I mean, [music] she's punched me. >> He asked me to hit him. >> Okay. >> He asked me to. >> On March 26th, 2025, police responded to a situation involving a woman who had been mistreating her boyfriend. >> Hello. >> How are you? >> What's your name? >> Mark. >> Mark Stoi. How you pronounce it? >> Nice to meet you. >> So, what's going on, Paul? You want to park in here or I don't know if it's going to take some time. >> Oh, it's fine. Okay, >> don't worry. It'll go around. >> Well, >> my girlfriend's been a drunk. I didn't know that when she when I first met her. Uh >> what's your girlfriend's name? >> Renee. Dana Renee. >> Okay. >> Uh she's she's been hitting me off and on a little bit. I let it go, but it's really uh I mean, she's punching me. I got probably five or six videos in my camera where she doesn't know and I'm videotaping her. She's punching me. >> Can I see that again? I'mma just where you got hit right. >> This looks good now. >> Yeah, it was >> she punched me all cuz I live or I I side of the bed. I don't mess with her. She's drinking all the time and it's just it's getting out of hand and it's it's been going on and I I didn't think it would happen to me. Do you know what I mean? I thought it'd be done by now. >> I got you. So, but why she hit you? >> Well, I cuz she's drunk. >> It just every time she drinks. >> Yeah, she's not She wasn't uh She wasn't drinking when I first knew her, but now that I find her history, she's been going to AA all these years. But uh let me I don't know if you can see out here, but I have all kinds. Let's go to uh photos. I have to lock it because I'm afraid she'll get rid of it. All a lot. Most of these are bottles where I find I know all her hiding spaces. What? I don't know if you can you see the redness in the chest. >> I can see the redness. >> She freaking hits me and says, "What are you?" Bam. What are you going to do? Are you going to hit a woman? Bam. You going to hit a woman? >> Hit her back. >> Yeah. Uh, I let it go most of the time, but uh, when she keeps doing that, I will slap her once in a while just to quit it. I mean, honest. I mean, instead of beating the [ __ ] out of her, I slap her and that usually does it. >> Where at? >> In the face. >> In the face. >> I mean, >> right hand, left hand. >> Right hand. >> Open hand. >> Yes. >> Or closed face? >> No. Right. Uh, open hand. I mean, she stops. And there's times where she's been kicking me on the bed and hitting me. I have to hold her down sometimes. I mean, I can take a little. You know what I mean? >> Yeah. I got you. Look, it scratches. >> She scratched me only when she's drinking. She scratched me in the arm. Then everything else is I got video. There's There's when it was worse. >> Yeah. >> When I'm in the car, I hardly even do anything with her anymore. I'm down here taking care of my dad. I came down here 14 months ago. He's 90. He's got dementia. I'm a nurse. And so I came down here. I I wanted to get rid of her in Ohio. She had nothing. She would have been living under a bridge. So I told her I'd bring her down here and get her on her feet. >> Okay. >> She's not on her feet. >> How long have you guys been together? about three or four years. Okay. And I got video after video where she she calls me fat, gay, calls my dad a mother. She's been into it with my dad and his girlfriend. She's 87. She hasn't done any physical stuff but verbal to him all the time. And and uh she doesn't pay for anything in the house. She pays no bills. Does she work or anything? >> Well, she was at the fresh market. Oh, can I give you a little history? She likes to drink and drive. She came home freaking passed out in her face head first in the uh in the seam when she got out. >> You guys ever called 911? So >> I took uh me and the guy behind me who is uh worked for the sheriff. He was a ex uh retired sheriff. He helped me get her in the car and I took her to the ER. >> Okay. >> And uh this is this is uh after they cleaned her up and stitched her up cuz she fell head first into the payment. Recently she was in Claremont for an exam. >> Yeah. They thought she had a psychotic episode at the exam. They called the police. They took her ambulance to Fairmont. She blew a 380 on a BAC. Okay. >> And I know they need a BAC on her hair cuz I told her she >> she normally starts everything. All the arguments and all the physical stuff >> cuz uh in every video I'm not doing anything. >> Yeah. I mean these were uh this is what I found in her trunk. I got other where she she goes, "No, I didn't. No, I didn't." Is why I started taking pictures. >> Yeah. passing out under her her carboard. I found these in her car all over Idaho. All the secret hiding places in the house. I got boxes and boxes and bags of bottles that I've saved just in case I in case I get in trouble. