driver is showing some obscure driving possibly intoxicated currently doing 45 miles an hour zone through here is 25. oh subject just hit the curb correction speed limit is 15. about three quarters of a mile into the arches just before the gate you want to place your vehicle in the park and go ahead and turn it off for me no park oh it isn't perfect okay turn off your engine go ahead and set your keys on the dash for me all right what's your guys's names i'm brian gabby brian okay what's going on welcome crying i'm sorry we've just been fighting this morning some personal issues it was a long day we were camping yesterday and camping got supplies and stuff i'm sorry i'm sorry i hit the bump there i was distracting him from driving i'm sorry can i get you to step out of the vehicle for me man yeah just hang tight right there um do you mind if i take your keys and just put them on your hood oh no you're fine i'm gonna go ahead and close your hair okay so2t9 i have the female that was on the passages separated from the mail keys are on the hood you want to tell me what's going on yeah i don't know it's just some days really bad ocd and i just i was just cleaning and fading up back to them before and i was apologizing to him and saying i'm sorry that i'm so mean because sometimes i have ocd and sometimes i just get really frustrated i'm not like me and poor time i just like i guess my vibe is like i really hear me like in a bad mood and i was just saying i'm sorry if i'm in a bad mood i just really stressed i had so much work i was doing on my computer this morning what do you do for a living um well yeah i hate sporting an all organic juice bar but i just hit my job i was a nutritionist that's right that was my job and i just um quit my job to travel across the country and i'm trying to start a blog stuff so i've been building my website so i've just been really stressed and she doesn't really believe that i could feel any of it just kind of been like uh i don't know he's like down there i don't know we just been fighting all morning and and he wouldn't let me in the car before and then why wouldn't he let you in the car because you because well why don't we do this why don't i sit you down in the back seat of my car you're not in any trouble okay i'm not gonna be putting handcuffs on you you obviously don't have any weapons i'm gonna get you into the air conditioning let you take a breath relax a little bit and then i'll come back and talk to you in a few minutes okay okay all right like i said you're not in any trouble so just go ahead and take a seat watch me yeah i just spoke to her so you want to do me a favor let's go ahead and get you to step out of the vehicle alrighty you're not in any trouble right now so tell me what's going on you see this gets worked up sometimes and i try and really distance myself from her so like i locked the car and i walked away from her but what happened this morning is that she's trying to start up like your own little website vlog and everything so like every time we really had a nice morning and if anything but um she just got worked up because you're trying to get going and get her day going because you want to go um okay you want to tell me about those scratches on your face she hit himself on her hand that's why i was pushing her away because i see she wanted me i like the keys so i could walk away i said let's just take a breather and let's not you know go anywhere let's just calm down for a minute and then she had her phone and was trying to get the keys i know i shouldn't push it i'm just trying to push her away to go let's let's just take a minute step back and breathe and you see what she got over here can i see your hand oh you got a mark right here oh that's from a wire that's on a wire yeah you want to tell me about hitting that curve hitting the curve was her grabbing the wheel did she grab the wheel yeah she said i can't leave her again pulled over here what about the speed did she take over the you know the pedal on yeah if i was going fast i'm sorry i know it's probably just the moment of like i'm still shaking out the adrenaline seeing the light splashing up and then gripping the wheel so if i sped up i'm sorry about that or if i was speaking beforehand i'm sorry about that yeah it took quite a bit to catch up to you yeah i'm sorry about that we're just going into the park again to get water because we have a 6 gallon water container to fill up so we're just careful for the height and we're just i was trying to keep everything calm and quiet because they're just plain still to go for a hike within security and then you mind lifting your shirt so i can check the waistband i gotta turn around for me real i just i just want to make sure that's all man go ahead do me a favor take a seat all right oh do you have your id on you in the car if you want to come with me we'll just do this just go ahead [Music] l-a-u-n d-r-i-e d-r-i-e yep laundry okay what's your date of birth fish i'll say crisscross applesauce can i just sit in the shade um it's okay i'll give you some [ __ ] sound good all right just hang tight for me so229 i need a 29 name and date of birth first name brian layman spellings last name laundry lima alpha uniform november delta romeo india is did he hit you though i mean i mean it's okay if you're saying you're hitting him i understand if he hit you but we want to know the truth he actually hit you because you know where did he hit you don't worry or what you were hitting him did you already tell him all this i didn't get that far into it she was she was hyperventilating she's saying that they don't drink but at the point where you lit them up you don't figure anything she started yeah i was yelling at him and then when you turned it like that i like kind of punched it around was like hit the curb gabby yeah i'm sorry my name is gabby try to