You had no right. >> When you're asked to leave, you have to leave. >> You had no right to put your hands on me. >> Officers respond to a domestic disturbance at an apartment complex after a man reports a heated argument with the mother of his child, claiming she spat on him and shoved him during the fight. By the time police arrive, tensions are already running high. She's right here. >> Me and my my my son's mom was having an altercation. >> Okay, that's pretty much it. You guys love together? >> We Yeah, we we stay. Her mom stay over here. I brought her up to her mom's spot because she asked to come to her mom's spot. >> And then she changed her mind after, you know, had me going around uh taking little man to get diapers, etc., etc. And I told her from the jump before we got over here that I don't think it's a good idea you go to your grandma's spot because it's late. And I told her if I take you over there, you going to have to find your way back over there because I'm suggesting that it's it's not a good idea. Like if you go over there, you're going to have somebody over here from over here bring you back. I'm not coming over there. And I brought her over here. She changed her mind. She didn't want to go no more. So I came to her mom, you know, uh uh uh knocked over there and was, you know, I've been coming to her mom about this several time asking for help. So, I came over there, asked for help, was like, "Yo, you need to tell your daughter this because she's wasting my gas. I told her it wasn't a good idea to come here." She had me come here and now she don't want to she don't want to, you know what I'm saying? She don't want to get or be over here no more. After I told her it wasn't a good idea. So, it was just like now you messing with my time, my patience, all of that. >> Besides the spinning, anything physical? >> Nah, nothing physical. Like, soon as she sped on me, yeah, I spazzed as far as like, why the [ __ ] you spitting on me, etc., etc. My mom got in the way and was you not hitting my daughter? I didn't have no intention of hitting her. I was just upset that she sped on me. And that's when her mom was like, "Oh, I'm telling them that you hit me. >> Why would I hit you? Why would I hit you if I came to you for help?" >> It don't make no sense. Of course, she's on her daughter's side cuz as soon as you know her daughter spat on me, she got in the way. She instead of telling her daughter, "Why did you do that?" She got in the way and was defending her daughter. So, I spaz on her, too. Like, you not you're not going to even disappoint your daughter for doing something so disrespectful like that. So I sp on both of them and I was on my way and that's when >> Before continuing their investigation, officers conduct a quick pat down on the man for safety. >> You mind if uh I check you for any weapons? >> I don't have no weapon on me, sir. Let me just >> remote control. >> Honestly, I just told him I had something to do. So, if we can make this as quick as possible, I would like to get out of here. You guys could run my name, etc., etc. >> But here's the thing. >> Because I I understand. >> So, what's going to happen? Just out of here. >> Yes. Well, they're they're talking to her story. I'm getting your story and they're figuring out. I just came here just to help out. >> Wait. No. No. Stop. >> Stop. Take a deep breath. Take a deep breath. Take a breath. >> Take a deep breath. >> I don't want the kids to come out. >> Take a deep breath. Okay. >> I don't want the kids to come out. Okay. >> I need you to relax. [Music] >> Kier. Kier, relax. You got to make it where it's relaxed. >> Okay. >> Mom, please. >> Just go to the car. >> Hey, I'll get I'll get your car. >> What What's your number again? >> Hey, we'll call her. I'll give you >> Yeah, I got her. Come on. cuz I got to get out. All right. >> Stop. Please stop. I can't move my son. >> Stop. Please stay on this. Please. >> I didn't touch him. I know. I know. I have a seat right here. Please listen to me. >> Sit down. Sit down. >> Please listen to me. The woman, clearly upset, is handcuffed and becomes increasingly distraught, pleading to see her son and begging officers to let her go. >> Can you please listen to me? Can you please listen to me? I just want to get my stuff and I'll leave. Can I please stand up? >> Have a seat for now. >> Yeah. >> Diego. >> No. Can I please get shoes? >> We'll get you some shoes. >> Oh, I can't survive. >> I can't survive this >> for my ID. >> Where's your ID? >> In my pocket. Okay, just stand right here. Separate >> can't survive. >> Widen your legs. >> I can't survive, dear. >> Separate your feet. >> I don't know what that means. >> Widen your legs further apart. There you go. >> I just have my ID. >> My phone. [Applause] >> Miss. If you have anything else on >> No, I don't have a bra on. >> I'm not violent. >> You're fine. You're fine. >> Please have a seat right here for me for a sec. >> Please stop. >> Have a seat. >> Have a seat. >> But I can't survive. Dear, >> you're fine. Have a seat for me. You're going to get rid of me. >> No, you're fine. Just have a seat. Slide into the car. Okay. >> Can I please get shoes? Please >> sit in the car. >> Despite the emotional scene, officers remain calm, listening carefully to both sides while trying to keep the situation from escalating further. >> Where's the