Coco was driving. >> I swear. >> Whose house is this? >> You do realize Tesla has video, right? >> I swear to God. You can look at the video. >> Best of body cam. This woman was caught drunk driving, but she said it was not her. It was her friend driving. It was totally her friend. It was her friend driving. Trust me, it was her friend. >> It was not the one driving. Coco was driving. >> So, why are witnesses telling us something totally different? >> I don't know, officer. I swear to God. No, no, no, no, no. That is so not true. >> That's theing who were driving. So, >> who was you? >> Who was >> and you >> Hello. How are you doing? >> What? Uh, hold on. [laughter] I just want to say I'm dumb because the minute that I literally said in this intro like hinting at, "Haha, of course she was driving." And then she says all that and I was like, What was Coco driving? And then I see this. I'm sorry. If your friend was drunk driving and you just got pulled over by officers, would you really be just like sitting there like the gift meme like in the passenger seat? No. This looks like she threw herself over the seat and is now sitting there with her arms folded. Don't get me lady. I'm overly empathetic and dumb. Okay. >> So, I just got here tonight. So, what's going on? >> I just I just It's giving. Hi. Hi. [laughter] What are you guys doing here? What? What happened? Where's Coco? >> Go home. >> I completely understand. Why did you jump to the passenger seat? >> HE CALLED IT OUT. >> NO. NO. NO. NO. NO. I did not do that. >> I swear. No. I did not. That did not happen at all. >> We have witnesses. No, I swear to God. >> Okay. Can I talk to you out here for a second? >> You can completely talk to me out here. >> Let's go right back. >> Nobody Nobody >> at all. >> What >> asked me to come to the front? >> I did not I was not the one driving. >> Oh my god. >> Who was here with you? >> Officer >> Coco was driving. I swear. >> Whose house is this? My friends, we were at a photo shoot. We were doing this photo shoot. Coco was driving. My friends were completely driving. >> My friends, >> I was not driving at all. I swear to God. I swear. >> So, why are witnesses telling us something totally different? >> I don't know, officer. I swear to God. >> I even tried to get you not to drive. >> No, no, no, no, no. That is so not true. >> You do realize Tesla has video, right? >> I SWEAR TO GOD. You can look at the video. >> Give me the video. Listen. Hey, if you're new to this channel, sometimes I'm a little dumb. I can be a little overly empathetic with people, even though I'm fighting it in every godamn video. And you know what's happening right now? Maybe this is happening to you. My intuition alarm bells are over. I see this and I'm like, give person a chance. But my intuition, girl, they are red. THEY'RE LIKE RINGING RING [screaming] RING. And then somehow in my physical form, I can tell myself, ignore those. Ignore those alarming red bells. Keep giving this person a chance. [laughter] DOES ANYBODY ELSE DO THAT? BUT ANYWAYS, you know what? GIVE ME THE Tesla video [laughter] >> now, officer. >> Tesla has video right. >> I swear to God. And you can look on my video right now, officer. I swear to God, that is so not true. >> Okay, pull it up. Pull it up and show me somebody else is driving. >> Okay, >> pull up the video. Show me. Okay, first of all, I don't you do not need to come at me with an attitude because I was noting driving >> and you don't need to assumption. We have witnesses that said you were. >> No, I wasn't. Who the were the witnesses? >> The >> Who the were the witnesses? Cuz I'm about to beat their ass right now. >> Driving. The ones who were drunk driving my car and you want to see. >> Oh my god, girl. This is so embarrassing. >> Can you pull up the video to show me you weren't driving? Where you going? Take take the DUI. >> Okay. Pull up the video to show me who is driving. >> Oh my god. Is she going to pull it up? >> Is this I feel like I'm literally being like assaulted. >> You're not being assaulted. It's >> I swear. >> Okay. >> I swear to God. >> I'm betting right now she's she's not going to show the video or she's going to try to delete it and they're going to grab her or something. She's not pulling out that video. >> I was just literally driving. >> Well, then >> you were just literally driving. >> It was you. >> Okay. Can you show me the video to show you weren't driving? [laughter] >> Oh my god. >> Oh my god. >> It's like opening the safe and the robbers are hovering over you right now for her. [laughter] [crying] >> Okay. Can you pull it up? Can you show me the video of who's behind the driver's seat? Oh my god. >> While you're doing this, how much have you had to drink tonight? >> Excuse me. Are