meditate stuff but you tend to have a lot of anxiety and stress and what's his name is it brian is he usually pretty patient with you yeah but i guess it just makes sense i've taken my anxiety and bringing it down but my ex-wife especially my ex-wife i'm just sharing i know it's a little personal to help you understand we would feed off each other's anxiety and spiral you know what i mean and it doesn't matter how much i loved her it may be a bad for your soul i'm not telling you with your life but if you know you have anxiety look at the look at the situations you can get in you know what i mean and we're not here to be mean to you or anything well you know they never there's a first time and then it usually let's just we'll go see what brian's saying but i think you've heard everything now from quick question you said you were hitting him in the arm did you grab the steering wheel no i didn't you did not touch the steering wheel i only only for like a second because i just saw the lights come on and it was more just like dirty like you know but did you grab the steering wheel and like swerve or anything like that i'm gonna go ahead and close this door again you have enough air back here or do you want me to kick it up some more any water i will see if i can find something okay don't worry thank you just trying to figure out yeah all happened and i know you probably already told your story this officer is probably gonna be the one handling the whole case do you wanna you wanna listen to what he has to say and yeah and then you tell him tell me what happened really don't mind start at the beginning for me um i don't go too far back but we've been in uh beyond land for the past week or so traveling around and the flies here like pretty intense so the flies have definitely been getting to her and then my feet are dirty and everything so i think that our little squabble started because we're hanging out at the coffee shop and when he got back to the band there's some dirt in the stuffed van and i moved our food around this order so she gets a little bit i'm sorry about that do you need any water that's okay it's hot actually i was telling you we were going to get water because we ran out but it's okay i don't know um but we just had a little disagreement there and this game was just she was getting a little worked up and i was saying no it's okay thank you it's cool it's good um so it was just more disappearing than i just wanted what was the disagreement about it it was it was i haven't even called this game it was just that i'm dirty and i can't change being dirty like i got 30 feet i got stand on my flip-flops and stuff like that um it was everywhere at the coffee shop for so long because we were there from nine to three so yeah there's a few little little things little just little relationships in a relationship i've been married for over five years now there's a lot of little things right there yeah and we get it we really it wasn't we weren't physical before the point where i said all right let's let's just take a breather and like walk away for a minute i'll lock the band up and i'll go for a walk this way and you can go walk that way in the block you know what it's called new flower right yeah nice areas you can go either way it's all shaded so let's go for a little [ __ ] breath we'll i don't have my phone i don't really i don't have a phone so she goes off without me you know all right i'm on my i was own let's just go for walking shoes trying to get the keys for me so i'm just going to swing back up that cup and it doesn't hit me and i i did didn't get i don't want to push you but i didn't give it i didn't get overly physical i was just trying to keep her away and not get hit and then i got really loud and like that's probably his attention where i was going you know back up get away just give me okay so you said you pushed her to create some distance obviously right what happened after that what got what got the scratches on your eye so you pushed her and she hit you she was it i wasn't it wasn't like a push and she jumped at me she was she's already she was already i don't know she's already swinging it a lot of angles on the nails that are veins yeah you got three scratches in your neck you've got one on the left side here guys you've got one in your face here and you've got four blowers do you mind lifting up your right sleeve for me i'm curious about something i hope she doesn't have too many complaints about me i'm just uh you know i feel bad i didn't get so public i was just trying to be loud too so this is you know all right try to make her calm down be like look everyone's watching [Music] do you take any medications or anything like that you don't take any medications or anything like that are you normally this kind of like hyper do i see that my heartbeat whenever the lights flash on it it gets your heart rate up if i see my trust me it does me too and i'm the one it gets me going probably hey buddy whenever somebody wants it so okay yeah do you know if she takes anything she's crazy um no no no none that i know real fast can i get your first name yeah i you guys both live in florida right or that's where you guys come from florida right now so that's where you have it out of current i need a 29. charlie oscar it's gonna be florida um so i was like let's let's do it better it's going to take man not a big steiner but uh i said let's just try and do a little better and it's been great so far for sure but here we're going over to portland and i don't know if you you're probably here for more familiar i'm from california originally oh yeah so and part of my job i dealt with employees that were from all across the united states and washington oregon california nevada everything you can think of on your weapon i know most of them it's worldwide opportunities on organic markets so it's like