though the situation. He called the cops on me because we got into an argument, an altercation, and I ripped his necklace off of him while he threw me onto the bed and had his hand in my mouth. He's sat around him. He wants to play the victim right now, but I've spent 6 years being abused by him. So, go ahead, listen to his story. Last time you guys came, I was bakered because heing I'm not recording anything because he drove me so insane that I lost my mind. It's been 6 years. You can call my mom. I've Yeah, I've called you guys multiple times and I've been let down. Sweetie, sweetie. Sweetie, you got to try to calm down. All right. I just got here. I don't know what's going on. You trying to explain it, but I'm believe it or not, you're all over the place. All right. Let's start with one thing at a time. What's your name? Ashley. Ashley. All right. Ashley, who is he to you? My boyfriend, baby daddy. And I have to pick my kids. How many kids you guys have together? Two. Just two. How long? They're at school. They're at school right now. What time they get out of school? 3:30. I have to get 3:30. All right. All right. One thing at a time. All right. Where is he? He's inside. Inside on the phone with some cops. Okay. All right. What's up, man? Do me a favor. I'm not. Get away from her. No, no. Just wait. Just wait over there for me. All right. I'm going to come talk to you. Just wait over there for me. Okay. What's up, dude? What's this? Ain't me. This ain't me, man. I couldn't get out of my house. Okay. This is the outcome. What happened? What happened? I'm not She snatched my phone out of my hand. Went through all my [ __ ] Didn't find nothing. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. Go. No. No. Go from the beginning for me cuz this is This is an ongoing thing. I had her bait corrected 3 months ago, 2 months ago. I should have left, didn't leave cuz I'm stupid. Whatever. Long story short, she was other dudes. Blah blah blah. I sat here for 5 months like a little [ __ ] like I was. I said, "Now we're here." Okay, I can't no more. I'm trying I was trying to leave. What happened? What happened today? I want you to start from beginning to end. I was sitting in my bed. She snatched my phone cuz I said I'm already over. She snatched as soon as I said that. Started going on Instagram, Facebook. No, there's nothing on. I don't talk to no women. I don't talk to anybody. She wouldn't let me out of mying bedroom door. I punched my TV, threw my lamp, grabbed her, put her on the bed, let me the out of the house, and started walking out. Grabbed my shirt, grabbed my neck, grabbed my $2,000 chain broken off my neck. She grabbed and slammed you. No. Grabbing. She what? She grabbed it off of me as I was trying to again ended up back in the bedroom stuck. So she And then I have her on video trying to pop my tires on my mustard. So she slammed you inside of the house. I'm back in the room. She pulled I ended up trying to walk outside the room. I could not get out of my house. Is why my TV is broke and my lamp is broke. That was $500. Because you guys broke up. No, I don't know. Wait, no. You told you said you're over. I said I'm already over. Very pretty stupid [Music] thing. I'll go to jail. If I go to jail, I'll leave my job. So, it's up to you what you want to do. Is it honestly not up to me? Believe both of these are all the marks on both of us are self. We're arguing. They're both shoving each other. So, they're all scratch marks. Then he shoved me in the bed and I grabbed his necklace. Yes. Six years I've been dealing with his [ __ ] Okay. All right. If I'm going to be the one to get whatever. So Ashley, it's not up to me. I take both sides of the story, which I just did, right? I take both sides of the story. He says he's stuck. I I was still for years. Nobody's stuck. Both of you guys can honestly leave. Wait. Neither one of us can even afford this. This was big thing. We are stuck. No, you're not. You don't have to be with them. I had everything. I had I was going to go stay at a domestic shelter with my kid. You can hang out with him real quick. Yeah. Yeah. 14. I got it. I got it. Okay. I I two months ago I had everything set up. I me and my kids were gonna go stay in a shelter. And he made me believe that he was going to change and he didn't even be the one. That's the piece of [ __ ] right? But his problem is we broke up for like five months, but we were still in the house together. But I made it clear. I said, "We're not together. I want you. I want my space. Get away from me. I was sleeping on the couch and that we would he would make me up because if I didn't, it was it was just not good. Okay. And then the cops told me that I was conditioning him into thinking it was okay. Ash, I'm going be real with you now. What the cops say sounds something I would say because when you enable somebody when you're when it's 6 years of abuse that's repetitive. How is it meond conditioning him? Because I gave every time. So you're telling me that I made it okay for him to tell me 20 different times that I'm either going to or he's going to go [ __ ] somebody else or he's going to treat me like [ __ ] until I just lay there and take it. No. No. That's conditioning. No, no. This is what I'm saying. You allowed that. I did allow it. That's the only only blame. Is that what you tell everybody though? Because you know many people just do it cuz they're scared. Ashley. Ashley. Ashley. I'm telling you. I'm not telling everybody. I'm telling you what you did. You allowed it. I allowed it for six years. I You allowed him to disrespect you. I did for six