On January 10th, 2025, officers responded to a domestic complaint after a dispute over a vape. >> Yeah, I want He's very all over the place, so he's got everybody pretty shook up in here. >> Okay, does he live here? >> Um, no. But he But he comes and he'll sleep here and then he'll leave again for days and I don't come home. >> So, what do you want What do you want done? >> I don't know what what I can do. >> Right. >> I I feel like I need to leave at this point. Like, and this is my >> It's your house, yeah. Do you need >> Yes, he doesn't have anywhere to go and I'm his mom, but he's very disrespectful. >> How old is he? >> Uh, 23. >> Okay. So >> Yeah, and brother's got he's in like threatening to smash his Oculus because my 12-year-old got a hold of his vaporizer off the table. >> Do you want him So, what do what do you want done? I mean, he can be removed from the house and trespassed. Is that what you want? >> I don't know. >> Hey, how's it going? You said my mic ain't working. >> Huh? >> My mic ain't working. Can you just stand here, take your hands out of your pockets so I can talk to you? You can talk to me. Just take your hands out of your >> Don't [ __ ] talk to my ass. I ain't got nothing on me. >> Okay, well, I don't Don't reach for anything, man, okay? >> I'm not. >> Yeah, you are. Take your hands out of your pocket. >> Right now. >> You got your hands in your pocket. >> [ __ ] like show you >> No, I didn't say that. I didn't say that. >> Come over here and talk to me. What do you want? >> I just want to talk to you. >> Well, talk to my ass. I ain't moving a goddamn inch. >> What's going on? >> Nothing's going on. That little kid in there keeps stealing everyone's [ __ ] in this house. He steals cigarettes and he steals vapes and he steals this and that. I told him, "You keep stealing and I'm going to [ __ ] break your computer, kid." So, the [ __ ] of what? They They don't do nothing about it. That little kid's got crazy in this god damn room. I don't like to see my little brother doing that god damn [ __ ] >> Your brother >> need to get up. Raise my voice a little bit. I'm not going to get aggressive. >> I get it. I get it. Just when people raise their voice, they kind of get aggressive and all. >> Oh, that's as aggressive as I'm going to get as long as you don't try nothing with me. >> I'm not going to try anything with you. If if you talk with me, I'll talk with you. >> Well, that's all I had to say. >> Okay. >> I don't got another word to speak to you. >> Okay. Well, >> I won't. >> Okay. We're going to just going to wait for one other person to get here and then we'll kind of figure out what's going to happen and I'll let you know, okay? >> Well, I'm going to leave and you guys are going to >> You're detained right now. You're not going to >> I've done nothing. I'm not going to be detained. >> yes, you are, Damien. >> For what? Give me >> We had to We had to get both sides of the story and figure out We get dispatched to a domestic. >> Well, >> Okay. >> You're going to have to. [ __ ] off for detaining me. I ain't >> You're staying here, Damien. Stop. Stop. Not Stop. >> You're not going to lay a finger on me. You're going to have to if you don't stop it. Why are you doing this? >> You're going to get tased. Damien, tasing. All right, you're getting tased. >> I've done nothing. >> Damien, stop resisting. Stop resisting. You're going to get tased. Stop resisting or you're going to get tased. >> I've done literally nothing. I'd like to know what >> Turn Pull your hands behind your back. >> I'm going to sit against this print. >> No, you're not. Put your hands behind your back. One. Put your hands behind your back. >> I'll remember this, Mom. I was going to leave. I've done nothing, literally, and >> Your brother feels unsafe. Your brother called them, Damien. >> Okay. All right, you heard it all, Damien? >> Yeah, you just hurt me and I'm going to have to sue you now. >> Okay. >> Uh my chest hurts a lot. >> Okay. Take some deep breaths. You said >> It's in my chest up here. >> Okay. >> And I have pain shooting up my left arm. >> Okay. Take a deep breath. >> He was just in the hospital like a week ago. That was something I was afraid >> I had a heart attack. >> Heart okay? >> You've just triggered a heart attack. >> Okay. Can I breathe okay, man? >> You do not touch me again. Get your hand off of my goddamn back. >> Okay. >> All you and your families, I damn you to hell. Stop. >> Put that vape in my mouth, please. >> I would not. No, I'm not. We can't vape in this. Well, you just said you're going to have a heart attack, man. I don't want to give you a vape. >> I'm going to stand and see my hands. I'm going to stand. >> So, is it just regular? Just regular? Okay, sorry. >> I could have stood up and I could have done dumb things. As