All right. Where is he at? >> In the car. I'm just trying to go to my mom. >> Okay. You ain't got to get low WITH ME, MAN. >> I JUST TOLD YOU THIS IS THE WAY I TALK. >> All right. If you don't come out, I'm going to arrest you. >> Um, what charges? >> Disorderly conduct. I told you. >> God disorder. >> I can't breathe. I CAN'T BREATHE. YOU ON MY NECK. >> A MOTHER'S attempt to leave a toxic situation took a dark turn when her exartner refused to exit her car. This tense driveway standoff quickly spiraled into a highstakes struggle with police. Little did he know his defiance would force deputies to deliver a high voltage jolt of justice. >> Ma'am, just come over here, please. >> All right. Where is he at? >> In the car. I was just trying to go to my mom. >> Okay. Can you just stay over there, please? >> Somebody's going to call talk to you. Hey, you good, man? >> Yeah, I'm good. We're good. We just had argument and that's it. >> Okay. Well, that's what we're figuring out. She wants to make it bigger than call. Ain't no physical harm being done. It's just me being loud and this is the way I speak. This the way I talk, >> okay? >> You know, this is me. THIS IS THIS IS MY VOICE. >> OKAY. >> THAT'S IT. THAT'S IT. >> OKAY. >> There ain't nothing else going the on. >> Well, that's what we're trying to figure out, right? Ex. >> And that's what I'm telling you. >> When we hear when we hear yelling in the background, obviously, we're going to have to >> Exactly. Y'all think Y'ALL GO WAY BEYOND instead of coming in in Like I just told you, THIS IS THE WAY I TALK. I talk loud. >> Okay, I get it, man. IT'S ALL GOOD. >> SO, LET'S GO. >> What What was it about? What? What happened? Can you talk to me? >> She wants to go TO HER MOM'S HOUSE. SO, all right. Why can't she take another kids with her? SHE DON'T WANT TO TAKE no other kids. Okay. So, I I'll drop your ass off then. You going to YOUR MOM'S? LET ME DROP you off. >> Okay. >> If you're going to your mom's, let me drop you off so I can know you're going to your mom's. >> Okay. >> It was between you two. >> Yeah. Yeah, I was just trying to go to my mom's, but he was inside with the kids. >> Gotcha. Did it become physical? >> He pulled my key out of the thing. >> But he didn't Can he hit you or punch you, slap you? >> No, I didn't give him a chance to because >> Oh my Uhuh. Get off my truck. >> Gotcha. Gotcha. You guys are still in a relationship or >> Yeah. I was just going to go get some fresh air and go to my mom's cuz I'm like >> that's all IT WAS ABOUT. >> ALL ABOUT IT. >> ALL RIGHT. >> THAT'S ALL IT IS. YOU WANT TO GO TO YOUR MOM? FINE. GO TO YOUR MOM'S. I DON'T got a problem going to your mom's. You take You want to take the kids with you? >> I get it. I mean, I >> YOU GOING TO YOUR MOM'S? >> YEAH, I I get it. >> THEY CAN'T PLAY OUTSIDE at your mom's house. >> They're doing the same here. >> Okay. >> So So So what's the issue? >> Well, that's what we're figuring out. >> That's what I'm trying to figure out, Mom. And then that's where y'all she's doing extra. >> Okay. Well, >> that's what we're here for. Maintain the peace, right? >> It is peaceful. It is peaceful. There ain't no harm being done. Ain't no physical HARM BEING DONE. AIN'T NOTHING THAT being done. It's just me being loud the way I am. This the way I talk. >> Okay. You got your ID on you, man. >> For what? >> No, man. We're investigating an issue there. There's no need for all that. You know, >> you just investigate. I JUST TOLD YOU WHAT was going on there. >> Well, yeah. I don't know who you are, so you got to identify yourself, right? >> I just Well, what am I Did I do a crime? Did I commit a crime? >> That's what we're figuring