loves this. He loves the drama and I
hate it. I can't. I've spoken with
everybody for forever. I just want to
go. I'm moving the second. They always
believe that playing the victim will
make others give up, but the truth
always finds a way to emerge.
I didn't do nothing to her. Why am I
going ow?
15 years of my life. It seems like the
solution, but is it the thing that is
pushing things out of hand? What happens
when a family tragedy that could have
ended with just a few words of advice
explodes into a breathtaking
confrontation? On October 30, 2023,
police responded to a call about a
mother allegedly assaulting her son.
What really happened behind those closed
doors? Is there something more
complicated going on silently in this
family? What's going on? I hit him. You
hit him. I did. Where did you hit him?
On his shoulder. Okay. Did you What kind
of How old is he? He's 15 and a half.
Why did you hit him? I can't. Why not?
Cuz he's sick and he won't get help. He
won't receive the help. Why were we here
twice before? Is that Because he's a
nightmare. Torturer. He's a malignant
narcissist. Okay, but what is he like
actually doing? Can you please help me?
I can't keep going through this hell.
has 15 years of just torture with what
won't he do? What hasn't he done? He's
done everything. What did he do today?
Oh
my. No, that was yesterday. That was
yesterday. He threatens me all the time
that he's going to hit me. Okay. All the
time. He's dragged me down a gravel road
and left me with a scar on my eye. He
has done everything to this family.
We've had viruses for months that are
You've all of you have been called. I
just I just got to work so I've
not the first time I've been here, man.
TVs and our phones call you 24/7,
swearing at you, telling you we're being
stabbed and shot at. I've had police
pull guns on me, showing up at
Airbnbs, literally pulling guns on me
because this child is a sick person.
Does this he loves the drama and I hate
it. I've spoken with everybody for
forever. I've done
15 years of my loving him. Do you have
any injuries or anything? No. Okay. No
one will help me with them. They just
won't. It may be medicine. Let's try
another therapy, another medicine. They
don't take him out of my home and give
him inpatient treatment. Why? Because he
looks like this. Oh, yeah. He's so calm.
He's so collected. He's sick. I'm just
making sure he doesn't have any
injuries. He doesn't have any injuries.
He weighs twice as much as me. I could
hit him all day, but I don't. When asked
the mother, Mrs. Scandera told a
completely different story. The question
is, is it a misunderstood truth or a
desperate attempt to hide the
unacceptable?
Forever had a special needs disease.
He's autistic. Okay. Very farreaching on
the spectrum, deeply intelligent, but he
uses it for maniacal purposes. He's very
untrustworthy, very savvy, very
unsavory, very calculated, very
manipulative. Okay. Just does all of
these awful things. I don't know why
he's ODD. We have nobody helping helping
the the He's OD.
Does he see a therapist or anything?
Yes, forever. We've done everything for
forever. Believe me, I am done it all
ardently. Yeah. All of it. Everything
for him every single day. He's had a
blessed life. Does he have his father
away? No, his father is not a present.
Okay. But his grandfather has been ever
present. He's a dead grandfather. All
right. Just try to take a deep breath.
All right. Do you want to have a seat?
They won't. No one will listen to me. No
one hears. I'm going to just talk to my
partner. Do you want to have a seat real
quick so I can talk to him? Oh
my He has to leave. I can't care for
him. Called DCF. I'm not kidding. I am
not wavering anymore. Have you spoke to
DCF? I told him to call DCF. I told him
to call himself. I did. I gave him my
phone. Like, he cannot He cannot torture
this family anymore. He cannot do it. He
cannot do it. He knows what he's doing.
He's almost 16 years old. He knows.
We've been in this well for all of these
years. None of this is new. I've been
taking him to psychiatrists since he was
6 months old. Perhaps the mother
believes that telling hurtful stories
about herself will help her get away
with it. But the law is not moved by
emotion. It only listens to evidence and
responds with justice. When we're done
with our criminal investigation, a
criminal investigation? Yep. What does
What does that even mean? We're
investigating a crime. It's a crime. An
alleged crime. What is the alleged crime
that I slept? He's also got red marks on
his neck. So on his neck? Well, they're
not for me. Well, I was asking I was
going to ask you about that, but I I
can't tell you anything about that, sir.