you can see, I could have overpowered all of you, but I wouldn't. >> I highly doubt that, buddy. >> Oh, you should see what I could have done if I was planning to hurt people. >> Okay. >> I could have very easily taken all of you on without a weapon. But I wouldn't do that. >> What do you want, dude? >> I'm literally not on anything. I had a hit of marijuana. >> That's it? >> I'm just letting you know. >> Okay. >> But because of [ __ ] like this, I'm never here and I'm pounding the streets as if I'm homeless. I'm the only one that tries to discipline these kids for doing not like that. >> I understand what you're saying. >> These kids need parented. >> Yeah. >> I wish I was here more. >> Yeah. I get that, man. Trust me, I got a little brother that's about 19 and it's free for all for him and he can do whatever he wants and, you know, that's what they don't need. >> Amen. >> Can you just start from the beginning of tonight? >> Well, we're just I've been laying in bed. I had the day off of work and he just came in and cooking some food or whatever and uh my son got a hold of his vape off the table and he got upset and told him he was going to break his computer, but he gets, you know, moments where he's yelling and screaming and stuff and my other son has psychosis. Like that's a trigger. We can't do that and then that's setting him off. >> And where is he staying at right now? >> He has been saying he's homeless. Like >> like are you letting him sleep on the couch? >> He comes in and does whatever he wants. He just comes and goes. And sometimes we don't see him for like a week and then he comes back again and then he's usually like this or what. >> So, where is he Where is he setting up camp at right now? >> I have no idea. >> Well, I mean like is he sleeping on the couch downstairs? Does he have a bag with him? >> Like he was slept in my recliner all day today and I hadn't seen him for 6 days. >> Man, just you know my my body camera's on. Could you just kind of tell me what happened tonight? >> Uh Damien was threatening to like smash something. I don't know what it was, but he was threatening He was threatening to smash everything. >> Okay. >> That's all I really know what's going on. He was just freaking me out that he was yelling like that. >> Okay. >> I thought he was going to hurt somebody. >> Okay. >> I didn't know that he wasn't going to go through with it. >> Yeah. >> I was triggered. >> Where was he at when this happened? >> I don't remember. >> Like was he out here when you were doing that? >> It started like he was sitting right there on his bed probably over there with the controller. >> Uh-huh. >> And I started getting mad at him because he Yeah, because he kept threatening to steal and smash >> my PC and my Oculus. So, I started yelling at him. >> And how was he threatening you? >> He was honestly threatening me, but he was threatening to uh and which he was going to do it right now, so >> What did he What did he say? >> Uh he was saying like I can do more damage with my pinky finger than you can with a knife because >> Okay, say that exactly to me. >> So, he wasn't actually going to do it. >> Yeah. >> We only I know he wasn't going to. He wouldn't do that. He was just trying to scare him to get him to leave. And he was saying Damien was saying he can do more to him with uh his pinky finger than with the knife. >> Okay, and how was he acting when he said >> So, he was like he was yelling out like the top of his lungs. He was like he was screaming, punching >> These kids need discipline. They think they're adults and they think that they can talk like an adult. They think they can steal and smoke cigarettes and vapes like adults and they think they won't get treated like adults and I don't mean physical like that. I mean, uh they're going to have their taken away or they're going to have their broke cuz they're stealing cigarettes and vapes and the little one at least. The other one has uh recently triggered schizophrenia this year and uh he don't do nothing anymore as far as I know. He used to steal my dad and my mom, too. My dad don't do nothing but uh marijuana when it comes to the extra stuff, but they both smoke cigarettes. And that little kid's stealing their cigarettes day and night. He's got an ashtray up right now. He denied can't do nothing about it cuz they won't discipline him. I told that little kid I'm going to come in here and I'm going to I'm not even being serious. I said I'm going to break computer. I'm going to break VR. They won't even simply take it and they yell and scream at me if I put it up somewhere I couldn't grab it and they're in here smoking cigarettes. You need to talk with that they people. You don't need to have my handcuffs. I'm talking to the original three that had me detained cuz I was going