have you ever got a divor you thank God no yeah well it's not called me a word and called me a W word and said he was going to hurt me oh yes he said that don't [ __ ] with me I will [ __ ] we were not talking to you you came here get lost and I don't give what y'all do what your name I don't give a what yall do stop videoing me I swear to God I will break your camera stop I'm walking away I'm leaving yall alone turn the cameras off Karens want to make a scene wherever they go and this often includes racism we're talking about Karen's on steroids with a side of intolerance delivered on a public train a new station reached out to the Broward County Crime commission to see if bosanic was indeed an employee there and the CEO answered with the following Miss bosanic is not and has never been employed or involved with the Broward County Crime Commission in any form and that is not the only falsehood she told here she claims to be a psychologist although she has no degree or licensing instead she is a self-appointed sex therapist with no credentials could you answer my name I have my um because I did get carck you could check it on the 15th by a group of afrian and I'm with the Bro crime commission they caught the kid let's focus on today let's focus on to okay let me give you a picture of my my driver's license I just got a you know I I have you ever gotten a divorce you thank God no yeah well it's not easy I came in here just to find few things of make guys call me name Lio what's your uh phone number what's contact this is your mother or your grandmother how would you feel officer Santiago depending on the circumstance I have to I have to capture the entire picture before I make judgment yeah they're ly they're lying officer they're lying the man verbally Abus me this exchange depicts the behavior of someone who is not just uncooperative but also overly theatrical and nonsensical from the start the Karen demonstrates a complete lack of lucidity bouncing from one issue to the next with no apparent context her Meandering about being carded by miners her driver's license and even her divorce is unrelated to the topic at hand instead of carefully explaining her worries she chooses to overload the officer with a slew of unrelated and unnecessary data wasting time and confusing the situation her accusatory tone is another obvious flaw without offering any evidence she continu continuously declares they're lying they're lying as if mere repetition will make her assertions convincing this Behavior smacks of paranoia and an attempt to persuade the officer to side with her using emotional appeals rather than facts her focus on extraneous personal information such as her divorce is completely inappropriate in this setting why should an officer be aware of her marital history while dealing with an alleged verbal abuse incident this type of behavior demonstrates a lack of self-awareness and the inability to prioritize what is genuinely important it appears that she is more concerned with portraying herself as a victim in all aspects of her life than with fixing the immediate issue what is particularly concerning is her use of race in an unnecessary and incendiary manner if she actually needed help she would stick to the facts and deliver clear succinct information instead she chooses to be around IC and self-centered demanding attention in a way that accomplishes little to address her problems this woman claims that everyone engaged in the issue including the store clerk is lying for no apparent reason she is attempting to get the officers to side with her before speaking with anyone else and she is frustrated that it is not working I've been through so much my car is over there you can see it has R evidence State I just got a divorce and he's in Hawaii and then I come in here to do a little SHO and these guys start tell you know they called me and and they said they were going to hurt me and that guy in in the shorts right there he went like this and it looked like he had done this clet go back to Palestine you go back wherever you're from do you like that do you like do you like it when people tell you that how about just sitting there and being quiet I Wasing care where you were Minneapolis Minnesota I don't care yeah you you said you were from the Ukraine so therefore from the Ukraine you sit there and keep your mouth shut you're instigating all you're doing right now is instigating everything they went to school at the beginning of this whole situation this Karen's speech is unstructured and unclear making it difficult to follow her line of thought she hops around between themes noting her divorce a credit card problem a car with read evidence and perceived insults from others excessive repetition of phrases such as you know contributes to a lack of coherence she accuses someone of acting as if they had a gun and claims to have been subjected to racist or ethnic remarks such as go back to Palestine while these claims may arise from legitimate issues the haphazard and irregular delivery makes it difficult to determine their veracity her subsequent disregard of someone's Ukrainian ancestry followed by animosity demonstrates herg aggressive attitude and duplicity exacerbating the situation she also exhibits a victim complex viewing herself as wronged in a variety of ways including being insulted threatened and coping with larger life issues such as her divorce and a seemingly unfair scenario involving her ex-husband in Hawaii anxiety paranoia or a manic episode are all possible explanations for her disordered speech and erratic conduct intoxication or substance abuse cannot be ruled out as these could explain her incapacity to concentrate or retain cohesive thinking unbelievable that guy with the orange has showed me like that he has a gun unbelievable thank God there's