a volunteer working checking situation we're gonna get work on [Applause] oh he never saw the male strike the female he saw a male trying to lock her out of the vehicle she even told us that he was trying to lock her out told her to go take a walk so that she was trying to get in she eventually couldn't get in and actually clawed her way in through the driver's door he says i don't understand why she's doing that well i think it's because of his only door that wasn't locked that she could get through she's trying to get it over him he's trying to disengage from her i guess he hung her backpack on the back probably so she'd have her [ __ ] so that he didn't have to engage with her everything she's saying is same thing i haven't heard what he said but that's what he said that's also what the witness is saying the witness says i never saw him hit her i saw him shove her but i couldn't tell if it was an aggression against her or a defense against her as far as her you know being the aggressor so at this point from what unless the guy's screaming that he needs to go to jail and did something to this girl it sounds like she is the primary aggressor man now the problem with the her being the primary aggressor is in an instance of domestic assault being a male or being a female we shall rest now that doesn't necessarily mean they have to go to jail we can do a citation if it meets one of three criterion which one of them is that we can ensure that they're not going to further risk each other's safety but the problem with that is they live in the same vehicle that's what i was going to say the other part of it is there was an injury to the victim which is him right and i'm getting conflicting stories about why they hit the curb up here what would he say why he hit the curb well i've watched this is what i saw first so i can cross the double yellow i was doing 42 miles an hour i was i don't know probably two car lengths behind him tapping my whales at him trying to get his attention they knew i was behind him and then after he crossed the double yellow he merged over into the right lane and then out of nowhere just boom so did he tell you why he said that she grabbed the wheel and found it real hard she said that she was hitting him in the arm so that's legit i mean i'm sure if i'm driving and my arms on the wheel and i'm getting hit in the arm i'm probably pulling out the wheel yeah and i'm sure it was a little both and usually the truth is somewhere between he's probably trying not to say that he hit her because he probably doesn't want her charged with assault domestic salt he probably would rather say she should pull the wheel that didn't hit him so unfortunately for her she we cannot just because he's bigger and stronger even if he's not one of the best charges we can't treat this differently than if it was a male on female violence and we're going to have to charge her and we can do a citation if there's some arrangement that can be made to separate them and then we have to let them know that there's no contact order in effect and we have to let him know the only way to drop is going to the police department during business hours and fill out a waiver which by the way what's today's thursday so it won't be till tomorrow i know it there till noon i think which i'm sure he's going to want to drop it well the other part of it is they said that they're on uh they've been on four or five months that they've been living out of this band together well this is really bad news let's talk to him first ryan yeah unfortunately in the state of utah we don't have discretion on some things like for example for speeding and i want to give you a warning one of the things that the state legislature doesn't give a discretion on is charges when it comes to a domestic assault and it sounds like you guys are living together so you meet those statues for domestic partners and you do have injury and both an independent witness probably the next one we're going to talk to you as well which we haven't talked to the one the one we did talk to and your own companion have made it clear that she was the primary aggressor and that she was striking you in the university victories you have to not if the loss if we have to charge it doesn't say we have to put her in jail okay but it also says we have to separate our contact order and we have to put in jump if we cannot separate and there's no problem here you've got a lot of you could definitely defend yourself against but at the same time we can't say because tomorrow if you want to it's up to you can i go to jail you can't because you'll have a charge if you wanted to get with her again with her again tomorrow because it's after five year office is closed you can go to the police department fill out a waiver and drop there's no contact order so you guys can still get him because she's gonna have a court date online answered prosecuting like dropping they might say for example if you're not willing to pursue it that's your season but i don't say it definitely is i'm not going to pursue anything because i can't say i love her i'm sorry that i had to get so public um but i'm not so i just want to get like the checklist of things i got to do to get rid of association well she'll get a paper with a court date how do i get rid of it well the court date has to be attended in order for them because she has to attend which thankfully for you guys it's going to be online you know so if you're out of town here's the thing if you're out of town and she doesn't come into a quarterback online there's automatically right now there's something called a no contact in place yeah this point forward until tomorrow if you wish to drop it you have to go to the 217 east center street if i've got all the pictures then you have to actually get it you want to fill out a waiver that you're requesting away a waving