On May 25th, 2024, officers responded after a woman allegedly refused to leave her ex-boyfriend alone. What started as a relationship dispute quickly became a tense police intervention. >> Hello, I'm Deputy Johnson, Sheriff's Office. Just so you know, I'm on a body camera. What's going on? >> I'm sorry. I need my phone. >> Okay. What's your name? >> My name He's already [ __ ] basically hurt me. >> Okay. What's your name? >> It's Patricia Carballo. He doesn't want to [ __ ] listen to me. I'm trying to de-escalate [ __ ] just to [ __ ] talk to him. >> her her own phone. >> Hey, he needs to be already in. >> Okay. Where Where are you guys from? >> I need my keys underneath the phone. >> 318 >> Sorry. >> Hey. >> I need my phone. >> Don't try to hit her like that, okay? Hey, just stand back. I want everything that is inside of that. She wanted to have the truck? Okay. So, let's stop yelling, okay? >> I need my phone. >> Hey, stand back. >> I'm not doing anything. I just need my phone and I will walk away. He He [ __ ] up. >> Okay. Stand right there. You want your phone, right? Okay. Give me 1 second. >> Hey. >> Get your phone. >> KNOCK IT THE [ __ ] OFF, OKAY? >> Get your phone. >> I I just >> That's fine. >> Stand back by the car. No, you stay right here. >> Oh, I'm sorry. I thought you wanted me to go over there. >> You guys need to stop acting like children and listen, okay? Okay, I just saw you throw her phone as well. Okay? >> Who paid for the phone? Who paid for the phone? >> It doesn't matter who the [ __ ] paid for the phone, okay? >> Thanks a lot. I'm going to I'm about to lose my whole [ __ ] job, the one I paid for. >> Okay. Can you hang out there? Thank you. So, what's going on? Thank you. What's going on? >> We have been fighting. We're going to take out peace and everything. I went to the other room, like, "Patricia, stop." Like, "Let me breathe. Like, I don't want to talk to you." No, she want to go over there and poke the bear, poke the bear. I went to the other side. She keep going. I decided that I wasn't going to walk out of the walk, not even drive it, walk. What she did? Jump on the bed of the truck like, "I know you're going you're not going anywhere." She even called my mom. She even called my boss. After that call, I'm going to lose my whole [ __ ] job. >> Okay. So, what was the argument over? What was the argument over? >> Because she thinks that I'm cheating. >> Okay. >> That's the whole thing. >> Okay. And you guys are married or you guys are Okay. How long have you guys been married? >> We have been close to six years. >> Six years? Okay. How long have you guys lived here in town? >> Here in town, I would say close to a year. >> Close to a year? Okay. >> moved to from Vegas here. >> From Vegas to here? Okay. Are you guys working anywhere or >> Yeah, I >> Okay. So, this You guys are going through therapy. You guys are arguing this this evening. Was it physical or just verbal or Okay. And And why did she do that? >> Because she wanted to snatch the phone away from me. >> So, so whose phone was that? >> we I start walking this way. She was with my phone with her phone talking to my mother, following me over here. >> Okay. >> When I'm just trying to just like step out. >> Okay. So, you guys are arguing in the house. At At that point, was it verbal or was it physical? >> Verbal. >> Okay. You guys were just arguing and she thought you were cheating. Okay. And that phone that you threw on the ground, is that yours or hers? Okay. >> Because the one that pay for the bill is me. Me. >> Okay. But who who normally uses the phone? >> That's my The one that I slammed on the ground, mine. That's my phone. >> Okay. Where's her phone at? >> She had it with her. >> So, she has both phones now? >> I mean, the one that I snatched and hers. >> Okay. But don't The one you threw on the ground >> Mine. >> That's your day-to-day phone that you use. >> Like my own. >> Okay. >> But I don't even know like this is [ __ ] ridiculous. [ __ ] show for all this [ __ ] I get >> So, you guys were arguing cuz she thought you were cheating. Okay. That's neither here nor there. I don't care about. You left the house because you're upset. >> Yeah. >> You tried leaving in >> Just to like walk away. >> But you tried leaving in a truck and she jumped in the back of the truck? >> No. I wasn't even going to start driving in the truck. >> Well, then you say she got in the back of the truck? >> Yeah. >> So, you you were just going to hang out in the truck? >> Yeah. No, I was just going to walk out. This is the way that I was walking from there here. >> Okay. You were just trying to eat like remove yourself from the situation. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> Like I've always been doing. >> Okay. >> Since we started having all these [ __ ] problems and we started going to that we went to the first therapy and everything. >> Okay. >> Always staying away. >> Okay. At what point did she grab you on your wrist? >> When I was like on this street over here. >> Okay. Did you hit her at all? >> Check her. >> Okay, but when I walked up to you, you had your hand raised when I was standing right between you guys. So, what would you do if I wasn't here? >> I was thinking the phone away from her because she was >> was in your hand though. >> Why I have my hands over here. >> You saw the phone in my hand though. >> Check. >> There. You I I understand, but but when I was standing between you guys, did you not raise your hand? Okay. It may have been to defend yourself. I I just want to get you I just want >> I've never hit her. I would never do it. >> Okay. >> I swear I prefer to jump my [ __ ] ass. >> These are just questions I have to ask, okay? >> I know it's your job and everything. >> And so, you you were just trying to walk away and she just kept on following you. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Where did she >> I can give you the the phone phone number of my mom. You can call her and she was on the phone all the time. >> Okay. What did Were you guys drinking last night? >> Yeah. I have Yeah, I have a couple of beers. >> Okay. That's it. A couple of beers. >> the food. >> Yeah. No, that's not I just got to ask you. I got to make note of it. Okay. How many beers do you think you had? >> I think I have between both of us close to a 10 pack or a 12 pack. >> 12 pack together? So you guys were both drinking? >> And we have a couple of shots of uh pink lemonade. Whole [ __ ] reason why I didn't I wasn't going to take my truck. >> I get it and I appreciate that. Um you guys have any kids together? >> Yep. >> Are they at the house right now? >> Yep. >> How old? >> My son is five and she's he's over there. And she have her daughter that is 15. She's over there in the house as well spending the weekend on her time that she's supposed to be spending with her. >> Okay. Did they hear or say say anything last night or you guys left before it happened? >> they they hear the whole thing. >> Okay. >> It was when I'm telling you like well wait. >> Okay. So when when she grabbed you was that when you guys were walking or was that when you guys were at the house? That caused those scratches there. >> No, that was like uh coming out of the door because she would try to block me like and then her nail you can see her nail is like ripped. It's because of this. >> And that's [snorts] the only physical? >> Yeah. And I bet you that anything that she said that I did that [ __ ] what? >> What's How do you spell your last name? What's your date of birth? >> Actually I think she even have my wallet and everything. If I didn't drop it over there like trying to run away from her. Believe it or not I have been one time with all of fights I walk from Rancho all the way here. >> Rancho? That's even farther walk. >> From all the way here just to avoid poking problems. >> Why don't you step back like a foot and uh hang out for me real quick? I'll be right back, okay? Hey, I'm Deputy Floyd just so you know I've got a body camera on so everything's recorded, okay? >> Oh yeah. >> What's going on? >> We basically just started fighting at home. I'm sorry we're a little bit under the influence. Thank god we walked. But I just basically follow him because I wanted to de-escalate and he wanted to call the cops on me. >> Okay, why did he want to call the cops? >> To be honest, I don't know. He thinks I'm fighting him or anything. He I don't know. He has treated me like garbage. I have tried so much to [ __ ] make this work, meaning our relationship. So, if I [ __ ] up, okay, my bad. And I'm trying to de-escalate this [ __ ] And I'm sorry, I'm