women here too would you how would you feel called me a SE word and called me a W word and said he was going to hurt me oh yes he said that back to Palestine oh that's nice really really because you guys wait out there here I live here I okay where are you from originally you live here UK long you go back to the Ukraine that's what that sounds like oh it's not nice when they say it back to you first told me I was poor going to hurt me how you how how would you feel for your mother I'm 70 years old how would you feel your mother was told I wouldn't respond with a racist comment that's what I wouldn't well you know what I I knew that that would hurt them quit yelling at me don't you know how to talk to a woman you're acting and just stop talking Karen's opening line quit yelling at me don't you know how to talk to a woman immediately establishes the tone of entitlement she expects the officer to treat her differently because of her gender implying that respect is due to her regardless of her actions this is a classic entitlement attitude in which people expect preferential treatment while ignoring their own wrongdoing Karen always shifts responsibility to others for example you were verbally abusive she redirects the focus to alleged abuse by others while ignoring her own behavior her refusal to accept responsibility is a defining feature of toxic Behavior instead of apologizing or cooperating she focuses on explaining her behavior Karen tries to make the issue about gender rather than her actions these comments are deceptive taking advantage of societal Norms about gender interactions to avoid accountability when the officer accuses Karen of spitting she responds no I did not even when confronted with evidence of her conduct she downplays the gravity of the situation refusing to admit that spitting constitutes battery when Karen exclaims please don't do this please I didn't do anything she appeals to the officer sympathies in a last ditch effort to avoid punishment individuals who refuse accountability frequently use this strategy believing that emotional appeals Will trump facts her abrupt transitions from hostility to pleading indicate a lack of emotional control this inconsistency makes it harder to reason with her because she varies between confrontational and desperate conduct Karen's Behavior demonstr rates entitlement deflection and emotional manipulation she refuses to accept responsibility assigns blame to others and employs gender stereotypes to avoid accountability her actions exacerbated the issue resulting in her detention which could have been averted had she stayed calm and Cooperative despite her provocations the officer maintains a pretty calm demeanor and is committed to upholding the law Luba bosanic was arrested and sent to jail on allegations of violence after spitting on a Muslim woman before the matter could go to trial the woman dropped the accusations claiming that forgiveness was a component of her religion and that she accepted bosen's apologies many people online wish that bosanic had gone to jail but that is not how things turned out go back to India if you're good in your country stick with it on August 24th 2022 footage was caught of a woman making racial remarks at numerous other women in the parking lot of a busy Commercial location in Plano near the Dallas North Tollway don't [ __ ] with me I will [ __ ] we were not talking to you you came here get lost [ __ ] hurry oh oh come come closer come closer oh my God guys record she's hitting me she's hitting me oh my God oh my God she's hitting me she's hitting me [ __ ] assit the racist Karen in question is Esmeralda Upton and you just witnessed her attacking and hitting a woman without provocation the woman she attacked has already indicated that she and her three friends had just finished dinner when the woman confronted them in the parking lot hurling insults at them for no apparent reason she was simply making a statement she is just accusing that she's making races she came to hit my friend and she's coming back to me right now she's standing in front of me we have it all on video we are four of us yeah and she she threatened us with she threat okay she's she's a white woman wearing a black dress no I'm not white I'm Mexican she's Mexican I'm Mexican and I paid my [ __ ] way here oh my God she's hitting my friend now I am not hitting your friend all I don't know but she just hit my hand she to hit my phone a I'm to I'm at the 6 parking here can you please oh these [ __ ] Indians they come to America because they want a better life but they're obviously not withing the great blackia no she hasn't k if he even talk to you why did he walk up to us to talk to you I that's why if you guys come to our country if you are Mexican why don't you go back to Mexico and you Mexican I'm a Mexican American I was born makes you think that were you born here because of the way you speak the Karen initially claims to be a white woman but subsequently reveals that she is Mexican-American instead of addressing the matter logically she weaponizes her race adding to the complexity and diverting attention away from the core conflict the Karen's disparaging remarks on Indians Coming to America for a better life demonstrate clear xenophobia Karen's animosity grows during the argument as seen by her allegedly hitting someone's hand and further disrupting the event she excuses her anger by claiming I hate you which is an UNF founded and offensive statement she tries to transfer the blame to the victims portraying herself as threatened while intentionally inciting confrontation this is a classic projection method in which a person blames others for their own undesirable behavior in order to evade accountability Karen in this scenario represents a toxic blend of entitlement Prejudice and aggression she