of the contact with no contact no contact information about some of the contact reviews they open at eight you can go to the police department you can call the waiver they can remove it then you can say hey babe where are you at let me put you up pick her up now we're hoping not to put on jail but she doesn't have somewhere to go tonight to be separate from you and where is so tell me this do you guys have enough money for like a hotel room or anything like that because what we could do is we'd cite her for this and then i'd give her a ride over to whatever hotel if you guys choose on your way to go pick her up you stop over there at the pd sign the paperwork that they requested and then you can go pick her up quite literally within minutes listen to someone else in town that's a premise yeah if she goes to jail it's like show now even if we give her a the other part is if you contact her or she contacts you she could be charged with a class which is a little bit different but it doesn't come if you were to contact her and she responds to you she can get a new charge no contact doesn't restrict you you don't know anyone in town you gotta figure out how long no i don't know in your own time if she went i don't think i'll take it to the aggressor i'm curious you can find out does she have a good driver's license this usually against you yeah yeah then you're trying to be homeless for the night man i can't talk to her at all well then i've got to do the thing so i can't go camping you can here's the problem though if we take you up to delicate arch you're going to be hoping it from delicate arch all the way down to moab center street so that you can add that paperwork because if you're not there by noon tomorrow you're going to be looking at monday morning so already on friday yeah you'd be looking at monday morning before you could actually see the right yeah again we're not trying to make your life right now this is really the statute oh and they'll help you tomorrow and you're like a block and a half away from the people well cfc game will take him because they took they actually put up actually they didn't take a guy but they got a hotel for a guy last time yeah i'll do yes this is officer robinson city police department how are you doing this afternoon oh not too bad so i just did a domestic and the male is going to be our victim is there any way that you can help us set him up with a place to stay tonight okay 10.99 yeah yes please thank you so the after hours guy isn't there at their office right now he's going to run from his house over there and we're going to get you all lined up don't worry about it this isn't all that they wait on so don't feel like you are making anybody do anything extraordinary so we're trying to make this as easy as possible or anything like that well i really really appreciate it and i know how rough this stuff can be like i said five and a half years you know believe me if i were to say that me and my wife haven't had our sharp spouts i'd be lying to you i live with the woman her anxiety anxiety and sometimes that's why i just that's why i'm like i gotta just i gotta walk away i gotta breathe just i'm looking back as far as even then you know i'm not gonna try to sit here and give you life you've been on this almost as long as what i haven't there's nothing i can tell you that's gonna really make a difference but at the end of the day i'm sorry that all this is happening i'm sorry that it went to this i'm sorry but i'm trying could i get my key and make like a little bag maybe you can drive me somewhere yeah just if you don't mind doing it from over here we don't want you to get hit i don't have anyone saying he actually so if the tables were turned and he was beating on you and you were shoving him of course we were looking at like oh of course he's defending himself away from his life but we're kind of looking at the same way the law doesn't say hey officer crowd off robbins you can treat people different based on gender because it makes no sense hey how's it going oh that that's fine i'm still going to be here for a few minutes dealing with this so we have almost as much time as you need so his name's going to be brian b r and laundry yeah well it's not why it's ie at the end yes so they were at one at moon flower the organic grocery store down the street from you guys and they got into a heated argument both of them are saying it was over petty stuff um he told her to take a walk so that she could cool off she refused broke into the car after he walked her out of it she started trying to slap and scratch him he pushed her away they both got in the vehicle took off and i found him out here no no well we are charging her with domestic assault so there's going to be a protection order set in place between the two of them until he's able to get over to the pd tomorrow because he doesn't want to pursue it but i don't have a choice in this i'm sure you are well aware so he's going to be wanting to go over to the pd first thing tomorrow morning as they open up to get the protective order removed but that doesn't fix tonight sorry about that go ahead yes they both have florida licenses of course [Music] right well the other part of it is i don't we don't think it's very likely but with her as the uh suspect in this would you be able to put her up for the night okay i figured i figured i just i had to make sure i at least asked it's better safe than sorry so i didn't know if that would make your life awesome and if you if it's easier for you to just send me a text to the location that works just as fine too all right thank you what was your what did you say your name was again peter phillip phil okay all right hey brian can i take two minutes of your time real quick so because there was an assault that took place and you're obviously showing signs of the strikes do you mind