On today's body cam, we're checking out her birthday surprise for her ex ends with police. >> I brought him a cake and he starts calling me a you all. So, that's when I lost it. I was like, what I slapped him. >> A woman brought a birthday cake to surprise her ex-boyfriend, but after he rejected her and told her to leave, she completely lost control. >> Can I talk, officer? >> Sure. One one Who's Who is that? Who is that guy? >> Can you talk, officer? >> Who's that guy? >> He's my friend. I was just here with him this morning. >> Okay. >> I slapped him because this is my We didn't break up, technically. He's my ex-boyfriend. >> you slap him? >> Because I brought him a cake in there. It's still sitting in there. I was just trying to have a conversation. There's another girl in there sitting in there. She told We had a conversation, right? We were going to talk it out and he's sitting in there disrespecting me. Now, he's a Okay, I have proof he has cheated on me and he's been >> In what world is it okay to slap someone if they cheated on you? >> He's disrespecting me. He lied to me. I don't have my ID, but I brought my passport. Is that okay? >> Yes. >> Yeah, that's fine. >> I'll We'll come talk to you. We'll come talk to you guys. >> Please. >> Do you know them? >> No, he's my ex-boyfriend. He's been lying to me. This girl, she's been texting me last night and he's sleeping with another woman. He's been lying to me. >> you slap him? Like, right hand, left hand? >> With my right hand. >> On >> He disrespected me on his I'm going to right side. I'm going to guess you. I slapped him like, ha. >> Like, don't hit me, but >> No, like, okay, let's say that's him, right? >> On this side? >> Yeah. He's been lying to me. I'm sorry. I tried having a conversation. I brought him a cake in there with my other friend. She's sitting in there. >> Amy, what's your phone number for you? >> I have screenshots [clears throat] from this other girl. telling me he's sleeping around with her sister. >> Ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend. She came here, brought him a cake. He was essentially disrespecting being disrespectful as he was with another girl or something. She just slapped him. >> I'm I'm sorry, but I've had it. He He's been lying to me, man. He's been lying to me. I tried having a conversation. I was nice. So, love, you know, I brought him a cake. It's still sitting in there with my other friend. >> Have you guys been drinking? >> Uh am I Am I drinking? Yes, I wasn't driving. My Like I said, my friend >> got that. >> Wait, you guys had a couple of drinks tonight? >> I only had one Monaco. That's all. Yeah. >> Okay, so you saw him with another girl? >> How did you know How did you know he was here? >> Huh? >> How did you know he was here? >> No, I didn't even know he was going to be here. >> him a cake, you said. >> Yeah, but like I had a feeling because every time everywhere I go, he's there, like at a beach party or like any party, he's there. >> How did you know he was here, be honest. >> Huh? >> How did you know he was here? >> I didn't know. I swear to God. >> You wouldn't just buy someone a cake if you didn't know they were going to be here. You bought a cake. >> I got >> Um so so do you have mutual friends that are here? How did you know he was going to be here tonight? >> I don't know, but Oh, actually one of my the girl she's sitting in there, basically. So, we had a talk. We were all going to sit down and talk. Then I was like, "We're going to have a nice conversation." And then I tried having a conversation with him. He goes in there. He starts calling me a you are a b. That's not I'm like, "Why are you Why are you saying that? Like you know I'm being nice. I brought you a cake. Can we just have a conversation?" Literally, he keeps on calling me a So, that's when I lost it. I was like, "What the I slapped him." >> Okay. Okay. And he's ex-boyfriend of yours? >> Yes. >> Okay. Do you If >> [laughter] >> So, she gets upset over a word. Which could, you know, is disrespectful, but still doesn't give you the right to put your hands on somebody, right? It's just like, you know, with black people and the N-word, right? If somebody calls you the N-word, you know, it's disrespectful, right? But does that give you the right to put your hands on somebody, right? That's why you got like Chad the Builder and all these guys like this who go around and antagonizing people or whatever and to try and get a reaction. But when you get a reaction, you know, that you you you're going to be in some stuff, you know what I mean? Because like for example with this lady, you know, she gets called the B-word. She's upset and her she's emotional, her feelings is involved, right? Cuz he he done upgraded for the you know, he done traded her in for a different model, you know what I mean? And um you know, it's you know, and then when you're sitting down and you actually see the woman and stuff, of course emotions is there. But you shouldn't have brought the cake. You guys are not on good terms. And just because he calls you something does not give you the right to put your hands on someone, so it is what it is. You're cooked. >> And do you know who do you know who he's with? >> That's >> there's this other girl she's sitting in there. >> And that's his new girlfriend? >> No, that's his cousin. >> That's his cousin, okay. So so how did you Were you texting? How did you know he was going to be here