victim? You got >> Yeah, I'll do all that. Make it easy. All right. Hey, look at me. >> Take a deep breath. We'll go talk through this. Okay. >> Listen. I just I just got here. Okay. I just got here. >> Please. I can't survive. Can I pay you, please? >> I just got here. Okay. Hold on. Let's just take a deep breath for me for a second. Okay. >> What's your name? >> Please. My name is K Martin. >> Cam. >> Kiara. >> Kiara. Okay. Ki. Just take a deep breath for me real quick. Okay. I just got here and now I know that you're handcuffed and I think they're being did they say you're being arrested? >> Did they say what porn? >> No. >> No. What happened today? Did you get in a fight with somebody all day, every day, all the time? Why is it >> uh he's already working on all the paperwork? >> Yeah, you didn't have a statement. >> Okay. Hold on. >> Or let's just do homework. >> Okay. >> My son. >> What's your son's name? I need to see my son. What's >> your son's name? >> My mom. >> Does your mom live here? >> My grandma does. >> Your grandma does? And your mom is with your son? >> Yeah. >> And your son's a good hand. Okay. >> Okay. Hold on. I'm We're going to talk through this together. Okay. Cuz I want you to handcuff me. >> I'll listen. But I want to see my son. >> You're not coming back out of handcuffs. Okay. >> Why? >> You guys got in a fight today. >> He hits me. Why is he not in trouble? >> I don't know. Okay. I don't know. Okay. I'm just talking to you. Trying to make sure that you're breathing. You're okay. back. >> Why? Why is that the law? Why? As soon as you guys do that, I can't get out. Why? Why? I have $75. Can I get you guys that? >> No, please. >> Don't look like that, please. >> Huh? >> That doesn't work like that. Have you been arrested before? >> No. >> No. Have you ever had any criminal history at all? >> No. I'm scared. >> Has he ever been arrested before? For what? >> Domestic violence. >> Against who? >> Me. She insists the man has hurt her in the past and questions why he isn't in handcuffs, too. Officers acknowledge her concerns, but focus on diffusing the situation rather than rushing to judgment. >> How long ago was that last time? >> I didn't call the >> You didn't call? >> No. >> So, so how did he get arrested if you guys didn't call? >> The other times I didn't call. >> Okay. You didn't call. So, he's never been arrested. >> He has. Good. I got I've got some in the back seat. >> Can I please see my son? >> Step out real quick. >> Why? >> We're just going to move you into the separate car. >> Can I please >> let us get the car number? You want to go with >> No, I don't have nothing. >> You don't have a cell phone? >> No. >> We're going to walk over to this. >> Can I see my phone? Let me get you in the car. >> Do you think her story holds up or is this just an attempt to gain sympathy? Let us know what you think in the comments. Tensions run high at a local school when a frustrated parent refuses to leave after a disagreement with staff. Here's how it unfolds. >> You had no right. >> When you're asked to leave, you have to leave. >> You had no right to put your hands on me. >> If you don't, >> did I hit you? >> Did I try to hit you? Did I even put my hands up to hit you? >> No. No. >> We go. It's fine. >> Did you leave? I know. >> God. And even better, the sergeant >> God does have it. >> And that right there work >> it it's on. >> So why you hit me? Why you push me like that? >> When you're asked to say, >> I don't care. It doesn't matter. Freedom of speech. I can say what I want to say. And all the mother sitting up there, open their mouth. So I hope it was worth it cuz you had no right to put your hands on me like you did. >> So sorry, just back off. No, no, no, no, no. >> Okay. >> I came here Friday. >> I'm going to go 10:15 with her when gets here, though. >> My baby ain't been to school for a week and a half. I had a meeting with me. I told her. She told me she was going to call me back >> Friday. I talked to her. Me and her talking. She never called me. My baby going to miss a whole week and a half, a week and a day out of school. So, I come in here and I'm talking to her. I told her, "Y'all just with the I say that, right?" She gets mad. She calls him. He come in there. Like I told him, you don't know what happened. You don't know what's going on. >> The principal, Miss Brown, whoever tells you. I said, "You ain't you don't know what's going on." Right. >> Are you talking or you going? >> I was talking loud. Whatever. >> We was in the room, but she walked out the room when she called him. Right. Okay. He tells me to leave. >> No, I didn't. >> You asked me to leave. I said >> the principal asked her to leave and then I asked her to leave. >> So, what did you do to me? And then you she didn't she refused to leave. She stood there on her phone. >> So I pushed you out the door. >> You pushed me, man. You there pushed me. >> It's on It's It's on camera. >> Camera. That man pushed me like I was nobody. He fire hugging me and throwing me and I couldn't put my head. >> She passionately explains her side of the story, arguing that the officer's use of force was unnecessary and disrespectful. >> My hands just like that. You know what I'm saying? The way he did me was up and I he got that body cam. I want y'all to run because he had to use the force that he did. >> I want >> So when