I don't know anything about it cuz it
wasn't done by me. If I could put my
arms around his neck right now, I
promise you I would. Okay. But I didn't.
There's no lie in my game. Well, that's
what I was going to ask you about. Well,
there now there's your answer. I would
never put my hands on his neck. I'd like
to, but I wouldn't. Okay. So, if he did
that to himself, you know, which
wouldn't be at all surprising to me.
He'd love to bury me alive. He's been
doing it for 15 years. He's lied to DCF
a billion times. I total him once I he I
hit him with a pink spatula. I don't
even cook. He goes out to dinner almost
every night. I don't even own a spatula.
He's a joke. He's a liar and a deceiver
and a joke and his criminal records
shows him. He can't stay out of trouble
to save his life. I was told to be
talked to says sees. As the
investigation continued, the police
interrogated her son and as they dug
deeper into the evidence, each layer of
mystery was gradually peeled back and
then each small detail became powerful
enough to expose the truth that had been
trying to hide. Do you swear or affirm
the statement you were about to give
will be the truth, the whole truth, and
nothing but the truth? So, earlier you
guys came out here because she said she
was going to kick me out of the house.
Okay. And she tore my room apart and
stuff because she found a rapper or
something. Okay. And you guys came, you
guys said you guys can't do anything
unless she kicks me out or something.
Uh, so then she said she was going to
kick me out again. She gave me her phone
and she said, "Call somebody and get
out." So I called my therapist and they
said, "She can't kick you out. Don't
leave. Just tell her you're not going to
leave." All right. I told her that. She
said, "You're getting out of my house
tonight." I said, "My she kept saying
over and over. She put her hand on my
neck and she said, "You're getting out
of my house now." And I said, "She hit
me a few more times in my back." And
then uh she told me to get out. How did
she hit you? How did she grab your neck
and punched with a closed fist? She
closed fist punched you in the back.
Okay. And do you have any injuries on
your back? Okay. All right. Um what
happened? in the house. Okay. Just chase
me down the stairs and then I came out
of here. Okay, good. Domestic violence
is a first-degree misdemeanor punishable
by up to one year in jail and a $1,000
fine. If committed again, the charge can
be upgraded to a thirdderee felony with
a penalty of up to five years in prison
and a $5,000 fine according to Florida
statute
SS784.03. In addition to domestic
violence, there are additional serious
charges. Child abuse, child neglect not
causing serious harm, and breach of
court conditions. These allegations not
only reflect the severity of her
behavior, but also show that the legal
system no longer considers this a simple
family incident, but a systematic series
of violations requiring criminal
handling. Next, an old relationship, an
explosive dispute, and an emergency call
pulled the police in. They did not
expect that their actions at that time
would open the door to a neverending
series of
troubles. On November 5, 2024 in Ohio,
police were called to a home after
reports of a domestic dispute involving
a couple when peeling back the layers of
mystery surrounding the incident. The
truth revealed will shock us. Got some
light on. So, go ahead and put your
hands on top of your head for me. Bro, I
call dog. I know. Oh, here. Look. Hold
on.
No other weapons. No sir. She threw the
brick out. Yeah, I'm out with the male
half fire.
This where started. So, what's going on?
She's just starting a whole bunch. She's
been starting fights all day long. I
just at the incident location. I I had
to fire security. So what you guys She's
just starting she's starting she's just
cussing everybody off saying out the
yard bust my car
open about like don't bust my car open
I'll bust your not do this I was like
you don't go jail and she got me running
her mouth running in her mouth open
she literally threw the brick on my At
this point, the woman begins to believe
that acting like a victim will get her
off the hook. But is it really as simple
as she says or is it just a veil hiding
something complicated? Do you need EMS?
I already asked for EMS cuz my whole
mouth is bleeding. She her whole face
right here is swollen. He punched the
out of me after he pulled his head on
me. So I threw a brick at him. I was
defending myself. What do you want me to
do? One second. All I wanted is my
phone.