tonight? >> the other day I was here with my neighbor. I was here with her and then he's been hanging out with these two other girls. And I don't know their name. >> Okay. >> How do you know he's been hanging out with them? >> Because he uh we have the same friend group. Every time we all hang out he brings her there. So he So the other day when I was What? A day or two days ago when I was here with my neighbor, right? So this blonde girl he's been hanging out with, she's sitting there telling to my face reason he wasn't answering your calls on his birthday because he's been sleeping around with my sister. Now we he didn't We didn't break up like he never told me like you know >> So are still together? >> He's He blocked me out of nowhere but like >> When did that happen? >> Uh like a month ago. >> Okay. >> But yeah, I've been trying to talk to him. Like I said I was nice enough. I brought him a cake. I offered talking to his cousin. She was like yeah, let's all sit down and have a talk, you know? I was like yeah, sure. Let's Yeah, we can >> So today's his birthday? >> No, it was on the 22nd. >> Okay. >> I brought him a cake but >> like I guess I'm just wondering how you knew he'd be here to bring him a cake. >> Hm? >> How did you know he was going to be here for you to bring him a cake? >> a >> Sounds like she's stalking him cuz he he's blocked her on everything. And his birthday was 8 days ago like from when this is put out. Like what? A week later over a week later? Feels like you stalking me. Like what's going on here? It's not even like it's my birthday today or the day before or something like that and I blocked you like I don't want I don't You guys have broken up. >> I said every time like every time we all like go anywhere like he's always coming here. I always come here like every other day. They know me. >> He always Oh, this is like a >> I just had a feeling. I was like oh, he's going to be there. I'm going to take him a cake, you know? >> I'm just going to slip over cuz I No, no, you're okay. Okay. Um okay. So you knew because this is like your local. So you go Are you here like every day? >> Reason Okay, reason why I really slapped him was because um he forced me into He promised me that he was going to marry me and all that. But, he didn't. He literally cheated on me. I have messages. I have screenshots of these girls texting me that your man is out for my sister. Your man is out for me. So, like I'm pissed off at him. So, at this point when I get in here literally when he get He comes in here with his cousin. They all walk in together. I'm trying to be nice to him. And the first thing he said, "Oh, you're in front of everyone out loud. And he kept on saying that. And I walked up to him. I was like, "Hey, I brought you cake. Let's just have a conversation, you know? Like that's it. Like And then he started being a meanie. Like, "Oh, you're a I don't want to talk to you." I was just trying to have a conversation. That's all. >> Okay. Um do you come here by yourself or do you come here with someone? >> I said, I came here with my friend. Um my friend who I'm here with, his name is >> Okay. >> So, me We used to work together at SunRun. I don't know if you've ever heard of that. SunRun is solar company. I used to work there. I don't do that anymore. I work at a senior living home now. >> Okay. >> But, yeah. Um I came here with him. He texted me. He does roofing. He was around the neighborhood where I live, Carpinteria. So, he hit me up. He was like, "Let's hang out." We always come here. We used to come here all the time to the hookah lounge over here. >> Okay. Okay. Um so, you He drove? >> I get Although, he picked me up from my house and then we came over here. >> Okay. From Carpinteria? >> Okay. I'm sorry. I like I said, I apologize. He's been lying to me. Like I'm sorry. >> the thing. >> Yeah. >> You can't be slap slapping people. >> I'm sorry. He's been lying to me. >> Okay. I don't care. You can't be Who's anyone. >> I don't know. >> All right. >> I know. >> I know alcohol >> Damn, then if she hitting him, if she hitting him and they not even together, just imagine the the beat down she was giving him while they were together. That's why he had That's why he blocked her cold turkey. He said, "Listen, she didn't even get closure." She said, "He didn't tell me that we were broken up." Well, how do you know? "Well, he blocked me on everything." Like, yeah, like >> [laughter] >> So, you know he was going through it, boy. >> Probably has something to to do with it. It's still not right. >> I was being nice to him. I was >> being nice. You slapped We got We got You slapped someone. >> I know. I'm sorry. >> Okay. How did you get here? >> With my >> Oh, he he brought you here. Okay. >> Yeah, so I was telling I used to work with him. We used to work at the same company, Sunrun. So, we we always come here to this spot and then he would >> Why here? Isn't there a hookah lounges in Carpinteria? >> No, this is our like spot. We always come here. Me >> I'm sorry. You're in a new spot, then. >> I know. >> You can't come back here. >> Yep. >> How long were you guys dating? >> Huh? >> How long were you guys dating? >> 4 years. >> How long have you guys been broken up? >> A lot I've caught him like so many times. Okay, so >> How long How long have you guys been broken up? >> So many, but he >> How long have you guys been broken up? >> It's on and off, basically. >> How long have you guys been