put your hands behind your back right now you're going to be under arrest for Dy these are two different dudes if you know you got a problem man there's a lot of resources that are out there you're a cool dude you're respectful you know I mean it's not you know you're not a bad dude so and I know it's a it's a Bad Monkey to get off your back man that conversation is a conversation that I have with a lot of people about um about addiction and you know obviously he had gone to prison for some drug rated stuff and then had switched that addiction for the addiction of alcohol and um you know during that conversation said he was having a hard time with his girlfriend and and as a coping mechanism he grabbed some fireballs and and was using that um to cope which obviously led him to meet me um but that that conversation is a conversation I have on and off camera frequently um and it's just it's part of of doing this job and talking to people um is is being somewhat empathetic