then you don't really know does he try to control most your daily activities uh he he does when he's on substances but but ever since we got to he's been leaveing alone but alone have yall uh have youall been separated after living together have are you married anything like that what okay so um is are are you currently unemployed no I'm not okay where where do you work at that's son Hilltop Hilltop okay is he currently unemployed uh no he works at golden golden carral here in Jonesboro yes sir [Music] okay's see has he ever tried to kill himself no okay he's not suicidal uh as far as how how many children do you have well just are you just about to have the one no my this is my third one okay well with that being said do youall have any children together that he doesn't believe is his no we have together there's no say there's no he didn't dispute any of that no okay in the end the man was charged with residential burglary false imprisonment and failure to appear on a violation moving on to the sad case of this woman struggling with dementia whose tragic condition led to her arrest after she had her husband and lied to the cops and I was trying to do d and she threw a shoe at me and I picked it up and said please don't do this and then she started hitting me with the shoe he threw me against this goddamn thing here you listen to him and you say Oh no you're the aggressor you're the aggressor man you're the aggressor you said it two or three times get the hell out of my house on January the 16th 2023 a man called the police to report that his 71-year-old wife who had been diagnosed with dementia 3 years prior was being physically with him on getting to the scene officers saw how devastated the man was about the situation no sir my wife has diens yes I was told it's getting worse and worse she's having a break down right now she's actually quiet okay but she she has never attacked me before okay and I was trying to do dishes and she threw a shoe at me and I picked it up and said please don't do this and then she started hitting me with the shoe and I locked her like that and she fell over I didn't push her I didn't punch her she fell over and she's just going berserk I really think she needs to go to the hospital and U maybe okay do you mind if I check you for any injuries do what do you mind if I check you for any injuries yeah hit me on both sides of my face I I'm not saying anything about that I got bottom of a shoe okay do you have your ID on you I sure do okay is she supposed to be on any she is on okay so you mind taking it out for me sure has she taken her God Only Knows okay big big problem with her at this stage okay I have Coastal Care okay helping with her in fact I might have a nurse come on over I don't know but uh she's just screamed and screamed and screamed it okay that I was going to okay I just made her dinner okay has she been drinking has she been drinking yes she's had some wine okay all right and that's not good with the medicine that she's on okay understood all right so I'm just waiting for my partner to show up really quick um that way I can go ahead and speak with her I will ask that you stay out here while I speak her that's fine she's a prior police okay and detective okay California many years ago okay and uh is there any weapons in the house I should know about okay absolutely none other than the shoes okay all right um where is she located her at this moment she was in the kitchen straight back okay she just quit I mean she was screaming at top of her lungs okay haven't seen her in the window or anything okay but uh she was I've never seen her this bad she were about 3 years into to dementia okay and uh it it's I I worried about this attacking thing for probably the last couple months okay but uh anyway okay all right aside from the dementia does she have any other medical problems uh no okay well she's had any Replacements hit Replacements but right now this dementia is okay nasty what's her name Deborah Deborah okay all right I'm going to go ahead and go inside to go speak with her okay pleas please do the officer went in to speak with the woman and was immediately shocked by her responses I have not Savannah police hi Deborah I'm officer with Police Department offic he threw me against the door frame and walked out okay do you mind if I try for some injuries no it's just s right here oh it hurts so bad right here okay do you mind if I check no I don't care he's a jackass he's a liar and I don't care anymore I have tried to tell him I'll help him I've tried to be understanding and this is what he does to me okay debah he's never hurt me like this before never he I tried to get him away and just threw me against the door frame 26 advis it's clear for EMS honest to God I'm not a liar I'm a retired police officer I've never lied in my life and I still hav't he's going to tell you all kinds of Lies so walk me through deboro walk me through as far as what happened tonight this is this has happen this has been going on for a long long time he's told lies about me what what kind of lies that I'm abusing something about him I am not I am not I am not I not I am not I swear to God put me on lictor tester I am not a I'm not lying about abusing him he makes up this he's crazy no honest to God he's stupid and crazy and I mean stupid ma'am I don't mean mean-spirited I mean he's just not a smart person he lies a lot I've never