cussing. >> That's all right. So, you guys have been arguing. >> Yep. >> And he walked out of the house to kind of get away from you. You followed him. >> And it really was my bad to do that [ __ ] >> And you said that So, what we what we heard on what we heard on the phone was what we heard on the phone was somebody saying that, you know, people were hitting each other. You've got blood on your finger there. >> It was an accident though because >> What happened with that? >> was going upstairs, I guess I was like trying to grab his arm and it just cuz it was long. So, I just I guess I hit his arm, but it wasn't like intentional. >> Okay. And he just got cut a little bit by your finger. >> cut a little bit. Yeah. >> Okay. That's And do you have any injuries? >> No. >> No? Okay. >> I need to get some information from you, ma'am. And I need to find my glasses so I can >> Okay, we'll take a look. Stay here for me. What's your last name? First name? Are you currently employed? >> Yes. >> Where's that at? Okay. What do you do for >> Sales and service. >> Okay. Do you work from home? >> No. >> Where do you work out of? Okay. All right. So, has somebody taken somebody's phone? Cuz that's what that's what our dispatch was hearing over the phone call. >> phones are under my name. >> Okay, which phone was it? >> Both of them. >> Well, which phone was >> Oh, I was trying to take the one that was his, but they're mine. >> Okay. Well, I'll I'll tell you this, even if you pay for the phones you you can't take his phone from him. That's his property, okay? I understand that you make the payments on it, but if it's his phone, you can't take it from him, okay? >> It's mine, so. >> Well, in the eyes of the law, you just told me that it's not. Even though you may pay for it, it's phone commonly used by him. You just referred to it as his phone. So, if you take that phone >> Oh, so you're saying I should give it back? >> Yeah. >> After I pay everything? >> Is that phone in your pocket his? >> It is, yeah. You want me to give it back after he even broke it? He broke it. Like he broke it. >> Okay. >> And he had finished breaking mine. >> Where's your phone at? >> Broken. Officer. >> Ma'am, stay here. Stop Stop walking in the road. >> No, I'm just trying I'm not trying to walk on the road. I'm trying to just get my glasses. >> you to stay here. I told you to stay here numerous times. Just stay here. Where are your glasses? >> I don't know. I'm trying to find them, officer. >> we can look for them here a minute, but just walking through the road >> So, that's all I'm trying to do. >> Okay. Where could they be at? >> So, can you walk with me so I at least find something? >> at? Just somewhere in the road? >> road. Maybe by your car. Maybe they're smashed at this point. I don't know. >> Okay. Deputy Frost will take a look for them, okay? >> Okay. Um They have like um brown, maybe like dark brown and light brown, but I don't know. Like I said, maybe they're already broken. I don't know if it's already Do you see stuff on me? >> The only thing I saw was just that little bit of blood on your fingernail. That's it. Should you have injuries? Did he hit you at all today? >> I don't know. He just pushed up. >> He pushed you? When did that happen? At the house or out here out in the street or what? >> Just here. >> Why did he >> maybe to evade the situation. >> Why did he push you? >> too being like stubborn, I guess. He tried to like >> Was she trying to push you away from him? >> Yeah. >> Okay. So, he wasn't trying to push you to knock you down. >> Well, it was a little bit of both. Cuz I mean, he said it out loud. He's like, "If you don't come, I'm going to knock her out." So, I don't know. >> Okay. What's your plan for the rest of the day? >> You know what? My plan for the rest of the day was to spend the day with my children and have a [ __ ] good weekend. >> Okay. Are the kids at home right now? >> Yes, they're sleeping. >> How old are they? >> 15 and 5. >> Okay. Have you guys been up all night? >> You know what? To be honest, pretty much, yeah. >> So, what time did you go to bed? >> We had a late start to the weekend. >> What's that? >> My AirPods. >> Can you do me a favor? Just stay right here, okay? >> I'm here. >> What's he saying? >> What? >> What's he saying? >> That it wasn't with her