money I'm arriving. I got a vehicle in the driveway that someone's backing. from you. >> Hey officer. >> What's going on? >> How are you? >> What happened? >> I'm I need this lady removed from my property. >> Okay. >> She's caused a lot of problems. >> What's going on? Can you can you step out of the car so we can talk? What happened with you? >> I went upstairs. I asked them if the little boy needed a bottle. He took the bottle and almost broke his coffee table and he was like, "Ask Charmaine." I was like, "Okay." And then he was like, "Get the [ __ ] out of my house. Get the [ __ ] out of my house." And I was like, "Can you move so I could go?" Cuz he keeps going like this and like he's going to hit me. >> Okay. >> So I'm like, "Okay. Like can you move so I can go around?" And then it he's like I start going down the stairs and he's just right behind me. Like he's about to hit me. We're at the bottom. He's going like this, "Get the [ __ ] out. Get the [ __ ] out." I'm like, "Okay. Like what am I supposed to do at this point? This is everyday at 4:00. This happens everyday. During the day he acts normal because he's not that drunk. 4:00 he's belligerent drunk. >> been drinking? >> Drinking and smoking weed. >> Okay. >> In front of the kids. >> So then what happened? >> With his pipe upstairs he's smoking weed all the time. It's insane. CPS is involved. >> Yeah, I know. We've been here quite a lot. So so what then what happened? He followed you out the stairs down the stairs and he was yelling at you. >> Yeah. He just followed me down the stairs and then he like slammed the door again like he did yesterday and then like closed the garage on me. >> Okay. Did he push you at all? Did he put his hands on you? >> No, but he >> Okay. And what happened with his wife? >> I heard him on the phone telling a family member that he threw her down on the floor and that he didn't give a [ __ ] >> Okay. >> care if I hit her. And then she called me like let me tell you. >> Let me tell you. Can you let's get an accurate cuz she went all the way to >> Well, she she got an apartment in to get away from this. He doesn't know that. >> What of car does she have? She has an M3, a blue M3. You'll hear it. But she called me. I think it was this call. Let me see how long it was. Yeah, I believe it was this. >> 5:47. So about 10 minutes ago? >> 5:47. No, wait. Yeah, yeah, cuz I was still at gymnastics with her. >> You have your video right there and you just so we can know who we're who we're talking to. >> Yeah. >> We're probably going to have to do a report for what's going on here. This is like I said, it's been an ongoing issue. Are the kids okay? >> I don't >> Are they inside? >> get upset when he's yelling like that. And then he grabs them by like one arm and stuff and he just like tells them to shut up constantly. >> Are Did they witness anything? >> The kids? >> Yeah. >> They're They're babies. >> They were They were there? >> Yeah, they were there. They witness it every single time. They're They're babies though. There's a 9-month-old and a 2 and 1/2-year-old. >> All right, just just hang out here for a second. I'm going to see what's going on inside. You can close your window, sir. This is not all right. So what's going on? >> You've gotten a bad haircut tonight. I have I haven't even been able to comb my hair. >> What's going on? Is that it? >> Yeah, I'm going to shake your hand if you want to. Let's go >> What's going on? >> So >> Come here. >> Uh Officer Rondo um as you can see the kids are totally fine, right? >> Well, I see one kid. Where's the other one? There they Okay. So what's going on? >> Um so my wife has left since uh January 28th. She's not present in the house. And uh you kind of know the story about me that um I have a very heavy-duty job. >> Okay. >> Right? >> know what I don't know what you do for work. I know I've been here This is my third time here now, but >> Okay. So this girl, right? She's causing a lot of problems, this babysitter. She um what's it called? Today she took my daughter to the gym or whatever, which is totally fine, right after school. No problems there. But then she didn't even tell me that she was leaving. I'm downstairs working and my son I I I have that baby monitor over there that you see. She didn't even give me that. So, like randomly after my work meeting, I went upstairs and I checked. My son is awake. And there's nobody adhering to him. >> Okay. >> Or any attention. So, what is that? That's negligence. >> What Oh, it's not negligence. What happened today? >> Nothing really happened today besides the fact that she just like flipped out on me. There was no like >> Nothing. >> touch anybody? >> No, sir. Not at all. Nothing. >> So, when you say everything it