never called police on him until now I just cannot live like this I I I don't know ma'am I don't know if anything right here is broken I don't know all I know is that I couldn't push myself up there but we have EMS in R so that way they can take a look at you okay do you have any medical conditions I've got dementia dementia okay yes I do do you know what year it is uh no and I don't care okay well these are standard procedures that we have I have a doctor okay uh who takes care of me I've got medicine that I take when was the last time you took your this morning this morning and are you supposed to take I take another uh at bedtime time and another bigger at bedtime with that so my doctor has me on three basically the same different different amount I can I can tell you where they're at you're welcome to go up and and look at them or get them it's not crazy person it's not crazy person it's dementia do you know what dementia is well my husband doesn't and he doesn't give it okay Miss Deborah can you he doesn't care about anybody but s okay Miss Deborah can you can you tell me if you've been drinking tonight yes I did I have a glass of wine with dinner okay all right when when is your birthday 6 19 1951 so can you tell me what happened as far as how he pushed you and how how you ended up on the floor he was try he was saying a bunch of stuff and he was making it up and he said I'm just going to tell him you did this and and you are this and and I said but you know that that's not true and I started to walk in there towards him and I said don't you lie and don't you do this crap with me and he pushed me aside and then I pushed him away from me and then he threw me against this doorr okay all right I was protecting myself the woman accused her husband of being the making the officers confused as to what happened between the couple at this point they now had to look deeper to get the truth so we're going to have EMS take a look at you okay make sure that you that you are okay okay and there's nothing concerning and then if you have you know what ma'am there have been times and I know it sounds crazy he's never done this he's never harmed me before he's yelled and spit and lied but he's never harmed me before so I can tell you now what I wouldn't have said then because I felt sorry for his his stupidity he's an uneducated stupid man and always has been I didn't care how smart he was I thought he was a loving person but he's not and so now I can tell you he is not loving he does not want to be loving he is a liar in everything he says and does put me hook me up hook me up first ask me all the questions you want to hook him up you'll find out what and who he is I'd like to know what he is cuz he's not a human being he's not a caring loving husband I have given him too many chances too many chances to treat me like his wife and care for me I've had this three years I was diagnosed to go three years did he do anything no he wanted to immediately go out and hire somebody to take care of me instead of him that was his idea Squad hire somebody I'm not going to take care of you okay but he didn't while being questioned the woman said some very nasty things that showed the officers how much of a toxic relationship this actually was questions and it's important that you answer them for you okay swear to God I will do you do you know what year it is no and I because I've got dementia I don't is it is it 13 I don't know I don't know okay do you know how many quarters make a dollar yeah four okay do you know who the president is Bid do you know what month we're in it's uh January okay all right so are there any cameras inside the household any what cameras do I have a car cameras no no okay all right no well my phone is a camera okay were you recording the situation okay all right I I was just I couldn't even move okay once I got thrown against ha I couldn't live up my arm I couldn't sit up and I couldn't move and I got Almighty if I could I would have him rested in a moment okay he threw me against this guy damn thing Here Deborah I'm listening to you I hear you we have EMS and R so they can take a look at you do you want to try to stand up on the couch I have someone that my husband found out I had this the first thing he wanted to do was he wanted to hire people to take care of me he didn't want to take care of me he wanted to hire people care he didn't until just recently I said I'm getting someone to help me and what does he do he steps in and said I hired this person to take care of her he did not I chose a person to help me her name is Anna and the last thing um Anna uh oh God Almighty it's a bird what's what's the bird uh we just got her her three daughters and a dove okay she she works for the coun ear do you want to do you want to try to set up and go the couch this really hurts I I understand that and EM is going to come and take a look BR or out of joint this really hurts no I don't want to move okay I I don't even want to think of feeling about moving okay so you guys got into an AR is her name she knows I'm a good person she comes and he want he didn't care anything about me he wanted pay somebody to take care of me he didn't care pay anybody what you want I'm not taking care of you that's that's how he's treated me and that's what it's happened I had to hire someone to take care of me my husbands swear to God oh God I can't lean on there I