No, I just wanted to leave. It won't
stop. Yeah, she said she wants a year,
man. How old are you, ma'am? 30. I mean,
he punched the out of my jaw. My whole
look, my whole lip, everything's
bleeding. What do you want, D? I want
him to He's out of on my property. Get
off my property. You took my AR in that
car and I have you on video. Get off my
property. And you got a warrant. Off my
property. I'm pressing charges for
domestic violence. I've witnessed
multiple altercations. Yes. That's why
we told her multiple times, leave this
gentleman alone and not allow him back
in the house. He keep he keeps coming
back. The the landlord won't do. No, the
landlord won't do nothing. Last time we
told him to leave and he was out here
when he when I pulled a gun on him right
here. You know that my gun's still
missing. Okay. So, we told you not to
let him back
in here. She works here every day. He's
got the code to my door. What do you
want me to do in the house? Police. then
also took statements from witnesses and
viewed the recorded camera video. What
they collected revealed a complex and
contradictory picture. This is a
constant thing. He's always just he's
got to wait into the house. He just
walks up and nobody's business. He's
he's pulled guns on her before. They
were out here arguing. One day I'm the
one that called because one of the
windows shattered and I thought maybe he
was throwing everything. He's he he
needs to go for real. He's He's too
much. And now he's putting his hands on
her and she like raised the brick at me
and I raised my hand up and that's not
that's how I accidentally hit her. I
didn't try to hit her. I saw that
earlier like it was. Yeah, I raised my
hand up. You know, like I wasn't trying
to hit you. You're in my face. I told
you to get on my face about 100
times. Going to be a little more back
around the car. I think I was in the
alleyway.
You see how she is? She's aggressive.
Like I'm I'm like just get away from
you, bro. Like I'm not trying to shoot
you. I'm not trying to do You keep
coming up.
Finally, and then whatever happens must
happen. When all the excuses are not
convincing enough, the police make a
choice that neither of them can avoid.
What the You're out here on the road.
I'm glad I got cameras cuz it would be
hear say, he say, she say. I got cameras
on it and record you the whole time
coming at me with a break. I told you to
be away from me how many damn times?
Like I don't know what else to tell you.
She done, man. She done shot at me in
the house. everything like I got a
bullet out of that went through the wall
and almost hit me and I've never called
the cops on her, bro. You know what I'm
saying? Like I'm not a cop. I just left
at that point. You know what I'm saying?
Like I don't want to get you in trouble
but at this point she keeps doing
this walk
video on this stuff man. What am I
getting arrested for? Disorderly of
conduct violent [ __ ] How? You seen
the video, man. She's She's walking at
me with a break. Walking at me with a
brick. Walking at me with a brick. I'm
trying to leave. There's also There's
also things that led up to that as well.
No, we're both. I was standing in the
yard. I'll show you the whole video the
whole time. We're talking about every
everything else. This is This is going I
told you I was trying to I got my
clothes in my back of my car, bro.
What?
Give him my cigarettes. Is he on my
phone?
get phone over there. Yeah, I didn't do
nothing, bro. Wait, I did nothing arrest
her. She threw a brick right here,
sir. I didn't do nothing to her. Why am
I going to jail?
Why am I going to jail? Turn your wrist.
I can't. Ow, ow, ow, ow.
Can I just literally leave? Oh, now. Oh,
now you want
to just I need to I need to check your
cuff. You said they were too tight. They
are. So, I need you to
Okay.
Give me a second.
Can we put them in the front? It's
hurting my back. No, we can't put them
in the front, but I can double them. So,
give me a second. All right.
He
me. Slide him back. I got him. He cut
me.
I don't want to come home today. Oh god,
I don't give me a second. I want this to
tighten up. I'll take a sus and leave
and go to my mom. I swear I can follow
you to take my keys. We're beyond all
that. I just want to go. I'm moving the
second. Oh, the other one's too tight.
Can you help me, please?
I can get two fingers in between it. It
hurts. They're not going to be
comfortable.
I've never been in trouble. All right, I
think you take this one cuff off real
quick. I'm going to have you sign this
form to give us authorization so your
mother can take your child. Okay. All
right. Please get a summon. No, please.
I won't leave. No. They may just let you
out when you get to the county, but
that's up to them. They said they're not
going to. Well, we I I can't control
that. Both were later charged with
disturbing public order under Ohio state
law. Police also warned that this house
is currently considered a trouble hot
spot and if there is continued
intervention from the authorities,
administrative penalties will be
applied. This incident not only marked a
turning point in the tense relationship
between the two, but also revealed many
complex aspects behind the appearance of
a normal argument. When emotions
overwhelm reason, every action can
become evidence against yourself. What
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