got a little out of control, what what does that mean? Can you elaborate on that? >> that means like she was cussing in front of my kids or whatever. Yesterday, this is babysitter did the same thing. And then I hate it when people cuss in front of my kids. >> Okay, so what are we doing? What are we doing to rectify this issue here that we've had for a long time now? Are we doing anything? >> It's a divorce. But then again, this nanny or whatever that we have or whatever, she's not working out for us. I cannot work involved. >> There is a lawyer involved. >> And what are the lawyers saying? >> The lawyers are saying to be calm, cool, collective or whatever. Everything will soon pass. But with with stuff like this or whatever, I have no clue what's going on. >> What happened today? Anything between you and your wife? >> No. >> Nothing happened >> My wife just came in. It was just like a brief like blah blah blah this, blah blah blah that, and my wife left. >> When was that? >> That was today around like 5:00. >> Did your wife just leave here? >> Who was that? That's my wife. >> Did your wife just leave here? >> Yeah. >> Okay, why did she just abruptly leave? >> Because she always does that. As soon as we get in an argument, that's what she's been advised to do. >> Okay. >> [snorts] >> Okay, so we're going to get her side of the story, see what's going on. Um I mean, listen, you guys got to do something here, man. >> Which I'm trying. >> Because, you know what's going to happen? Someone's going to get arrested again. >> I I can't get arrested again. There's nothing that's been happening. >> I'm telling you that listen to me. Someone's going to bound to get arrested sooner or later again. >> I agree with you, sir. >> This is a very toxic, okay? This is a very toxic situation for the kids, for you, for her, okay? So, something needs to be figured out. It's going to It's going to keep happening like this. You're going to You're going to call the police station 400 times. She You guys are going to be uncooperative. You know, you're going to start yelling, she's going to start yelling. You don't like the babysitter, she doesn't like the babysitter. We You know, you guys can't live like this. >> Sir, there's something that's been happening though. I've been the sole caretaker of the kids after 6:00 p.m. And I need a little bit of help because I often have work at night as well. >> Okay. >> I just, you know, it's hard for me to have one kid, feed him milk, and be typing on a keyboard at the same time. I need a little bit of help. >> Okay, bud. >> I don't need the negligent mother. That's why this keeps repeating. >> Yeah, but what I'm trying to say is you guys don't get along. How do you expect to >> That's fine if we don't get along. We can have marriage counseling or therapy or whatever we need. >> Yeah, you're going to have to. >> Exactly. So, there's a solution to it, but if she doesn't want to do it, then let it be. >> Yeah, but What I mean what? What I'm trying to get out of this okay? >> Do you mind if I smoke this? There's no smell. Actually, you know what? Let me be professional. Let me just put that away. >> It's your own home. You can >> No, no, no. I I don't want to do anything. There's nothing in my pockets, just so you know. Nothing, okay? >> I don't see you as a threat. >> Okay, thank you. Thank you. >> Okay. If you want to smoke your jewel >> No, I don't. I don't. >> As long as I calm you down, then so be it. I'm trying to get down to the bottom of why the police were called today saying people are getting thrown down the stairs and people are yelling and screaming. Okay, that's why we're here. >> People getting thrown down the stairs? >> the police. >> She did. The babysitter did. >> That's why I'm trying to ask you if it got physical or not because we got a report that somebody was thrown down the stairs. It's a simple question. I asked you that, you told me no. That's why we're waiting for your wife to get back to see if she has any any injuries or any complaints, okay? And then we go from there. >> Okay, so officer, I appreciate your investigation. There has been nothing physical. There has been nothing with me throwing anybody down the stairs. If I threw somebody down the stairs or whatever, don't you think they'd be in a little bit of pain? >> Yeah. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. >> So then why is she lying and doing defamation of character? >> Listen to me. That's civil, you know that's civil. Defamation of character is not a criminal complaint. >> I know, but still it's wrong, right? >> I guess it's wrong. You got to speak to your lawyer then. Listen to me. Can I give you a little advice? >> If I >> If I was going through with a divorce, I would not be living with my ex-wife or wife. >> I don't want to. >> It's It's It's not good for the kids. It's not good for your well-being or her her well-being. We're here every week, right? >> Officer Leto, if she runs out, right? If she runs out or whatever, isn't it my job as a father to take care of the kids? >> 100% absolutely. >> So, what am I supposed to do? >> You guys got to be cordial and figure out how you're going to handle child custody. >> She doesn't She doesn't do anything. >> Well, you guys got to find a way because it's getting to the point where we're here all the time and you got to think about what it's doing to your kids. >> She I'm very worried about that. That's the number one thing I'm worried about. >> Okay, then you going to have to contact your lawyer. >> I didn't make her her snack straight. >> As you should. >> Can you come with me? >> Hold on. Hold on. >> Let's just Let's just talk to us here. >> You're allowed to put on >> Sure, you want to fix something? >> Sure, yeah. Where is it? Here we go. Sorry. Better? >> Yeah, much better. Listen, as long as no one got hurt today, okay? We're just here to keep the peace. No arguments, that's fine with me. We can't We can't start having physical altercations. I think that's what happened or anything threatening. Okay, we can't be having that. So, if you guys are going to live together, okay, amongst each other, you listening to me? >> Yes. >> If you're going to live amongst each other, okay, and take care of the children and work from home, you have to figure something out. >> I don't want to live with her. I just want to make sure my kids are okay. That's all I care about. >> Well, I Listen, I can't make that solution. >> not in the house, I have to be here and take care of the kids. I can't leave a 1-year-old or a 2-year-old and a what's-it-called 9-month-old alone in the house. It doesn't work like that. >> I agree. >> So, I have to be here when the babysitter leaves. >> Is the babysitter leaving? >> Huh? >> Is the babysitter leaving? >> I want her to leave badly. >> Okay, this is your house. You tell her to leave. It's It's not >> No, but she doesn't leave. That's the problem, and she's calling the cops on me. You guys didn't need to be here today. >> We only come when we're called. Okay, we were called here, all right? >> But I didn't do anything. There was no physical altercation, no nothing. I'm just tired of her lazy work and lying to my wife, and I'm tired of my wife being negligent with the kids. >> Okay. >> And all this better not go to Dices, please. Is it? >> It's a verbal argument. >> Right. It was a verbal argument, and I'm tired of her uh >> escalated any further. >> No, sir. >> No, there's nothing against the law regarding a verbal argument. But like I said, if someone lays their hands on somebody or threatens somebody, it's different. >> Rest assured, rest assured, none of that has happened at all, whatsoever. I've been very careful with that because I don't want to go to the police station again. I just got through with a case or whatever, and I'm very concerned about my job because I have to be able to provide for my kids. >> You want to go talk to her with this? >> I'm good. >> Okay, that's fine. >> I'm so sorry about that. >> All right, we're audio video recording as you know. >> Okay. >> Uh so, what happened? >> Nothing. I came home to help him with the kids. >> All right, you wait down here, okay? >> Yeah, he Well, can I >> Can I It's kind of cold. Let me go by the door. >> Okay. >> I came down I came from like gym to help him with the kids because I knew he was all alone, and then he took my daughter around 3:00 to the gym. She does everything or something. I came home. He was belligerent. My baby was crying. I was going to feed the baby. Then he threw the baby at me. Also, he pushed me down the stairs. Or actually not pushed, but he threw me against the table. >> You said he >> And then I left. >> Okay. >> And I have a apartment. >> ago How long How long ago did this all happen? We're trying to get get a time frame. >> 4:30. 