swear to God may I be down his first wife had rest can answer the woman's story was believable until another officer came on the scene and found evidence of her husband's claims so de where we are at at this point again you know is would you like for us to have EMS come over here and take a look at you say mind it all but I'm trying to tell both of you there's a woman her name is Anna Anna Dove Dove I can't tell you what group she works for but she is my caretaker because my husband is not she takes me to my doctor's appointments she takes me well I can you know it's not like I'm having accents or anything I I always go to locks for breakfast every uh where's your shoe at I don't know well he knocked me into the hair I don't know walk right by you real quick okay I want to step on you okay I just want to make sure we find I don't know theup end up my hand hurts what happened with the cup I don't remember you go for you know I don't know I was mad enough to to throw the cup at him okay but I don't remember doing it I was mad enough to do it but I don't remember doing it that's okay what what were you mad about [Applause] lies okay what did he Li I tell him I need help and he lies what about either there's nothing wrong with me or I'm trying to play a pity party it's crazy I swear to God I have stayed with this man because I sorry for him not love in a long long time I have not felt love for this man but I I don't lie I've never lied I've always been kind I don't care who people are unless I'm afraid of them I have always been kind I have always been kind to him yeah yeah yeah is it okay if I take a seat right here sure okay it's a pretty Dar comfortable seat too is it it is well we're about to find out oh it is very comfortable yeah not bad huh all right so can we have conversation real quick absolutely okay so I'm going to be straightforward with you okay I will be too okay I believe it mhm all right so you were a detective for a long time right I was a police officer for a number of years then I was a detective for a number of years okay child in cour of child uh Crim and stuff like that and okay all right so I'm going to be straightforward with you and I'm going to tell you exactly how what I would like to happen ab and and it's completely up to you okay I'm going to tell you what I think is the best option for tonight okay so first and foremost okay and this has nothing personal against you or anything personal against him okay the way that the incident transpired tonight based off of what you said so far and what he said is that you're technically the predominant aggressive for the ins oh he always thinks that well just just listen to me he lies okay I'm sorry I'm sorry I have to tell you he lies all the time that's okay please I got you hook me up we're not doing that me up and ask the same questions Miss deah okay I'm just telling you I'm not a liar I never have been and I never will you haven't lied to me at all today okay and I'm just letting you know based off what you've told me and what he's told me okay all your stories match up okay that's miraculous because he lies all the time I get it okay but you just got you got to understand where I'm going okay so like I said based off the story or based off of your recollection of the events and his recollection of the events okay you're the predominant aggressor for the incident that took place no it's not true just listen listen Okay well I knew you'd get that I knew you'd get that from him because he lies all the time I got it from you as well okay I'm not going to sugar coat things for you either I'm being 100% honest with you okay so like I said you're the predominant aggress for the incident that happened tonight okay excuse me I'm I'm the predominant aggressor correct it's just based on him based off of your story and what he said no no no not true not true what is my story that says I'm aggressor towards him you told me that you got so mad that you threw a cup at him right and that's what initiated the no I did not throw a cup at him he was coming at me and I was trying to push him away once the woman saw that the cops had caught onto her lies she freaked out well from what you told me a couple minutes ago you said that you got so mad and that you don't know what you were mad about but that you do he didn't know what I was mad about no no no you said you didn't know what no I did not say no I listen I know why I'm mad when I'm mad okay I would not have told you I don't know why I was mad M so what I so what where where I'm going with this okay obviously I'm not going to arrest you tonight obviously I think that's pretty clear okay but what arrest me I just against the please allow let me let me let me talk okay because you're you're not listening to every single word that I say I said I not no but I always have to be the one to do it Miss Deborah I'm telling you I am not going to arrest you tonight but what I am telling you is that that you were found to be the atal party for the incident that took place tonight by whose statement the liar both of your statement by the liar no no I told you this would happen he lies all the time I told you this would happen no it has been too many goddamn years that he's lied every single time and pointed the finger at me I am not a liar hook me up please hook me up I'll prove to you I'm not the like no you can make your choice I can tell you I can