off right now? >> Like, it's been a month. >> A month? >> But he's been lying to me to my face and I told him like, "Don't lie to me." >> Here's my Here's my question. >> Yeah. >> If you're lying to me I'm not a cop. I'm not a police officer. You're lying to me. And I know you're lying to me. Is it okay if I punch you? >> Lying about what? >> If you're lying If you're lying If you're just lying to me. Is >> I know that's >> It's not okay, right? >> I'm sorry because he's been disrespecting me. I heard he's been talking [ __ ] about me to my guy friends. >> Yeah, but it's not okay for a guy to hit a girl, right? That's That's pretty much what the cop was saying. He like, "If we're If we're together, you're lying to me, is it okay for me to just knock you out, man?" >> [laughter] >> You know, or is it okay for me to hit you? She go, "Oh, no, no, no, uh." It's the same thing in reverse, man. Keep your hands to yourself. You learn this as a kid. >> Like, I was at a beach party like last weekend. Like, I didn't even talk to him. He was at the party. I was hanging out with my guy friend. And the next thing you know, he's over there telling my guy friends, "Oh, don't hang out with Yeah, so the next thing you know, he's telling my guy friends, "Don't hang out with He like, >> Yes. This is the witness {slash} the owner {slash} might have camera footage. I'll just send them a link to that phone number at tapons.com. >> All right, thank you. >> And assume the position. Let's go. >> At this time, you're going to be placed under arrest for battery because you admitted to slapping him. You can't make unwanted contact with people even if regardless of what you thought he was doing, okay? So, now you turn around, I'm going to grab your purse from you, and I'm going to set this down. >> And because you guys were in a dating relationship, domestic. If you make physical contact with him, you're going to be arrested no matter what. No weapons or anything? >> Oh, no. Is my phone there? >> Yeah. >> Both of my phones are ringing. >> Uh yes. >> And you guys have my passport, right? >> I She has your passport. >> Okay, I don't want to lose that. Thank you. Yeah, my purse >> here's the deal. You're coming to the police department. You have to see a judge tomorrow morning, okay? So, you're spending the night at the police department. >> I'm spending the night here? >> Yes. Unfortunately, you can't bring everything with you to court. So, either we can give this to your friend >> Can they come pick my family? >> They can pick you They can Yeah, sure. You You could call them at the police department tell them to come pick up your stuff. All you need is a passport with you. >> Can I get my phone? >> No, you can't bring your phone with you. >> bring your phone. So, if you know any numbers off the top of your head right now there's something that you want us to write down for you, but do you want Can we leave you alone here or do you need to call? >> So, at the police department you still go to the phone. >> Yeah. >> We'll We'll You make You can make a phone call to the police department. You'll You'll call off our phones, though. >> know the numbers. That's the >> You'll You'll look or you'll call off our phones. Tell them to come pick up your stuff. >> Here, she's saying she's crazy. >> I'm He's full of [ __ ] >> Well, mate. >> Yeah, because he's been around with this other girl. He's been around with this other girl. I've scree- >> Yeah, but you could tell she she a little like Nah, man. He He broke her He He cut it off cold turkey. That's She not right. And then she pretty much stalking him. I honestly I look at it like this, she's stalking him. You not even from over here. You You coming to this this town to go to this lounge because you know this is where he goes at. >> screenshots. I've screenshots. I'm not on He's been around with other girls. >> He's on second place, right? >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Oh, yeah. So, you might be able to I'll fix his stuff up. >> We'll figure it out. >> I'm going to >> All right, we're going to go this way, okay? We're going to go this way. We're going to go this way. Right here. And then we're going to go to that squad car that's all the way over there, okay? It's Okay, I'm going to have you stop right here. Can you just uh turn something on? All right, I'm going to stop you right here. I have to search you before you go in the car, okay? So, I'm going to have you face the car and spread your feet apart like this. All right, spread them apart farther. >> Your purse is up here in the front. >> Okay, do you have anything in your bra? >> No. >> Okay, just nice and gentle, okay? You're doing all right? >> Yeah. >> You're doing okay? Okay. I wasn't sure if you were done with it. >> You wasn't sure if what? >> If you were done. >> Yeah, I'm good. Okay, I'm going to step inside the car. Watch your head. >> Can you move my hair from my face? >> Yes. >> Like No, no. Like from me. >> Yeah, like from there? Okay. >> Thank you. >> I really appreciate it. I'm going to buckle you in, okay? Okay, I'm just going to close this door, right? >> The woman was arrested for domestic battery after admitting she slapped her ex-boyfriend in the face. >> Looking for answers as the world goes by. [music] >> What's new in reality? >> It's clear. >> The craziest [music] moments that you've ever seen. >> It's a crime. >> What's that? >> I got a reaction. [music] >> Reaction full time.