out. >> Did I commit a crime? >> I am investigating, right? >> Did I commit? >> I'm investigating. You don't need my ID. >> I do. I I'm investigating a domestic. Okay. >> DOMESTIC. THERE WAS NO PHYSICAL HARM DONE. >> WELL, THAT'S NO DOMESTIC. >> We don't know that. It's your word. So, somebody, right? >> So, there's no domestic issue involved. NO PHYSICAL HARM HAS been done. >> Okay. You ain't got to get low with me, MAN. >> I JUST TOLD YOU THIS IS THE WAY I TALK. >> OKAY, I get it. >> So, why the you trying to assume ID, bro? >> BRO, THIS IS THE WAY I talk. Nah, I CAN'T TALK THIS WAY. YOU CAN TALK HOWEVER YOU WANT, BRO. >> You can talk however you want. >> Exactly. SO SO DON'T TRY TO ACCUSE ME OF ME GETTING LIED with you or anything like that cuz you just tried to accuse me of that [ __ ] >> I I asked for your ID and you don't want to give it to me >> cuz I didn't do I didn't feel like you're agitated. >> I didn't commit a crime. >> Well, it's not about crime. It's about investigating something. >> Well, investigate. What the is there investigating? A verbal a verbal argument that we're >> Exactly. There's your investigation. A ver verbal argument. Okay. Words being >> You don't tell me how to investigate things. Okay. I get a statement from you. I get statement from her. >> I'M HELPING YOU OUT. SIT. >> WELL, YOU'RE NOT HELPING ME OUT. YOU TELLING ME how to do my investigation. I'm I'm trying to get answers from you. I'm trying to get answers from her. Okay. >> It's a barbecue argument. She wanted to go to her mom's HOUSE. I SAID, "FINE. WHY DON'T YOU TAKE SOME OF THE KIDS WITH YOU?" SHE DIDN'T WANT TO TAKE NO KIDS. WHY? AIN'T YOU GOING TO YOUR MOM'S HOUSE? IF I'M GOING TO MY MOM'S HOUSE, it was somewhere else. I would have took some of my kids with me. >> Okay. >> All right. Let's go see. I'M GOING TO GRANDMA'S HOUSE. WHO WANTS TO COME WITH ME. >> Soon as I reversed out the driveway, he ran out the house, jumped on the truck and was shaking it. And then I'm like, he's like, I'm not getting off the truck. I'll drop you off. >> He just didn't want to take care of the kids. >> No, >> he never does. That's how I'm like I'm here all the time throughout the week with you and the kids. I'm like, and you treat me like this, like it's hard to deal >> Yeah. >> this all the time. I'm like, >> I need a break. >> Okay. How many kids do you guys have? >> We have 11. >> 11 kids? >> Yeah. But Most of them are not even here right now because >> they don't like dealing with him like this all the time. So >> what's the big issue why I CAN'T DROP YOU OFF WITH some of the kids. >> What's the issue? >> Yeah, that's between you guys. >> EXACTLY. SO WHAT'S the issue? >> We're just trying to understand. Like I said, cuz we just got here, so we >> y'all getting a clear understanding. Y'all getting a clear understanding of >> Look, he's on my truck yelling and screaming and top of under the block. >> He didn't hurt you or anything like that. Did he try to take your phone or anything like that? Did he? >> Yeah. He's like, "I'll take it and delete everything." >> He took your phone. You said >> he was trying to, but look at him. >> I said, "Oh my god." I said, "Just >> let me go to my mom." >> Okay. >> I need a break. >> Did he try to stop you calling 911 at any point or anything like that? >> No, he's not physically. >> I Well, I wouldn't rode on the window. >> You wouldn't roll? >> So, he um started shaking the window and I'm like And he called the kids down. That's why I wrote on my window and he unlocked it and tried to jump in with the jump in the truck and I was like, "Oh my god." I'm like, "You're acting crazy. This is why I need a break from you and this