hey guys uh this is gonna be the third
part
of this uh domestic dispute video that
i've been
putting up for you um each part was just
a little bit too long to put all into
one video so i decided to
take it apart make it into three videos
in this video you're going to see the
interaction with the
20 year old daughter who had the police
called on her
that some people will say this was the
origin of the whole dispute
i think after seeing how hearing the
mom's 9-1-1 call and seeing how she
interacted with officers
i think it's pretty clear that uh
there's not any single
person who is responsible for this
situation
um in this video you're going to see the
officers interacting
with the daughter before they leave they
were actually
about to walk away and then they turned
back and decided to talk to her for a
little bit
while they were talking to her they
weren't just talking about this
particular incident they ended up
getting
pretty deep into some things about her
life and uh some stuff she's dealing
with
and uh you can hear some of the
recommendations that they make to her
uh i think the this is kind of an
interesting
interaction and the the fact that uh i'm
gonna
talk about it again you know this social
worker thing that
a lot of people keep bringing up
i think police officers do a much better
job than most people
understand at dealing with a lot of this
stuff and
you never know when this information is
going to be necessary or this skill i
guess i would say
it's not a situation where you know
police are going to show up because
there was a threat of violence and then
they're just going to say all right
peace i'm out
go find yourself a social worker when
they have the opportunity they're going
to
offer as many services to people as i
can so i hope that's what you get out of
this
this interaction with this young female
and uh
this will be a conclusion of this entire
incident
this one call y'all like i give a [ __ ]
listen you should i don't it's your
future you should care
me i am good bro
listen if you're that upset with your
mom you need some time apart from her
just plain and simple
okay that's all it's going to take
she just asked her it's all right was
she wrong
okay listen she's never going to tell me
that
okay okay well then my black wife knows
what it he left me she already used that
against me
i [ __ ] hate her
hate her don't come back here though
don't say i'm not okay
sitting here trying to blame me for this
week as all that [ __ ] i don't give a
[ __ ]
i'm trying i shouldn't try to do [ __ ]
against people i [ __ ] hate
her card y'all for what
what did she call them for because she
didn't want it to escalate the violence
what the [ __ ] is vitamin like too we do
this
every night okay but you guys don't need
to put hands on each other
that's all she was trying to help what's
that lady i know i'ma go to jail i'm 20
years old
okay i know my rights just take a breath
look what i can't take
you got to be exhausted my own mom oh
you go
[ __ ] you dinner how the [ __ ] would y'all
feel
joe's mom need that to y'all i probably
want to get out
i mean i want to go somewhere else i'd
be angry too okay exactly
but i would agree i wouldn't i wouldn't
stay i wouldn't stay here
okay i'm not stay here she says you got
you you got a boyfriend who are you
sister
you friend or what friend
that you got a friend that's here for
you without to do it anybody but
[ __ ] know somebody
[ __ ] with me she's here for you okay
your friend you got people that care
about you
outside your house i don't know why she
called y'all ain't nobody here for [ __ ]
i mean i'm 20 years old
got this [ __ ] when i was 19 we wanted to
kill myself
ever since don't nobody care about [ __ ]
she don't care about [ __ ]
you ever thinking about likes to live
still got a [ __ ] again should i have
all of that
i don't have none of that did you ever
think about trying to go in and talking
to somebody that got took from me
you're in counseling or anything i need
you to call it police on me
ma'am have you ever thought about going
to council i had to [ __ ] with your
family
and laugh y'all was waiting for a whole
[ __ ] year so much
man i would be extremely pissed exactly
that's a perfect relationship
against me you always say that to me one
mother does that to their child bro
that's a reasonable emotion okay listen
but you got a lot of pain going on on
the inside
it's nothing that the police can help
fix but i can give you some resources to
get that fixed
at least a step in the right direction
okay whether that be
putting you in contact with someone at
osu selling a netcare
someone just to help you get get it out
okay talk to somebody about it
by keeping it bottled up you're just
gonna be mad your entire life
all right you should never feel like you
want to hurt yourself that's never it's
never a reason why you make me feel
okay i hate her okay she blamed me for
not having a boyfriend i'm a [ __ ]
part you let me to child molester
it's not my [ __ ] [ __ ] okay well
getting into counseling is going to help
you be able to decide whether you want
to continue your relationship with your
mother
or cut ties okay
that's something we can help you with
tonight or we can give you a number to
call
that is 100 your choice but i can tell
you the way that
you're upset right now that's no way to
live your life okay you're just going to
be pissed off
every single day you're just going to be
hurting every single day
you ready no
do you want to go i kill myself
life and everything so much
all she do bro it's all she don't want
you to act like she
anything do you want to go with us to
talk to somebody tonight
no no you want us to give you a number
for some resources
give me a card with a number from that
care well i'm going to give it to you
you make the choice whether or not you
want to call them all right
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that's your choice we're not forcing you
to do anything
i just i'm just trying to give you some
just go to calm channel just write down
the
number tonight care um
like i said it's no way to live
this stress this on edge all the time
like i said you got a lot of stuff you
went through as a young young
adult okay not a lot of people have gone
through that it's tough to manage we all
need help sometimes
there's no shame in that you understand
that
like i said if you're ever feeling
overwhelmed you want to talk you can
always call us
we can take you wherever you need to go
if you just want to talk to us and just
get some things off your chest that's
fine too
but you should never want to kill
yourself
i don't have nothing to live for there
ain't nothing
yes you do you are 20 years old family
don't care about me
my friends don't care about me they know
what happened to me
they know what goes on with me but
nobody knows about me or not
you got a friend right here for you she
also cares
they care right now nobody know what i
go through
every day and then come on every day let
this man [ __ ] my life up
because he ruined my life like i said
that's
that's extremely overwhelming and nobody
could get through that on their own
how do you all feel never again you
nobody gonna love me nobody gonna be
there listen
you don't get to feel that you're not
gonna experience that you're not gonna
go through it
listen like i said you're young you're
gonna meet somebody and if all they're
wanting
to do is get in your pants that's not
the person you need to be with
all right only 20. exactly
oh
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like i said you i 100 believe that you
need
to get into some kind of therapy okay
it's some
someone that you can talk to that's a
mental health professional because
what you're going through is not
it's not an easy thing to navigate
through do you hear what i'm saying
yes okay like i'm telling you if i was
in your shoes
at your age i'd probably be feeling the
same way
okay angry upset confused
overwhelmed but there's people out there
that can help you and then you'll meet
people through those groups
that'll make you realize like hey it's
not as bad as i think it is right now
okay do you understand that
can you at least hear what i'm saying
yes okay
i just started going through this with
my own mom
whose mom tell them i hope you catch
your age and die
my dad told me the same thing
well that sounds like something when you
don't need to be around
okay do you want her to go with you yes
no i'm saying like all right
so this is what i recommend you do okay
that number is 24-hour number
call them and just talk to them tell
them what you're feeling
and they'll set you up with somebody
that um for like therapy counseling
stuff like that that's what you need
okay like i said you got a whole lot of
anger in your heart
that you need to get out and you got a
whole lot of whole lot of
things that happen in your childhood
that like i said
not a lot of people have been through
and no one's gonna be able to
like i'm not gonna be able to tell you
how to get through it because obviously
i didn't go through that stuff right
i can't sit there and say i understand i
i know what you're going through
i don't okay but
again like i said i'm trying to point
you in the right direction to get people
to help you
okay right is there anything we do for
you tonight
no okay
i'll try to try to rest up tonight
think about staying away from things
that trigger you and stress you out all
right
there's no way to live life like that
okay it's exhausting if you don't
anything else we'll go okay
all right good luck all right
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you