little boy. That it was a park when he tried to walk out of that house. She was blocking him in and scratched him. Grabbed his arm and scratched him. >> She's got a blown out finger nail from it. >> Okay. So, >> I think I can break this down to what she said to you guys. She walked up the stairs or something like that. She went to grab one of his arms. She's got a blown out finger nail. >> Cuz he grabbed his chest. >> I said so something matches up. >> The um When I did walk up I did a [ __ ] yell at him. And I see I got in his face and he like raised his arm. But he didn't That's when I got in between them. That's where you're at. And you smashed the phone. >> He said it's his. >> I got the phone. >> She said it's his. >> That's what he said. >> She said she pays for it and all that. So, she's trying to fight that it's hers and she can keep it and she owns it. >> Um there is a 15-year-old at the house. >> Yeah, she said that. But her 15-year-old is sleeping and her 5-year-old is sleeping. What do you want to do here? I mean I mean if we leave them they're going to be [ __ ] fighting again. Was the scratch a deliberate scratch or >> She said that it was unintentional but grabbing his arm was unintentional. >> Have him go. >> I'm going to take his cell phone back. >> And then have him step on or those his slides. >> I don't They were walking. Uh >> Well, they also started here and they were at the church at one point they said. >> Oh, really? Are these your slides back here, your sandals? >> Yeah, they're the ones that she had in her hand. >> Oh, on the on the ground. Is it Is that his jacket, ma'am? >> Uh it's mine but I gave it to him. >> So, you gave him the jacket? >> Yep. >> Okay. >> It's his property, too. Well, I'm trying to cover myself because I'm technically all wet so that's why I have it. >> Okay. That's his wallet? >> Yes. >> I I have a Can you send a deputy Johnson, please? >> Okay. You said his jacket is in >> I got it. >> Yeah. Can I have my jacket, please? >> Yeah, you said that's his jacket. Can you take the jacket off, please, ma'am? >> Okay. That's fine. I will take that. Can I go home? >> Not yet. So, what's going to happen if you both go back home right now? Is this fight just going to continue? >> You know what, officer? I don't want this fight to continue. I don't. >> Did you want it to start? >> No. >> And it still did, right? >> It did, but unfortunately he never wants to listen to me. Again, like I don't want him to go away from my house or our house. No, that's not what I'm trying to prove. Do you think I want to set that example to our child? No. >> Need what? >> You're not getting the keys. >> Do you have a truck key? >> It's my truck. >> Okay, is that Is that the truck that he uses? >> It's under the title's under my name. >> He's in the road. >> So >> So, I understand the truck's in your name, kind of like the cell phone. Is this the truck that he commonly uses? >> No. >> We both use We only have one car. We both do it. >> Okay. >> I use it basically What is it? We basically use it almost squared even time throughout the week. >> Okay. >> So, no, officer. He's not going to leave me without a car with my kids. >> Whose car is that he drives pretty much every day, correct? >> I do, too. We only have one car, officer. >> Okay. Okay, he has his keys so we can just get his money out of the car. >> He doesn't have money there. >> Want to bet? No, no. Want to bet? >> Let's stand right here. >> Well, you're the one over here talking. >> I have 80 plus dollars in You want to bet? What? I have 80 plus dollars over there. >> Okay. >> In the car. >> So, you're free to go from the scene. If she's not going to give back the keys, you guys are married, there's not much we can do to it. Uh if I can get the keys from her, I'll bring them to you, okay? >> So, what's going to happen with her daughter that is over there? I mean, he's not my daughter. >> Okay. >> I just have my son over there. She's the one responsible for that daughter. >> Okay, and you're not >> I mean, I don't I don't mind her. It's It's Yeah, it's my daughter, but I mean >> Okay. >> What am I going to say if she's over there? I mean, she asked me. >> Well, she'll be back tomorrow. She She's going to get arrested. >> Why? >> For grabbing you by the wrist and making you bleed. It's