prove I can prove by the machine you get to decide I can prove by the machine I'm not lying M I'm not putting you on a live sector I'm not doing anything of you're accusing me of being the aggressor you are yet that well that's not true okay that's not true you're not understanding what I'm trying to no I do saying I've heard it before he lies all the time and I've heard it before ma' if you were going to jail tonight you would be in handcuffs already that's what happened okay Deborah what I'm trying to why isn't he going to the jail he threw me against the door frame why isn't he going to jail I didn't throw him against anything I didn't harm him in any way you tell me why he is not going to jail we can have a conversation but you're not going to yell at me I'm trying to have okay no but you're really ready to throw me someplace my husband physically threw me against the the door frame I understand where no I don't understand what you're where you're at you think it's okay for my husband to throw me across the room abely not but you're also not letting you said you were going to let me talk to you no you've already said that you decided that I was the aggressor you didn't let me fin yes you did you said more than once I was it was was obvious that I was the aggressor bull he threw me against the wall but I'm the aggressor right you're not letting me finish oh yes I have let you finish you're finished you're finished you are finished I am yes you are taking his side you don't know what I'm not I'm actually Tak where's the hospital where's the one that's going to take an x-ray of this we're waiting on EMS to get here so they can oh yeah uhhuh you know what EMS is on the way to come to you so that you can get your shoulder ex yep yep yep and as soon as go away please I'll Stand I'll stand with this officer go away please I'm sick and tired of men lying about me and to me I'm sick and tired of you choosing him when you don't know I said put him on a lie detector he lies all the time somebody please test the man somebody believe me you know Li detectors aren't admissible in court so I don't care in court you can at least it once you he and see what it is you can say to him I don't care about court you can say to him listen Mister you're lying I know you're lying stop touching her stop harassing her I'm not asking you to put him in jail I'm asking you to tell him to stop stop this stop this lying the conversation got very heated as the woman got increasingly aggravated about the situation my whole personality is gone now because of him I am loving caring I am always offering help to everybody and I always have no you don't you listened to him and you said I was the aggressor no it's not okay you said it's okay it's okay it's not okay you listen to him and you just told me that you now believe that I was the aggressor well that's too bad because you're the IM that he now has on his side again that's no it's not fun it is not fine I don't care who you are or what gender you are I am sick and tired of you guys sticking together as Pals you don't know this man you don't know anything about it give it a try have him tested at least give him a try give me a try asking these questions on a lie detector and you will godamn know who's lying and it's not me I'm sick and tired of him telling people it's me it's not me and I don't like your attitude towards me I'm sorry I don't like your attitud ude towards me before you've taken any test or know anybody you listen to him okay you didn't listen to me you listen to him and you say Oh no you're the aggressor you're the aggressor ma'am you're the aggressor you said it two or three times get the hell out of my house I'd like to talk to this lady in private please absolutely go sure thing no way I'm going to have that man call me an aggressor he doesn't even know who the I am or what was supposed to be said or done Deborah I need you to lower your voice please oh yeah uh-huh me it's always my fault he called me a liar doesn't know a thing about me he called me a li he called me a li okay you know what I'll call the police department I want his badge number I want everything I can about him he's calling me a liar he's calling me a liar no I talk to you no I am not a liar this man not you I have nothing against you this man called me a liar when he just decided he just decided from a lying man deah that it was my fault I'm trying to talk to you nope nobody's trying to talk to me nobody is trying to talk to me this man is telling me I'm get the problem no trying to talk to you but you were yelling and I'm not going to be no I hear a hell of a lot of time you could have been talking to me instead this guy goes out there and comes back and calls me a liar at no point did he call you a liar yes he did no he he called me a liar right here he said I was the aggressor he called me a liar I said I was not and he called me a liar yeah call seven of them you don't you don't get to call me a liar you don't get to call me a liar because this man said I was the aggressor because my husband will always say she's an aggressor you know what you're useless you're useless to me I'm sure you're nice people you're useless to me you don't give a r what this man has said because he lies real well he's lied all his life and he lies real well I don't make up this I said put me on a goddamn Li detector you will know who's a liar in the meantime