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> You know, I I'm I'm It's heading something's going to happen. I'm going to get I'm going to blow it or she's going to do something. >> No, I get you. When she's she gets aggressive like that, right? She drinks, she gets aggressive, right? And starts hitting you. Yes. Yes. Do you fear for your life, your father's life? >> Oh, I fear for their safety. I fear for my safety. >> Exactly. So, that's that's why I'm asking. That's why the reason why >> I mean, yeah. I mean, I'm tired of it. I mean, it is escalating. She's drinking more. >> Uh she's not going to her a >> Let me find her. >> You slapped her for >> to quit. Get her off of me. >> Protect yourself. >> Yes. >> Okay. And obviously, >> well, you'll see that I'm doing nothing. And I've been all I do I click it on cuz I know it's going to happen every it's been every night lately. >> Okay. >> I took some additional pictures. Almost all these are verbal abuse and where she's actually hitting me too. >> Wait, where's the one that she hits you? I want to see. >> Oh, there uh >> if you can get one. >> Yeah, it's on Thursday 3:52. Oh, there you go. See, there's times where I'm not videaping her cuz he didn't know how. But you can hear her hit me. >> I hit you. >> Oh. Oh. Oh my god. I have not even started. Oh, I have not even started. >> She's on paper. >> Don't shut up. >> Don't touch me again. >> Shut up. >> I'm not touching her just to show you what I'm putting up with. >> [ __ ] You're [ __ ] drunk. You're a [ __ ] drunk. >> She blames me for abusing her. Everything is is she's abusing me. I tell you what, she's drank so much. She was stealing all my alcohol. I quit drinking. >> I've lost 93 lbs in the last year and a half because I I quit drinking. >> You smell like a bottle. >> You smell like a bottle. Want to say that again? >> Yeah. Quit hitting me. >> That's nothing compared to how I got you. You'll kick my >> Yes. >> Just threatening to get someone to kick my >> You pay somebody to kick my ass. You're drunk. >> You're drunk. I'm sorry. You're just stupid. >> Stupid. >> Um >> I mean I got video after video of that. Okay. >> I need her out. >> Is she in the house right now? >> Well, she was a while ago. She called me. I go, "Where are you?" So, she should be there now, but I'm not guaranteed cuz I actually think she's not even allowed to drive. She's She's That incident that I showed you, she's been off since then. >> Can I Can I get you to fill out a statement? >> Yes. >> I'm going to send you a community link so you can submit all those videos and pictures that you have if that's okay with you. >> I'll go with all of It's going to take some time. >> So, I'm going to get your part. I just trying to get your information first and just get your side of the story on paper. >> Okay. And then I'll head over there to to the house and I'll I'll speak with her >> here in the star is basically what you have told me. Okay. Like so when when the abusive uh relationship started, when she started hitting you and everything that you have told me, just put it on paper. Okay. I'll follow you. >> Okay. And then we'll head over there. Okay. >> Great. So, I'm going to wait for my Zoom partner just because she's um you saying she's an alcoholic. I don't want her to try anything and you know be care herself or something like that. >> Do you know 100% she's there? >> Call her >> if you can. Yes, >> are you home? >> Yes, I am. >> Okay, I'm on my way home. >> Okay. >> Bye. She's home. >> Okay. All right. I'm going to start heading over there if you can just get behind me. >> Hi, this is Deputy Rick Sheriff's Office. Okay. Appreciate you. >> Um I'm just trying to investigate uh an occurrence. Okay. Um between you guys. >> Yeah. So, first of all, >> just give me a second. I'm going to have him go inside. Okay. So, I can just have a conversation with you. I appreciate >> he's not here. >> Can you go inside? I'm pretty sure your father's inside. I'm going to just have a conversation with her. Okay. >> I have medical records of him beating me like absolutely freaking beating. He broke my thumb. He's thrown me against a wall. He's choked me. >> Do you have the records on on you? >> I don't have them, but I have them on me. >> Normally they >> Well, Kettering Hospital has him in Ohio. No, this man has literally the [ __ ] out of me many times and he finally let me hit him on the arm so he could feel what it feels like to be beaten. Okay. >> And that's why he's got the braces on his arm. >> When was when was this? >> Two days ago >> that he hit you. Talking about >> He's hit me for the last 4 and 1/2 years. >> Okay. >> It's a long history. You guys, you're