if i take pictures of the injuries yeah i need to take pictures for my evidence because otherwise it's going to be you're safe let's say my say and the court's gone i have to do this part of it all right i was trying to build some consistency and then let me see your hand is i know you said this is from a wire but i'm going to take a picture of it just in case i'll document that that you're saying that's from the wire not from her it's just i wouldn't you have anything on the other arm on your back chest anything like that let me get your neck real quick as well you want to kind of tilt your head off to the right and look out this way and then this is just for crossing someone lifting we can go back here if you want some privacy i just i want it like i said i want to do a very thorough job i want to make sure that you don't have any additional injuries people that can help with hotel rooms and stuff like that out of the office i'm just playing home type a couple people trying to get well lined up because certain people have access to the corporate card he doesn't so we're trying to get everything lined up this is going to take us a few minutes to get that lined up and stuff like that like i said we're gonna be handing out a piece of paper that has stuff like that and she'll be able to give you all that information okay so there's no choice in the matter yeah so [Music] okay [Music] back [Music] [Applause] try it [Music] [Applause] [Music] right [Music] yes um she went to smack him he's got a swollen right eye scratches so we're gonna go find was it intent and attempt or intent or [Music] [Music] right [Music] right she said that she got hurt i might have told her that too but she started distracting him by hitting him and then he probably looked at her and that's why so assault is an attempt with unlawful force or violence and your bodily injury to another code for bodily injury the definition says a lot of injury is affliction of pain or physical impairment or illness so you can go this now i'm just gonna i'm gonna be i'm recording and society and the judges and everyone can judge me for this i am looking at 110 pound female and her fiance who have no means to be separated he doesn't want to pursue it she's not a threat to him more than slight abrasions from her fingernails i i don't care if we use the actual letter of the law to to not charge but i also don't care because it literally does possibly make perfect sense to go full-on domestic assault and do the whole thing this is uh your opportunity to make the decision go ahead did you feel more comfortable handling that guy another option is to not charge them but separate into the knife if they find themselves together again what is it to you you separated them you provide it for your safety if he doesn't have enough sense to stay away and you got him separated you can separate them and say don't don't let us go out tomorrow if if they don't let it cool off and we hear about it we'll hear about it they're camping in the park tonight and if there's some fighting going on you already was mr nice guy you already gave him a chance what you can't do by law is separate someone and say if we hear from you again we're gonna wrestle with you because then if one of them really needs help they may not call police and get help the law says you cannot literally you may not say we get more problems with you guys tonight one of you is that you can't throw it like that right it's true because it stops that makes sense all right so go full or nothing or in between and separate them and kind of give them the nod the wink like hey you know it's up to you i'm gonna go handle that you got very capable help with you here do you mind if i get a picture of your driver's license you said that this is still your mailing address right thank you guys for helping us oh yeah no problem have a good day all right there we go can i get your phone number okay do you have any problems with me taking a picture of it i have to have ids and stuff like that for my investigation here so this is what i'm gonna do i've decided i am not going to cite you for domestic violence battery okay it was only going to be a class b misdemeanor however the domestic violence portion of it enhances it makes like a major pain in the butt especially you're 22 right so i'm choosing not to cite you today so you are not going to be charged with it all right but this is what i do have to do i am separating between you tonight okay i want you guys both to be tonight away from each other relax breathe because there's no reason to be crying okay this is i understand that this can feel like it's a nightmare but you're coming out as the golden flower on top of it okay so you're gonna be taking the band tonight and you're gonna go somewhere else i am going to get him lined up for the hotel room tonight i want you guys to stay away from each other for both of you guys to see me from what you told me and what he told me you guys have a bunch of little things that are building up building up building up and finally the little string that you guys were tight walking on for them tonight that sounded about right so i just want everybody to breathe get a chance away from each other they'll eat talk to your parents whatever just gotta do so like i said that's what i'm going to be doing tonight hold on this is officer robins up perfect so awesome thank you phil is this your cell phone that i called okay okay well go ahead and save my number into that phone and i'll save your number or this number into my phone that way i can contact the i'm on duty after hours person so because i literally had to google it perfect thank you phil i appreciate your time so i've got him a hotel room tonight so here in just a minute i have to keep you guys separated for right now don't contact each other don't wave at him okay do you want me