is why I need to leave because you act like this." >> I was like, >> "It's so draining." >> Yeah. >> Get out. Take them. >> I'll drop. >> You're not dropping me off. >> I'll drop >> I'll drop you off. You [ __ ] pick up. >> Get out. >> I'm not going to your mom's house. I'm dropping you off. No, but I don't want you to drop me off. Get out. >> Cuz you ain't going to your house. >> Yes, I am. >> Cuz if YOU'RE GOING TO YOUR MOUSE, THERE WILL BE NO extra thing. Officer, >> can't stop. >> All right. So, what what's what's going to happen? >> Get dropped off. That's what's going to happen. He needs to get out the car to her mom's house. That's what >> No, this is my car. Drive myself. I can leave when I want. I don't need to wait for a ride. >> You get dropped off. >> Get out. >> Let's go. >> Get out of there. Now, >> let's go. You may you may get longer than you want to get out. >> So hurry up. >> Get out. >> Just get out. >> Let's go. >> Get out. >> Let's go. >> No. >> Let's go. You get dropped off. >> Would it help if we drop you off? We can drop you off. I don't know if that messes your plans up. >> This is my car though. >> Yeah. That's going to up her whole thing. If y'all drop her off, she's >> y'all [ __ ] up. >> What do you think I'm going to do? Like >> I'm going to drop you off at your mom's house. That's where you said you was going. So, let's go. >> No, cuz I'm not going to take you cuz you're right. >> Let's go. I'm not going any I'm not even getting off the car. You're getting off the car. I'm dropping you off. >> No, you need to get >> It's a simple thing. Drop off. I drive, you get out the car. I don't get out the car. I keep my in the car, drop you off, and then I go and then come back and pick you up. >> That's what a driver does. >> How far is the mom house? >> It's right down the street. >> Okay. Can she pick you up? She don't want her to get >> I don't want my mom to come over here because he makes it a big issue and he scares her. So you're such a >> All right. All right. All right. Let's not argue here. We can wait for your mom to they can come. She can come and take you. All right. >> Okay. You do. I mean I'm I'm just giving advices here. >> You overexaggerate on some. >> Oh yeah, cuz you don't know my that's whyings either. So shut the let's go. >> That's I guess your guys' personal issues. Um but look, hold on, man. You're like too amped up. >> I AM, MAN. I AM. I'M HYPED THE up right now. >> All right. Look, I'm I'm just going to lay out the head right now. I'm like, look, I'm I'm going to lay it out as as flat as direct as possible. As a man, if if a girl doesn't want you it's like, why you going to be there? Why you going to be there? We got 11 kids 22 years. I DON'T WANT TO HEAR THE YOU AIN'T OUR THERAPIST. Get the [ __ ] ain't trying to be A THERAPIST. I'M NOT I'M A COP. >> YOU ARE RIGHT NOW. YOU'RE ACTING AS A trying to hear your >> I'm saying as a man. And if a girl is like, "Nah, I don't want you here." I'm I'mma be out of here. You know, you know what I mean? It's kind of embarrassing. My wife for 22 YEARS. THIS AIN'T NO ONE RELATIONSHIP FOR ONE ONE KID. Get the out. I get it. This is a 22 PLUS YEAR RELATIONSHIP, 11 kids, three grand kids. So I don't WANT TO HEAR, "OH, YOU DON'T JUST GET THE OFF. Get the out." >> She just saying she can go eat. >> Yeah, I'm just going to eat. >> She was to go. So I would have dropped her off. Go eat. >> No, you I don't need a chauffeur. Get out. >> All right. If you don't come out, I'm going to arrest you. >> Um, what charges? >> Disorderly conduct. I told you. >> God disorder. No disorderly conduct. >> I'm going to tell you one more time. If you don't come out, I'm going to