after the wrong person. >> Okay. I'm just I'm just here to investigate. He told me his part right now. That's why I'm I'm making contact. >> Okay. Listen, I already talked to him. Okay. Now, I'm here trying to talk to you. Okay. I'm just trying I'm just trying to get your side of the story. Hey, just >> do you have pictures, videos, something that I can see? >> I have pictures. I have pictures. Can I see them? Okay. Oh, hold on. Maybe on my phone. >> Do you have it in your car? >> It's on my phone. >> Okay, >> hold on. I got pictures. >> Yeah. Yeah, you can pull it up. >> But I don't have a lot. It was mostly at the uh the hospital. I mean, I don't know why he he is calling you guys in. He asked me to hit him. >> Okay. >> He asked me to. And I'm like, "Okay, this feels great. I can finally hit my perpetrator." I have pictures. >> Okay. >> Bruises under my arms when he would throw me to the ground. >> Yeah. Do you normally drink? >> Yeah. Okay. >> He wants to portray me as a big alcoholic. I know. >> Normally, how much you drink when you drink? >> Uh, maybe. Hold on. Let me find this for you first. >> Okay. >> God, why can't I f I have the pictures. I have the pictures of the bruises. >> Okay. And Ketaring has has medical records of the he's done to me. Here's one of them when he he socked me in the side. Okay, hold on. That's him stalking me in the side. Okay, but I got more. Okay, this is when he hit me under the arm. Hold on. I'll get more. I'll get more cuz I I took better pictures. Oh, here we go. Here we go. There you go. That's when he grabbed me and threw me to the ground. >> Okay. >> Yeah. You can't get bruises like that just falling on the ground. That's from somebody grabbing you. >> Okay. >> Yeah. But did you hit him first or anything like that? How >> can you tell me what happened there? >> Yeah, it's him cussing at me and he threw me to the ground because he was pissed off. >> Okay, but why why the all whole altercation happened? >> Because he's mad. He's got an anger issue and he throws me to the ground and he's throwing me against the wall several times trying to choke me. That was in Troy, Ohio, which broke my thumb. If you notice, my thumbs are different. >> Okay, >> this one's different because he broke it. It's all on medical records. That man has abused me more times than you even know. And he's playing a victim right now and you need to know that. >> Okay. >> This is regular. >> Are there any videos of a physical altercation? Not photos after the fact. >> My god. Should I run a video tape on my life? I mean, I'm not saying I'm not saying you're lying, but >> No. >> Those bruises. >> You are saying my bruises can come from anywhere. >> Where Where can you fall on the ground? >> All right. putting his head back. >> Why are you arresting me? >> Deputy River will tell you. >> Yeah, I'll tell you once we walk to the car. >> Seriously, Mark. Seriously? >> Let me get the key. All right, let's walk to my car. I'll explain it. >> So, you're getting arrested for simple uh battery. Okay. Domestic. >> What was he doing? >> Okay, [snorts] just keep on walking. >> Oh my god. >> Do you have anything on you? >> No. Okay. So, he got video and proof of you. >> Oh my god. Oh my god. I have video of him. >> Do you have anything on you? Stop moving. Get into the car. Get close to the car. >> I'm Okay. >> All right. All right. >> Do you have anything on you? >> No. Well, actually, I do. >> What you have on you? >> I It's It's here. >> It's up here. >> What is it inside your bra? >> Yes. >> Okay. >> What is it? It's alcohol. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> All right. You mind pick so that you can take it out? >> Yeah. I'm going to click one your left hand. Okay. Out. So, you can just go ahead and just remove everything that you have. >> Oh my god. I I can't believe >> I'm going to remove it. Don't try anything. You understand? >> No. I'm not I'm never going to do anything. It's here. >> Hold on. >> Wait. That's my lipstick. >> Take everything out. >> There you go. >> All right. Just put in the car. Put it on top of the car. >> Take your lipstick off. Whatever. Anything you have in there needs to come out. Anything inside your bra because they're going to search you in the jail. >> Okay. >> If they find anything, that's another charge. You understand that? >> I don't have anything on me. >> I'm just letting you know. You understand? >> Okay. I'm fine. >> I can't believe he did this. He's He's the perpetrator, not me. >> Go ahead and take a seat. >> Thanks. >> Going to be a little uncomfortable. She was later charged with [music] domestic battery, disorderly conduct, providing false information to law enforcement. If you want more cases like this, hit subscribe.