to say anything to him because i can do that for you you want me to let him know that you love him and then you'll see him tomorrow and stuff like that i'll be he's bad about that too yeah okay i'll make sure that he has a phone charger okay and if i have anything else please keep your cell phone on so i can call you okay it's all right all right so just kind of sit tight for me real fast all right brian a couple things [Music] she claims that she did not have intent to hurt you when she was slapping at you so technically speaking it does not fit the letter of the code so i am not going to be charging her with db this is what i am going to do i'm not going to release you guys together i want you guys to stay away from each other tonight okay she's agreed to it take some time for yourselves you guys both have the exact same story as to what led up to the incident so taking some time tonight specifically taking tonight away from each other is going to be the major breaker in all this i think that'll help you guys especially tomorrow when you guys meet up so she does have a couple of messages for you one she says she loves it she's looking forward to seeing me tomorrow two don't forget a selfie yeah again he watched me fumble around the entire three laptop i'm trying to find new ones okay the other thing is i don't want you guys to contact each other okay when you said that she can text me or whatever i was gonna send her a message so please don't message me but yeah but tonight don't do anything yeah but she's passing on her love and saying goodnight and stuff like that all that independent stuff that i do to my wife too okay so like you should go just so don't just try to not contact each other unless like i said earth shattering something happens you guys have to jump in the car right now and drive by the floor that kind of circumstances other than that just you have meals about yourself back to breath you're going to be in a hotel room watching tv it's probably going to be one since you actually got to sit down relax it's american watch tv yeah so it takes some time [Laughter] all right our main concern is make sure that you have a cell phone card so you guys know okay i really appreciate and if you'll just go stand over here in front of his pickup real quick we'll get her out of here alrighty gabrielle you want to step out for me as you can see i have keys in my hand which is good okay so something that i do that i emphasize to him and i don't know if i emphasize to you or not don't text each other tonight he wants to pass on the same message you passed to him i'm really looking forward to talking to you again but i told him and you unless there's earth-shattering emergency news don't text tonight okay even with the good nights i love you he's saying good night now he's saying he loves you now and you guys can talk tomorrow morning okay he's going to go to the hotel i'm going to give you the keys to the van all righty so here's that i'm giving him a ride over to the hotel okay so everything's gonna be okay will it be a hard drive for me to get him in the morning i'm just curious i'm not going to tell you where he's going to be at tonight like i said i i want you guys to be separated but i can't tell you this i just don't usually drive the van so i just want to make sure it's not like far no no no it's it's basically from here to moonflower okay it's not far at all so let's get you in the van let's get you on your way alrighty you want that gatorade by the way you got enough water also something i want you to know here stand over here real quick real fast forward if you go over to city market they have a list of places where you can get yourself a shower for like four or five bucks something like that but pretty cheap place where you can shower decompress de-stress a little bit alrighty yeah i just showered yesterday at one of those well you didn't have today happen yesterday so it does my wife wanders when she gets stressed out it's like get in the shower come on go take a shower relax take some time for yourself and like i said don't text each other tonight text each other tomorrow morning after your eyes open up and you're fully awake had your coffee or okay uh my door's open just climb in the back seat for me yeah you can put your backpack back there too i appreciate it sorry about that approach i don't know what the hell i'm doing it's all right it was it was an interesting bullwin daniel by the way if i didn't formally introduce myself i'm daniel i'm it was nice meeting you guys you like it yeah hey man it's not too hard to go a few hours without having anything interesting happen or anything to get the old blood pumping real good you know what i mean so i stuck my hands up because i didn't want to scare you when you pulled over oh no no you're that wasn't a traditional stop to say the least so don't feel bad so2t9 didn't already know um she did want to pass on her good nights and let's use and stuff like that okay and she understands that i don't i didn't tell her where you're staying because like i said i'm trying to keep you guys away from each other for tonight say that again i didn't i just told you that you were going to a hotel okay so um like i said it's my request not legally obligated to hold to it but i want you guys to take some time away from each other because it will make a world of difference oh you're not in any trouble you got handcuffs on i didn't tell you that i'm taking you to jail no i told you i'm taken to the hotel so like i said my main concern i told her to go take a shower like i told you to because she seems a lot like my wife and things that really works for my wife is when she gets stressed out to go take a long hot shower so i gave her a place to go where she can get a hotel room or not a hotel room but um get a shower tonight for like four or five bucks really cheap