I don't leave my house in the meantime you don't get to come into my house put me on a light detector put him on a light detector and then maybe I will agree for you to come back into my house but in the meantime I'm sick and tired of everybody saying it's your fault and not the fault go I'm asking you to leave my house' I don't want your help I don't want your help I don't want your help as the continued the officers had no choice but to take action and call EMS who determined that her arm was in fact not broken and that it had been a manipulative gesture all along that's just too bad get out of my house yes yes get out of why why because I don't believe you why because you don't believe me listen to me listen to me we're not going to have a conversation with you yelling at me I'm not going to listen to a word that you said I I've had on a lot of discussion with you before I got in that's right but what I'm telling you is me and you are not going to have a conversation with you continuously they go no ma'am we're past that no where's my husband huh is he told to leave no I can't make him leave his own house but I can nobody's making you leave anywhere but we're also in a situation right now where as I told you before we're waiting on the ambulance to get here I'm not going anywhere I'm not going anywhere you can't force me to go into an ambulance AB I am not leaving this house but you said I am not I've changed my mind you said you wanted to go get your shoulder x-ray I did not you did I said I would allow my shoulder to be x-rayed I didn't say I was willing to go and get anywhere I said I was okay you know what your point get the hat out get out of my house no matter yes no matter okay I'll call another police officer why do you think you can take over my home what with we' been able to gather you were and aggressive toward your husband first that's not true he lies all the time it is not true but you know what you are bound determine on me you want to believe what he's saying but you're not believing what I say how is it that you know that he's telling the truth and I'm lying because it's just the opposite but what makes you think that because you don't like ladies no you don't believe women what is it officer do I have to take moving pictures you can tell that jackass up there anything you want to but he's not going to pick me up and abuse me ma' the problem we're at right now is that he's told us the entire side of the story and he lies all the time you told us that you got really angry at him and that you threw a cup at him right you said that you couldn't remember remember what led up to it and now you can't remember what happened I'm not saying he was lying he was lying those were your words that's what you said you said that you got really angry at him and you threw a cup at him you couldn't remember why and you aren't and it's not your fault but you're not able to remember the entire events of what happened okay but based off of you can't wait to say you got dementia you can't oh that's all I've heard since You' got here get the hell away from me I want to breathe put I'm not going anywhere we have a sergeant that's coming here I'm standing right here okay this is ridiculous my husband picked me up and threw me against the wall and at no time have they removed him from the house at no time missra why place your hands behind your back let let your hands go why just place your hands behind your back I will not my husband physically abused me today in your wreting me me what the hell is the matter with you no I will not put my hands behind my back they already are I will not you don't have a choice M stop before you get hurt nobody wants to hurt you oh you're not going to hurt me I can tell you you're not hurting me and you hurt me you can go up and have a party with my husband it's a let's throw away Deborah today no it's not we want to help you as much as we can don't he threw me against the wall with that side I know you got to let go put this one I have this one and we're still going to have somebody come out and talk to you okay my husband throws me against a wall no my husband threw me oh don't that hurts is the shoulder that hurts you in front we'll cuff you in front missra get put your other hand right here for me all right even in the arrest and as a result of a dementia the woman clung to her story about getting thrown against the wall by her husband even though the police had proved that that did not happen but then when my husband throws me against the wall everybody should be thrown against the wall right he lies all the time sir and I don't care what you believe he lies all the time and I'm sick and tired of this okay Miss Debra put on your shoes goad and put your shoes on for me Miss Deborah put your shoes on please I'm not going to anywhere without my belongings I have it right here it's coming with you my belongings can't bring everything my handbag has everything in it it has my ID it has everything in it grab your ID out of it no my whole handbag has to go there okay we we can get your handbag that's fine the hell's the matter it wasn't bad enough my husband threw me against the wall no I can't have my hand back with me you can't in the end she was taken to the hospital for medical clearance where the doctors saw no injuries indicating that she was in fact not the victim she was eventually charged with simple and