You should have got a different job. All
you're doing is speaking ignorance. All
I'm doing and I just got almost run over
by her and you are coming at me like I
Where were you when she showed up? Where
were you when she was in my house? You
should have stayed in your house and you
would have been in danger getting run
over by a car. Why? This is
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like All righty. The video for today
highlights a lot of really interesting
things from a law enforcement officer's
perspective and a lot of things that
frustrate us as police officers. Uh the
first thing that I want to point out
about this particular video is this is
one of those situations where the person
that should have been the victim
actually became the suspect because they
came out of their house and attacked the
person that showed up. Uh if you're in
your house and somebody comes to your
house and is yelling at you, calling you
names, calling you a pedophile and stuff
like that, just stay in your house, call
the police, we'll come and make that
person leave. We can give you paperwork
to get them trespassed. We can get you a
protection order. A lot of those sorts
of things. If you come out of your house
like these people did, draw a gun on
that person, then start throwing rocks
at their car, damage their car, bust out
their windows and things, it puts us in
a situation where we now have to treat
the person that should be the victim
like a suspect because they're the
actual ones that committed a crime in
this scenario. Uh the the video that
you're going to watch today is going to
be a little bit complicated. So, I want
to give it a proper introduction. There
were five 911 calls made about this
particular incident and it all started
because the woman that you should be
looking at here next to her piece of
crap broken down car uh she has a couple
kids that haven't been returning home.
So she reported them missing. She
believes that they are at the house of
our victim and she came by to yell at
the victim, call the victim names and de
demand that her children come out. Uh
while she was doing that, I think I
already talked about it. They came out,
bust out our windows, and had a gun. Due
to all those, we got calls saying
there's a person with a gun threatening
somebody and multiple calls saying that
they heard gunshots when Hello, I got
two outside of my car, busting my
windows out as I speak in front of their
house, and I got it all on video. Yeah.
And his son had a gun. Um, dear and
Sullivan, uh, there's a domestic. We
think we just heard a gun go off. for
zip code. There's people outside
throwing rocks to their car. The blue
Nissan Sentra or an Ultima and the
certainly driving around in circles on
the road trying to run over them. Um
there's um these are our neighbors.
There's a fight breaking out. They're
screaming, throwing rocks at a car. The
car keeps driving around. I don't really
know what else is happening, but there's
a lot of screaming. There's a car is
Sullivan and you're one uh block north.
There is a domestic and we called like
five minutes ago. He's still yelling,
"Get down on the floor." And we have
heard either blast or a gunshot. Okay,
ma'am. They've been driving out there
since I got talked to you the very first
time. They're on the way. They're coming
as quickly as they can. We arrived on
scene. Absolutely nobody was being
reasonable, making our job almost
impossible to do. Uh the next thing
you'll see is a little bit of uh
deescalation techniques. You'll also
notice that the officer whose body
camera you're watching for the most part
is going to be me. My favorite
deescalation technique for this kind of
scenario is just the cold
stare. I simply let people yell at me
and I stare at them until they
apologize. And that's actually what
you're going to see in this video. So,
I'm going to go ahead and get out of the
way. Sorry I spent too so much time in
the introduction here. Enjoy the video.
I'll talk to you later.
I just got it.
Yeah. So, it's all right. I'll take it.
She showed up over here. She's my
She lost the kids. We
fes. Then I go on the
street
overcustody. I'm fighting. They are lost
their state but we
only came in the yard and hit him with
the car in the yard. We didn't point it
at anyone or anything put up. It is my
register for my stuff. I'm allowed to
have the problem. You see this truck if
you're here from gun when she attacked
us. Should we have just killed her?
Have you come into my home? You dumb ass
[ __ ] She's literally yelling over here
while he washes.
Oh my god. Can you tell him to go
through why am I yelling in front of
you? Like why am I not allowed to yell
around you guys? Is there She's yelling
at me first, right? And at my home
attacking me in front of my kids, right?
Please tell me y'all would stay calm if
someone came out and hit your wife with
a car.
Look at those tire tracks. out with the
gun. She hit my [ __ ] husband with our
car.
She hit us at our home. He saw
everything inside. He saw everything
about the gun to be honest. She was on
the internet talking [ __ ] about me
saying I'm a pedophile because I'm
fighting for her son.
She said I'm a
pedophile, but she wouldn't let them
have their side of my league. Go
ahead. Go ahead.
She called me a pedophile for buying
clothes for kids. I'm fighting for it.
This [ __ ] don't even got her. Isn't
this a stand your ground state? And your
job is to protect the law. This is my
home. Tire track. She hit him with her
car. You're You're confusing a lot of
things and you need to stop. They need
the phone and text me. You're confusing
the fact that the problem isn't me
yelling. The problem is she drove all
the way over here to do all of this.
Nobody's disputing that. The problem is
we can't talk to each other. We can't
sort this out when you're because I'm
yelling. Oh my god. Police need
different training so bad. You guys' job
is literally to go into hectic
situations and the worst part is you're
so worried about yelling. The best thing
that we can make sure all of your your
body cams are on. They're on. Please.
They're on. Please, please, please. Cuz
I worked for the attorney general's
office. My mentor from 16 to 25 was a
state prosecutor. Please tell me what I
do or don't know. Let's go. You don't
know much. Okay, that's fine. That high
school diploma experience position,
right? My position requires a
bachelor's. I have a bachelor.