what we have to do. You know that, okay? We are entitled when it comes to this stuff. Okay? Okay. >> It is what it is. >> You're free to go. I appreciate it. >> Thank you. I appreciate >> Can I uh Can you go and put your hands behind your back? >> What for? >> Cuz you're under arrest for domestic battery. >> What? >> You're under arrest for domestic battery, okay? >> What do you mean? >> I'll explain it to you. >> Why am I under arrest for domestic battery? >> Okay. I'll explain it to you in a second, okay? He pushed me, too. Even though I was his mom His mom was there. I think her mom was there. Like I tell you What? >> Yeah. All right, let's do a pat-down for you, okay? All right, we're going to walk to the back of my squad car, okay? Yeah. I'll walk with you for a little bit. When we get back to my When we get back here, Deputy Frost is going to search you, okay? Is there anything in your pockets that can't go to the jail? Is there any drugs? Is there any knives, lighter? Your keys? Do you have anything else in your pockets that can stick me, poke me, hurt me? >> No, I don't think so. >> Okay. I have like the keys and my AirPods. >> Can you go ahead and face the car and separate your feet? >> Those are okay. >> Yep, when you get there, you can. >> my dog My dog was there. My dog. >> What is this? Is this cocaine or not? >> Cocaine. >> Cocaine? >> Okay. Can you look >> What is this? This is only cocaine on you? >> I'm going to put my phone down. >> All right, okay. I don't have to talk to her for a moment. I'm going to call her on the phone. >> Just call them. I just want my daughter out of there. Please. And those kids are >> That is Kleenex. >> Yeah, go ahead. >> Okay. I'm going to I'm going to take her out of here. >> Okay. Hey guys, can you really like me? But can you not have to go ahead and look that way for me? >> Just please Just let me make my one phone call to get my daughter >> you. I'll I'll I'll I'll explain to you, okay? >> Okay? Give me one second. >> My kids are right there. >> Yep. I'll explain it to you. >> My kids. And that's not fair. >> Okay. I >> Because he has I'm getting domestic battery and he's not. >> Okay. What's the address? 318 South Harrison. It's They're fifth you know. Um So, you guys provided the same exact statement when >> But, I didn't >> Cuz both of you guys said don't they not physically that happened to where you tried to walk out the door you grabbed him. Okay. >> grab him. I walked behind him. >> Okay. But, he's bleeding and your and your nail has blood on it. >> Yeah. But, it was because of the stairs and it was an accident. It wasn't on purpose. >> Okay. We are mandated by the state of Illinois when something like this occurs to take action to force the action, okay? So, that's all this is. >> Yeah. >> Um >> But, I can >> When you get Okay. When you go to the jail you're going to be able to make a phone call to your kid your daughter, all right? She's 15. She has a She has her own phone? >> I just don't know her number. Please. I just want to go home. I just want to go >> Okay. >> And I can't even make that call. My son is >> Okay. Where did your daughter go normally when she's not with you? Okay. Where does her dad live? >> In Champaign. >> Champaign? Okay. So, we'll get that all arranged, okay? >> What's his >> I'll help you out. >> What's his Do you want to get his name and his phone number and you can just give him a call? >> call I don't want him to believe that I did that cuz that's not fair. >> Well, the way you're going to call him is from the jail. He's going to find out. So, either we can call him or you can call him at the jail and it's going to say you're under arrest today. >> Or can you call him? Can I talk to him? Or >> No, that's not something we can do. He's right. So, but I can call him and let him know the situation, okay? Okay. What's his name? >> 18. >> 404 You don't know his phone number? >> No, I don't know anybody's phone number. >> Okay, but this is your phone, correct? Okay. >> The only thing I would like I don't know anybody's phone number. >> In front of you I can open it and grab his phone number. >> Thanks for watching Body Cams In. If you enjoy real police body cam footage and true-to-life encounters, hit subscribe and turn on notifications. More compelling cases are coming your way.