you going to deny that you're drinking, too? >> I've had nothing to drink tonight. Thank you. >> Intuitioners, we're done here, right? We're done here. This is our cut off point. You will not take advantage of me anymore. You are a liar and an untrustworthy person. You are untrustworthy. And now everything that you say will be met with BRUTE FORCE BOUNDARIES AND SKEPTICISM, SORRY, this is my self-care talk coming through uh in body cams. I hope it helps. >> Show us the video. >> Nothing to drink tonight. Thank you. >> Okay. >> I feel like this is a like absolute assumption and I don't I don't feel comfortable at all with you. >> Oh, that's fine. >> Next to me. Please step out. >> I'm not going to step away. Can you show me the video to show you weren't driving? >> You know, this isn't actually like legal for you to show me this video, right? >> It is legal. >> No, it's not. >> 100% it is. No, it's not. >> So, you're claiming you weren't driving. >> You're claiming you have video to prove that. >> So, prove your innocence. Otherwise, I'm going to assume you were driving based on witnesses. [snorts] >> Really? >> Yes. >> So, how the did you assume anything else other than >> based on witnesses? >> When it wasn't was when it wasn't a Tesla. >> What? >> When it wasn't >> When it wasn't a Tesla. >> When what wasn't a Tesla? >> Who Who is it? Who's the >> God? >> When it's not a Tesla. When there's no images. What are you talking about? >> Where's the video when there's no Tesla? >> This is a Tesla. >> Exactly. >> Right. So, show me the video. You won't. >> So, when you pull someone over, where's the video? >> I don't need video. >> Prove. Okay. So, then So, you don't need proof. You don't need video. Then back away. >> I'm not backing away. >> Then back away. >> Yeah. She ain't showing that video cuz cuz you know what you going to see. [laughter] >> That's exactly what we're going to see. You might even see a bottle of whiskey in the other hand. >> [laughter] >> Truly, bro. She ain't showing that video. >> Video. Then back away. >> I'm not backing away. >> Then back away. >> No. >> You're all right. >> Are you trying to find the video to show you who was driving? >> I don't need to show video. >> Telling her friend quick, I need you to AI this. >> If you want to try and prove to me you weren't. That's going to be your best bet right now because right now I have evidence to show you were driving. >> Oh. Uh. And how? And how? Because I'm in the passenger seat. >> Right. You could have easily have crawled over which the way this is. said easily crawled the over. You me? Who the is this guy? >> He's trying to help me. >> Who is this guy? >> I'm [laughter] giving you a chance to prove you weren't driving. >> Driving. That helps you. So, he's trying to help you. >> How How was I not driving? I'm sitting right here. I'm sitting right here. Raise your hand if you would look right into that body cam and say, "Listen, you got me. Just give me the DUI. Let's get this over with. Go to [laughter] court." Hey. Uh oh. You got me. Like, why would you do all of this? This is embarrassing. >> How How was I not driving? I'm sitting right here. I'm sitting right here. I'm sitting right here. >> Okay. Are you going to pull up the video? >> How was I not driving? >> How was I not driving? I was sitting right here. Come on, man. >> How >> on the video on your phone? >> How How am I? I'm sitting in the passenger seat. Nobody's buying that. >> Are you able to pull up the video? >> They are drunk. >> Are you able to pull up the video? >> And you're also, where did they go? Did Coco just run off into a bush somewhere into these short bushes over here into the desert? >> I can't believe you. >> Wow. >> My [gasps] my It's software updating. I don't >> Why did you do a software update? >> You selected that. You You're popping the trunk. You're doing all sorts of stuff except for pulling up the video. >> I did not do that. >> Yes, you did. I watched the pop the trunk pop and you selected that. >> The trunk pops automatically. Shut the up. >> It shouldn't. >> YOU'RE INSANE. >> YOU'RE INSANE. >> SORRY. >> You're insane. >> You're insane police officer. You should not be on parole. >> Parole? >> Yeah. You shouldn't be here at all. >> I'm not on for >> because you accused me. You literally pulled me across the You pulled me over. >> I didn't pull you over. >> You were accusing me of any like nothing. >> You can't even say it. >> You know exactly what the is going on. >> This is another thing. When people are ashamed of something they did, they won't say it. She won't even say you pulled me over for drunk driving. You are accusing me of any like nothing and you know exactly what the is going on. So stop acting stupid and stop acting uh for