years. I allowed it and I've had every single person. I don't care what you do. You be having grown men. I've been told by every single person over the last 6 years to leave him. And now because we broke up for 5 months and I somebody else, which you know what? I don't have any remorse. I don't care. The way he feels he deserves because he made me feel like that for six years. Okay? So, I shouldn't have to feel bad for doing something while I was single, but I do because I don't want him to be hurt. But it's like him and he did this to me and we weren't even together. And I tried to sit here and understand like I get it. Like you're upset. I get it. It bothers you, but like I'm not doing anything. And then he just told me he wasing someone else. Like what the am I not supposed to freak out? I'm going be honest with you. You guys are toxic. Yeah. No [ __ ] No. You guys are together. You guys are not good for each other. He bought that car. I told him to buy whatever the Ari wanted so that when we separated I wasn't left without a vehicle. And he bought the most expensive car he could find. So now we can't afford to be separate because he's $600 for a car. $500 for your production. Yes. And then it's almost $300 for the insurance. I pay $1,100 for the school. He doesn't help me pay for it. All right, Ashley. I'm going to be honest with you, man. You got to roll with me. Okay. What? You have to roll with me. All right. I have to go with you. Yeah. Am I arrested for right now? You're detained for I'm going to lose my job. You won't lose. I can't. Can you call them? If I get a domestic charge, no matter how good of a person I am, where do you work? Let me ask. I am a fish for rehab. I answer the phone and put people in rehab all day. Okay. Well, you don't have to tell them you were arrested. I do. I was going to show up. From where? I don't know. I don't How do you want to show up? One of our people in Ohio got into a fight with his girlfriend and she was the aggressor. They have a long history of it. He stood there for 5 years. They loved him and they had to fire him. I What do you mean? You said you're going to come back and get him later. So he I can I can give I can give him a written thing. What happened by the time you get released? Why can't I be the one to do that? By the time he get released, he's the felon. I have no Ashley. Mom. Ashley. They're taking me to jail. They're letting Scott stay. I don't know who's getting it, but I guess by yourself. It's my fault though. That's mom. You want me to talk to mom? Hello, mom. Hello, mom. Hey, this deputy done by what's going on, but her she got to get booked. She postponed for the judge. By the time she get there, the judge will probably give her free trial for weeks. So, she won't miss work tomorrow. Okay, that's the main. Yeah, first. Yeah, it's always I hear that. Maybe she should have popped him harder. But however, that's not and and and and again, you're speaking to the crowd. I kind of told her what she's doing wrong. She allowed the man to do that to her. Get the dog. All right. But but that's what's going on. Yeah. Bring it inside, Scott. Bring it inside. All right. So, that's what's going on. Okay. But again, this is Yeah. I'm coming. I'm coming with you. Yeah. Scott, I got to ask you. I know. Stupid question cuz you guys love each other. You guys want to press charges? I don't I don't want no one to go to jail. I just state Do you want to give a Do you want to give a reported statement for the state attorney's office? No, I just want him to leave. I don't want to cost you. Do you mind if I take pictures of your injuries? Yeah. You know, it's all for the state cuz she got to go. It's up to the She's got to go where? She got to go to jail, man. She's going to jail. Yeah. Because how state how the state of Florida works and everybody's in domestic. You know what I mean? It's a sticky situation now. I'm stuck to the girl in the state attorney. You get what I'm saying? So, that's what's happened. She's going to lose her job. Can we not? She Well, it's at this point it's it's too late. You get what I'm saying? I don't care. She did the [ __ ] All right. So, no pictures, no uh Okay. Okay. All right. All right. All right. I got to go get the kids. Is that all right? Um 3:30. 3:30 they get home. Well, did you ask uh He said I'm good. He said just whenever you guys leave them to go inside. Okay. Um did you get any uh KM or anything? I said nothing. I don't want you. You don't want any of that? I wanted to go to jail. Are you going to lose my job? Should have did what you did. What you did? Just have a seat. I thought you were leaving. Not yet. He was letting you have your cigarette. I'm sorry. What's your name again? Ashley. Ashley. Come on. You want to chug down your Red Bull? Can I put her in the fridge? No. Let's not go back inside. Finish the cigarette. Yeah, she finished. You want to take your uh wristband off and your hair ties or anything? Jewelry or I can't keep a hair tie. Keep keep one in. I'll just put it out of the thing. You have no piercings or anything like that? Okay. All right. You have a mug and everything. Yes, ma'am. Oh. I need to go down [ __ ] all over Facebook. Ashley, listen. In the end, this could be a blessing in disguise, you guys. Believe it or not, be a blessing in disguise. You also got to remember, yeah, except that I'm inspiration. It's not working out. But we can't touch each other. Listen, we got to gain our relationship. You guys hitting each other. It's not a good relationship. He said he refused everything. Yeah. Okay. Get the green packet and all that stuff.