Congratulations.
Congratulations. You should have got a
different job. All you're doing is
speaking to your ass. All I'm doing is I
just got almost run over by her and you
are coming at me like I Where were you
when she showed up? Where were you when
she was in my house? You should have
stayed in your house and you would have
been in danger getting run over by a
car. Why? This is like the She should
have stayed in her house. She is
attacking me every single day. This is
my first time defending myself. I don't
want him yelling at her. Hurry up. Don't
worry about it, babe. I'll calm down.
I'll calm down. Okay. I watched the
video. Okay. So, when she drove up and
started throwing stuff on her phone cuz
she already did this. Okay. She already
tried to hit us both. She got the whole
video on her phone. She got the whole
video on her phone. Yeah. We didn't
start tape till later. So, I think she
tried to hit me with her [ __ ] car.
there. Now she want to call the police
cuz you came over here for what? To do
what?
No, she can't. She can't. He came home.
Actually, she get my phone. Go get my
phone. Sorry. I'm going to show you. I'm
going to show you. They told me he came
home. See, when we come to scenes like
this, everyone's screaming at us. It's
worth taking. But y'all literally got to
start trying to understand that we are
the ones being attacked. Even if it
doesn't, you know what I'm saying? Thank
you. That's all. We come in and
everyone's screaming at us. We can't do
our job. I could I literally have a job
where it doesn't matter how people talk
to me. I still got to do it. Did you
call us over here for help? No. No, I
did not. She did. She did. She came over
here and attacked us and then called
y'all. She did this to [ __ ] get us
put in jail because we're fighting for
her kids. Can you send one? Can you guys
switch up? Cuz he just got a whole
attitude the whole time he's standing
here and we can't talk to him. It's
okay. Just leave him alone, babe. Who
knows what's going on in his life?
Yeah.
No, I haven't done anything.
Who's going to take code one? Cuz it's
red. All right. What's your name? Make
sure Anthony's okay. What is a code one?
Is that something else? It's a report.
Okay. Sorry. I'm just trying to figure
out what's going on cuz I do have my
kids here, you know.
I'm sorry for being rude. My heart was
my heart beat or heart rate was up. I
feel better now that and I feel stupid.
So, I'm sorry. I think 194
sometimes people just need a little bit
of understanding. But I'm sure from
y'all's point of view, you've given
people understanding and it was not like
I don't
what I just like I haven't just woke up
but I didn't even get out of bed. This
is my day to relax. You know, I work
every day and I have five kids and I've
been dealing with this since February
7th since she said that I could have
them. And then she woke up the next day
like tripping. But that's what drugs do
to me. You know, I know you know that
to the court.
So, I'm not the one taking the report.
He is cuz he talked to everybody. I I'm
really sorry.
You know how to go down the crosshair's
office, right? Protection orders is the
best thing for you. Thank you. And I am
still so sorry. She can't come by or
anything like that. So, I got to go down
to town to do that. Yeah, I know how to
do it. I I've done all that stuff. I
worked for the office. I was She can't
come to your house near your house. Had
to go do all the paperwork in the
future. She's coming to your house. You
think she's coming to your house? Mom,
do not hug her and stay inside. Mom,
she's literally saying word my brother's
dead. My brother never drank alcohol
before he met her. I you. But I don't
want my mom to hug her. My mom is being
nice to her right now. We're too nice to
her to get things you can't control.
Okay. You're right. Um if you stay in
and she come out again and let her bust
out a car window, we can I got full
coverage all the way till August. Mine
is paid up. It makes it way more
difficult when you come out here. You
know what I mean? Um, it's harder to
justify anyone's actions when you don't
stand your ground is stayed in your
house or if you're if you're at the at
the gas station. Okay. Oh, in our car.
You know, if you're if you're away from
your home and she approaches you, you
can stand your ground. Okay. If she
comes to your house and you come out,
that's no longer standing your ground.
Okay? See, cuz it changed. That's where
I got confused.
You're putting yourself in a chip bag.
Cuz if it came down to she you had the
gun and she hit you and you shot and
killed her. Yeah. I I would not want to
have to figure that out. Exactly. You're
right. That is 100% true. And it's about
what can be proven, too. You're right.
So, I was just upset. That guy talked to
everybody. He has all the information.
He's going to take the report. If she
comes back before you're able to get a
protection order, let us know. Okay. All
right. Um, let all the Facebook drama
go. Yeah, I literally Today's the first
day I've responded. It's the first. It
is weird. And I shouldn't have, but it's
so hard. Like, my brother was my brother
out of everybody in my family. Like, he
was 5 years older than me. He started
like taking care of himself about 12
years old. So, that means I was seven,
you know. So, he brought me food. He
brought me my presents. We had no dad.
Like, our dad passed when I was 17 while
he was in prison. while my brother was.
He didn't even get to see his grave or
anything. So, it's like we went through
a lot together, you know, and she knows
that. That's the only reason why she's
bringing my brother up. Don't let people
push your buttons. I know. Just like you
sat here and tried to make fun of me for
having high school diploma. Didn't push
my buttons, did
I? No. Okay. So, just remember that.
Show that you are Do treat her the way I
treated you. Okay. All right. I'm about
to pee my pants. I'm going to leave.
Sorry. Take it easy, guys. You guys
good?
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