your stupid video. >> Oh yeah, that man yelling at her boyfriend. >> The video for me then. >> Oh, I will when it loads because you clearly think I'm lying about software update. >> Look on your phone. >> Everybody guys on this police cam, I'm not I'm not lying about the police. I'm not I'm not lying about the software update. Oh, well, looks like we had a misunderstanding. Thank you for talking to us directly. Thank you so much. C can you guys stop breaking the the third wall on body cam? [laughter] Otherwise, I'm going to need a police officer to FaceTime me next time that they're on the scene of the crime. And so, I'm going to say, "Hey, we're gonna This goes both ways, bitch." Just [laughter] kidding. >> Oh, fourth wall. >> I'm not I'm not lying about the software update. It's updating. >> Okay. You can see software update 2025.2.6. >> We can't see. >> Okay. All right. Can I talk to you here for a second? >> No. >> Well, what about when it's done? >> You're going to exit the car. >> I'm not going to exit the car. >> Listen to me. >> No, I'm not. >> This is going to go one of two ways. >> Don't make it harder. Listen to the L. Listen. Okay. >> Girl, she really says everybody on the body cam. >> Why? Why? Why? Why? >> I didn't do nothing. >> Okay, we need to talk to you out here. Just come on out here for me. >> I didn't do anything. >> Okay, I'm going to give you a chance to talk to me about that. Just come out here and talk to me. >> Right [laughter] back here, >> please. >> So, wait, this is interesting. Um Hannah in chat said she's giving narc. And I wanted to comment on this because I actually rare occasion I, you know, we use the word narc a lot here because I usually pick videos of people that show some of those behaviors. I actually don't think this girl is like personally giving narc, but she has a lot of uh those toolbox kits. I think her mode of operation is get away with it by any means necessary. Use every tool to get away with it by any means necessary. But it doesn't necessarily mean that the other things um that usually fuel like a full-blown like narc are there. I feel like we hear something a little bit different. Like she's just like a kid that like borrowed their toolbox and is like trying to use it pretty well. That's how I see it. It's like it feels a little different >> here. Just come out here and talk to me. Right [laughter] back here. Right back here. Right back here. Yeah, she's panicking for sure. >> Can you try and face me? >> Please. >> Are you wearing contacts? >> Please. >> Are you wearing contacts? How much alcohol have you consumed tonight? >> Zero. >> That's You're lying. >> You see the green light? >> Now you're lying. Hold your head still. Follow the green light with your eyes and your eyes only. Hold your head still. >> All right. You're under arrest. What do you no, >> dude? No. It's on 3639. >> Jesus, >> dude. Like, at a point, just own up [laughter] to it. I mean, >> like, own up to it or just go silent, bro. >> Are you going to leave him a message? >> No. >> No. All right. >> I saw you leave that message. >> You saw what? >> I saw you leave that message, bro. >> I just hit end. >> I saw it. But is this type of crying a trigger for you? No. I just don't really like to see like women or anybody like crying and getting manhandled a whole lot in front of the police. I just think it's kind of like a lot. That's not what I'm here to spectate. I'm more so curious about the lying and the gaslighting and stuff like that. Like I don't need to see you crying and like, you know, sit there and just blast that, you know? I'm I'm curious about the other behaviors. You do though because I'm a literal girl and I don't do anything. >> Your dad's calling. You want me to answer for you? >> Sure thing. >> Oh, dad's calling. >> There you go, >> Dad. >> Yeah. >> Just please come to the police station. >> Whoa. What's What's >> I don't know what's going on. >> I told you. >> Oh my god. DON'T SAY YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON. THAT'S so manipulative. >> You hit a car and you're under arrest for DUI. >> I didn't know she hit a car >> because she was under arrest for a DUI and I wasn't even driving. >> So I don't even know where you're going. >> I'm at the police station. Dad, >> you're on your way. >> I'm in the police car. >> Yeah. So >> handcuffs on me, Dad. Was driving my car. I have handcuffs on. >> Oh my god. He does not believe. I'm just curious. Was she driving the car? Was she sitting in the car? >> Witnesses identify her as the driver during the collision. >> Yeah, the witnesses. >> Wait, like >> dude, her tone change is actually crazy. Like crying like, "Dad, there's handcuffs on me to Oh, yeah. The witnesses." Jesus. How is there an absolute >> Are