arrest you for disorderly conduct. You want to go? >> I'm recording, too. Let's go. >> Don't touch me. Do not touch me. I have not committed a crime. Do not touch me. I HAVE NOT COMMITTED A CRIME. >> DO NOT TOUCH ME. I HAVE NOT COMMITTED A CRIME. DO NOT TOUCH ME. >> A CRIME. >> DO NOT TOUCH ME. I HAVE NOT COMMITTED A CRIME. WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? I DID NOT COMMIT A CRIME. WHY THE ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> RELAX. >> DON'T MAKE THIS WORSE. OKAY. WHY ARE YOU NOW CHARGING? >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> I DID NOT COMMIT a crime. >> I did not commit a crime. Why the are you touching me? You dragged me out of vehicle. WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> I DID NOT MAKE A CRIME. >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> OVER the air and see if it GOES BY. >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? >> Why are you touching me? >> STOP. STOP IT. >> I COME IN AND CRY, DUDE. Put your hands behind your back. >> I did not COME IN AND CRY. WHY ARE YOU PHYSICALLY TOUCHING ME? ISHMAIL, put your hands on >> Why are you touching me, >> dude? Stop it. PUT YOUR HANDS ON ME. >> WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING ME? I DID NOT COMMIT A CRIME. WHY ARE YOU PHYSICALLY TRYING to arrest me? >> All right. >> I did not. >> I'm going to tase you if you stop. >> Give me your hands, bro. Simple as that. >> I did not commit a crime. >> I did not commit a crime. >> HANDS BEHIND YOUR BACK. >> WHY ARE YOU >> YOU'RE under arrest for disorderly conduct and now resisting arrest. Okay. >> Disordered conduct where I'm conduct domestic property. Domestic dispute. All right. Come on. Out of here, >> bro. I'm about to all you guys. Yes, ma'am. >> You got to get sued the out. >> All right. Put your hands behind your back, >> bro. Put your hands behind your back. Get off me. >> Do you want to get tased? >> It's simple as that. Do you want to get tased? >> Tas me. You're getting sued, dude. We We'll do We'll go that route. Just put your hands behind your back. Get off me. Put your hands behind your back. >> HOW THE AM I TO GET MY HANDS BEHIND MY BACK WHEN THE OFFICERS ON ME? I CAN'T BREATHE. I CAN'T BREATHE. YOU ON MY NECK. >> OH, I GOT PROBABLY LIKE 10 more seconds to ass out. You heavy. >> If you're going hand up on me. >> Okay, here's the deal. I'm going to tase you if you don't comply. >> Simple as that. You're going to get tased. GIVE ME A HAND. >> YOU HAVE MY BACK ENOUGH. JUST GIVE ME >> HOW THE AM I supposed to turn the >> George? Watch your knee. I'm going to dry STUN HIM. >> HOW THE I do that. >> Hey, I'm going to dry stun you if you don't give us your hands. >> HOW THE AM I SUPPOSED TO GIVE MY HANDS? >> HEY, YOU'RE ON HIM. YOU'RE NOT WE'RE TRYING TO GIVE IT. >> NO, YOU'RE LATE. >> LOOK, I'M RIGHT BEHIND. GIVE ME YOUR HAND AND THEN WE DONE. >> Y'ALL GOING all the route. Y'all dirty pigs. I got all y'all. >> I ain't even commit a crime. Not yet. >> Y'all coming my property the out of here. >> And what? Where's that tang me? Tell me the out her ass, TOO. >> PUT MY PANTS ON. HOW THE AM I SUPPOSED TO GET? WHY? WHY YOU going to my arrest? >> All right. SO, ALL RIGHT. NOBODY HAS READ ME MY RIGHTS. NOBODY READ ME MY RIGHTS AS I'M ARRESTED. >> I'M NOT BEING INVESTIGATED. SO, we're not dude. We don't have TO COME. >> COME ON. I'M TRYING TO GET IN. LET ME LIFT MY LEG UP. DO NOT PUSH ME IN. >> YEAH, YOU WAS. YOU PUSH ME IN. I'M TRYING TO GET THE IN. CAN I let my head, man? Go ahead. GET YOUR HAND OUT SO I CAN GET THE HAND. >> GET YOUR HAND OUT SO I CAN GET THE IN. Put seat belt on you. Okay, I'll your seat belt and you too out your