they when the principal asked you to leave, why did he leave? >> Who? >> Because she was waiting on Mr. Henry to come. >> Who's that? >> The other man. Some other guy. >> I don't know what he is. >> He is a success post. But she said no meeting with Mr. Henry. Nothing. >> Because why? >> It doesn't matter. >> You shouldn't have put your hands on him. It's for you. Listen. sports. I understand you can use force. What he did? >> What I'm asking is this. >> What did he do was up? What he did, sir. And guess what? >> I'm going higher. He got the body cam on. I had my hands up the whole time. I ain't put my hands on him or nothing. He didn't have to use that force. He grabbed me, threw me out the door two times. >> So when they ask you to leave, repeat. Why didn't you just walk out? >> Listen, what you going to do with the truck? >> I'm asking you. I did. I was gonna leave, but I wasn't gonna leave cuz he said get out. The way he told he told me to move like I was a No way. No, >> way. You didn't like the way that? >> Yeah. He didn't have to do that. What you did? Tell him what you said. Get out. >> So, so you were going to stand your ground and tell >> I ain't going to say I'm talking to her. This is something that he don't even know nothing about. That's the thing that get me. Sir, they have me. >> You're not letting me talk. >> Go ahead. >> I'm asking I'm trying to simp question. >> What was the question? So the question is is two people asked you to leave and you didn't like the way they said it. So you were going to stand your ground until what happened? What happened? >> It wasn't nothing. I was leaving. I was going to leave. But he come he put his hands on me. >> So you felt like he put his hands on you too soon. >> He had no right to put his hands on me at all with that. >> I will. >> When you do that your side of the story? >> My side of the story? Yeah. He said she said he said get out. Y'all felt some type of way about that. How you going to talk to me like that? ain't no dog. >> That was Miss Brown. >> No, him. >> Him? >> Him? >> What did Miss Brown say, >> man? She ain't M Brown. She ain't even saying nothing. She sitting up there. >> Even though officers stay calm and genuinely try to hear her out, she remains defiant. >> It's not nothing funny about it. I come up here to the school. >> Why hasn't your child been >> You tell me. >> I'm asking you. Don't know. >> Yeah, you tell me. >> He went to the school. He came to the school. He got in a little trouble. >> What was the trouble? uh he had got in some trouble last year. So they sent him to another school which was the alternative school. The school released him from the school and they put him that he was supposed to be coming back to this school. They really don't want him at the school. Okay, I get it. >> But my baby ain't >> going to let her complete her case to the sergeant. >> I came in here cuz that's what the paper said. The school that he phoned in. This the school that he was owned in. But this was the school that he got in trouble. >> She about to catch a fing. >> Some came up. They was trying to get him to chalk another car. >> Mhm. >> You want me to hold on or >> Oh, Jesus. Y, >> what? >> I ain't do nothing that bad. You trespass me. But you put your hands on me, man. The way you put your hands on me, you going to get what's coming to you, man. God going to fix that thing. Y'all is so corrupt, man. You had no right putting your hands on me like you did. throw at me like I ain't throwing me like I ain't nobody. >> But for you to put your hands on me like you did and you think that funny. Okay. >> Who's laughing? >> Man, you told me to get out. >> Defending her son and venting about how both the school and police have treated her. >> You told me to get out like I was a dog. And I say, "No, >> you grabbed me. You threw me out the door. You threw me. And I'm 250, man. You took me like I was a piece of paper and threw me. I had my hands off the whole time. I never hit you and nothing. >> I didn't see you." >> Unusual for me. I'm telling you, it's unusual for me. >> I'm glad you trained yourself. >> You had no right to do that to me, man. Period. And you know you getting, but you can get away. You think you're getting away. You might get away, but you won't get by. You might get by, but you won't get away cuz don't go high on this one. Putting your hands on me like you did. >> It's all good. >> I won't go to God. >> It's all What you say? >> I said I wouldn't go to God. >> Why not? Even what >> the deal with you >> both ways. >> This is I can say my woman said my mouth. I ain't disrespecting my body. I told her she would she know she did. She a principal and she doing what? So I came up here wondering why my baby ain't in school. I don't know if you ain't got no kids, but I got mine and they need an education. My back at 14, he had issues, but he trying to do right. Stop looking at what a behind and look what they doing ahead. And you put your hands on me. You literally just did me any kind of way. And you know you did. And if they don't do nothing about it, I'm going higher because you had no right to do that. >> Why are you still yelling? >> Because I'm upset. Okay. An old grown adult. Are you able to calm down? >> Well, okay, that's fine. >> Thank you. >> Okay. >> As she keeps resisting instructions to leave, officers are