you going to talk to your dad or are you talking to me? If you're not going to talk to your dad, I'm going to hang out. I'm actually >> Let me talk to him. I'm talking to you, too. >> Also, I've never seen anybody get a phone call to their loved one or whoever their person is that they would be calling in the cop car. Um, correct me if I'm wrong, but like out of all the videos we've watched, I've never seen that before. Usually, they just make you call like once you get to the station or maybe they will call a person to come to you. You don't get to have a little phone call in the car. So this is actually like very uncommon for him to do that. >> Okay. So >> probably cuz you felt bad for her. >> I know. I I know. So >> I don't know either. >> Well, she's saying she doesn't know why she's >> Give me an idea. What should I do? Is she >> You can pick her up from the jail in a couple of hours. >> All right. Thank you. >> You're welcome. >> He ain't Dad ain't dealing with her bro. He knows. >> Ciao said, "Bose, I have a question. Would you say that people that change their tone quickly like that are narcissists? And if so, how should we handle that? You don't even have to classify them. I say this all the time, like work with the behavior or the symptom, not necessarily the full classification, right? So, what you're describing is somebody that changes their tone quickly, probably like this from like victim to aggressor to victim to aggressor. Well, the point of that tactic is for them to figure out what tool works on you. And what's interesting is they're actually using three tools at the same time. They're playing victim by appealing to your empathy. They're playing the aggressor by acting threatening when they flop between those. And then the third tool that they're using that's kind of underlying is they're trying to disorient you and drain you and exhaust you by rapidly switching between them. Um, if you're somebody that can energetically get really like shuffled or overstimulated, then it's that third tool that really does you in. And so the way that you can handle all three of those little tool tornadoes at once, in my opinion, is to be aware of what they're doing, don't let it make you feel threatened or overly empathetic, and respond to them with just a calm tone entirely. Don't give them any hint what tool works best on you. And give as much of a calm tone as you can. And I almost promise you that they will unravel before you do. So that's just something something I wish I knew when I was younger. Geez. Um it's a little hard to do, but once you see that it works, it'll carve out a new little pathway in your brain and you'll just be very very calm. >> All right. Thank you. >> You're welcome. yourself. All right, come on up. >> Let me go all the way down here. >> You're hilarious, bro. >> Oh my god. >> New tool. What is that one? We talked about playing victim. We talked about making threats. We talked about disorientation. And now she's like, "Let's see if this tool works. Uh, okay. Yeah. Mockery, belittling, devaluing. Can I now make you insecure? So, when somebody goes through all of those, it's very, very disorienting. And trust me, there are plenty of other tools in the toolbox. But when they get to the uh the shaming, humiliation, mocking, belittling, they're actually at a point that they're getting a little exhausted and they're trying to That one is actually, I think, a lot of times for them as well. But if it works on you, then they'll start to use it more often. But once you get to that point, you're really making a crack in these people cuz they start running out of tools after that. >> Hilarious, bro. >> Your smart says it does. Right here. >> Ooh, now the cocky confidence. I look I'm just going to call this one here. This is this is kind of another tool. It's a little bit of intimidation or I would also call this a cocky confidence one where somebody acts like they are 100% in the right because they want to see if you will doubt yourself. God, isn't that so scary that somebody could actually run all those tools on you in under two minutes? Mockery. cocky confidence, playing victim, playing the aggressor, and disorientation. All five of those could hit you in a twominut span. And it sucks. And that's why people be yelling and screaming sometimes because we don't have we don't have the tools to deal with it. So, >> does make your day just makes it. >> It'll be nice when I'm done so I can go home. >> To your family. To your happy family. >> Oh my god, she's a little demon. >> You don't [music] do anything. Can I please talk to my dad? >> Why do you want to talk to your dad? >> Eventually, she was arrested and charged with driving under the influence. >> Yeah. Now, about that Tesla video.