to walk and get the [ __ ] out of here when plain and simply nothing has even transpired and [ __ ] happened. You can all my I don't respect no people like you. You. >> What's going on? You have chest pain? >> Yeah, I'm all right, though. >> You're all right, though? >> Yeah, in the time being he asked me if I was injured and I was having slightly painful beatings in my chest and some pains in my arm, but I have decreased my heart rate a lot and I think I'm all right. Yes. >> Did you Did you want to tell me your side of the story of what happened? >> I already did. Are you not Am I speaking >> You were actually snorting a few minutes ago. You were snorting like a pig. >> I told you my side earlier. >> That's enough. If you're going to argue, then just be silent, okay? >> That little kid is stealing cigarettes and he's stealing vapes. And I told him about four times ago stealing my vapes and stealing cigarettes and stealing all this [ __ ] You are not going to do this I'm going to come in and I'm going to take your computer and it progressed to I'm going to break the thing and this and that and these people do not discipline these god damn children at all. And they fight with my If I god damn try, they I wish I had a place and job and I didn't have all these god damn injuries cuz I god damn near tried fight with these kids in the god damn court battle so they can turn out right. They're not going to turn out right cuz they're not parented right. >> So when he says you assaulted someone >> assaulted literally anybody. >> I'm going to explain to you what assault is versus battery cuz it sounds like you're thinking we're >> I never even assaulted anybody. I never assaulted anybody. >> Okay. Do you know what assault means? >> What? >> Do you Do you know? >> Give me the definition. >> Okay. So that's when you threaten someone's safety. It's not that you're putting hands on someone. >> When did I threaten someone's safety? >> Okay. >> I want you to tell me that. >> Got to go on both statements of what happened, okay? >> What's the other god damn statement cuz I never threatened to hurt a single person. Not once. Not even before you were here. I said you guys are lucky I wouldn't cuz I would not have had a problem with all three. >> So are you going to allow us to do any further evaluation? Okay. Well, I just need you to to sign a refusal form. Uh a refusal form and saying I came, I advised you of our concerns and the things that you're arrested >> I'm not coming back. I'm not talking to any of you again. You want to cry [ __ ] puddle crying I'm out of here. >> All right, so they're saying you I want it. I guess I'm going to the hospital. >> All right, well, well, can we walk out then to the stretcher out of the scene? >> I can drive, walk, drive to the hospital, whatever. >> That's why I just asked you to walk out to the stretcher, but you have to go I mean you're in their custody right now. >> This is your guys' fault. I've done nothing and you can all go to hell. >> So let's go ahead and walk out to the stretcher. >> You'll You'll remember this when you don't speak to my grandchildren. Have fun sucking >> If I mean if we got refused paperwork from you guys >> Actually, I'm undo me just for a half a second right here. I need to at a minimum say sorry to my father real quick. >> That's That's all your guys' >> This is your call, whatever you guys want to do. >> I mean it's your guys' call. >> We're not medical professionals. If he's refusing then give us a refused one and if he's going to the hospital then take him to the hospital. >> That we can have like we can have you sign as witnesses for him refusing. >> You're all useless. And you're all going to burn in hell with me and I'll see you there. >> Just make sure we got his stuff. I already searched it. It's the two bags in the kitchen. >> Sorry. When you say that they assaulted you, how did they assault you? Like did they hit you? >> They grabbed me and started pushing me into objects on the floor as I tried to swing at them. And they wanted to push me to the floor and threaten me with weapons. >> Do you have to have uh cards to use or advise? >> Okay, I'm going to I'm going to take this off. Just make sure we're cool on this, okay? And everything's over, okay? >> And he's going to And he's going I'm not going nothing, but we're going to court. >> Okay. All right, we're can I move you over there? Are you Are you willing to go over there? >> I'm pushing this. >> All right, let's go. >> Your hand is fine. It's not >> I believe you got your property. I don't know what else. All right, so it'll be a I'm around now. >> I didn't have anything to do with the audio or the video recording. >> All right, cool. I'll do something fun to you guys. >> The man was taken into custody and charged with child abuse.