ultimately forced to step in and take action. Okay, we're going to take you down to Brooklyn. >> For what? >> Don't turn away from me. >> What you taking me to do? >> Relax, dude. For trespass. >> Okay, you can trespass me, but you taking me jail for trespassing. >> Just for Yes. Why? You ain't take him to jail for putting his hands on me. >> I watched the video. >> Okay. So, you think how he put his hands on me? >> I did. >> Why? >> I'm going to grab your phone. >> He refused to listen to >> Okay, but this the thing. Listen, listen. This the thing. He >> She said leave. Okay. >> He didn't But listen, but he didn't say go ahead and Come on, man. These things too tight, man. >> Okay, we'll get you another side. >> You can adjust them. >> What you taking to jail for? >> I just told you. >> Trespassing. >> Trespass. >> And what? properly resist. >> Resist him for what? >> To resist him for what you were doing. >> I didn't come up. But he put his hands on me, man. >> He had to put his hands on me cuz you wouldn't leave. >> Okay. But come on, man. Listen. Come on. Okay. Where my body? >> We won't know that. Well, he won't know that. >> This [ __ ] crazy. >> I don't know me that much. It's Mr. >> But I'm just saying what you charging me with a m I ain't doing that. You could just gave me a verbal warning. >> Well, I just explained. >> Okay, but why you taking me to jail, man? Okay. >> Trust me. How was the trespass warning? >> That's not a trespassing warning. >> Listen. Okay. But he say leave, but the officer have to trespass me. Once the officer trespass me. >> That's how I feel. So if I tell you to leave and you refuse, >> okay, >> listen to me. >> But he could have still just got me a citation. >> Okay, listen to me. >> And he don't put his hands on me like that. No. Listen to me. Okay. >> He's a school resource officer. So he has to maintain the security of this school. Visibly upset, she argues that a simple citation or verbal warning would have been enough, insisting her behavior didn't justify being arrested. >> You want to let me go? >> I'm not I'm not I'm not agreeing or disagree with what he did. We are where we are. What I'm saying is if he told you to leave, that's it. >> Right there. Boom. Okay. Yes, sir. I'll deal with it later. That's how you handle it. What you not listening to me. You're not listening to me. There's cause and effect. All right. He told you to leave. And because you didn't leave, he had to effectively remove you. >> That's how that goes. You can't just say, "No, I ain't leaving." That's You can't do that. How you think? >> Did you see how he with his hands on him? You got >> What's the alternative? >> Could you sit there and argue with you all day? >> No. Listen, >> you got to go. >> Look, I ain't going nowhere. >> I'm not worried about you. >> Look, I'm just saying. Why you got these damn so tight? >> I don't want you to fall. >> Listen, I ain't going to fall. What I'm saying is this. Listen. Okay, I did it. But the way he put his hands on me >> because that's enough. >> That's enough for my punishment. >> Because you refused to do what? >> Okay. Okay. Okay. Don't come back to the school. Okay. That's fine. >> What we're trying to avoid in the future is blowouts out of school. >> And there ain't going to be no blowout to have functions with children. >> That's true. >> Right. >> Mhm. >> So, we have to be able to control our emotions to where we can have conversation. You may not like the other person has to say, >> but we still have to not have a blow up. And if they ask you to leave, just leave. Okay. >> Okay. All right. But for right now, it's a misdemeanor charge. Maybe you'll work yourself out in court. All right. You're calming down now. Okay. Let's keep that going. Let's keep it just the misdemeanor and we'll be done with >> my thing is. >> So, he ain't doing that wrong. The way he put his hands on me and I had my hands up in there. >> You're refusing to leave. Now has the right to put his hand on. I control you and make sure you leave. >> Control me? Yeah. If I had my hands, if I was trying to fight back, I did. >> But you refused to leave. I told somebody to take you on custody. >> From the back of the patrol car, she makes several phone calls to family members trying to explain what just happened. >> I need my phone. >> I got it right here, dude. Like I said, it won't have to drop fall out your hand. All right. >> Call uh I need to call um one more number. Hey, Ma. Hey. They um I came to the school, had a little issue with the principal in school. They told me to leave. Me and August. Then I'll talk to you later about it. But they taking me to Orange Road. >> Stop lying, >> man. Lying. So I don't play games like that. You know I'm playing. >> You just like a Tik T. >> Where' you tell him? Can you tell I'm going to jail? >> Trespass. >> Let me talk to the police. >> He right there. >> I'm here, ma'am. >> This is unreal. Yeah, I know, right? >> For real. FaceTime me so I can see my honey. >> FaceTime, >> girl. Can you hit FaceTime on that? Honey, >> ain't even funny. >> Now, what you can do is come get me. >> Despite her protests, she ends up charged with resisting without violence and trespassing on school property after being formally warned to leave. Comment your take. Like, subscribe to Badge Truth, and support our mission on Patreon for behind the scenes access.