continues to make terrible remarks about these people despite the fact that she claims not to be a full-blooded American the Council on American Islamic relations issued a statement shortly after the incident occurred calling on the police to punish the woman for what she did and said because I'm a Mexican but I speak the language why would you come and talk to us I overstepped my boundaries and I apologize she quickly apologized and said Peace because I'm a Mexican Aman I speak the four of us were talking what why would you come and talk to us and make a race now she's hitting the third person I'm not going to talk to you when you have your Fu camera on if you want to turn your [ __ ] camera off I'm happy to talk and we are she's tell who came and talk to me I'm talking my everywhere I [ __ ] go you Indians are [ __ ] everywhere if life is so great in India why the [ __ ] are yall here I don't know if you can she's coming back she's coming back I'm this is the country where I am a natural citizen you're a naturalized citizen you're not a born and raised don't engage why are you here don't engage I'm not going to talk to you because you are not my friend you a nobody you're a stranger and you have no right to come and talk to us no you're right you know what ma'am you're right ma' I sorry ma'am ma'am am sorry you know what okay well peace I'm trying to reach out peace I oversteep my bounds then I'm sorry she's suddenly apologizing and saying peace I don't know what that means but but please have them come here because we are not feeling safe you don't sa right what I'm not going to hurt you guys look at me I'm all of 100 lb and you guys weit well over sure everyone in this event was permitted to go home that night but the next day police arrested as morala Upton on one count of assault and one count of terroristic threats there isn't much information online about her case or trial but we do know that one of the women she attacked has filed a personal lawsuit against her for her actions hopefully they can find some peace Esmeralda Upton knew exactly what she was doing and was completely sober at the time however in the following situation another Karen was implicated Chanel has been trying to get get into her phone for quite some time because she engaged the safety option that will wipe all of her data after too many wrong password tries the officer attempted to warn her but given her current state she is unlikely to stop trying the woman is reluctant from the start refusing to produce her ID or even her name when authorities ask your phone is locked you're not going to be be able to get inside of that all right whatever talking about I I can't [ __ ] compassing Compass man have your ID please Shing bro ma'am I'm not even trying to talk to y'all I understand that me neither I'm going to let you leave as soon as you give me your ID I'm even trying to talk to y'all this is a standard request when dealing with law enforcement particularly in cases of accused trespassing her frequent comment I'm not even trying to talk to y'all demonstrates her inability to engage constructively Her speech is disorganized and contains incomplete phrases slang and obscenity instead of focusing on the situation at hand the woman appears obsessed with extraneous issues such as her phone being locked this deflection demonstrates a lack of focus and responsibility it implies that she may not fully understand the gravity of the situation or is attempting to evade culpability the woman's tone and word choice such as as shut up as well as vulgarity worsen the situation nonetheless the police remain professional in their efforts to handle the situation may I get your ID out of here man your phone is locked you put the wrong and you're about to erase everything on your [ __ ] my [ __ ] business can I get your ID out of here or what's your name either one Chanel Karen's behavior is erratic belligerent and disrespectful reflecting a variety of probable underlying concerns the woman's speech is incoherent with several interruptions repetitions and abrupt topic shifts such erratic Behavior could be the result of emotional anguish substance abuse or an attitude of entitlement and Defiance she ignores the gravity of the situation refusing to admit her claimed role in previous inappropriate actions the inability to accept responsibility indicates a lack of self-awareness or an intentional attempt to avoid accountability like bad bad bro I talk to y'all bad ass none of that [ __ ] I don't I don't have to talk to none of y'all can you give me your name then what is you talking to me for what is you talking to me for what is you talking to me f you ready for me to answer no do you want to talk to him no I don't okay just give me your name and we're going to leave and you'll I don't give what y'all do I don't give what y do sit in front of mother police West be I don't give what yall do y'all can you go inside to see if they know her name if her failure to speak effectively or follow directions complicates the problem making resolution difficult for the officer in such circumstances professional assistance such as mediation or mental health evaluation may be required the cop here was most likely not meant to examine her purse like this because she hadn't consented to it but given her behavior and her refusal to leave it eventually became an issue of safety and they required her ID to legally identify her if you want to be that way they would still rather she leave aside from the laughter there's a lesson here Karen's behavior isn't just a joke it's a reflection of concerns that require attention remember every Karen started somewhere perhaps it's in a Starbucks line or the comment section of your local newspaper rather than on a train the goal is to notice the warning symptoms before they have a meltdown