4:35 Actually, 4:45. >> 4:45? >> Yeah. >> So, about an hour ago? >> Yes. >> Okay. A little more than an hour ago. Are you hurt? >> Phil, you're staying, right? Are you staying? >> No, I'm going to go. I'm going to send him to the hospital. I want to make sure he's all right. >> Okay, I'll call you. >> All right. >> Okay. >> Guys, let's let's Okay, so he pushed you where which stairs did he push you down? The uh >> push me down the stairs. Like in the living room, there's a sofa he's sitting by you know, by the window, and he pushed me Yeah, and then he spit on me, too. And then he was recording >> Okay. Were you injured at all? >> No, but he pushed me down the stairs yesterday. But my butt swollen butt. >> reported? >> No. >> Okay. Does it still hurt now? >> No. >> No. Okay. So Now, you're not living here anymore? >> At night I am not, but during the day I still own this house with him. So I cannot legally leave the house. >> Okay. >> And the CPS is involved and they know that as long as one child one adult is here is not considered abandonment because he's trying to prove that I abandoned the kids. >> Yeah. >> And also I have a history of mental disorder. So he's trying to prove that I'm mentally unfit so he can take the prop like the house and the kids. >> So that's why for my own sanity and I have a high stressful job, I cannot [ __ ] up at work. >> Okay. >> So I stay at like 10:00 or 9:30 when the baby goes to sleep I go to the >> You leave to to your apartment. Okay. Yeah, as long as one you know as long as someone is here watching the kids, you know. >> No, I was told that. >> between everything that's been going on it's best for one of you not for you guys not to be living together. >> The key doesn't move out. He's from Chicago. I told him to move out. He works from home. He can easily go to Chicago and work there. >> Yeah. >> He is not doing that. That's why I have to get a TRO. No, I cannot. >> this house. You guys are going to have to go through the courts to get the divorce. >> Can I get a TRO against him today? >> to file for a TRO? Okay. We'll we'll we'll take you inside and we'll uh we'll start the application process. >> And I'm not going to I'm going to get a permanent. >> Okay. That's that's So we'll handle the application. You'll have to go to court to speak to the judge about getting it to transferred into a final. Okay? But you're not injured right now. You don't need any ambulance medical attention. Okay? All right. Just uh >> How fast can I get a TRO? >> We'll take you We'll take you inside. We'll get uh >> We did it last time. It's a it's a whole process. >> the judge and then and then uh it's up to the judge to grant it or not. Okay? >> Okay. >> Is he going to remain here with the children? >> I guess, but I'm going to ask the babysitter. >> Now, she she mentioned that he may have been drinking and >> Yeah, he drinks every day. >> You know, if he's if he's intoxicated >> He drinks every day. >> Okay. >> So, maybe if you can remove him, maybe he needs to go to mental evaluation. Maybe you can remove him to a safe >> Has he made any statements to harm himself or others? >> No. >> Okay. >> We don't have any weapons in the house, either. >> No weapons in the house. Okay. All right. But, when you go up there, is there going to be a problem? >> No. No. I I know how to deal with him. >> All right. Well, let me go tell him. >> Okay, can I go now? >> Yeah. Sign off? >> Yeah. Okay. >> All right. She's going back in the residence. She wanted to go back inside. >> It's fine. >> Huh? >> Yeah, she's good. Okay. >> Hey, hey, hey. She's hitting me. She's hitting me right in front of you. >> go to jail? >> She's hitting me right in front of you. >> You're welcome. >> She's hitting me right in front of you. You saw that, right? I didn't do anything. >> Do you got the keys to open the door? Sorry about that. >> Wait, when she came in, she did that. My son is getting cold. >> Put your child down. Put your child down. Put your hands behind your back. >> Why? He hit me before. >> Put your hands behind your back. >> You just >> You hit him in front of us. >> Yeah, but he hit me before. >> Put your hands behind your back and stop yelling. Okay? >> [crying] >> Why would [screaming] you do that? >> Shut up. >> YOU CAN GO. >> [crying] >> I'M SORRY. >> I NEED MY LAWYER PRESENT. >> YEAH, YOU DON'T NEED A lawyer right now. You can contact him at >> No, let me get MY [ __ ] BAG. >> YEAH. >> LET ME GET MY BAG. >> STOP SCREAMING, OKAY? >> LET ME GET MY BAG. >> WHERE'S YOUR BAG? WE'LL GET IT. >> [crying] >> YOU'RE going to jail. >> And I need a [ __ ] pad. I'm bleeding. I'm bleeding. >> Come on. Let's go outside. >> Let me get [ __ ] shoes. >> WHERE ARE YOUR SHOES? >> [crying] >> I NEED MY LOWER PADS. >> OKAY. >> [crying] >> NO, YOU DON'T. WE'RE GOING TO GET YOUR BAG. >> GET ME MY BAG AND MY PAD. I CANNOT LEAVE. >> GO DOWNSTAIRS. WALK DOWNSTAIRS. Walk downstairs. >> Give me my bag. What's going to happen? You're going to arrest me and let me go, right? >> You're going to get processed for simple assault. If you resist assault, you'll be released. >> Yes, fine. >> After the judge makes his determination. >> Okay, sounds good. >> Hold on. Hold on. You have anything in your pockets? >> No. >> Okay, I'm using the back of my hand just to check your pockets, all right? >> Smell, can you get me a pad? Can you get my bag and my pad? I need pads. They're in the bathroom.