so no problem they do work on here i've got quite a few like i said my wife has really really bad bad anxiety and she takes medication for it daily and sometimes it's just not enough sometimes it builds up and it happens i mean i think well i will say this when my wife got put onto medication within a week i saw a complete turnaround in her attitude her demeanor i mean she wasn't nearly as aggressive or angry or anything like that it was it was a considerable difference in her day-to-day life it made her quality of life better even you know what i mean and it's made my quality of life a lot better too because i don't have her being as stressed i know that i five and a half years of marriage i know it's not very long but at the same time you learn a lot in the first five years how long you guys been together uh i would i would say well we've known each other since the start of high school but you know in our relationship three years wow i used to i used to drive a truck i used to be a commercial motor vehicle driver you know the big trucks and i took my wife with me and we would easily spend a couple months on end without going home or anything like that being cooped up in a little eight by eight cage is what i called it because you didn't have any time to yourself so to speak you didn't have time to you know you're going through arizona you can't just turn off the road and go see the grand canyon or anything like that so whatever you do like i'm trying to paint or something or well that was one of the major advantages of having her with me was i could say hey i'm hungry can you get me something to eat she was able because i was driving and she wasn't she was able to go back get into the cooler make us lunch or whatever you know so there was that as an advantage i've lived here i'm just shy of two years living out here but my grandfather's lived out here for like 40. so i've been through here a couple of times but you know growing up in california have you ever been there yeah yeah um i love the i love driving the one i absolutely love it but we're really looking forward to getting back there it's beautiful here but there's definitely come from like new york and meet on the appalachian trail yeah trees and waterfalls and rivers when you come here and it's gone well if you hit the one if you take the 80 across to get into california takes you up over donner pass and into sacramento it's not any different at all but you said you're going to be going up to oregon to see her grandmother or her grandmother's friend so you'll be probably excuse me you're probably coming down the five you won't be able to tell the difference between california and oregon up there yeah except for the fact that there's going to be a sign that says welcome to california but at the same time since you're gonna be coming from the east side of oregon you're gonna be driving through oregon and going there's no difference between utah it's actually desert in the south east corner of oregon it's a lot of high desert atmosphere like what this is it's not the red rock or anything like that but it's just there's nothing out there for 120 miles it seems like what was your favorite part parks look if you don't hit sequoia national park while you're in california you are doing yourself a disservice if you don't go and see yosemite while you're in california you're doing yourself food i regret not being there it's like coming to utah you come here with the intention of one or two days and then it turns into a week you're like well what happened to the time yeah trust me i get it building the band was supreme just because the nissan century if you tried to camp out somewhere if you can't really sleep over walmart type situations yeah now it's all beyond land and it's wherever you want watch them shooting it's signs but yeah sorry my radio was going off but uh no sequoia national park there is nothing like it gotta see the general sherman tree you gotta go and see uh moral rock and climb to the top you like hiking it's about a mile and a half hike well worth it awesome gotta do it um it's really really cheap for their tent sites up there do you have a national park service packs perfect the dream is ninety dollars once it's like you go to three parks exactly well the other thing of it is with that drive if you go through yosemite you'll drop down into fresno and then you'll turn off to go to uh kings canyon national park if you drive through kings canyon national park the road literally takes you through through to sequoia national park and the king's canyon is actually bigger than the grand canyon yeah i'm dead serious i'm dead serious and it is a sight to behold i'll tell you what and then yeah it takes you straight into sequoias and then when you get into um i think they call it this i think they call it sierra highway still up there but you'll take that down and you'll pop up into a town called three rivers it's where i'm from three rivers yep so it wasn't terribly far right uh my house i think the furthest i lived away from it was like 12 miles from the entrance i just hope you don't get motion sickness because it's it's i think i counted it out to like 32 hairpin turns and it's about 25 miles an hour the whole way up and down it's very very slow it takes about an hour to travel at 30 miles 35 miles whatever it is but it's worth it oh yeah we got we're going to come in here we're going to come back tyson yep officer robbins phil called for me he did yes this is brian laundry all right so he's going to get you all set up with your hotel room and he's going to take care of it from here all right all right and like i said just remember my requests i think it'll make a big difference in you guys the next couple weeks the very least i really appreciate it thank you so much for everything no problem it's nice to meet you ryan nice to meet you